posted April 08, 2015 01:28 PM            

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We do fight to death and turn from best friends to worst enemies all Libra Marses I know are the kind to interfere in a conflict in the street where everyone fears to intervene or the first to jump in a stormy sea to save an unknown fellow, so everyone calling Mars in Libra cowards, think again! and check the famous Mars in Libra people and what they stand for.

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Actually, this reminds me of the only time I’ve ever been punched by anyone. I stepped in to stop a fight from happening and I ended up being punched.

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Originally posted by midnightvenus:

This isn't "drama".
This was me standing up for myself and expecting a FRIEND to be by my side.
Especially because I'd do the same for any friend of mine and even strangers.
This is what friendship is about.

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Well, we will have to agree to disagree. Cat calling from a stranger isn’t something that I (not I bet your friend neither) think needs standing up for. Just ignore them.

posted April 08, 2015 07:56 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
So is this how a Scorpio in Mars woman would handle catcallers?
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qVO3sNcJ7A8

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posted April 08, 2015 08:48 PM            

Generally, this mars severely lacks the impulse that makes a maritian a maritian. Libra mars can be considered inefficient. They would rather "beat around the bush" than come right out with it, which answers a few of your questions. More aggressive mars easily outrank this mars in terms of results, because they're indecisive and waste time.

I'm not impeding the ability of this mars to get ANY results, btw. I strongly believe every mars can accomplish something. However, the passivity and non confrontational behaviour is why this mars is in detriment.

posted April 08, 2015 10:10 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
It can be both. An example of passive aggressive bullying would be pretending to be wanting to help but intentionally giving wrong information, or saying "you should join me and my friends" only to pretend such an invite was never given and the group excludes (because the passive aggressive bully has already poisoned them against the target).

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People actually do stuff like this? That sounds like such a waste of time to me. I just wouldn't invite them or help them lol I'd pretend they didn't even exist!!! I hate when people are fake so I'd never go out of my way to be that way. But a person will know if I don't like them just by me simply not dealing with them or talking to them. And if it came down to it they could ask me and I'd be upfront about it and tell them why I don't care for them..but in the nicest way possible of course .

posted April 08, 2015 10:47 PM            

I could see passive aggressive, but a lot of that is just perspective. Someone trying to avoid a conflict can inaccurately be called passive aggressive just as someone who tells you straight up without any games can be called a rude jerk. For many people it's really more an expression of how they feel about you rather than your behavior and can praise the very same behavior in someone else that they do like (or whose side they take), which is to say it's more of a subjective judgment based on feelings than an objective one based on behavior.

posted April 09, 2015 05:02 PM            

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Originally posted by GypseeWind:
Mars in Libra is a strategist..
We can manipulate how something will turn out (like an argument) bc we are able to see where it's going, thus play our hand accordingly. It is an AIR Mars after all. So thinking is going to be the oompf behind the action.

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Totally agree with this. An angry Mars in Libra can use words in s lethal way, especially if you have done something to offend their sense of justice.

I know of an extreme case with Sun in Virgo, Moon in Aries and Mars in Libra. His modus operandi is either to pick on or criticize a person relentlessly until s/he has finally had enough and takes the bait which is his cue to turn on the victim and blame him/her for being aggressive OR he will complain bitterly under his breath about everything and anything until everyone around him is thoroughly miserable because they feel so bad that they have not lived up to his expectations of perfection. He is very reactive due to his Aries Moon, and believes he has to shout at people to get them to listen. His core belief is that he is very hard done by in life - it is all so unfair. He finds it difficult to take joy in other people's success, as he feels that this happens only because they have an unfair advantage of some kind (that he doesn't have). Basically, he thinks that most people are unreliable, incompetent idiots who take no pride in their work or themselves and he doesn't suffer these "fools" gladly.

On the plus side, he is very motivated to work exceptionally hard to get things done right down to the smallest detail .... I suppose this is only fair (libra) if he expects perfection from everyone else!

posted April 09, 2015 06:58 PM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
I am curious what kind of bully a Libra Mars can be (I hope other aspects are included as in the case of Swanlake's sister), especially the tactics and the reasons the Libra Mars gives for knowingly trying to demean or even terrorize someone repeatedly (many bullies will, no matter how stupid the reasons may sound to someone else, and I'd expect a Libran bully could write an essay on why they're targeting someone for abuse--not to say they therefore have good reason to, only that I'd expect they'd GIVE a reason that at least sounded good to themselves and be willing to share those reasons with others, especially when trying to get others to join in with the Libra).

I could see passive aggressive, but a lot of that is just perspective. Someone trying to avoid a conflict can inaccurately be called passive aggressive just as someone who tells you straight up without any games can be called a rude jerk. For many people it's really more an expression of how they feel about you rather than your behavior and can praise the very same behavior in someone else that they do like (or whose side they take), which is to say it's more of a subjective judgment based on feelings than an objective one based on behavior.

The absolutely worst are those who just use the strongest words they can think of which is meant to show how much they really dislike the person (and why you should, too) rather than expressing clear ideas and I hope that's not the case in this thread (but I don't think it is in this case, especially as the OP herself said she could be one).

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In my sister's case, yes there are other aspects (eg she has 8th house stellium incl Sun/Pluto)which would account for the sheer force behind her verbal assaults..The thing is she herself believes that the fact of having mars in Libra makes her "fair". But she is not fair. When in attack mode, She goes all out and (in machine gun fire mode) says all the nastiest things she can think of, (just as you describe above) designed to cause pain, ..which I could never bring myself to do, no matter how angry.