posted February 04, 2015 03:27 PM            

Him:

Sun: Libra
Moon: Cancer
Mercury: Scorpio
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Scorpio

Me:

Sun: Taurus
Moon: Virgo
Mercury: Gemini
Venus: Pisces
Mars: Libra

posted February 04, 2015 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Stawr:
that is so weird!! To just text that and say nothing. How old is he?

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*sigh*

posted February 04, 2015 08:43 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
No. I don't think that's like any demographic. It sounds as if he goes through a list on Monday morning because he feels obligated to text people at least once a week.

To text "good morning" at someone once a week? Strange.

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Well the monday thing is an example, like for instance today around 8am he sends me a "good morning" I reply good morning back..then *crickets* lol to his credit we do have days where he'll extend the conversation a bit..but then after I send my last reply..nothing for a week!

But it's all good I guess he's doing his thing and I'm doing mine..albeit a bit strange he is consistent with his strangeness and I can't complain about that haha!

posted February 04, 2015 09:49 PM            

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It sounds as if he goes through a list on Monday morning because he feels obligated to text people at least once a week.

To text "good morning" at someone once a week? Strange.

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^^This.

Even as a Gemini I tend to butt heads with Libra energy. However from what I've observed they try really hard to get along with people, be polite (once you stand up to 'em), and stay in touch.

If you're hoping for something romantic, he's probably not interested. It sounds, from my experience, he's just a typical Libra staying in touch. No games.

I had a "thing" with a Libra once upon a time, it was most likely one way. If I called at 3 or 4pm and didn't get them, the instant they got home they would call me back. Most times it would be around 10:30 or 11pm at nite - just to see if it was anything important. Then would excuse themselves to have dinner or wash up. It was magical.

posted February 04, 2015 10:19 PM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
^^This.

Even as a Gemini I tend to butt heads with Libra energy. However from what I've observed they try really hard to get along with people, be polite (once you stand up to 'em), and stay in touch.

If you're hoping for something romantic, he's probably not interested. It sounds, from my experience, he's just a typical Libra staying in touch. No games.

I had a "thing" with a Libra once upon a time, it was most likely one way. If I called at 3 or 4pm and didn't get them, the instant they got home they would call me back. Most times it would be around 10:30 or 11pm at nite - just to see if it was anything important. Then would excuse themselves to have dinner or wash up. It was magical.

They were direct, but always polite. I was smitten, volatile. It was a huge misunderstanding. As an adult this was the first person I remember loving - I had pMoon in Libra at the time, what can I say.

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posted February 04, 2015 10:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I knew a cancer sun, aries moon, libra rising guy who did the same thing!!
After I got sick of it and stopped communicating with him for a year, he reconnected with me...started talking again but I was not I to him, I accidentally didn't respond to one of his texts and he FLIPPED out on me. I won't ever speak to him again..it's just weird!

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posted February 04, 2015 10:50 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Why the heck would he flip out if he was only texting you randomly? You don't owe him anything. I have friends I've known for 20+ yrs that when they text me I don't always text them back right away or at all, but they def wouldn't flip on me..lol that's crazy!

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posted February 04, 2015 11:16 PM            

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I accidentally didn't respond to one of his texts and he FLIPPED out on me. I won't ever speak to him again..it's just weird!

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OMG ^
I hadn't read your reply when I initially posted. But that is exactly the kind of thing that happens to me with Cancer-types.

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I have friends I've known for 20+ yrs that when they text me I don't always text them back right away or at all, but they def wouldn't flip on me

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posted February 04, 2015 11:26 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
OMG ^
I hadn't read your reply when I initially posted. But that is exactly the kind of thing that happens to me with Cancer-types.

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posted February 04, 2015 11:35 PM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I kind of think it's more cancer to, they get crazy if they think they are being ignored.
I guess in their minds your trying to hurt or manipulate them and everyone knows they are the only ones allowed to emotionally manipulate and control others, they own the monopoly on that!!
It's more than mildly annoying, you just got to rise above their manipulation and keep smiling!

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Hmm..well there was one time he text me and I didn't respond for 3 days and he didn't flip..but I must add he is VERY passive and we've only known each other for a little bit, so maybe he's not comfortable yet showing the meltdown side lol

posted February 04, 2015 11:59 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Hmm..well there was one time he text me and I didn't respond for 3 days and he didn't flip..but I must add he is VERY passive and we've only known each other for a little bit, so maybe he's not comfortable yet showing the meltdown side lol

Honestly with all the Scorpio in his chart and having dealt with Scorpios for the majority of my life I'm feeling like this is a control thing. But it's very weird and unnecessary. I only attributed to libra because sometimes air signs kind of come and go as they please. I should add his sun is at like 29 degrees libra so he's practically a scorpio anyway lol.

