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leosag
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posted January 23, 2015 01:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for leosag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi,

I have some questions about people with Sun Taurus, Venus Gemini.

My boyfriend has this placement and he needs a lot of mental stimulation. This is true Venus in Gemini. But he is physically a little lazy, needs a lot of rest. Matches his Sun in Taurus.

So, I am wondering if after some time, when I am not new and interesting anymore, can not provide so much mental stimulation, then he will leave me? Or will he be too lazy to leave?

We have had a good relationship for about a year now and he makes me feel secure, but you never know, do you?
His longest relationship has been for 5 years though. Quite a long time. I have not been in a relationship with one person for that long.

And another questions. Do Sun Taurus, Venus Gemini people secretly (subtly) test their partners? Sometimes it feels like he is testing me, but I can not be sure.

His moon sign is Capricorn, so it is very hard to read his emotions. Any good tips on how I could understand or make him show emotions a little better?

His other signs:
Rising Sign Scorpio
Mercury Aries
Mars Leo
Jupiter Cancer
Saturn Leo
Uranus Scorpio


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tgem
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posted January 23, 2015 04:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for tgem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Leosag! Welcome to LL!
Well he has almost the exact same placements as me except I am a Cancer rising female with Taurus sun, gem venus etc. etc. first, the biggest thing about venus in Gemini is that they will get bored easily so even if it's not always mental stimution, DO STUFF with them. Make sure you are enjoying life together. They can't stand to be bored. Do something....anything! With Taurus sun they will likely stay very loyal to you as they hate change, the Scorpio ASC will reinforce that, but be spontaneous, sexual texts, give him to look forward too..they love banter. Stuff like that. The testing is probably simply the Scorpio ASC coming out a bit but that should even die down eventually since you have been in a relationship for over a year. If you keep a genuine interest in him, pay attention to him and HAVE FUN together...he won't go anywhere

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Aries23Degrees
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posted January 23, 2015 04:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I once was dumped by a Taurus Sun/Gemini Venus and he too needed a lot of rest.

I gathered that it was because both his Sun/Moon were conjunct in 12th.

Anyways he had his Uranus opposing his natal Venus in 1st.

I see that yours has Uranus in Scorpio in 1st. Well...

Just kidding Has he given you any indications that he'll stray?

Perhaps YOU are the one who is nervous that you will leave this relationship prematurely?

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posted January 23, 2015 04:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for awakemer     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
every guy i ever dated had scorpio risingg or moon in scorpio and I can tell you they definably test you

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leosag
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posted January 24, 2015 04:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for leosag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No, he has not given me any indications that he'll stray. May be I am over thinking, feeling intimidated by Venus in Gemini desire for mental stimulation.
Yes, we do have fun even when we do not do stuff. We like to talk and discuss different matters, laugh and tease.

I found description of him that is a 100 % match:
Sun in Taurus, Moon in Capricorn
The combination of your Sun and Moon signs produces a personality that is gentle and easygoing, unless some way provoked. When you are asked to do something against your will, the nature of both signs is to resist with a great stubbornness.

I never tell him what to do, I always ask him, what are you going to do. This is natural to me as I also value independence and free will.

I have leo sun and moon sagittarius:
Constant passion for travel, adventure, change, and excitement.

Because I put a lot of energy in the things I do, I often need time to reload my batteries, be alone and do nothing. These are the times I feel that I can not offer him excitement and he might feel bored.
Leo sun, moon sag combination is kind of crazy, but I think I get some calming affect from Saturn in Libra and lots of Virgo in my chart. I held my previous job for over 6 years.

My signs:
Sun and Mars Leo
Rising, Venus, Mercury Virgo
Moon, Jupiter, Uranus Sag
Saturn Libra

Aires23Degrees, did he give you a reason for dumping you?

Awakemer, can you give an example of a test? My man values independence a lot and he is testing if I am independent. My leo sun and sag moon combination makes me very independent. I pass his tests with ease. I first did not understand it, but that makes him a little insecure. His Taurus sun makes him want me to need him. So, the result of the test usually makes him to try to make me more needy. Then I just give him more attention to make him feel secure again.

