posted May 10, 2015 01:18 AM            

Thing is with Gemini Sun, it is hard to tell whether they are interested or just flirting?

It s encouraging though that he responds with long texts and asks question. Add to that the fact that he additionally talks to you at work.

Thing is that with your fast paced Aries Mars and dreamy Venus Pisces,you could already be dreaming about the romantic match up between you and he.

The beginning stages of any coupling can be tricky. Getting the ball rolling from the friend-zone to the zone of all possibilities ,is often marred with uncertainty.

I would say that you should ask him out on a proper date and really dig into whether or not his affections for you are platonic.

From my experience,Gemini males are not intimidated when it is not them who make the 1st move.

They tend to think/believe that they'll dominate the conversation anyway.Doesn't matter who does the initial asking

posted May 10, 2015 02:57 AM            

It will show which planets react with which etc. According to modality.

A planet is said to be square/opposite another placement if within the same degrees ,very close or in the same modality;

Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius, Leo are Fixed.
Cancer,Capricorn, Libra, Aries
Sag, Gem, Pisces, Virg

1.Cancer Moon 18.48 will square Mars in Aries 18.48.

2.Cancer Moon 18.48 will not square Mars in Aries 00.42.

3.Cancer Moon 18.48 will oppose Caprciron Mars 18.48.

4.Cancer Moon 18.48 will not oppose Mars in Capricorn 00.42.

In the above 4,1 and 3 examples have an exact orb(no distance between two degree points) and are a more potent and a visible square/opposition.

posted May 10, 2015 01:59 PM            

But Neptune(Cap)does square your natal Sun in Aries- making the Aries nature a little dulled down.

So that means that the Aries energy influences much of the Asc.

But the Neptune also influences your Asc position by opposition and indirectly through the square aspect with the Sun(as mentioned earlier).

Now I understand where the reservation comes from: As Capricorn Neptune influence is self-conscious,cautious,fearful and traditional by nature.

I think you would prefer it if he made the 1st move. But we don't know if he will ever.

This is very tricky as you really don't want to hang yourself out there to dry.

My advise would be to continue gauging him out:Since he responds to your sms, perhaps it would be better and more face-saving to ask the things that you want to know then?

i.e You can say " we have been chatting for a while now and I feel like I really like the way your brain is wired. Do you think it would be too forward of me to ask you to go out for coffee sometime?"

The good thing about messaging someone is that you are not there to get the response directly from them or bear the awkwardness.

But you really gotta bite the bullet with this one. Or you will always be left wondering. Some guys just need that extra nudge.

If he has a girlfriend and they are serious, you can brush it down. But you need to take a chance and see where it goes.

posted May 10, 2015 07:54 PM              

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Originally posted by babasheep:
Lately (my whole life, actually) it seems like everyone I like is either unavailable or not interested back. The guys who do like me, I am not interested in at all. I am starting to fear that this is a pattern in my life. I am totally not trying to be dramatic, but I believe planetary placements can reveal some of our destiny, so I am just curious if you saw something negative in my chart. I have had experiences before, but never a proper boyfriend. I am 23.

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Don't be down about it babasheep, you're still very young and you sound bright, interested in things (eg music) and articulate. You will find someone special I'm sure.

I'm 50 and I'm still holding out for the right guy! lol Maybe start worrying then!

PS, I get what you're saying about initially not being attracted to someone and them growing on you. Happened to me with all my long term relationships!

posted May 12, 2015 03:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Jo B:
Don't be down about it babasheep, you're still very young and you sound bright, interested in things (eg music) and articulate. You will find someone special I'm sure.

I'm 50 and I'm still holding out for the right guy! lol Maybe start worrying then!

PS, I get what you're saying about initially not being attracted to someone and them growing on you. Happened to me with all my long term relationships!

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I romanticize so much about being that young. I feel like life gets much sweeter then.

It must be my Saturn-Venus conjunct. But since its in Scorpio,I don't think it prescribes holistically to the Cap energy.

Mercury however is in Cap. And I do find myself prone to speaking "proper" and thinking things like "as I reach those years,I am becoming more...." etc.

posted May 12, 2015 03:55 AM            

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Originally posted by babasheep:
He has a gf. He just told everyone that he cannot make it to a work event because his gf is busy. I guess I have to redirect my energies somewhere else I say this while I am obsessing over an album he recommended to me...

I have a limited amount of knowledge when it comes to astrology, so please bear with me if this question seems vague. I really like your analysis of my birth chart, is there an aspect in there that makes me unlucky in love?

Lately (my whole life, actually) it seems like everyone I like is either unavailable or not interested back. The guys who do like me, I am not interested in at all. I am starting to fear that this is a pattern in my life. I am totally not trying to be dramatic, but I believe planetary placements can reveal some of our destiny, so I am just curious if you saw something negative in my chart. I have had experiences before, but never a proper boyfriend. I am 23.

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I don't see anything 'wrong' with you chart at all. You are just very 'feeling" Aries. And those are not easy to come by, so you can definitely count yourself in the region of the precious few that we need on this planet

You have both Venus/Mars and Asc in water signs. And that makes you a very feeling person.

Any chart that has Pisces in, tend to speak of someone who is naturally idealistic,romantic and prone to infatuation.

Pisces can love pretty deep-without defenses.And this can equal heartbreak-should things not work out.

As a Moon Cancer/Venus Scorpio myself, I tend to go well with Pisces energy and understand the emotive level quite well.

I think its important for you to realize that the kind of love that you give is rare. So just be patient and mindful that not everyone will respond in kind. Nor understand your POV.

So the Gemini didn't work out?That's too bad. Please keep moving. As he is not all there is out there.

One day you'll meet up with an equally sensitive Pisces, maybe a passionate Cancer or a very protective Scorpio?

Then you will no longer have to do much explaining in how you are feeling and why. The joy will just be in "being" your deep sensual self.

Just keep moving

posted May 13, 2015 09:05 AM            

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Originally posted by babasheep:
Thanks, Koniucha! Everyone is really helpful.

Aries 23- I love Scorpios, so I am glad you think I would be compatible with one! I always thought it would not work out with one because I am an Aries, but now that I think about it, all my closest friends are Scorpios! I adore their loyalty and unwavering confidence.

Koniucha- What is your sign? Do you have a lot of water in your chart as well?

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