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posted February 05, 2015 12:26 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
I have a lot of libra in my chart, it's my chart ruler, libra AC...and Venus is conjunct Pluto on AC.
I've never acted like that...if I don't text I literally got busy and it slipped my mind.
Generally Libras are very conscious of good manners, even if I don't like someone I will try to respond because it's impolite not to. We like to keep everything in balance and harmony, something like that would get me out of whack and id feel bad!
I wouldn't have a melt down but I'd definitely try to respond ASAP so I didn't offend anyone, I'd apologize for the time gap also.

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posted February 05, 2015 12:43 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
lol Maybe he's just better with in person contact than texting?

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That's it right there.

I mean I'll admit that what's been said about Cancer is true- Suns (me) are crazy, and I imagine Moons can be worse if they haven't worked on themselves- very weird and manipulative...but also fear and sensitivity can result in erratic behavior from a Cancer.

But what you wrote above resonates with me. If I like you, I hate texting for more than updates and touching base. If we can't see each other regularly, I need more intimate interaction than texting. I need to hear you laugh, not read "lol"

posted February 05, 2015 01:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
If the Sun/Moon square each other that would create issues also....you wouldn't know which sign to expect! Lol
You could get talkative libra in person then later an upset cancer becomes moody because they expected something more or different, so they start playing games.

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Our suns and moons aren't aspecting each other, but our moons are sextile. I will tell you the day we met the Sun was inconjuncting the moon kinda found that interesting.

Well I hope he doesn't think I'm playing games. I'm just going with the flow at this point and following his lead. I was thinking tomorrow I'd send him a funny pic and see if that gets a response from him..if not then whatever, no skin off my nose I have other friends who are more chatty anyway and I can talk to them lol

posted February 05, 2015 04:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Nine:
^^This.

Even as a Gemini I tend to butt heads with Libra energy. However from what I've observed they try really hard to get along with people, be polite (once you stand up to 'em), and stay in touch.

If you're hoping for something romantic, he's probably not interested. It sounds, from my experience, he's just a typical Libra staying in touch. No games.

I had a "thing" with a Libra once upon a time, it was most likely one way. If I called at 3 or 4pm and didn't get them, the instant they got home they would call me back. Most times it would be around 10:30 or 11pm at nite - just to see if it was anything important. Then would excuse themselves to have dinner or wash up. It was magical.

They were direct, but always polite. I was smitten, volatile. It was a huge misunderstanding. As an adult this was the first person I remember loving - I had pMoon in Libra at the time, what can I say.

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Me too.
As a Gemini, I don't vibe with the libra energy.

posted February 05, 2015 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by ikja:
Me too.
As a Gemini, I don't vibe with the libra energy.

In my opinion, libra men have a facade of being sweet and polite, but it's usually a cover up for something more sinister. No offence to the libra men that aren't like this, but in my opinion/experience... He may just be trying to keep you around and has no intention on acting on it. I understand that you're not too bothered at the moment, but it depends on where you want it to go. Maybe it's too soon, but libra men get comfortable and if you don't say what you want, they get comfortable. If after telling them what you want, the same **** continues, or they don't try to meet you half way. You dodged a bullet x

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I agree, Libras can become complacent (no offense to any). You know what talking about all of this just made me remember I had a libra girl friend & I remember her being in long term relationships but every time they wanted to take it a step further ( move in, engagement, marriage) it fall apart. Then I realized she only really likes the beginning stages of a relationship. So essentially with this one guy who she was with for like 5 or 6 yrs, they never went any further than just going I dates & her spending the night at his house. As soon as he wanted to go further that's when the trouble started for them.

posted February 05, 2015 04:45 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
I agree, Libras can become complacent (no offense to any). You know what talking about all of this just made me remember I had a libra girl friend & I remember her being in long term relationships but every time they wanted to take it a step further ( move in, engagement, marriage) it fall apart. Then I realized she only really likes the beginning stages of a relationship

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While Libras can become complacent (and can also take a long time to make a firm commitment) I don't think you'd find many who'd promote this view. Libra is a sign of relationships and often marriage...while not as primary an interest to them as Cancer and Pisces (at least women for the latter) it's still typically important, otherwise the 7H would be seen as what keeps one OUT of marriage and other unions & contracts rather than into them. When people make a mistake here it's usually thinking that Libra can't even go get some milk without someone holding the Libra hand.