posted March 20, 2015 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:

Any insight on this behavior?

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Has anyone else noticed this theme with Taureans?

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posted March 20, 2015 04:24 PM            

Anyway, I don't know much about Tau Moon man so it's nice to read some info on that here.

I know a Tau man and I can see that camping-out behaviour even if he's not totally satisfied.

posted March 21, 2015 12:30 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Has anyone else noticed this theme with Taureans?

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The one experience I had with a Taurus was quite different. When he came along, I was 16, alone, and had just given birth. He was calm, steady, and caring, which was perfect at the time.

I have a grand trine on my Mars, which I'm sure is reflected in my experiences with men. The reason I'm mentioning this is that I'd say it's relevant to your experiences with men also. I gather you're looking for answers as to why this keeps happening to you. Right now is not the time, but at some point, rather than looking at Taurus men, you might pay attention to your Mars. It's likely that there's something in you being manifested by these men.

It's more complex than just sun signs. People who have predominantly hard aspects in their charts, hard aspects of Mars, and certain signs are more likely to handle, even relish challenge in relationships. Others don't. Romantic love is conditional. Unconditional love is rare among human beings. We're all flawed, regardless of sign, and most of us are fumbling around when it comes to love.

posted March 21, 2015 01:22 AM            

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Originally posted by peony:
I gather you're looking for answers as to why this keeps happening to you. Right now is not the time, but at some point,... you might pay attention to your Mars. It's likely that there's something in you being manifested by these men.

It's more complex than just sun signs. People who have predominantly hard aspects in their charts, hard aspects of Mars, and certain signs are more likely to handle, even relish challenge in relationships. Others don't.

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Interesting, thank you!

posted March 21, 2015 03:36 AM            

That is why we break up with people;
because they fail to fulfill those conditions to our satisfaction.It's not a crime

On Taurus' side,they want their lover to be available to them for stroking/hugs/kisses or sex ALL THE TIME.

I think Taurus is striving for inner peace to also materialize externally.

They think that if they can simplify conditions outside i.e predictable patterns of behavior,predictable lover, predictable everything LOL. Then they can have that need for inner peace translate externally?

There are not many conditions to satisfy when with a Taurus person(Moon/Venus/Mars too).

Just be "safe" and standardize your life as much as possible- so that every activity that you need to be away from your Taurus lover is accounted for and predictable to the exact date and time

That is not too much to ask is it?

posted March 21, 2015 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by MorpHnStorM:
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posted March 21, 2015 03:31 PM            

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Originally posted by peony:
The one experience I had with a Taurus was quite different. When he came along, I was 16, alone, and had just given birth. He was calm, steady, and caring, which was perfect at the time.

I have a grand trine on my Mars, which I'm sure is reflected in my experiences with men. The reason I'm mentioning this is that I'd say it's relevant to your experiences with men also. I gather you're looking for answers as to why this keeps happening to you. Right now is not the time, but at some point, rather than looking at Taurus men, you might pay attention to your Mars. It's likely that there's something in you being manifested by these men.

It's more complex than just sun signs. People who have predominantly hard aspects in their charts, hard aspects of Mars, and certain signs are more likely to handle, even relish challenge in relationships. Others don't. Romantic love is conditional. Unconditional love is rare among human beings. We're all flawed, regardless of sign, and most of us are fumbling around when it comes to love.

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posted March 22, 2015 09:32 AM            

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From experience, I no longer believe that Taurus' are capable of giving genuine love or even feeling it for that matter. It always appears as if there's some conditions attached before they will open their hearts to you and if you don't meet their requirements, they'll drop you like a bad habit no matter the time, emotions, and energy spent with you.

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It takes time to open to others because I want to make sure a person is trustworthy. Now, since I don't consider my instincts to be exactly top notch (at least compared to other signs) I have to rely on my patience and decent memory to evaluate people. So I wait for them to reveal bits and pieces of themselves when they think nobody is paying attention to what they're saying/doing. If something doesn't seem to add up, I pull back. And stay there.
I don't have crazy tests that people need to pass in order to be my friend/partner. If I feel secure about someone, I would gradually start to let my guard down. In the meantime, I would be friendly and polite, but somewhat reserved.
It's mostly self-preservation that influences my actions.
I'm also quite passive when it comes to leaving people (Libra Ascendant). Unless I feel someone is hurting me, it's not exactly in my nature to drop people without further notice. I'd probably stick around if they're decent and we have fit together.

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They treat all of their lovers the same while they're with them (ex; buying gifts, taking them out on dates, etc) which isn't sincere on genuine at all.

