posted May 12, 2015 05:57 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Does the moon square Pluto placement make Someone close to their mother? It seems so hard to be a Capricorn moon! Would you feel smothered with a Pisces moon? After reading everyone's posts I just want to give each of you a hug!

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posted May 13, 2015 01:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
Lol, of course Cap moons are capable of feelings and emotions. They're still human. They're just not the type that wears their emotions on their sleeves. Cap moons are fearful of emotions because they don't like feeling out of control. They are absolutely terrified of rejection and betrayal. Opening yourself up to someone makes you vulnerable, and when you are vulnerable, you can get hurt. I wouldn't say he's jaded, but he might've been hurt badly in the past and is being extra cautious.

He will open himself up to you when he feels you are trustworthy. You can get him to trust you by being reliable. Too often people lean on Capricorn moons during tough times probably because Capricorn moons are notorious for appearing like they have everything under control. This can become exhausting as you can imagine. In order to have him fall for you, it's important to show him that he can lean on you. You just need to show him that it's safe for him to show his vulnerable side.

How do you accomplish this? Simply listen to him if he talks to you about his problems. Never dismiss his problems as being insignificant even if they appear petty to you. He will shut down and will never open up to you again. Do not offer advice unless he asks for it. If he does ask for advice, give practical advice. Capricorn moons admire practicality and good problem solving skills.

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Does this go for Cap suns as well? Fear of showing true emotions plus afraid of being rejected and betrayed?

posted May 13, 2015 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
^^^^ I have known both cap Suns and moons. I'd say that cap Suns are much less affected by rejection than cap moon.

Cap sun tend to view life as a ladder to climb. Cap moons want a career but mostly for their sense of security (moony needs) as they probably grow up learning that things aren't always there. Cap sun however don't have that feelings as much as a drive to be seen as accomplished.

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Yeah, i get the whole achieving success and all... but Cap sun are also very guarded with their true emotions as well... wanted to see if this is true from other perspectives?

posted May 13, 2015 10:13 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
He is so guarded with his emotions! He told me today that he used to be very romantic but he's not like that anymore and he doesn't have a heart anymore. Yikes.. I think the Venus Scorpio wants to come out but his Capricorn Moon is saying "noooooooo!"

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I would say to not look so much into his 'issues' or what he says. Have fun with him, take things lightly and the connection for now. You don't have to solve his every life problems at all. What i learned is that the more you try to pry open someone who is guarded with their emotions for whatever reasons, the more you will not only hurt them, but you will also hurt yourself! if he tells you these stuff, don't put too much energy or mind into it, but just take notes of it and then put it to the side. What he said to you above is not a reflection of who you are.. those are his insecurities etc. If he goes for it, then awesome. If not, then keep it moving, he wasn't the person for you.

posted May 15, 2015 12:39 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
He is so guarded with his emotions! He told me today that he used to be very romantic but he's not like that anymore and he doesn't have a heart anymore. Yikes.. I think the Venus Scorpio wants to come out but his Capricorn Moon is saying "noooooooo!"

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posted May 15, 2015 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
He is so guarded with his emotions! He told me today that he used to be very romantic but he's not like that anymore and he doesn't have a heart anymore. Yikes.. I think the Venus Scorpio wants to come out but his Capricorn Moon is saying "noooooooo!"

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And he will keep saying nooooooo until he feels like saying yeeees.

posted May 15, 2015 12:53 PM            

But I think I'm going to back off from him, I don't know if he's uninterested or what, but we talk every day and he hasn't taken initiative to ask me out. Both times we went out before I instigated.