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Topic: Which zodiac signs are the most to least caring? How?
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Brendan34 Knowflake Posts: 207 From: Albany, NY, USA Registered: Aug 2013
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posted December 22, 2014 02:07 AM
quote: Originally posted by YellowGerbera: Air moons! I have always had hard time getting along with air moon people, especially the Gemini moon. Libra is better. Aquarius is just as bad as Gemini from my experience.
Totally agree. Just a general detached vibe, yet many of my male friends are air moons, and are really good people. But, I have no emotional connection generally.
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charlie Knowflake Posts: 3282 From: Registered: Jun 2012
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posted December 22, 2014 05:36 AM
If you give me a sob story of how your life is a mess and everything is bleak my Cappy moon will turn to ice BUT if you ask for help through a process of logical analysis I am your Main Man Martin!The signs that have showed ME they care the least are Aqua Moons (don't know many Suns), to a certain extent Aries (they just don't have time) and Gemini Suns/Moons. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen Moderator Posts: 21864 From: Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 22, 2014 06:14 AM
quote: Originally posted by goddessofthemoon: I think Aquarius are the most caring sign but at the same time, the way they portray their feelings makes me also say they're the least caring. They bottle their (plentiful) emotions so deep inside their heart that people start to question if they even have one. They do, they just have a funny way of showing it.
As an Aqua Moon I can only say Yes, at least for me that`s true. Very deep feelings, but it is work to let others see them. But I am working on being more emotionally expressive. My progressed Moon in Leo might be helpful in that. Also, how people experience a certain sign might also be dependent on their own Moon sign. or overall chart and synastry.
I would imagine for a Cancer Moon my Aquarius Moon might seem coldhearted, detached and void of the ability to feel at all. Which could not be further away from the truth, I just express caring and nurturing differently than a Cancer Moon would. I notice that fire moons seem to be most likely to "get" my emotional pattern. With water moons it will get complicated, I seem to have a better chance of getting alone with Pisces and Scorpio Moon (well my Moon dispositor is in Scorpio after all). As for earth I like Taurus Moon, but Virgo and Capricorn Moon not so much. Of course that is very generalistic to say. Oh and I think while I do like Scorpio Moons, they might have a tough time with me, especially if they are early scorpio Moons, as my Moon dispositor Uranus would conjunct their Moon. But there is an intriguing subtle connection between Aqua and Scorpio anyway. IP: Logged |
diamondbaby Newflake Posts: 22 From: USA Registered: Jul 2012
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posted September 13, 2015 10:57 PM
From most to least caring:1. Cancer 2. Scorpio 3. Leo 4. Taurus 5. Pisces 6. Virgo 7. Sagittarius 8. Aries 9. Capricorn 10. Libra 11. Gemini 12. Aquarius ------------------ "Stars are the street lights of eternity." IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 774 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted September 13, 2015 11:12 PM
I'm beginning to feel its time for me to stop reading this site.IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon Knowflake Posts: 638 From: Texas Registered: Aug 2014
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posted September 13, 2015 11:23 PM
Obviously it all depends on other factors, but in my experience, I view Sagittarius as the least caring. Not that they don't care at all, but they just don't seem to think about others very much at all unless their attention is called to it. They can be caring once it's pointed out but in my experience they don't think of other people on their own very much. This is a huge generalization, and sagittarius folks, I apologize. I have a Sagittarius moon so I get where you're coming from I guess. But I have had some bad experiences with sagittarius, mainly the men. And strangely enough, I find Virgo to be the most caring sign. I think the water signs are very emotionally caring, but it can quickly turn into an emotionally selfish/martyr complex thing with them. Virgo just steadily serves and doesn't complain about it. Again, probably an unfair generalization. But I have a Cancer ascendant and Mars so I feel like I can say it😋 IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 7767 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 13, 2015 11:26 PM
quote: Originally posted by goddessofthemoon: I think Aquarius are the most caring sign.
I seriously spit out my drink from laughing when I read just this....but then I realized it wasn't a joke. Sorry... IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 181 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted September 13, 2015 11:32 PM
Why do all these corny old threads keep getting resurrected? IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 7767 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted September 13, 2015 11:37 PM
Awe....theyre cute threads! IP: Logged |
athenaia Knowflake Posts: 181 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted September 13, 2015 11:48 PM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: Awe....theyre cute threads!
They are, they are! But so many are popping up at once and I'm seeing all these old users it's like being thrown into deja vu Very Venus retrogradey IP: Logged |
GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 833 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 14, 2015 12:15 AM
quote: Originally posted by athenaia: Why do all these corny old threads keep getting resurrected?
