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confusedaseff
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posted April 03, 2015 07:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for confusedaseff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi i'm wondering if i can get some insight into how the different signs would go about seducing an object of their affection ex. going straight up and bragging, or cooking a meal or take you out dancing, how they would flirt, lingerie type etc etc...

there's a lot on here about venus and mars but not really specifics on how the different signs would approach seducing someone they like. almost like a task. say if you decided you want someone. how would you specifically go getting what you want.

so if you have any insight or would like to post your mars/venus/eros/psyche etc. and how you like to approach seduction that'd be brilliant! i think this would defiantly be interesting

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posted April 03, 2015 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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posted April 03, 2015 10:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eirlys     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I would let them stand next to my fire. ♥

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posted April 04, 2015 01:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for GypseeWind     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My stuffs:
Sag Sun/venus
Aries asc
Libra moon/mars

If I like someone I will just go right up and start talking to them. I smile a lot when I'm flirting (I've been told) and i would touch them on the arm or something... make physical contact some way. If they hadn't made a move by the time I was ready to leave wherever I was at, I would then tell them where I work, or hang out and leave the rest up to fate.

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posted April 04, 2015 01:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for lalalinda     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello confusedaseff! Welcome to LL

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posted April 04, 2015 03:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun in Cancer
Venus in Leo
Scorpio ASC

To let someone know I like them, I must be sure they like me too. It's humiliating for me when someone knows I like them but doesn't reciprocate my feelings :P With my Cancerian sensitiveness and Leonine pride, I take rejection EXTREMELY personally. But when I know that person likes me too, I tend to be cuddly, nuzzle like a cat, smile a lot. In their presence always highlight what is attractive about me. For example I sweep my hair to side or put them in bun, so they can see my long, thin neck And when I'm 300% sure they like me a lot, I get more sexual in my manners and speech...

It's often said that when someone looks at you it means they like you. Not in my case. Just because I look at you doesn't mean I like you in THAT way. I'm just very observant person (typical Scorpio thing. A lot of guys had assumed I like them just because I looked at them Those who didn't like me gave me a disgusted look and ran to the hill for their lives. Those who did like me started to bother me a lot. So I'm trying to control myself and not look at people so much...

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posted April 04, 2015 10:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for confusedaseff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Gemini Raising
Capricorn Sun
Venus Scorpio
Mars Virgo

me, if i want the guy... well keep in mind that i have the scorpio power fetish. first i end up doing research and laying a lot of tests to check reactions and to almost check things off my list. lol that's probably the mars in virgo.

i usually friend him up then during that time get a feel of who he is and if i do like him then i usually go with subtle touching, on purpose scary movies.forward and backward to check reactions to know if i'm going the right direction and then once i decided that yes i like this one. well i'm quite gung ho with how i go about it. it's quite in the face especially if i have a drink or two in me.

usually if theres eye contact is made it's pretty intense on my part. conversation is pretty friendly but then i usually drop in kinky innuendoes here and there to gauge reactions - that usually wakes them up.

i'm a sucker for mind games like ill hang out with him and if someone assumes we're dating ill vehemently protest say we'll never work. see their reaction to it. and if they ask why not then ill purposely say things that they are because it gets them thinking about us together. if he doesn't ask why he's not as in to me. i take the hint and move on. but if he does:

for example. he goes why not? then i go "well i want a man a bit more ...manly, more rough'.. leave him thinking what kind of rough then his ego goes 'wait.. i'm manly! i can be rough!' or ill say 'i want a man that can cook for me' then this guy replied 'well i can cook!' then i just laugh, get right up and close to him, look up and in a teasing way say 'you sound like you're applying for the job!' then drop it and change the convo to something else.

then more cheeky innuendoes here and there. sometimes between us sometimes about someone else. date around - a bit of distance goes a long way.

another option for me if i'm not just thinking of the guy as potential bf but i genuinely like this guy to the point where i think i can fall in love with him.. i put up a bit of a front most of the time. so when the opportunity presents i completely drop the barriers and show that soft side for max. 4-5 minutes. then it's snapped back up. see how he reacts to it. if he's really interested not just in me but in discovering all of me. if he's sort of 'errrrrr' and awkward when that side comes up then i know that he's not the kind of guy that can handle all of this.

ex. my current bf. we were at a party and i kinda disappeared into the empty kitchen. i know that he was keeping an eye on me so he showed up about 3 minutes after and found me alone looking out the window, just drinking looking melancholic as **** which is how i usually get when i'm alone (cap moon) he asked whats on my mind. i replied with that theres just a lot on my mind and went back to my gemini rising and extrovertness. rest of the night he kept an even more intense watch on me (he's scorpio raising) and after that he started conversations right in the deep end, skipping the small talk.

Then well, if I'm sure they like me I'll just go for it and kiss them if they're too chicken **** . Though I hate making the first 'official' move

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posted April 04, 2015 03:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeepFreeze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I walk up, "lemme smang it, girl!!"

