posted April 06, 2015 06:40 AM            

Sweeping statement much????

posted April 06, 2015 07:32 AM            

First hand, they are one of the twelve.
Scorpio moons were a LITTLE cautious but the sun and Venus's were not really cautious more so than anyone else.

posted April 06, 2015 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by ScorpAqua:
It depends on how evolved the Scorpio person is.
The more evolved ones have no need to "test" anyone. They understand that the laws of attraction lie within, that karma is real, and there is no longer a need to hold power over anyone but themselves.
These are the best types of Scorpio to have around, and can have very successful relationships like anyone else.

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Originally posted by babybull82:
I get what the op is saying..

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in my experience they'll be so worried about being hurt by someone they end up stinging themselves. There is only so much testing & power plays a person can take before they just throw their hands up & say "I'm done".

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Then they say "see I told you it'd turn out like this!"

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posted April 06, 2015 12:06 PM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
I am sorry but this is bad astrology to say Scorpios fail in relationship!

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posted April 06, 2015 01:14 PM            

Simply because they aren't afraid of dying alone unlike other signs who are. Scorpios understand that relationship aren't permanent as much as they like and there are limitation in relationship. I guess as any rose tinted glasses Scorpions also start relationship with ideals. They are disappointed by change or realize they have changed. They aren't the one who would live in bad relationship and they have a very clear understanding of what is right and wrong. Scorpions are very strategic and know other people more than they know themselves and when they realize they aren't adding value or are not needed they would leave.
Pluto would never let them live in decay, they would transform when necessary.
Living long term in a bad relationship isn't Scorpio definition of success at relationship. As much as people think scorpio like to control I have found quiet opposite.

posted April 06, 2015 08:30 PM            

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Originally posted by babybull82:
I get what the op is saying..in my experience they'll be so worried about being hurt by someone they end up stinging themselves. There is only so much testing & power plays a person can take before they just throw their hands up & say "I'm done". Then they say "see I told you it'd turn out like this!" Of course like mentioned earlier you'll really only get this from the unevolved ones. I wouldn't necessarily call this a fact, but more of an observation.

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I understand this as well, and not just on romantic relationships but also family, friends, even co-workers. When they won't ever be satisfied until their neurotic fears are confirmed then they're doomed to have them confirmed in their own mind. (In fact, when I hear someone go on about how everyone in their life betrayed them or screwed them over I keep them at a distance or get them out of my life completely because I know it will only be a matter of time before they say it about me and anyone else who makes the mistake of getting close to them.)

posted April 06, 2015 08:33 PM            

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Originally posted by 4lifephrases:
They aren't the one who would live in bad relationship and they have a very clear understanding of what is right and wrong. Scorpions are very strategic and know other people more than they know themselves and when they realize they aren't adding value or are not needed they would leave.

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Not really.

posted April 06, 2015 10:47 PM            

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They aren't the one who would live in bad relationship and they have a very clear understanding of what is right and wrong. Scorpions are very strategic and know other people more than they know themselves and when they realize they aren't adding value or are not needed they would leave.

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If any of this were true Scorpios won't have the reputation they do - vengeful ex.

posted April 06, 2015 10:57 PM            

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Let's face it, they do more testing to find out if a person may be suitable for them yet quite often their relationship fails. LOL

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Their relationships fail because often they're intolerable to live with on a day to day. The tests at the beginning is to gauge how much of their s@#t you'll put up with. While they're aware that not everyone can handle their intensity, it still hurts to be dumped.

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Which makes me think..."Is there point in their scrupulous tests?" LOL

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posted April 07, 2015 11:16 AM            

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All signs are bad at relationship. What do you mean by success at relationship please care to explain ?

Simply because they aren't afraid of dying alone unlike other signs who are. Scorpios understand that relationship aren't permanent as much as they like and there are limitation in relationship. I guess as any rose tinted glasses Scorpions also start relationship with ideals. They are disappointed by change or realize they have changed. They aren't the one who would live in bad relationship and they have a very clear understanding of what is right and wrong. Scorpions are very strategic and know other people more than they know themselves and when they realize they aren't adding value or are not needed they would leave.
Pluto would never let them live in decay, they would transform when necessary.
Living long term in a bad relationship isn't Scorpio definition of success at relationship. As much as people think scorpio like to control I have found quiet opposite.

I can't believe you are happy at somebody's failing. I pity woman who told you about her relationship. They have intuition to know what is needed in their life path to grow not to stagnant them.

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posted April 07, 2015 11:19 AM            

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Their relationships fail because often they're intolerable to live with on a day to day. The tests at the beginning is to gauge how much of their s@#t you'll put up with. While they're aware that not everyone can handle their intensity, it still hurts to be dumped.

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posted April 08, 2015 10:21 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Not really.

I mean they can, but not all of them do. They can be obsessive chasing after people who don't want them and can have a distorted view of others.

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Agreed ! Many have problems letting go but I have found that more with men and even Scorpio rising men.