~ It is probably some kind of provocation to give us a displeasing feeling by spouting those petty words.The solution here would be thinking 2-3 steps ahead them. If they tell you: Anger is "normal", and it will come out regardless of how hard you try to suppress it. Then my thoughts should be like: No anger can come out from my heart, only love IP: Logged |
GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 833 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 14, 2015 12:16 AM
~ And they may eventually leave ( or just bump other threads ) because... they feed on other's brains...
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athenaia Knowflake Posts: 181 From: USA Registered: May 2015
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posted September 14, 2015 12:19 AM
quote: Originally posted by GemBird82: It is probably some kind of provocation to give us a displeasing feeling by spouting those petty words.The solution here would be thinking 2-3 steps ahead them. If they tell you: Anger is "normal", and it will come out regardless of how hard you try to suppress it. Then my thoughts should be like: No anger can come out from my heart, only love
This is the internet equivalent of having a conversation with someone and they say, out of nowhere, "calm down" and while you weren't even wound up to begin with, suddenly...
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GemBird82 Knowflake Posts: 833 From: Female bird from France Registered: Feb 2014
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posted September 14, 2015 12:42 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini Blues: I'm beginning to feel its time for me to stop reading this site.
~ oh, I've been thinking about that too... ~ hmm... but... you know what would be sad? that people may thik it's because we got butthurt about what 'x' or 'y' person said. Ok, that's actually... more laughable than sad. *** IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 7386 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 14, 2015 12:55 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gemini Blues: I'm beginning to feel its time for me to stop reading this site.
I know what you mean. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 7386 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 14, 2015 01:01 AM
quote: Originally posted by GemBird82: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Gemini Blues: I'm beginning to feel its time for me to stop reading this site.
~ oh, I've been thinking about that too... ~ hmm... but... you know what would be sad? that people may thik it's because we got butthurt about what 'x' or 'y' person said. Ok, that's actually... more laughable than sad. ***[/QUOTE] I have left for that reason before, but not anymore. Even though I get tired of dealing with certain things. As to the topic: I don't think there is a least-caring sign. and as someone who has been here for years, and been acquainted with Ceridwen for a good while now, anyone can see that her Aquarian moon comes with an extremely caring heart. She takes everyone into consideration. IP: Logged |
StubbornVirgo Knowflake Posts: 104 From: Sittin' on Mercury Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 14, 2015 01:05 AM
quote: Originally posted by wheresthemoon: And strangely enough, I find Virgo to be the most caring sign. I think the water signs are very emotionally caring, but it can quickly turn into an emotionally selfish/martyr complex thing with them. Virgo just steadily serves and doesn't complain about it. Again, probably an unfair generalization. But I have a Cancer ascendant and Mars so I feel like I can say it😋
It's hard for me to say which signs care the most vs. the least because I think all of them care, but the way that they express it isn't always compatible with my ways. That being said, I do think water and earth signs care in a way that I can recognize and appreciate. Even though I'm an air moon sign and I have plenty of air sun and moon friends, I'm generally not emotionally connected to them unless they have a lot of water and earth in their chart. With fire signs, the one that seems to care the most, to me, is Aries. They're usually much more expressive about how much they care. And since they're usually very honest, I know I can trust what they say. I attract them in truckloads though, while I don't attract very many Leos or Sags so my knowledge of the way they care is limited. I'm agree with many of the replies in this thread though...I think every zodiac sign cares, we just all express it in different ways which isn't always recognized or appreciated. Just because we don't understand the emotional side of a certain sign doesn't mean that there's anything wrong with that sign. IP: Logged |
teasel Knowflake Posts: 7386 From: Registered: Apr 2009
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posted September 14, 2015 01:06 AM
quote: Originally posted by PisceanDream: I have noticed your tendency to insult people of a certain sign quite rudely and blatantly multiple times. There is no need to be so judgmental. In any case, Gemini is not necessarily nurturing but show their care by attempting to lighten the mood and cheer people up. They may not always be the one to cry with you and listen to you for hours, but if they see that you're hurting... They'd be the one to show up at your door with tickets to a concert and promise you a great time to get you out of your funk. They'd be the ones to wittily come up with solutions to your problem and make the solution seem like a piece of cake. It might not be the "typical" definition of caring, but it is definitely a kind of caring. One that comes from a place that hates to see others hurt over the inevitable or the mundane. Of course, that is their perspective and not everyone appreciates it.