Nah... I was going to agree with the Virgo mars post above but that's not me.
(Parts of it, yes)
Idk to be honest. I really don't. I'm just me. I don't really do anything in particular that I'm aware of.
Well, nothing at all for sure now.

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DeeMonroe
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posted April 04, 2015 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for DeeMonroe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Leo Sun
Leo Venus
Virgo Mars
Scorpio Rising

If the feelings are mutual-I'm very affectionate and tender. My focus on that person is intense. When I feel emotionally secure, I become extremely sensual and kinky (;

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posted April 04, 2015 06:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Solar_Leo_Queen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I usually observe the guy first to see if I would match his "expectations". If I feel like I don't, then I work on myself and try improve to actually meet those expectations. I used to change myself into something I think he'd like, but lol that's a bad idea. It's part of that Venus in Virgo insecurity. I find it that I meet the best guys when I'm just myself and I don't even try. So I don't change myself anymore just to get a guy's attention. I'm also pretty shy with that stuff. I don't talk to a guy unless he talks to me first.

I usually also like to make myself look really nice with clothes and makeup and stuff to attract the guy's attention. It works, but only on shallow-a s s dudes. Half the time, it's my personality that gets the good guys, not my looks. This would be Mars in Libra in the 5th house.

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posted April 04, 2015 06:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
...also, my former classmate who is Taurus with Venus in Aries, has come to my mind now When she likes someone, she's very open and lets that person know. I can remember she was into that Gemini "alpha-dog" from our class and was openly going after him. Man, she was coming off so strong that despite her beauty (she has Venus trine Pluto, and almost every girl I've seen, who has this aspect, has great looks envied by other females), she was freaking him out a little bit. He has Venus in Cancer, so he likes girls that are more gentle, passive and demure.

Leo I had crush on has Mars in Cancer, which is considered weak. But he is also kind of person that is quite open when he likes someone. He flirts with girls he likes in cheeky Gemini-like way. Maybe it's because of his Mars sextile Mecury and... Mercury conjunct Casanova! Once, when he was teasing me and stroking my hand and back, I jokingly said "What are you doing? What do you think you are, huh?" He gave me that confident smirk and said "Casanova" :O

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posted April 04, 2015 06:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for confusedaseff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Vixen:
when he was teasing me and stroking my hand and back, I jokingly said "What are you doing? What do you think you are, huh?" He gave me that confident smirk and said "Casanova" :O

damnnnnnnnnnnnnnn that's slick its that lion coming out there he would've had me hooked right there!

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posted April 04, 2015 07:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by confusedaseff:
damnnnnnnnnnnnnnn that's slick its that lion coming out there he would've had me hooked right there!

Well, I believe he would He's SO unbelievably charismatic...

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posted April 04, 2015 08:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for confusedaseff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Vixen:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by confusedaseff:
[b] damnnnnnnnnnnnnnn that's slick its that lion coming out there he would've had me hooked right there!


Well, I believe he would He's SO unbelievably charismatic...

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i'm such a sucker for that. he would've had my cell number, home address, home number just in case, Facebook, twitter etc lol.

but somehow i don't get why while i like these guys i never see anything long term with them. i just see them as a bit of verbal fun. i can't seem to trust very smooth charismatic guys. don't know what part of my chart that is though lol

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posted April 04, 2015 08:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for astra7     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by confusedaseff:
Gemini Raising
Capricorn Sun
Venus Scorpio
Mars Virgo

i'm a sucker for mind games like ill hang out with him and if someone assumes we're dating ill vehemently protest say we'll never work. see their reaction to it. and if they ask why not then ill purposely say things that they are because it gets them thinking about us together. if he doesn't ask why he's not as in to me. i take the hint and move on. but if he does:



Wow, interesting how your mind works confusedaseff! Have you ever thought that IF he doesn't ask, it could be that he's thinking about it and still interested in you? Just because people don't voice something doesn't equate to 'not interested in you.'

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for example. he goes why not? then i go "well i want a man a bit more ...manly, more rough'.. leave him thinking what kind of rough then his ego

If I was this man and you say things like that...I would think you don't like me. See how you could be putting a potential suitor off with your mind game.

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posted April 04, 2015 08:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for confusedaseff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by astra7:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by confusedaseff:
Gemini Raising
Capricorn Sun
Venus Scorpio
Mars Virgo

i'm a sucker for mind games like ill hang out with him and if someone assumes we're dating ill vehemently protest say we'll never work. see their reaction to it. and if they ask why not then ill purposely say things that they are because it gets them thinking about us together. [b]if he doesn't ask why he's not as in to me. i take the hint and move on. but if he does:



[u]Wow, interesting how your mind works confusedaseff! Have you ever thought that IF he doesn't ask, it could be that he's thinking about it and still interested in you? Just because people don't voice something doesn't equate to 'not interested in you.'[/u]

depends on how he acts with everything else. like a tally up of points. you could be right and he's thinking on it or it could be the nail that seals the coffin for me to back off.

