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Topic: I dont know why it's hard for me to have superficial small talkconversations.
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peony Knowflake Posts: 906 From: U.S. Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 11, 2015 05:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Plut0nian2: Hey! Me too! Ican't stand those nonsense talks I don't know what shows this tendency in someone's chart but I've noticed that Scorpio Mercuries (when Moon and Venus are in Water or Earth sign) tend to hate small talks An people with Mercury in Libra tend to love so much those silly talks I am a Cancer Sun, ASC and Mercury, Pisces Moon, Leo Mars Venus and Jup I really can't understand what inmychart shows that I hate superficial/small talks so much.. Pluto in Scorpio (in 5th H) is my strongest planet because it's aspecting almost all my personal planets Saturn in Aqua in my 8th may show that too.. I also have Mercury in 1st and Sun in 12th I don't really know :/
Hi Plut0nian2, Two things stand out: Pluto being so active in your chart, plus the preponderance of water sign placements. Pluto doesn't tolerate shallowness or superficiality. Also, in addition to the sensitivity, awareness of vulnerability, and depth of feeling of the water signs, they want to know about the meanings of things. IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 11, 2015 11:06 PM
quote: Originally posted by peony: Hi Geminiyoungster. I'd like to add to SDragon's comments about your yod. The base of the yod is the Moon-Mercury sextile which needs to be integrated with the Uranus-Neptune conjunction. Uranus-Neptune is the focal point for the energies of the base. Think of the sextile as the springboard energetically for the Uranus-Neptune conjunction. As SDragon mentioned, the energies don't naturally synthesize and work together harmoniously so there is some struggle and working through involved. Moon-Mercury, without considering Uranus-Neptune, is an excellent aspect for all mental activities and matters relating to the 3H: writing, speaking, and all ways of communicating information, news, and ideas. Moon-Mercury in major aspect is often seen in people whose work involves communicating with the public in some way. Moon-Mercury aspecting Uranus and Neptune suggests to me that there's a higher dimension to your thought processes, ideas, and interests, beyond the mundane arena of news and information. Uranus-Neptune relates to the philosophical and spiritual underpinnings of any given civilization and culture. In other words, Uranus-Neptune is about the metaphysical structures of existence and the nature of Reality, capital "R." What your yod suggests to me is that your work involves equipping yourself so that you have the capacity to tune into the higher dimensions of Uranus-Neptune and bring through and imbed into the material plane ideas, inspirations, teachings, a new vision of reality for the benefit of people and yourself. To interpret what you hear or see and intuit in a way that anyone can understand. As part of the Uranus-Neptune group, I believe it's why you incarnated at this moment of our history. I don't know if you live in the West, but to give you a context it helps to know where we are in our collective history. We're living in a post-modern era, where we're leaving behind old world views and are on our way to a new one. Currently, we're in between, and there's a great deal of flux and instability happening because the old institutions and ways of looking at the world and reality are changing. But potentially, this opens the way to new ways of solving world problems and greater creativity. This is what I believe the Uranus-Neptune generation is here for. I think you in particular are a teacher, whether formally or not, with both Sun and Mercury, the ruler, in your 9H, Moon in the 11H, and NN in Sagittarius in the 3H. See if any of this resonates with you.
I've always kinda imagined myself being a teacher for some reason, but I feel like sometimes that my energy is scattered on what I really want to do in life. I've also always felt like if I got away from my hometown that I would meet or encounter new experiences that would make me grow as an individual. But this was a very insightful great input. Thank you so much!
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Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 11, 2015 11:10 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: Mercury in Gemini likes to talk small. So i found this a little unusual.So after some exploring, I found that Mercury is in the 9th house-its detriment house. But even so, the Mercury in Gemini is still advantageous and would cause someone to talk excessively in the 9th house. Then I also found that Pluto in Scorpio is close to conjunct the cusp of the 3rd house. And that was it.
Yes, that third house cusp has a lot to do with it. It's just something about my speaking that can turn some people off or make them uncomfortable. I just love to get down to the bottom of things and i've come to learn that some ppl don't like that. Therefore, I just keep my mouth shut. Thank you!
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Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 11, 2015 11:15 PM
quote: Originally posted by Koho: Your Mercury is in the 9th house, the house of higher studies, spirituality/religion, etc.You have Jupiter in the 1st house, the house of the self, and your life and Jupiter is the ruler of the 9th house. I'm a Jupiter in the 1st house as well (but Scorpio Mercury in the 6th) I'll break it to you now - most people are not going to learn and study as much as you will with Jupiter in the 1st. Get used to knowing a lot about a lot of things and feeling somewhat frustrated that most people don't know much about a lot of things. I do credit Jupiter in the 1st as a good teacher's aspect so you may be frustrated with small talk/superficial talk but you will also be an effective teacher. You won't always be the smartest in the room but you will often be smarter than your age group. I suggest befriending an older crowd that can teach you and satisfy the Jupiter in the 1st/Mercury in the 9th need for higher learning. Jupiter in the 1st house just makes the thirst for knowing a lifelong thing. I've been out of my undergrad for years now and all I want to do is study more. I'll eventually get my Masters and my Phd. In the meantime I read a book or two a week, listen to audiobooks while running or commuting (I cut out music as wasteful in exchange for knowledge) You may find as you get older you'll take on studious habits like this. Many people don't bother studying after school or work but you will. Probably even more so than me. With my Mercury in the 6th I study things that will advance my daily work and career. You have Mercury in the 9th making your want of knowledge more genuine and probably stronger.