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leosag
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posted January 24, 2015 04:48 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for leosag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries23Degrees, his sun is in trine of his moon, no conjunction.

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posted January 24, 2015 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LucieLemonade     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by leosag:

Because I put a lot of energy in the things I do, I often need time to reload my batteries, be alone and do nothing. These are the times I feel that I can not offer him excitement and he might feel bored.


He's a grown up right? Then he should know how to entertain himself for the 3 hours/days that you are not there to entertain him without him going off to find another women.

Plus, you even said, he needs rest too some times.

You are over analyzing this. It sounds like you are both right for each other.


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posted January 24, 2015 04:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by leosag:
Aries23Degrees, did he give you a reason for dumping you?

He said I was too "chilled".

It could have been true because I do have Neptune and Jupiter conjunct my Sun,Mars in Libra,Venus in 7th. I can be very "chilled".

But I also think that this is what attracted him to me in the first place.I mean he has his Venus/Jupiter square nataly.

He said he didn't feel the "spark" anymore. That we didn't "connect" like we did etc.

I wanted to say that every relationship- no matter how passionate at the beginning- starts to cool off and settle after a while.

That this "lack of spark" is not because we no longer have nothing in common,but because we have gotten to a point in our relations where we are very comfortable with each other.That things can change.But I didn't.I chose to just leave him be.

He also has Uranus opposing his Venus, Mercury opposing his Pluto and trine Neptune. There is clearly something that he is looking for. I told him to go and find what that thing really is.And good luck to him.

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posted January 25, 2015 08:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Liliya     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by leosag:

My signs:
Sun and Mars Leo
Rising, Venus, Mercury Virgo
Moon, Jupiter, Uranus Sag
Saturn Libra


I have the same placements!!! We must be astro twins


Your Virgo placements make you worry too much. I'm sure he's with you for this long because you are exciting (Jupiter), intelligent (Virgo) and playful (Leo), these traits are valued by Geminis (Venus in this case).

Just stop worrying so much (the same thing I tell myself often, too )

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posted July 05, 2018 10:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Gemini loves to read. I am one. We can really entertain ourselves very well. It is one of our main traits. I am, also, Sun and Mercury, too, so maybe this is all the Gemini placements,but nothing is as happy a place for me as in a book lol

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posted July 06, 2018 12:58 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’m not a male though I have Taurus Sun and Gemini Venus. He seems stable for a guy who has had a long term relationship. I don’t think he’ll leave you for getting tired of you. For me, mental stimulation/rapport/doing things is really nice, but not all the time(because I like to relax). I wouldn’t worry about providing stimulation 24/7 since we know how to entertain ourselves aka playing games on our phones and read and do other hobbies. I think relationships don’t always have to be exciting. Being boring together can be bliss, and sometimes that can bring you closer.

I’ve never tested and don’t have the desire to test. It would make me feel very manipulative. Unless you count saying and doing rediculous things to get a reaction just for fun(in an innocent way lol). Can’t say anything about Capricorn moons as I haven’t known one.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted July 06, 2018 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Attracted another one. Same placements lol. And I am like...NOT AGAIN!

Sun in Taurus
Moon in Gem
Mercury in Tau
Venus in Gem
Mars in Cap

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Stellia
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posted July 10, 2018 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Stellia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm also a sun taurus/venus gemini. Although a woman.

As mentioned above I need lots of stimulation and new things, but also need lots of recharge time with space to chill and be comfortable.

Look to the moon sign for how they emotionally react to being bored - moon in gemini would want something light, light chat, fun times etc as a distraction.

I have moon in leo so i can quickly get in a fixed rut, but eventually my sense of pride will kick in and dig me out so that my downtime looks good or is at least a bit useful.

