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Topic: Dating Scorpio Moon...
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 17297 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 06, 2015 03:57 PM
quote: Originally posted by DaniPepper87: It really was like that. I wasn't in Hell, but he put me there! He usually asked: 'why do I need to be happy?' I said: "because of those who love you want this, and for your own good!"... The anwers was: "But nobody loves me"...Sorry, but even me with a ASC and Sun in Scorpio is tooooo much. My Leo Moon is uplift, loves to have good times.... but no way to become a psycologist of a "maybe-to-be" long-term boyfriend who still tests you. Sorry but for the next time I cross some Scorpio Moon, I'll run away from him!!
Actually, that Moon is not bad for you. It was his Mars, you need an Aries or Libra Mars A fixed Sun Moon is a good placement for you. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... LeeLoo's Esotericorner Connect for updates IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 2705 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 07, 2015 06:24 AM
quote: Originally posted by moonlightx: Yep, I'm a Gemini moon (with an Aquarius Venus)I can't justify him being glued to his phone in your presence though. I find that's just rude. :/ I think you should let him know how that makes you feel, he may lay off it a bit. If you two are pretty close, he may feel like it's okay for him to be super casual with you. I do know Aquarius suns usually have a large network of friends and love interacting in a group, just not particularly in an intimate way. I hope things get better between you! 
The Aquarius and Sagittarius connection can be super unemotional at the best of times. But it is one that seems to pull the two together again and again.  He has his Asc in Cap with Saturn squaring it. I have Saturn conjunct Venus myself. IP: Logged |
Doux Rêve Moderator Posts: 9664 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 07, 2015 06:58 AM
I wouldn't "advise" you to run away simply because he has a Moon/Pluto conjunction in Scorpio. Does that conjunction trine his Cancer Mars? What are the aspects to his Venus?At any rate, Scorpio Moons can be exceptionally loving and devoted, if they feel like you're worth it and can be trusted. The hard part is getting to that point. Where they feel like you're safe for them. But emotional consistency, clarity of intentions and *intensity* (don't forget the passion) are pretty good ways for winning their trust (now I'm not entirely sure it's as effective for males with that placement, but for women it can definitely work). Interestingly, I've seen quite a few males with Scorpio Moon get entangled in complicated emotional situations, such as being attracted to someone who's already taken, or who somehow makes them suffer. But I believe that's the "lower" manifestation - having that attraction to complexity, drama, etc. In more mature form, it can be a wonderful placement, assuming you're into intensity, intimacy and devotion. (If you need lots of space and like flirting with others, there might be a problem.) As someone else pointed out, making them feel *accepted* and at least somewhat understood (making them feel like they're "okay" with being the way they are, and feeling the things they do) can go a long way. Obviously if they're struggling with depression or negativistic tendencies, you shouldn't go along with it and reinforce such distorted beliefs; in such a case, the Scorpio Moon isn't in a place where they can have a healthy relationship and need to work on themselves first. IP: Logged |
whaaat Knowflake Posts: 556 From: Portland, MA,U.S Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 07, 2015 08:08 PM
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karenkellybella Knowflake Posts: 111 From: Atlanta, GA, USA Registered: Mar 2015
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posted May 07, 2015 11:20 PM
quote: Originally posted by charlie: I have dated quite a few Scorpio Moons and they all drank alcohol, lots of it. Drama was also popular along with reclusive behavior just to "test" how stable and loyal I was. So aim for this 
Thank you!!! I'm dating a Scorpio Moon and he's suddenly gone AWOL on me. When he bothers to reply it's terse and he won't elaborate. If he answers the phone, he is short and always "has to go." My sun is conjunct his lilith and our liliths are opposite. Part of me wants to tell him to FRO but for some reason, I can't walk away. I'm NEVER one to put up with BS from a man. But this guy has me, hook, line and sinker. He had an awful childhood and I know he has trust issues. I just can't tell if he's a total ******* /liar. For the first month he told me I scared him because I am the woman he would have wished into being for himself and we talked about everything - we were finishing each other's sentences. Now, radio silence. It occurred to me that he was testing me and this kid of confirmed that. Thank you. IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2746 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted May 08, 2015 01:16 PM
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LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 17297 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted May 10, 2015 05:58 AM
quote: Originally posted by Doux Rêve: I wouldn't "advise" you to run away simply because he has a Moon/Pluto conjunction in Scorpio. Does that conjunction trine his Cancer Mars? What are the aspects to his Venus?At any rate, Scorpio Moons can be exceptionally loving and devoted, if they feel like you're worth it and can be trusted. The hard part is getting to that point. Where they feel like you're safe for them. But emotional consistency, clarity of intentions and *intensity* (don't forget the passion) are pretty good ways for winning their trust (now I'm not entirely sure it's as effective for males with that placement, but for women it can definitely work). Interestingly, I've seen quite a few males with Scorpio Moon get entangled in complicated emotional situations, such as being attracted to someone who's already taken, or who somehow makes them suffer. But I believe that's the "lower" manifestation - having that attraction to complexity, drama, etc. In more mature form, it can be a wonderful placement, assuming you're into intensity, intimacy and devotion. (If you need lots of space and like flirting with others, there might be a problem.) As someone else pointed out, making them feel *accepted* and at least somewhat understood (making them feel like they're "okay" with being the way they are, and feeling the things they do) can go a long way. Obviously if they're struggling with depression or negativistic tendencies, you shouldn't go along with it and reinforce such distorted beliefs; in such a case, the Scorpio Moon isn't in a place where they can have a healthy relationship and need to work on themselves first.
Lovely post! Douxie how are you? I am glad to see you back! IP: Logged | |