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Topic: Coming out, transits
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lisalisa
Knowflake Posts: 947
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Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 16, 2015 10:20 AM
  
So what kind of transits to the natal chart could suggest a coming out ? People who haven't been openly gay beforeIP: Logged |
wheresthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 467
From: Texas
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 16, 2015 06:21 PM
I'm not gay, but Uranus is currently in my tenth house. For me it's manifesting as a kind of "I don't care what people think, I am what I am" kind of feeling. I think if I WERE gay and hadn't come out yet, this transit could do it. IP: Logged |
AscTaurus
Knowflake Posts: 1047
From: Pretoria, Gauteng,South Africa
Registered: May 2009
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posted January 17, 2015 01:31 AM
It depends really on the individual concerned.But I think that Pluto transits to personal planets would trigger the need to "shed false skin" and transform i.e the "old" self dies as the new one beckons etc. Venus is all about sexuality and what we find beautiful,pleasing etc. So I would reckon Pluto-Venus aspects could have one experience such a strong relationship that "confirms" what one has already suspected about herself all along. Or it could bring about a deeper self-evaluation of what one values and is attracted to etc. Uranus tends to bring about rebellion to divert from what one already holds as ones ideals. IMO,it doesn't bring revelations of the deep-seated kind at all.But an openness to express and stand by what one believes in.Their individuality etc. Neptune brings confusions and a "am I or am I not" state of flux. One even looks to religion,spiritual answers and all things "other worldly" for answers. Acceptance for Neptune is not necessary. Neptune just wants to explore the possibility and dissolve the long-held concept of 'I know myself to be this and that.I have never done this or that'etc. A female colleague I know said she experienced very weird and unheard of feelings for her neighbor years back. It was a time of great confusion for her as she has never known herself to identify as gay. When I looked at her transits,she had Neptune conjunct her Sun at the time.And much of what she spoke about seemed more like admiration,respect and a same-sex crush than outright sexual feelings. For others however,it could turn out to be a "door open" for more....
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lisalisa
Knowflake Posts: 947
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posted January 17, 2015 03:30 AM
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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
I'm not gay, but Uranus is currently in my tenth house. For me it's manifesting as a kind of "I don't care what people think, I am what I am" kind of feeling. I think if I WERE gay and hadn't come out yet, this transit could do it.
What about transitting the 11th? IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon
Knowflake Posts: 467
From: Texas
Registered: Aug 2014
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posted January 17, 2015 11:20 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
What about transitting the 11th?
Yeah I think this would do it too, because the eleventh is about social groups and networks, and these are the people someone would be coming out to. I agree with Pluto as well. IP: Logged |
Sagical
Knowflake Posts: 124
From: Glenbow, Canada
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted January 17, 2015 01:30 PM
Hmmmmmmmm. Is this just related to a person's sexuality coming out that you are wondering? Or would include also those who fall under sexual IDENTITY transgender category? I just want to qualify it before I post any more. Depending on what the specifics you are looking for I may or may not have insights/information for you.IP: Logged |
lalalinda
Moderator Posts: 4167
From: nevada
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted January 17, 2015 06:54 PM
wow Asc Taurus, you've made some great points here concerning Pluto, I totally agree.
Since Pluto is a planet that will pull the rug out from under you when you least expect it I would think Pluto is more likely to be outed rather than come out.Uranus who likes to shock and dislikes restraints is in my opinion more likely to just announce their truth. We are talking about transits right?  ------------------
"There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
CupOfDavid
Knowflake Posts: 121
From: Canada
Registered: Jun 2013
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posted January 18, 2015 03:24 AM
I know the time and date when I came out to my mother, which was, essentially, the day that I felt like a hundred pounds was lifted from my shoulders. Feel free to take a look at the transit aspects to my natal chart for that event.(Natal planets are across the top and the transits are down the side.)  Perhaps it should be noted that I came out to my close friends years before I came out to my parents, but it didn't feel real until everyone knew. Let me know if you'd like to know any more information. IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
Knowflake Posts: 1664
From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted January 19, 2015 05:18 AM
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Originally posted by CupOfDavid:
I know the time and date when I came out to my mother, which was, essentially, the day that I felt like a hundred pounds was lifted from my shoulders....
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