On a personal note, whether or not someone strays isn't really down to what's in their chart - it's down to what's inside them! Yes there may be indicators of people who may be more willing to countenance it - but it doesn't mean they'll cheat.

If you're going into a relationship wondering if someone's going to cheat on you or not, you're not ready to be in a relationship. I say this because having an 'I might get cheated on' mindset shows that you don't love yourself enough to be with someone else.

(I know this is easier said than done, but really - in the words of RuPaul, if you don't love yourself, how the hell are you gonna love somebody else?)

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posted July 10, 2018 08:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
^Stella
Maybe the mindset is bad but it is good to be cautious and to be aware.

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posted July 10, 2018 08:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for kirki     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Im taurus sun ,venus in gemini.All my relationships lasted long,The issue is that the love feeling replaces the IN love feeling fast for me .When i start feeling bored i dont leave but i realise that i prefer to make the other person break the relationship instead.I also have mercury in gemini so i really like the other person to be really clever and fast ,so to surprise my mind.

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posted July 10, 2018 09:23 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have every sign in every planet your Bf has except my mercury is in Taurus.

I wouldn't leave someone from boredom, but from cheating on me.

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posted July 10, 2018 09:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for TaurusVenusGirl     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh and my moon is in Scorpio. If I test someone, Id be blaming it on my moon. And thats just to see if he is lying so i know if he is cheating.

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astrosaz
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posted July 13, 2018 02:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Aries23Degrees in the same boat as you!

Taurus Sun
Pisces Moon
Taurus Merc
Gemini Venus
Aries Mars

I have atrocious synastry with this person *gulps*

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posted July 13, 2018 06:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Are Venus/moon in square aspect?

Mine has Moon/Venus conjunct in Gem. He is SUPER charming-lightning fast wit. That's what started the conversation.

I recall just thinking to myself "please don't let him be anything Gemini. I don't do mind games"

Technically he isn't. But the Gem qualities are highly developed. We hanging out again tonight

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posted July 14, 2018 05:25 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Calling all Taurus guys and gals you do confuse me, I have Taurus friends and exes who always act like they'd rather be anywhere else so I don't get why you guys wanna be in my presence... I need answers! I find Taurus to be the most sexually attractive but personality wise so cold and judgemental?

@Aries23Degrees Yes there is a square! I have a lot of Gemini friends and relatives whom I love and also have that quick wit that you mentioned and I adore, but as for romantic interests I tend to be like you and stay away... I think the abundance of earth in that dudes chart will help though, I really like Cappy Mars. How was hanging out with him?

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posted July 15, 2018 12:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It was super Interesting

He says that he has been stalking me for a while(about 2 years) lol. And that we were around the sane social circles. But never met formally.

He talks a lot. Interrupts because he gets excited about the topic etc. But I don't know if this will be romantic. I don't feel the chemistry.

The "coldness" you speak of is impassivity. They can have immense self control.

I don't know if this one is an expert in mind games and charming people's socks off. Or is he really sincere?

Back to your Taurus.

Venus/Moon square is not great ime. The individual does not know how to connect with who they are underneath

The result could be that they respond in a manner that is appropriate (Venus). But not how they really feel(square Moon).

This can make them come across baseless, "suck ups" who have superficial intentions I.e to seduce and discard. Because they don't want to attach (Moon) to the relationship deeply (square Venus)

Any afflictions to the moon makes emotional sincerity hard to come by naturally. It seems "forced" or deeply suppressed.

So on one hand one seems eager to discard emotional obligations or ties. Or does not allow them to ever get started because they allow none to get too close.

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posted July 17, 2018 11:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

With all your Sag aspects and his Gemini aspects I would of loved to of been a fly on the wall for your conversation, what sort of things did you talk about?

I think he's probably sincere, definitely at the start until he gets bored! I have experienced this with Geminis (although I don't want to tarnish them all with the same brush ofcourse) Do you think maybe next time you'll be in a group setting to see if he's used to charming peoples socks off or being sincere with you?