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I don't know about this. I do have a mutable Venus and as I could tell my exes are very different from each other. I don't consider the cycle with different people. I have a type, though so there's a dose of predictability in my relationships.

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Taureans will settle into any relationship that's easy, comfortable, and smooth sailing.

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posted March 22, 2015 01:12 PM            

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Originally posted by psytaurus:
I don't know about this. I do have a mutable Venus and as I could tell my exes are very different from each other. I don't consider the cycle with different people. I have a type, though so there's a dose of predictability in my relationships.

[QUOTE]Taureans will settle into any relationship that's easy, comfortable, and smooth sailing.

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This statement rings true for me. It's not because I'm. afraid to be alone. It's because my Venus makes soft aspects to my Moon/Mars so I want a little bit of harmony and peace from a relationship. From outside it probably looks quite dull. It's not because I'm lazy, I just seem to equate harmony with compatibility. While I do like a partner who challenges me, I also love when we have points in common and things seem to go smoothly between us.
A concrete example: in a synastry with one of my exes we had Mars square Uranus. It's a pretty temperamental and explosive aspect. We also had a Grand Trine that evened things out. There has to be a balance. I couldn't see myself entering a relationship full of squares/oppositions - 24/7 drama would be too draining. Venus in Aries on the other hand might actually thrive in it.

Thank you for this insight. I have many Taurean male friends. Unfortunately, I tend to hurt them a lot due to my impulsive tendencies. I like them a lot and love having them around as friends esp now that Im married.But for them Im like a bad habit they would like to kick out of their system. They would avoid me for months and then suddenly pop in and question me about every little thing going on in my life.
I think i should add in about my personal experience with them. To tell the truth they loved me a lot for few years even after I rejected them : ( I was the bad person who hurt them. No reproach, nothing from their side.Sometimes they would hint at it, thats about it! Maybe bad experiences with women like me made them wary of other women.

posted March 22, 2015 05:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
You think so?

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Yanmorg, I give you credit for looking inside. It's an easy mistake to make though to think that you haven't, because in this thread, you're mostly looking out at what you perceive is wrong with other people. If you keep the focus on you and be honest with yourself, it'll be painful initially but it will lead to your freedom. If you don't, most likely the pattern will remain and the pain will continue.

As for the chart, on the one hand, there's the Saturn squares to Sun-Pluto-Mars. On the other, there's your Moon in Libra square Uranus-Neptune.

As I see it, the masculine side of you, shown by the first set of planets, is dominant. There's little on your feminine side to counter and balance the energies of Mars, Saturn, and Pluto. It's like your masculine side has run over your femininity. The squares from Uranus and Neptune to your Moon suggest to me that your own feminine ground is lacking, that ways of knowing through feeling, intuition, and instinct are overruled or aren't strong enough to go toe to toe with the logic, intellect, and judgment of the masculine planets.

In a woman's chart, the conjunction and hard aspects of Uranus to the Moon can disrupt the connection a woman has with her feelings, needs, and even her body. That can make a person high strung and subject to anxiety or feelings of danger and not being safe in the body.

The Saturn squares to your Scorpio stellium and Uranus-Neptune squares to your Moon all show a big dichotomy and tensions between your head and your heart, thinking and feeling, mind and body.

There's much more to see. I'd say a lot of what's going on is happening behind the curtain in the unconscious. With your Scorpio stellium and Sun conjunct Pluto, deep sea diving is a significant part of the program. But, something that is visible for example is when you think thoughts that undermine your self worth, your femininity, feelings and instincts, that's the man in you talking. You can also become more aware of him by paying attention to male figures in your dreams and how they interact with you in those dreams. As a suggestion, if you don't already record your dreams, keeping a journal would be a good idea, so you can keep track of them and go back over them and gain insight from them. The unconscious, which is revealed in dreams, is amazingly wise and insightful.

posted March 24, 2015 03:36 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
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Yeah, I came real close to telling her if that was her thing then she should check out Scorpio or Pisces instead.

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posted March 24, 2015 09:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I've often felt like it's all about money for Taurus Moons (not so much the Suns).
But they don't apply the same "terms and conditions" to friends. Whether they are male or female, they all seem to be on the look out for wealthy romantic partners.

And yes, I do believe they would drop someone overnight - if that partner no longer meets their financial standards.

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posted March 25, 2015 02:20 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
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Yeah, I came real close to telling her if that was her thing then she should check out Scorpio or Pisces instead.

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