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MineAgain
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posted April 02, 2015 03:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
This guy at work seems a bit odd around me. Aside from the daily "Hey you, how are you?" (normal), he always stops by my colleague's desk (which happens to be right next to mine), talks to him for like 3 sec and then turns to me and starts chatting with me about random things (monkeys, dumb jokes ..). I usually keep my eyes on my computer and barely listen to him.

One day, he sat at my desk while I was in the bathroom and left me a monkey picture (I had never really talked to him before). I took it slightly badly because I thought he was making fun of me. The following day, my colleague asked him why he did that and he told him: "Ha, I thought she wouldn't notice. That's was just for fun, because I really like monkeys". Hum, okay.

Then a couple days ago, he sat by my desk and was like: "I came here to tell you a joke ... (he said the joke, told him it wasn't funny, then he said another one ... I didn't really laugh) ... then he said, I'll come back tomorrow with something better then".

Turns out his jokes had a sexual content which I obviously didn't understand. He told me: "If you start learning how to ride a bike, I'll buy you a nice pink helmet". I told him I hate pink and he laughed saying: "Dude, I can't get it right with you today".

Yesterday, I was having lunch with a bunch of female colleagues in the "canteen". He walked up to me and was like: "I have a new joke for you yadi yada". He then sat with us and he explained yesterday's jokes ... they were sex related, except I didn't get the hint.

Anyway, one of my colleagues started talking to him about her boyfriend, he interrupted her and turned to me and said (I was talking to someone else): "Well, now I gotta find S. (me) a boyfriend. A nice British guy ... (he's British)".

He then saw me on my way out of the office and said: "You're going home already? Oh no! See you tomorrow".


Today, he saw me at 9 near his desk because I had to pick something and when I got back to my desk, he came to talk to my colleague like 5 minutes later.

Then again, at 3, he came to talk to my colleague and spilled orange juice on my desk. I was like: "You should have paid attention.". Then, he said sorry but he seemed quite bumped.

That's bizarre. I noticed I'm the only girl he does these bizarre jokes to. He eats lunch daily with some girls I work with, but doesn't stop by their desks make such jokes. He never speaks to them outside of those lunch breaks. I see him walking past their desks and he doesn't stop to have convos with them.

Why is he so strange?

Thanks

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Janah
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posted April 02, 2015 03:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Janah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sounds like he fancies you...

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Janah
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posted April 02, 2015 03:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Janah     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
A Leo guy had a thing for me in high school, and by showing any affection, it was usually with harsh jokes or him wanting me to adore him for his awesomeness, haha!

The same with this Leo guy who likes me on Facebook...

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MineAgain
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posted April 02, 2015 03:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Janah:
A Leo guy had a thing for me in high school, and by showing any affection, it was usually with harsh jokes or him wanting me to adore him for his awesomeness, haha!

The same with this Leo guy who likes me on Facebook...



Haha. I feel like this one is more or less the same. It seems as though he likes himself a bit too much.

However, I've only shown him the cold side of me due to his bizarre behavior. Do these men like a challenge?

Because to be quite fair, I haven't been the nicest, except once. I've been pretty much a b*tch to him by telling him his jokes sucked or that he should have been careful not to spill juice on my desk (I was so stone cold, it was bad).

Do they like women with strong personalities? I'm a Scorpio ...

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posted April 02, 2015 03:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Janah:
Sounds like he fancies you...

yep.

He also sounds annoying. LOL
IMO of course

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MineAgain
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posted April 02, 2015 03:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
yep.

He also sounds annoying. LOL
IMO of course


Yeah, everyone told me that. His friend says he's annoying haha. But I ain't gonna lie, he's so funny, it's refreshing.

He's very much "in your face" though. He likes attention and openly seeks it.

Leo people love to be extravagant.

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LexusVirgo
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posted April 02, 2015 07:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Omg Leo men I knew. Several and whenever I was gone for long periods of time(these guys were friends) each one of them would text me and be like " how come your not around anymore? " I love Leo men they are so much more then there ego. They are the friends who care and miss and show it( even if most would think it's just cus they miss the attention). Most of my Leo friends were sweet and nice and generous.

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Aries23Degrees
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posted April 03, 2015 11:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo men tend to want people to acknowldege their "awesomeness" etc.

So they do a lot of pea-cocking. It's annoying at first. And then , you just can't help but smile at it after a while. Because they can be really ridiculous-with a straight face

Sounds to me that this guy seems to like you and doesn't quite know how to get your attention.

It could be because you are "new". Most guys like the "new" girl at work. The whole idea of being the 1st to date her etc.

Or like most Leos,he really likes women who are not easily impressed i.e Sagittarius, Capricorn, Scorpio and Virgo.

So take your pic. What Moon/Mars sign does he have?

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MineAgain
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posted April 03, 2015 04:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for MineAgain     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
He started working there a week after I did. I'm not really the newbie anymore ha.

I'm a Gemini Moon/Mars. I have a very cold front and I think he doesn't seem to understand how to get me to "like" him like the other girls at the office do.

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