I have definitely heard that about Moon/Venus aspects although I have never experienced or met anyone with it myself. He also has moon conjunct saturn, square pluto and trine jupiter. Annoying because I saw he had a Pisces moon that trined Jupiter and I have a Cancer moon trine jupiter but that Saturn on his moon probably stamps on it a bit.

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posted July 17, 2018 04:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for bella_taurus     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a Taurus sun and Gemini Venus...

I love and NEED communication in relationships, I don't care if we are just lovers. I need it. If its not there, I become aloof and uninterested. Variety is key and I love to be entertained, pillow talk and mental stimulation. I love to be asked questions about my life. I feel like an open book at times, but in some ways, I'm notoriously private and shy.

Is he anything like this?

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posted July 18, 2018 12:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for astrosaz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by bella_taurus:
I have a Taurus sun and Gemini Venus...

I love and NEED communication in relationships, I don't care if we are just lovers. I need it. If its not there, I become aloof and uninterested. Variety is key and I love to be entertained, pillow talk and mental stimulation. I love to be asked questions about my life. I feel like an open book at times, but in some ways, I'm notoriously private and shy.


I have dated one Taurus Venus in Gemini before but It when I was a very young teenager and it was my first relationship, my first love. I don't really feel I learnt anything about Taurus Geminis only because I was so immature, naive and probably the most toxic relationship I have ever been in and ever will be so I can't use that history to help guide me in astrological terms.


Communication I can certainly do! (Venus and Jupiter in 3rd house, Merc conjunct Sun and Mars) But when I'm around people who are Taurus in general, I feel like I have to hold back because it's like everything I do or say annoys them or they're judging me or acting like they're superior to me? And I think to myself why are you hanging out with me and talking to me if you turn your nose up at everything I say and do... But then I think well maybe it's not me, and it's just a Taurus personality?

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posted July 18, 2018 08:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by astrosaz:

With all your Sag aspects and his Gemini aspects I would of loved to of been a fly on the wall for your conversation, what sort of things did you talk about?

I think he's probably sincere, definitely at the start until he gets bored! I have experienced this with Geminis (although I don't want to tarnish them all with the same brush ofcourse) Do you think maybe next time you'll be in a group setting to see if he's used to charming peoples socks off or being sincere with you?

I have definitely heard that about Moon/Venus aspects although I have never experienced or met anyone with it myself.

He also has moon conjunct Saturn, square Pluto and trine Jupiter. Annoying because I saw he had a Pisces moon that trined Jupiter and I have a Cancer moon trine jupiter but that Saturn on his moon probably stamps on it a bit.


Lol. We leaped from one topic to the next.Never a dull moment.

I have seen him in group settings and he kind of folds away a little. Unlike me he drifts off and seems a lot more reserved (interestingly).

He did say to me that most people don't believe how shy he can get. Mostly because he can be so talkative, but that's all to disguise that.

The doubt when it comes to him came when we were on the date. His eyes would wander a lot and he kept on talking about how good a certain somebody looked and how nice their body is etc.

Call me old fashioned, but I do prefer some restraint in admiring others whilst on a date with me. It just gives off the wrong impression

What is the additional nail to the proverbial coffin is finding out that he is still seeing his ex.

His friend told me this in passing and was not aware of what was beginning between he and I.

I don't hold that against him. Its typical Venus Gemini style to want to keep "open".

But my Venus in Scorpio opposes his Sun may be too intense for him. And so I will let this one slide away.

On your front, I like the Pisces Moon to your Cancer Moon(I am Cancer Moon too).

Yes the Saturn does " take away" from it somewhat. But you will get someone who is dependable.

Hang in there and keep the faith. Pisces Moon can be the most romantic types you will meet next to Lib. Only they are less "candles and roses" about it as with them romance is in the small things.

I have an awesome Moon in Pisces friend whose Mer/Moon conj in the sign forms a water grand trine with my Moon/Venus/Sat in Cancer/Scorpio/Sco.

Its like we can read each others minds sometimes. Just great

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