Hillary Clinton doesn't count. As I have read she still have lots of political goals with Bill. Both needs courage leaving or being there in relationship. It depends what one chooses and what their circumstances are at that time.

posted April 08, 2015 10:26 AM            

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If any of this were true Scorpios won't have the reputation they do - vengeful ex.

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posted April 08, 2015 11:14 AM            

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Originally posted by astra7:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Nine:

Their relationships fail because often they're intolerable to live with on a day to day. [b]The tests at the beginning is to gauge how much of their s@#t you'll put up with. While they're aware that not everyone can handle their intensity, it still hurts to be dumped.

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Nope.[/QUOTE]
LOL....thought so. [/B][/QUOTE]

Nine : Agreed !
You are forgetting people are putting up with your sh%% too. :-) Relationship are 2 way thing isn't it ? Atleast in my experience Scorpios are honest unlike others even open sign like Aries wouldn't tell you things and you have to go figure out how much darkness you are kept in.

Astra : You are male or female ? What is your sign ? Your whole attitude on the thread shows immaturity. Have you just been dumped by Scorpio as you seem very scorned? Lots of pain hidden in humour.

Why do Scorpios do testing ? Everybody does testing. It seems blatantly obvious with Scorpio because they are lot more observing , taking in and being quiet.

I guess like everyone I sense first few things but I still give lot of chances to people, to prove my initial impression wrong unlike Pisces who would have more sense to swim away. Maybe it is mistake to give people chance /second chance and opening up because then nobody would feel like tested and dumped. Maybe we can be better at letting people go.Sometimes we can see other benefits or we are desperate and maybe you are really used by Scorpio. You must be feeling awful!

But as any relationship or any connection I have felt that most people are resentful because they both are thinking they are doing more than others. Some people give to receive rather than enjoying giving on it's own. So it depends whether one is doing conditional love or unconditional love. Scorpio tries to give unconditional love and look out for the same from other people.

It has nothing to do Scorpio in general. Speak of every woman what is the point in looking for Mr. right when you realize that in the end all relationships are going to end up bad/divorce.... LOL

I have felt in fact opposite testing because of being Scorpio. Everybody tests these days whether you are compatible or not. I know loud Leos , chatty Gemini do it and even sensitive Pisces do it...more than Scorpio do it. It is very subtle not forthright but it is there. Nobody trusts anyone and it is rather unfortunate that trust has been one of the hardest commodity due to news on the television or internet / horror stories whatever.

It seems we seem to draw and like more open smiling and talkative people as trustworthy rather than silent, calm and collected people.

One wouldn't spend more than 5 minutes if somebody was rude so why have 1 bad date, 2 bad dates, years and making commitment of long term? Especially Scorpios have intentions to keep those commitments unlike some who don't.

I think you forget that there is compatibility factor which everybody looks out for these days.Since there is no guarantee that relationship is going to go ahead or going to be life long at least - I think one should be able to enjoy it and at least tolerate some of the quirkiness of other person.

posted April 08, 2015 11:33 AM            

Having baby changes dynamic of relationship completely and whether new changes work for everyone, maybe/maybe not.

posted April 08, 2015 12:05 PM            

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@4lifephrases i swear to god the more i read your posts the more i'm falling in love with you

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So 4lifephrases, tell me more about my failed scorpio relationship I didn't have.

posted April 08, 2015 12:26 PM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by confusedaseff:
[b]@4lifephrases i swear to god the more i read your posts the more i'm falling in love with you

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I wouldn't say I love her but loving her post too!
It's the first time I exchange post with her but she already know me! I love encountering people who loves to label. They tell so much about themselves. LOL

So 4lifephrases, tell me more about my failed scorpio relationship I didn't have.

you posted a question. she and the others replied. we're all going by your posts. if you don't like the impression she's getting from your post you should maybe proof read a bit more because there is a bite coming off of your posts that can lead people to assume. And thats because they're just trying to understand where you're coming from.

posted April 08, 2015 12:32 PM            

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Originally posted by confusedaseff:
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I wouldn't say I love her but loving her post too!
It's the first time I exchange post with her but she already know me! I love encountering people who loves to label. They tell so much about themselves. LOL

So 4lifephrases, tell me more about my failed scorpio relationship I didn't have.

you posted a question. she and the others replied. we're all going by your posts. if you don't like the impression she's getting from your post you should maybe proof read a bit more because there is a bite coming off of your posts that can lead people to assume. And thats because they're just trying to understand where you're coming from.

we don't know the nature of the relationships you've had with scorpio people in your life so we don't know whether they've been positive or negative. But if any scorpio has ever hurt you in anyway - yes you have the right to feel the way you do but you do not have the right to take it out on us -who are just here to reply to the question you asked, by giving attitude through your posts. [/B]

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I don't know what scorpio relationship I had....not that I know of so there is no hard feeling. Just an observation from other people's relationship failure made me think what's all that testing...you know.

But thanks for your lecture. I love your post as per my previous.