I miss you, PisceanDream! This used to be me, exactly. I don't always know what to say when someone is hurting, or don't always know how to give advice, but I can listen, and I will give hugs, hold a hand, etc. And when you're ready to laugh, I will be there to laugh with you. I love it when someone or something makes me snort with laughter. We used to laugh a lot in my house, and I miss it. IP: Logged |
PaulMcFly Knowflake Posts: 78 From: Olive branch, MS USA Registered: Aug 2015
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posted September 14, 2015 03:03 AM
I'm an Aqua moon with Venus in Cap. **** me lolIP: Logged |
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 616 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted September 14, 2015 06:55 AM
I'm a Gem sun but I have no urge whatsoever to defend myself. Don't like it? Your bad :-DI agree that aquarius moon or sun isn't my thing. I know I've been with one who just didn't care whether I was alive or dead. It is truly the sign of friends, but lacks warmth. They're social and will get you into bed, then...it's Siberia. BUT: I respect the fact that there are people who like the detachment and are compatible. Just not for me. I like cancer moon a lot, very caring, a bit too touchy but still nice. Leo moon, they're protective and generous I like that as well. Scorpio moon....I have it I think it would be too much, too intense. Maybe I'm wrong. But we surely care :-D Sag Moon - it can be interesting. It's opposite my Sun but I get along with Sags...I like the relaxed, fun vibe they give off. IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues Knowflake Posts: 774 From: The future... or the past. I get them confused... Registered: May 2014
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posted September 14, 2015 04:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by GemBird82: [QUOTE]Originally posted by Gemini Blues: I'm beginning to feel its time for me to stop reading this site.
~ oh, I've been thinking about that too... ~ hmm... but... you know what would be sad? that people may thik it's because we got butthurt about what 'x' or 'y' person said. Ok, that's actually... more laughable than sad. ***[/QUOTE] Agreed. It just kind of puts me in my head... But I'm not really that way... I could argue this... but its really not directed at me anyway... I wonder what happened that makes this person lash out at 1/12th of the human race... pointing that out won't change anything... You know you can't win an argument on the Internet anyway... It's like those threads saying Geminis all cheat on their spouses... If they only knew... *thinks about personal recent past*... now I've wasted another 5 minutes on feeling sorry for my self... I came here to learn something, or to talk, or at least distract myself from doing that... What's the point of all this again?... Yeah, like that... IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6990 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 14, 2015 07:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by GemBird82: hmm... but... you know what would be sad? that people may thik it's because we got butthurt about what 'x' or 'y' person said. Ok, that's actually... more laughable than sad. [/i]***
Actually, I think you're often butthurt by the driveby graphix you post (not that all your graphix come off to me that way), where you WANT to criticize or show contempt but are too scared to do so in a way that you could be argued or called out on. OTOH, if you just stopped posting completely (because you stopped coming here) I doubt I'd think about you at all, probably because you don't post much here beyond graphix (sometimes with a vague statement) which makes me wonder why you bother. Offhand I can think of only once you actually shared a thought of consequence and I was surprised when you didn't delete it later to replace it with a graphic or image. IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee Knowflake Posts: 1011 From: Portland, OR - USA Registered: Oct 2011
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posted September 14, 2015 07:26 PM
There is no condition of caring or not caring attached to signs. Signs indicate modes of expression -- the modus operandi, the manner in which one cares or does not care.------------------ The Declinations Guy Complete Rising Sign Descriptions IP: Logged |
madelineleo23 Knowflake Posts: 32 From: Chicago, IL Registered: Jun 2015
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posted September 14, 2015 09:34 PM
Everyone who is saying Aquarius moons and Aquarius suns are cold is actually wrong I am an Aquarius moon and yes I admit I act like I don't care but deep down I actually care a lot. From personal experience I feel that Capricorns are kind of careless. I've noticed with a lot of Capricorns I've met that they aren't very sympathetic. Maybe its just me though? IP: Logged |
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 6990 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 14, 2015 09:52 PM
I think Capricorns (even the moons) are caring and sympathetic (if they're close to you anyway), but they're not the kind to smother you with affection, nor do they want to be so smothered. I can see why people who need a lot of affection would find them cold, but I know they care. Also, they tend to be more realistic which can come off as cold (instead of a "let me kiss your finger that you singed on a hot pan" you're more likely to get a genuinely baffled, "How could you forget to use a pot holder?"). They can still be sympathetic but the Saturnine quality/vibe about them does make them come off as less sympathetic than they are. IP: Logged |