Yesss! I agree with this so much! I always want to learn about life and philosophy in general. I'm on the verge of finding good audiobooks and podcast that I can listen to as well while working and walking. I just love to learn about new things and converse them back and forward with like minded ppl. Too bad I can't find any of them in real life, haha. This is what actually attracted me too astrology because I feel like it's so interesting! Thank you so much. This was very insightful! IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 11, 2015 11:17 PM
quote: Originally posted by TensionEmpire: Where is your Lilith? Is it on the 3 House?
It's actually in the 7th house. never paid attention to Lilith. IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 11, 2015 11:46 PM
quote: Originally posted by Yanmorg: I am the exact same way. It's very difficult and uncomfortable for me to idly sit and converse about surface subjects or the usual "hi" and "bye" scenario. I have concentrated Scorpio stellium, 6th house. Sun, mercury, Venus, Jupiter, Pluto) My mercury in Scorpio is retrograde. My 3rd house is ruled by cancer. Gemini rules my 2nd house. Virgo rules my 6th house. I have my Sun, Mars, and ASC all square Saturn. Mercury conjunct jupiter. Mercury sextile chiron. Mercury conjunct Nessus.
I can see that you would love to take it to a more deep level, but it's like sometimes I love to talk about things. howver, some ppl can go on and on and My gemini mercury gets bored with it after awhile and want more depth.
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Aries23Degrees Knowflake Posts: 2251 From: South Africa Registered: Dec 2012
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posted May 12, 2015 03:17 AM
The fact that you took the time to read and answer every single response Geminiyoungster is praiseworthy .You deserve a bells!!! IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 12, 2015 10:29 AM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: The fact that you took the time to read and answer every single response [b]Geminiyoungster is praiseworthy .You deserve a bells!!![/B]
Haha, I try to!! I hate when people don't try to reply back, especially when you make the thread. Haha
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Randall Webmaster Posts: 54558 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 14, 2015 04:09 PM
quote: Originally posted by Aries23Degrees: The fact that you took the time to read and answer every single response [b]Geminiyoungster is praiseworthy .You deserve a bells!!![/B]
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peony Knowflake Posts: 906 From: U.S. Registered: Dec 2014
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posted May 14, 2015 04:42 PM
What Aries said! IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 54558 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted May 16, 2015 09:56 PM
It's a Gemini thing. IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted May 17, 2015 01:54 AM
quote: Originally posted by Randall: It's a Gemini thing.
How is it a Gemini thing though? Geminis love superficial conversation, well that's what I heard. This site and a bunch of others stay this, especially gemini mercury. IP: Logged |
StillTippin Newflake Posts: 16 From: Houston, Tx Registered: Jun 2015
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posted July 02, 2015 08:16 AM
quote: Originally posted by aleenaxo: I'm 17 and still in high school and I am way past superficial conversations. Had to cut off people in my life.
U sound like me at that exact same age IP: Logged |
Gabby Moderator Posts: 6718 From: Registered: Sep 2012
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posted July 02, 2015 08:20 AM
That's a 12th house issue for sure! I have a 12th house moon and small talk makes me feel suffocated! IP: Logged |
DopGang Knowflake Posts: 170 From: Registered: Jun 2015
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posted July 02, 2015 09:11 AM
I still don't like them and I'm quite a bit older. It makes me feel annoyed/irritated. As I've gotten older I can see their benefit.
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aleenaxo Knowflake Posts: 359 From: Registered: Nov 2013
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posted July 02, 2015 12:52 PM
quote: Originally posted by StillTippin: U sound like me at that exact same age
Haha that's nice to hear that it's not just me! I prefer intense intellectual conversations that stimulate my mind any day. IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 04, 2015 04:08 AM
quote: Originally posted by Gabby: That's a 12th house issue for sure! I have a 12th house moon and small talk makes me feel suffocated!
I don't have any 12 house placement, but the cusp of 12 house, which is in virgo! I bet that would make you suffocated. IP: Logged |
Geminiyoungster Knowflake Posts: 222 From: Registered: Jun 2013
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posted July 04, 2015 04:10 AM
Wow this thread came back from the dead hahahahahaha!IP: Logged |