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Topic: Transiting Saturn over moon- Advice needed STAT
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 8418 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 08, 2023 10:27 PM
quote: Originally posted by manderin: Ok. So, literally between my last post and now I found out that my grandmother died... one month ago. My last remaining grandparent. People tried to contact me, but they couldn't for complicated reasons I won't go into. (lotta family drama).I'm not crying or anything because I accepted this possibility a while ago because I did get to say my last goodbye to her sort of Though I do wish I wasn't a month late. She made my Prom dress back in high school (it was too baggy, but hey it got me to prom.) May She Rest in Peace.
my condolences. My grandma passed in 2019. I started talking to her at the end of last year. I get signs within minutes. There will be times in my life where I feel her presence. I felt her presence when I was at the SOS to do some last name change stuff yesterday.
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Stawr Moderator Posts: 8418 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 08, 2023 10:50 PM
Oh and since you don't know too many people in your new area...I lived in NE for 3 months where I didn't know anyone. Keep in touch with old friends and make plans to visit them or have them visit you. I got invited to a party one time by just taking a walk down the street. Getting out and doing things on your own local businesses, shopping, nature walk. Join a group, club, sport. I think they make websites like dating websites but for making friends that would be my last resort. lol That was actually a lesson I learned with Saturn Aquarius square moon. Reach out to friends, I usually wait for people to reach out to me. They have pretty much have been a better support system than my family as of late. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 8418 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 08, 2023 10:59 PM
Oh yeah I did experience being isolated by a group of friends when Saturn was conjunct my moon. It was the politics. People in the friend group were routing for me to get with this one dude who I hardcore friend zoned. Then their handsome marine friend swept me off my feet. No one in the group liked us together. Not because we fought a lot. They knew things about him. He was a eff boy. And apparently the other guy was hoping to get with me. They stopped reaching out. I had a few other friends. But I used that isolation to go running, and got a revenge body. I also practiced my cooking skills and made some new dishes. I also made friends at community college who have changed my life to this day. I am going to visit one in Hawaii this year I hope. IP: Logged |
Stawr Moderator Posts: 8418 From: N. America Registered: Nov 2010
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posted April 08, 2023 11:25 PM
quote: Originally posted by the89freespirit: Oh, well, good. Haha. There were life events because it passed through my 10th. A few dramatic failures and that was the source of the depression mainly. Feeling stuck in my career path, like I wasn't going anywhere. And that continued on throughout the transit in my 10th. But, I've realized now that the lesson from that was that I was basing too much of my happiness and security on what I was achieving. So, Saturn cleared that away to make me grow. To teach me how to fail and to show me that failure can sometimes yield success, if you have the patience and the foresight. That's what I recommend with Saturn. Try to figure out what the transit's teaching you and remain open to that wisdom and maturity. Then, it gets better. It may still suck, on some level, but your attitude can make all the difference.
hey Saturn is transiting my 10th house right now. I've experienced contemplating how to be happy in a beyond tested marriage, leaving my husband, refusing to speak to him for 3 months, being in the hospital, recovering, filing for divorce, and being divorced. I've been on the "other side" for about a week now. I also left my job to travel with husband in June 2022. I could only handle it for 3 months. In February I started a new job, where I am getting paid more. And now have retirement benefits. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 170630 From: I hold a Juris Doctorate (J.D.) and a Legum Magister (LL.M.)! Registered: Apr 2009
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posted April 16, 2023 05:38 PM
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