posted March 20, 2015 07:59 AM            

I mostly attract Scorpios or Taurus' in my life and I've noticed that I've developed a pretty strong opinion about Taurus' and their inability to give genuine and sincere love and care.

From experience, I no longer believe that Taurus' are capable of giving genuine love or even feeling it for that matter. It always appears as if there's some conditions attached before they will open their hearts to you and if you don't meet their requirements, they'll drop you like a bad habit no matter the time, emotions, and energy spent with you. I feel that this behavior is superficial and as far from genuine and sincere as you can get. How can you control your emotions to the point of dropping someone so easily and then moving on into another comfortable long-term relationship? It's almost as if the cycle repeats itself with all of the Taurus' I know. They treat all of their lovers the same while they're with them (ex; buying gifts, taking them out on dates, etc) which isn't sincere on genuine at all. If it's real sincere love there are no terms and conditions and what you find it someone, it won't be easy to find in another yet Taureans will settle into any relationship that's easy, comfortable, and smooth sailing. My cousin even admitted that she would chose that relationship over one a lot more difficult even if she had really deep feelings for the person. I could be wrong, but this is just based off my personal experiences with Taurus'. They "camp-out" for awhile in their current relationship just to move on after 1-3 years, just to do the same thing all over again.

posted March 20, 2015 11:20 AM            

Obviously of they're staying in these relationships, they're getting some sort of fulfillment from their partners.. so in my opinion, it doesn't take much at all for them to fall which is my point exactly.

posted March 20, 2015 11:32 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I am Scorpio with moon in libra, merc/venus/jupiter/pluto in Scorpio. I also have mars in Sagittarius and a Taurus Ascendant.

I mostly attract Scorpios or Taurus' in my life and I've noticed that I've developed a pretty strong opinion about Taurus' and their inability to give genuine and sincere love and care.

From experience, I no longer believe that Taurus' are capable of giving genuine love or even feeling it for that matter. It always appears as if there's some conditions attached before they will open their hearts to you and if you don't meet their requirements, they'll drop you like a bad habit no matter the time, emotions, and energy spent with you. I feel that this behavior is superficial and as far from genuine and sincere as you can get. How can you control your emotions to the point of dropping someone so easily and then moving on into another comfortable long-term relationship? It's almost as if the cycle repeats itself with all of the Taurus' I know. They treat all of their lovers the same while they're with them (ex; buying gifts, taking them out on dates, etc) which isn't sincere on genuine at all. If it's real sincere love there are no terms and conditions and what you find it someone, it won't be easy to find in another yet Taureans will settle into any relationship that's easy, comfortable, and smooth sailing. My cousin even admitted that she would chose that relationship over one a lot more difficult even if she had really deep feelings for the person. I could be wrong, but this is just based off my personal experiences with Taurus'. They "camp-out" for awhile in their current relationship just to move on after 1-3 years, just to do the same thing all over again.

Any insight on this behavior? Has anyone else noticed this theme with Taureans?

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Most people are not capable of unconditional love. Most of us have conditions. That's just real. You may date someone because you're attracted to them (and perhaps for a Taurus 3 years isn't that long...and it just might take a Taurus that long to conclude that the relationship isn't working, unlike the typical 4-6 month honeymoon period).

About the gifts and wining and dining, everyone has a love style, and everyone loves the way they want to be loved. There's nothing insincere about trying to love and then deciding you're not getting what you need in a relationship. Maybe since "security" and pleasure are what calm the Taurean emotion it looks superficial, but how can people call other people's real emotions and needs superficial?

signed,

a defensive Taurus Moon

posted March 20, 2015 11:33 AM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
Hmm & here I thought we were beyond the point of just basing a person's behavior off of the sun signs...

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I'm not bashing anyone. I'm making an observation based off my own personal experiences & I felt like sharing with this forum to gain some clarity and insight into these observations. I have a Taurus ASC & share a few Taurus traits so I doubt I could completely bash them anyway.. Technically speaking.

posted March 20, 2015 11:35 AM            

He demands 100% devotion and openness and he can smell insincerity from other side of town. If that happens he will play you like a fiddle, at first being "business as usual" to later ripping carpet under feet.

He only cares about his family and his job (latter might be his Cap Mars) and all else not so much.

It his pretty much his way or none UNLESS you, with determined LOGIC and zero emotions, present something that will make him change his mind.

posted March 20, 2015 11:38 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Most people are not capable of unconditional love. Most of us have conditions. That's just real. You may date someone because you're attracted to them (and perhaps for a Taurus 3 years isn't that long...and it just might take a Taurus that long to conclude that the relationship isn't working, unlike the typical 4-6 month honeymoon period).

About the gifts and wining and dining, everyone has a love style, and everyone loves the way they want to be loved. There's nothing insincere about trying to love and then deciding you're not getting what you need in a relationship. Maybe since "security" and pleasure is what calms the Taurean emotion it looks superficial, but how can people call other people's real emotions and needs superficial?

signed,

a defensive Taurus Moon

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Aha, so there's a key point. Taureans live in a different timezone metaphorically speaking..

posted March 20, 2015 11:41 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
Aha, so there's a key point. Taureans live in a different timezone metaphorically speaking..

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posted March 20, 2015 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
My fiancé is a Taurus Moon (2H) and he is one tricky man. He can shut off ALL emotions if you mean nothing to him. Believe me when I say that 100 naked women can walk in front of him and he won't even raise an eyebrow. He will do the same with me if his mood is that way..

He demands 100% devotion and openness and he can smell insincerity from other side of town. If that happens he will play you like a fiddle, at first being "business as usual" to later ripping carpet under feet.

He only cares about his family and his job (latter might be his Cap Mars) and all else not so much.

It his pretty much his way or none UNLESS you, with determined LOGIC and zero emotions, present something that will make him change his mind.

He is however quite clingy which my Cappy Moon frowns upon.

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YES. This "my way or the highway" ordeal is the main reason why I do not view them in a positive light despite my Taurus ASC. Love is give and take, not my way or the highway.

THIS is the conditions I was referring to in the first post, venus2tinkerbell.

posted March 20, 2015 11:46 AM            

I am Taurus ASC so I 'm not completely unaware of Taurean traits. I have quite a few myself. I just can't wrap my head around the "love" nature.

posted March 20, 2015 11:53 AM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
YES. This "my way or the highway" ordeal is the main reason why I do not view them in a positive light despite my Taurus ASC. Love is give and take, not my way or the highway.

THIS is the conditions I was referring to in the first post, venus2tinkerbell.

Love is not based of that mentality so if they finally found someone willing to comply, can you really call it love? Taurean men usually run for the hills when they realize I can't & won't be controlled. Everything else compatibility wise will be great, but my unwillingness to be their doormat and sex slave gives them the power, I assume, to shut me out completely despite me knowing for a fact that there's a serious emotional bond.

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posted March 20, 2015 12:27 PM            

for sex or taking a **** ?

posted March 20, 2015 01:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Yanmorg:
I'm not bashing anyone. I'm making an observation based off my own personal experiences & I felt like sharing with this forum to gain some clarity and insight into these observations. I have a Taurus ASC & share a few Taurus traits so I doubt I could completely bash them anyway.. Technically speaking.

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Go back and read what I said..I said BASING not BASHING. Basically my point is when you're dealing with someone you're dealing with more than just their sun sign..but I'm sure you know that already

Also I'm guessing you are talking about Taurus males? I don't have much experience with them on a dating level. But I do have a Taurus male friend who has been with his SO for over 10 yrs and he's mentioned being unhappy but he stays for other reasons other than comfort I'm sure.