posted April 05, 2015 09:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Vixen:
My neck is one of my "secret weapons" when seducing guys

Confusedaseff, you can find your parallels (and contarparallels) when you go to astro.com, draw your chart and click on the "Additional tables (PDF)" above it. Once you are there, look at "Declination"

For example: when your sun is 21°36'12''N and Venus in 21°10'30''N, they are in parallel. When your Pluto is 6°48'04''N and Lilith is in 6°13'59''S, they are in contraparallel Maximum orb is 1°20'.

Hope it helps

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what is the significance though?

i've got uranus and neptune both in 21degree S so i'm assuming parallel
and that's about it. venus is 15 degree south and mars 13 degrees north

posted April 05, 2015 07:15 PM            

'stick around like a bad smell until i know that you really like me then ask out to dinner.'
me: 'not drinks?'
him: *with a wtf face* 'no, obviously dinner. probably would've done the traditional gentlemanly thing... flowers and pulling out chair all that'

*i made the first move though cause i was tired of waiting so he didn't get a chance to do that*

posted April 05, 2015 07:46 PM            

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Originally posted by Vixen:
My neck is one of my "secret weapons" when seducing guys

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posted April 07, 2015 09:29 AM            

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Originally posted by astra7:
I tell you....I was skimming through a book called 'Seduction' by Robert Greene cos I like his books. But some of the stuff people do to seduce potential candidates.....!
I mean...why can't you be you and that's not ok???

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That's what I've always done!

Sincerity and kindness when it comes from the heart beats all I say. (Along with confidence, and things of that nature)
I mean unless you just can't control your horny level. Then any willing participant will do.

posted April 08, 2015 05:14 AM            

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Originally posted by astra7:
I tell you....I was skimming through a book called 'Seduction' by Robert Greene cos I like his books. But some of the stuff people do to seduce potential candidates.....!
I mean...why can't you be you and that's not ok???

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i am being me. but it's a side of me. not all of me. no one actually shows all of them to every person and i'm not going to do that straight off the cuff to someone who can potential hurt me - whether the potential relationship will be romantic or in friendship.

i'm not portraying a different person. just showing the sliver of myself that i want to show and is most effective for my objective.

and i do that because it's in my nature to do so. and thats the point of this topic. it's how do you approach it.

you'll approach it a completely different way than i do. and how you do is the interesting bit.

maybe you do throw all of yourself on the table from day one. but again thats because it's in your nature to do so.

posted April 08, 2015 07:15 AM            

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Originally posted by confusedaseff:
[]Gemini Raising
Capricorn Sun
Venus Scorpio
Mars Virgo

me, if i want the guy... well keep in mind that i have the scorpio power fetish. first i end up doing research and laying a lot of tests to check reactions and to almost check things off my list. lol that's probably the mars in virgo.

usually if theres eye contact is made it's pretty intense on my part. conversation is pretty friendly but then i usually drop in kinky innuendoes here and there to gauge reactions - that usually wakes them up.
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I do the same ! I do research him a lot , I think it's from my scorpio part . Although I have leo venus
And it took him for so long to start an informal conversation with me . I think he need to be sure that I like him too as same as I need it at the beginning . So , at the first met , we operate this task in sub-conscious way. We are not playing any mind games either because we met in a professional circumstances and I can tell , he is interested by the way he look at..every inches of my body It's creepy though , but I understand , I 'm scorpio too , when you are interested , you penetrate subject with your eyes , and I need to "keep calm" and try not to laugh , let him enjoy looking at me like I'm so innocent , I didn't know what he 's up too.

A couple months later , when I start give him a little smile and more friendly face , he start to use his gemini moon to giggle the conversation and a little flirting from his libra mercury that exactly conjunct my libra sun ... This make me feel overwhelmed.

posted April 08, 2015 08:45 PM            

As far as beauty is concerned, Sun semisextile or semisquare Venus types tend to be very attractive. Think Meghan Fox for she has the semisextile.

Venus in Libra types are very charming and have that knack for persuasion, but in a way that makes you bask in their glow for their attention and recoil from sensing their manipulation (unless you are perceptive).

Venus aspected Mars (especially the soft aspects) people are incredibly seductive.

Sun trine Pluto people have that presence without the grit of the harsh aspects.

posted April 09, 2015 03:05 AM            

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Originally posted by Aquarian Moon:
For me personally, I have no idea. I either turn people off or turn them on without knowing what I did. I'm second decan Libra Sun semisquare my Scorpio Venus.

As far as beauty is concerned, Sun semisextile or semisquare Venus types tend to be very attractive. Think Meghan Fox for she has the semisextile.

Venus in Libra types are very charming and have that knack for persuasion, but in a way that makes you bask in their glow for their attention and recoil from sensing their manipulation (unless you are perceptive).

Venus aspected Mars (especially the soft aspects) people are incredibly seductive.

Sun trine Pluto people have that presence without the grit of the harsh aspects.

Pisces Ascendants, Suns, or Moons tend to have beautiful, watery, soulful eyes from my observations.

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I know a girl Venus square Mars and she's pretty hot too. So it's not only about soft aspects... But maybe it's because of her Venus-Pluto conjunction. She has that dark-feminine seductiveness and even on her bad days, when she looks neglected, guys are EXTREMELY attracted to her. But the way a lot of guys talk to her and treat her can be described by two words: sexual harassment.

posted April 09, 2015 06:38 AM            

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Originally posted by Vixen:
I know a girl Venus square Mars and she's pretty hot too. So it's not only about soft aspects... But maybe it's because of her Venus-Pluto conjunction. She has that dark-feminine seductiveness and even on her bad days, when she looks neglected, guys are EXTREMELY attracted to her. But the way a lot of guys talk to her and treat her can be described by two words: sexual harassment.

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posted April 09, 2015 09:03 AM            

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Originally posted by DeepFreeze:
I'm thinking Neptune gets overlooked in these things.
Don't forget Neptune!!!

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