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for example. he goes why not? then i go "well i want a man a bit more ...manly, more rough'.. leave him thinking what kind of rough then his ego

[u]If I was this man and you say things like that...I would think you don't like me. See how you could be putting a potential suitor off with your mind game.[/u]

tone of voice counts. joking/teasing. I'm not deadpanning it. if i did obviously he'd be put off and possibly insulted.

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posted April 04, 2015 10:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sun in Aries

Moon in Virgo

Sagittarius Ascendant

I'm not much of a seducer.. I guess I would just talk to them and hope that they like me.

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posted April 05, 2015 12:51 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by confusedaseff:
i'm such a sucker for that. he would've had my cell number, home address, home number just in case, Facebook, twitter etc lol.

but somehow i don't get why while i like these guys i never see anything long term with them. i just see them as a bit of verbal fun. i can't seem to trust very smooth charismatic guys. don't know what part of my chart that is though lol


Lol I like verbal fun too (maybe it's my Eros parallel Mercury an Venus? I LOVE dirty talk, whether am I on giving or receiving end ). Well us females often like guys who are not "right" for us, especially when we are young. But just because that Leo has Casanova prominent in his chart doesn't mean he's not capable of true love. He has currently girlfriend and he LOVES her so much. Well he does not only love her, he WORSHIPS ground she walks on! I wish I knew when she was born...

My father has Aries Sun, Leo Asc and Mars in Gemini. As a 19 years old guy , he was regularly seeing my mother at the bus stop and before they started to get to know each other, he was sticking tongue at her to get her attention!

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posted April 05, 2015 04:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for confusedaseff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Vixen:
Lol I like verbal fun too (maybe it's my Eros parallel Mercury an Venus? I LOVE dirty talk, whether am I on giving or receiving end ). Well us females often like guys who are not "right" for us, especially when we are young. But just because that Leo has Casanova prominent in his chart doesn't mean he's not capable of true love. He has currently girlfriend and he LOVES her so much. Well he does not only love her, he WORSHIPS ground she walks on! I wish I knew when she was born...

i love dirty talk too lol
btw - maybe it's my Eros parallel Mercury an Venus
how did you find that out? i can't find any aspects for my lilith, eros, psyche. none of the more minor planets/asteriods. how did you find it out?

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posted April 05, 2015 05:07 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sven555     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Vixen:
Sun in Cancer
Venus in Leo
Scorpio ASC

For example I sweep my hair to side or put them in bun, so they can see my long, thin neck And when I'm 300% sure they like me a lot, I get more sexual in my manners and speech...


Oh my word, hello there! You'd have me hooked if you did both of those haha!

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Taurus Sun
Aries Venus
Scorpio ASC

Generally, if somebody catches my eye; I will go up to them and start talking to them but only if it's the right time! (e.g. if you're catching a train, i won't but if it's at a social event or party; i am a social butterfly! But each conversation i pour in depth. If someone doesn't reciprocate, then I just carry on the craziness and move onto the next person.

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posted April 05, 2015 06:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by confusedaseff:
i love dirty talk too lol
btw - maybe it's my Eros parallel Mercury an Venus
how did you find that out? i can't find any aspects for my lilith, eros, psyche. none of the more minor planets/asteriods. how did you find it out?

Just out of curiosity, how old are you?

and your bf what sign is he?

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posted April 05, 2015 07:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for confusedaseff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
Just out of curiosity, how old are you?

and your bf what sign is he?


we're in our 20s. bf = scorpio asc, sun gemini, moon taurus, venus taurus, mars leo

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posted April 05, 2015 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for intuitivefish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
thought he could be an air with scorp liking the game playing/word playing

you did sound young but its good, have fun while you are

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posted April 05, 2015 07:50 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for confusedaseff     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by intuitivefish:
thought he could be an air with scorp liking the game playing/word playing

you did sound young but its good, have fun while you are


i asked him, and he said that he viewed it as another game to win at. :P

but said that if my day to day life approach was that he wouldn't be able to stand it. this is just a thread on how we approach men and this is how i approach men if i want them. it's what works and feels the most natural for me.

but day to day - i'm moon and mercury capricorn so no games and when we finally got to know each other on that level and not just flirting and messing with each other then it was actually compatible.

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posted April 05, 2015 08:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Vixen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Sven555:
Oh my word, hello there! You'd have me hooked if you did both of those haha!


My neck is one of my "secret weapons" when seducing guys

Confusedaseff, you can find your parallels (and contarparallels) when you go to astro.com, draw your chart and click on the "Additional tables (PDF)" above it. Once you are there, look at "Declination"

For example: when your sun is 21°36'12''N and Venus in 21°10'30''N, they are in parallel. When your Pluto is 6°48'04''N and Lilith is in 6°13'59''S, they are in contraparallel Maximum orb is 1°20'.

Hope it helps

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