posted April 19, 2015 09:05 AM            

I think natal Pluto-Venus aspects definitely have characteristics we can all relate to- strong sexual nature, emotional intensity, obsessions, etc. But most of us really are driven people, living purposeful lives, so as amazing as this energy is, it can't just be. It can't be a roller coaster ride for the sake of being a roller coaster ride. This roller coaster goes somewhere, as Freespirit talks about in the link SaturnFan posted above.

I think Pluto-Venus naturally has a deep understanding of the power of sex and love for good or evil, and how to wield that power. I cannot seem to fit myself into a traditional relationship. There is turmoil, disappointment, heartbreak. But I have also noticed that every single relationship I have had has a teacher/student, healer/patient nature to it. Maybe all do. I don't know. But I have noticed that I am attracted to men I think can teach me something. The men I have committed to seriously, were philosophers or scholars. Here's the catch, the tables always turn, and I am always surprised to find myself in the role of either the teacher or the healer. I know that my love heals, and I know that I am a very good teacher because I teach with love. Sex is where things get messy, because I don't have a good grasp or understanding of my sexuality. Sure I'm free, I'm open, I'm wild, I'm daring, intense...but those attributes are superficial. I need to get a hold of my sexual energy, understand it and use it in the positive way I use my affection and compassion. When I am healing and teaching, I am healed and can learn.

I think Pluto-Venus can be a practitioner of love and sex for personal good and the good of others. This practice can be in monogamous relationship or a less conventional relationship. My Venus-Uranus trine really doesn't care how you do it

posted April 19, 2015 09:10 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Ha ha! I'm glad you get it Gabby.

But, ah, WOW! Venus conjunct Pluto on your AC? That seems like serious business. Maybe more intense than the square, but in a good way? I don't know. I'm curious about the conjunction.

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Ya, there's no hiding from Pluto when it's sitting 3 degrees off your AC. Ppl always have serious reactions to me. I can't just walk into a room and be invisible because ppl notice and remember you even if your doing nothing noteworthy at all.
I would not be a good theif or runner for some illegal job, because I can't be invisible.

posted April 19, 2015 10:02 PM            

I've also been attracted to those I feel I can learn from. They can be intellectuals of some kind but not necessarily so just as long as there's something I can learn (they don't have to teach me, mind you, rather I learn from them--learning and being taught aren't always the same thing) and I end up teaching them some things as well.

posted April 20, 2015 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by sis:
venus2tinkerbell@ hi soul sista I am the same. But wonder what trs Pluto conjucnt Venus pull out of my natal Venus square Pluto... I had Pluto conjunct ascendant, sun, mercury.. Pluto is on Venus now but due to retograde it will take some time to be exact. The only difference from previous conjunctions is it is and will be opposing Saturn at the same time. 1st-7th hs.

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Hi soul sis, you know Pluto has a feel to it. The themes change slightly, but Pluto's method doesn't. I think since you've had Pluto on your Ascendant, identifying and working with tPluto conjunct your Venus will be easier. Just keep telling yourself that being alert, open, and ready for the lesson is worth the struggle. The fruits are worth it.

posted April 20, 2015 04:40 PM            

The previous tr.Pluto conjunctions were hard. A lot of agony inside, dark & obsessive thoughts, max. intensity, being very intimidating, not trusting anyone, feeling insecure yet ready to chop heads off, keeping people at arm's length, feeling million miles away... changes inside & outside...

I know with Pluto instead of resisting the changes, one should go with the flow. But I could not do it. The period was more like trying acceptance but failing all the time.

I am really looking forward to the days where trs.Pluto won't be touching any planet activating my natal squares. auwww that lightness, being at peace with yourself, with the world, with existance even the thought of it is very relaxing. Yeah, those days will come !

universe saved the last dance with Pluto for Venus and Saturn Ah Saturn... Saturn, my grace and my curse...

posted May 17, 2015 05:08 AM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
I'm always possessive. What's mine is mine. Even if I'm sharing, once what's mine has been identified, it's mine.

I don't see jealousy and possessiveness as the same. In jealousy, I act out. Where what's mine is concerned, be ready for war.

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I agree to this totally, my ex have venus sq pluto. What's hers is hers. Seems to mind even when I'm talking to colleagues. And she'll show out that "I'm hers".

posted May 18, 2015 06:13 AM            

If I ever find myself acting out in a jealous rage one night- I hope I'm not too far gone to just end the relationship next day. Anger and loss of control- I'm capable of it, but it just doesn't suit me. I can't deal with the sick feeling I get in the pit of my stomach.

posted May 18, 2015 07:03 AM            

Your partner does not belong to you.
They're an human being with thoughts, feelings, and their OWN lives.
They're their own person.
They >chose< to be with you, and they can choose to leave anytime.
Jealousy/possessiveness is about sense of entitlement and lack of confidence, either in your partner or in yourself.