posted January 25, 2015 08:26 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
You're, right Babybull. In the end you know the whole situation and just exactly who you're dealing with and also if you're vulnerable to getting hurt or not. You suggested it, so you getting hurt shouldn't be an issue. Ugh...i said I was going to do some work but here I am lol. Best of luck to you Babybull

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Well I certainly appreciate you taking the time to respond to my thread. Maybe I gave the impression I was looking for more. If I were looking for more I would have made that known to him from the start. I went into this situation knowing what it was going to be. So I'll be ok. I like knowing exactly where I stand with a man because I feel that gives me the power to decide if I want to continue or move on and he can't take that from me. I notice a lot of times some men like to keep women in the dark about their intentions.

I also find it funny you say he may get upset if I am seeing other people..he only gets the luxury of me only dealing with him if he has put the offer of commitment on the table and since he has not he doesn't get that luxury and of course if he doesn't like that he can be on his merry way!

posted January 26, 2015 01:51 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Hmm, then why would they agree to such an arrangement in the first place? Unless it's that sun square moon thing coming into play...

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Sometimes it could be the contradictory nature of a water/air reactive mix within the personal planets or with an outer planet.

The air planets says "sure, no big deal"-sidestepping the emotional complexities of the water placements etc.As air is very mental and figurative rather than literal and contemplative.

But after the deed is done,the air planets go "oops! I didn't realize there would be so many things I overlooked"- speaking mostly of the emotional attachment and investments of the water placements.

A Cancer Moon with Venus/Mars in Aquarius won't mind.But watch out if there is a Pluto/Neptune aspect of Scorpio to the Venus/Mars conjunct or the Moon. All will definitely not be as "detached" as it may initially seem.