posted March 16, 2015 07:36 PM            

The 12th house is a personal house with its quirks and hardships just like the other 11. It takes a lot of maturing and finding oneself to get a handle on it. Once you've done so it flourishes wonderfully. I personally believe it to be the best. It's the house of all end. The house of completion. Too many that have never experienced it personally talk the most crap about it and it annoys me. I see too many amateur astrologers scaring people because they're unaware of how it works.

I have Sun, Moon, Mercury and Jupiter in my 12th. All except for Jupiter are in Libra with Jupiter at the tail end of Virgo. I'm not at all shy. I'm very extroverted, can't get enough of talking and getting to know new people. Always lived a social life with many, many friends from various backgrounds.

I do however value my private life and time, could go days, months without talking to anyone and be okay with that. I respect privacy! I'm an awesome secret keeper.

posted March 16, 2015 08:02 PM            

I tend to be shy but i open up eventually. I do agree that i could be alone for months without contact and be mentally fine. I think my issue is that i have a hard time relating to others but i think that has to do with mars being in opposition to ascendant. There are some things in my chart i wish i could reverse but i know they are there for a reason so i try to just make due and realize that they make me a unique person overall.

posted March 16, 2015 08:30 PM            

I totally understand what you mean with not being able to relate to others. Many aren't able too so its not abnormal. I think where I somewhat luck out is due to that Libra stellium. It allows me to see all sides of a story, a situation, a person, etc. I'm accepting, may not like or agree with something but I would never judge a person or expect anyone to stop on my accord because of that.

My emotions and feelings though are so powerful which I think at times can be more difficult for some to fully understand. I'm passionate about things that people less expect. I've always had a hard time getting others to really understand what I mean. So I'm able to relate but have a hard time getting others to relate to me. My whole life I've been deemed as being much more emotional than I really am. I'm just passionate.

posted March 16, 2015 08:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Being an introvert is not a curse. Being introverted and needing your alone time has to do with Asc/Sun in Cancer not the 12th house. I can show you charts of people with plenty of 12th house factors who are not hiding from the world or introverted or anti-social.

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While I certainly do not disagree.
I'm Libra asc, Leo sun, Gemini moon and I'm introverted. Actually quite a lot!!
Based on those it doesn't make sense.

posted March 16, 2015 09:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Kannon McAfee:
Being an introvert is not a curse. Being introverted and needing your alone time has to do with Asc/Sun in Cancer not the 12th house. I can show you charts of people with plenty of 12th house factors who are not hiding from the world or introverted or anti-social.

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posted March 16, 2015 09:11 PM            

introvert
a shy person.
Psychology . a person characterized by concern primarily with his or her own thoughts and feelings (opposed to extrovert ).

An introvert is a shy, reticent and typically self-centered person.

posted March 16, 2015 09:15 PM            

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posted March 16, 2015 09:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
By definition

introvert
a shy person.
Psychology . a person characterized by concern primarily with his or her own thoughts and feelings (opposed to extrovert ).

An introvert is a shy, reticent and typically self-centered person.

Sounds like you're misunderstanding what it means and what Kannon actually meant.

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posted March 16, 2015 09:24 PM            

Introverts are more concerned with the inner world of the mind. They enjoy thinking, exploring their thoughts and feelings. They often avoid social situations because being around people drains their energy. This is true even if they have good social skills. After being with people for any length of time, such as at a party, they need time alone to "recharge."

When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their own thoughts. Being with people, even people they like and are comfortable with, can prevent them from their desire to be quietly introspective.

posted March 16, 2015 09:24 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

Barbie,
Stfu. I'm sick and irritable and not in any mood to deal with your crap right now. There can be multiple meanings for words. But generally speaking, I'm right. Not everyone who is introverted is shy.

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posted March 16, 2015 09:38 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Barbie,
I've been very patient with you but i'm sick of your crap. You are constantly trying to antagonize me and troll me and when I call you out you deny it. Grow up! You are being a little witch and you know it! Again,Grow up! And don't try to lie and post some lame ass meme or smiley and say "have a good day" like you are fooling me. Since, you are a fake person and will lie, let me be the honest one. I can't stand you and think you are a fool. I literally couldn't value you or your opinion any less than I do now. So please, just stop your sh*t. I'm sick of it. It's bad enough that I have to sign in here and see you posting your nonsense at all, but to have it constantly directed at me? I will not tolerate it.

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For the record.

posted March 16, 2015 09:41 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Barbie,
I've been very patient with you but i'm sick of your crap. You are constantly trying to antagonize me and troll me and when I call you out you deny it. Grow up! You are being a little witch and you know it! Again,Grow up! And don't try to lie and post some lame ass meme or smiley and say "have a good day" like you are fooling me. Since, you are a fake person and will lie, let me be the honest one. I can't stand you and think you are a fool. I literally couldn't value you or your opinion any less than I do now. So please, just stop your sh*t. I'm sick of it. It's bad enough that I have to sign in here and see you posting your nonsense at all, but to have it constantly directed at me? I will not tolerate it.

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posted March 16, 2015 09:42 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Barbie,
I've been very patient with you but i'm sick of your crap. You are constantly trying to antagonize me and troll me and when I call you out you deny it. Grow up! You are being a little witch and you know it! Again,Grow up! And don't try to lie and post some lame ass meme or smiley and say "have a good day" like you are fooling me. Since, you are a fake person and will lie, let me be the honest one. I can't stand you and think you are a fool. I literally couldn't value you or your opinion any less than I do now. So please, just stop your sh*t. I'm sick of it. It's bad enough that I have to sign in here and see you posting your nonsense at all, but to have it constantly directed at me? I will not tolerate it.

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posted March 16, 2015 09:54 PM            

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Originally posted by Barbiegirl19:
For the record.

Stop misplacing your anger from your personal life or whatever it is that has you SO worked up out on me. Calm down.

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posted March 16, 2015 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
Who posted first?
Hint: open your eyes

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posted March 16, 2015 10:12 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:

Deepfreeze,
That does not matter. I did not address barbie at all with my post. She chose to start stuff with me like she always does!

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You know what does matter?
Let's say that you're correct.
You're still not correct to respond in the way that you did.

posted March 16, 2015 10:22 PM            

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Originally posted by aquaguy91:
Definition: Contrary to what most people think, an introvert is not simply a person who is shy. In fact, being shy has little to do with being an introvert! Shyness has an element of apprehension, nervousness and anxiety, and while an introvert may also be shy, introversion itself is not shyness. Basically, an introvert is a person who is energized by being alone and whose energy is drained by being around other people.

Introverts are more concerned with the inner world of the mind. They enjoy thinking, exploring their thoughts and feelings. They often avoid social situations because being around people drains their energy. This is true even if they have good social skills. After being with people for any length of time, such as at a party, they need time alone to "recharge."

When introverts want to be alone, it is not, by itself, a sign of depression. It means that they either need to regain their energy from being around people or that they simply want the time to be with their own thoughts. Being with people, even people they like and are comfortable with, can prevent them from their desire to be quietly introspective.

Being introspective, though, does not mean that an introvert never has conversations. However, those conversations are generally about ideas and concepts, not about what they consider the trivial matters of social small talk.

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