posted May 13, 2015 02:16 PM            

Also, if you can't be bothered answering every single question, you can go for just one or a couple.
Answer whichever questions are more relevant to you

So here it goes -

1. Do you consider yourself obsessive in love or clingy? If yes... what makes you feel this way? Is it a lack of trust in the other person or is it emotional neediness or something else entirely?

2. Is it possible for you to be close friends with a person of the opposite sex (or whichever sex you are attracted to) and not fall in love with them? Have you ever had a best friend of the opposite sex?

3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?

5. If you had to pick between having a strong emotional connection with someone (but next to no real understanding on an intellectual level) - and - having a strong intellectual connection (but detachment on an emotional/sexual level) - which of these would be more meaningful to you?

6. If a person was going to reject you romantically - what would be the best way for them to do this to make sure they don't hurt your feelings?

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again?
If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on?

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes?

9. If a person was bluntly honest with you and told you they care about you, but they feel smothered and need some space (although they still really appreciate your friendship)... How would you take this?

10. Do you chat to many people on social media - or just a bunch of close friends? When you do chat, are your conversations brief, or do they go for hours?
And finally, do you sometimes get offended if the other person is not comfortable chatting for such a long time and leaves the conversation before you do?

11. This is kind of tied in with q.10... Do you believe that a "true" friend or S/O... would want to spend every second of every day with you? Do you correlate the amount of time they spend with you with how much they care about you?
E.g. If a person is busy and you don't see much of them, you assume they are not interested and rejecting you (as either a friend or lover).

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posted May 13, 2015 03:03 PM            

Also, if you can't be bothered answering every single question, you can go for just one or a couple.
Answer whichever questions are more relevant to you

So here it goes -

1. Do you consider yourself obsessive in love or clingy? If yes... what makes you feel this way? Is it a lack of trust in the other person or is it emotional neediness or something else entirely? No

2. Is it possible for you to be close friends with a person of the opposite sex (or whichever sex you are attracted to) and not fall in love with them? Have you ever had a best friend of the opposite sex? Yes

3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family? No

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it? No

5. If you had to pick between having a strong emotional connection with someone (but next to no real understanding on an intellectual level) - and - having a strong intellectual connection (but detachment on an emotional/sexual level) - which of these would be more meaningful to you? Emotional means more than intellectual

6. If a person was going to reject you romantically - what would be the best way for them to do this to make sure they don't hurt your feelings? Say they were gay.

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again?
If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on? Can move on

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes? Yes, when I broke it off.

9. If a person was bluntly honest with you and told you they care about you, but they feel smothered and need some space (although they still really appreciate your friendship)... How would you take this? It would hurt. Never happened, so not sure how I would feel.

10. Do you chat to many people on social media - or just a bunch of close friends? When you do chat, are your conversations brief, or do they go for hours? Many people
And finally, do you sometimes get offended if the other person is not comfortable chatting for such a long time and leaves the conversation before you do? Yes, I think everyone feels a little uncomfortable with this.

11. This is kind of tied in with q.10... Do you believe that a "true" friend or S/O... would want to spend every second of every day with you? Do you correlate the amount of time they spend with you with how much they care about you? No
E.g. If a person is busy and you don't see much of them, you assume they are not interested and rejecting you (as either a friend or lover).

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posted May 13, 2015 03:16 PM              

1. Yes, i can get very intense and obsessive when it comes to love and even hobbies but i blame that on my venus square pluto. Sometimes it comes from lack of trust but mostly it comes from me just being very intense in that area of my life. I just dont have a light hearted bubbly approach in that area of my life.

2. Yes, i had a best friend of the opposite sex when i was younger, we got along great and never did i fall in love with him. I blame my air influence for managing to be friends with the opposite sex without getting feelings for them.

posted May 13, 2015 03:31 PM              

1. Do you consider yourself obsessive in love or clingy? If yes... what makes you feel this way? Is it a lack of trust in the other person or is it emotional neediness or something else entirely?

I think the Pisces moon is actually more clingy than the Cancer moon, actually. The Cancer moon was great at building and sustaining the relationship but the Pisces moon loves to drown herself in all her feelings for her new partner. Neither seemed to have any trust issues.

2. Is it possible for you to be close friends with a person of the opposite sex (or whichever sex you are attracted to) and not fall in love with them? Have you ever had a best friend of the opposite sex?

The Pisces Moon did, absolutely. She had many opposite sex best friends but was only in love with two of them. The Cancer moon had best friends of the opposite sex too but only after the romantic relationship was dead, never before.

3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?

The Pisces moon does, yes. She's a Taurus sun. Her romantic relationships come first when she's in them. The Cancer moons - 1 is a Pisces Sun and the other is a Cancer Sun - I would say they view their romantic relationship on the same level as their platonic ones.

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?

Again lol... the Pisces moon yes, and she believes she means it. I think it's hard for her to see herself objectively. The Cancer moon I'm not sure but both of the Cancer moons I know seemed more grounded than the energy of the Pisces moon.

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again? If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on?

OMG the Pisces moon girl and her Pisces Sun boyfriend took FOREVER to REALLY break up and move on. Forever. Longest break up I have ever seen. Living separately did nothing for them. They went up and down as far as closeness went so they were basically still in a relationship and whittling it off. The Cancer moon was much better about severing ties once it was over. For him it was a normal break-up... the ex moves out, he changes his phone number, months go by and lots of healing takes place before any contact happens.

For the Pisces moon the only reason she initially and finally backed off was because her Pisces sun ex was now engaged the girl didn't want them being friends. So he harshly told her to stop contacting him (all scripted because he'd been pursuing her too). The Pisces girl had to decide for herself to move on and make it altruistic by wanting him to be happy, and removing herself so they could have peace. As a Gemini ASC and Taurus moon and all my Aries it's really difficult to stomach any of those dramatics.

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes?

As you can guess.. the Pisces moon (and the Pisces Sun / Cancer moon girl) both remained friends with their exes. I think they definitely had a more difficult time letting go of their partners than the Cancer moon man. The Cancer moon man eventually became friends with them but only after a lot of time had passed.

10. Do you chat to many people on social media - or just a bunch of close friends? When you do chat, are your conversations brief, or do they go for hours? And finally, do you sometimes get offended if the other person is not comfortable chatting for such a long time and leaves the conversation before you do?

The Pisces moon used to be a chat room / MySpace fiend but has since scaled it down. She uses Facebook regularly but also as means for group functions since she's a teacher. All the water moons I know have only had brief conversations and never seem annoyed when it ends abruptly. I think that's more of an earth sign thing because time is a "thing" for them, imho.

posted May 13, 2015 03:53 PM            

1. Obsessive when I'm really in love. It's a need of wanting to be with them.

2. Yes and yes

3. No I think all types of love are equally important

4. Before kids - yes. After kids - no.

5. emotional / sex is always more important to me... I can have a conversation with anyone but I've only ever felt that romantic bond with a few.

6. Upfront and honest. Any other way just makes it worse.

7. Once rejected I move on. Not going to beg anyone. If it was meant to be they wouldn't have let me go.

8. Yes, definitely. I'm friends with most of my ex boyfriends and my ex husband. I won't waist my energy on maintaining a friendship if an ex is crazy, tho.

9. I might be a little hurt but I would respect their need for space.

10. I don't chat. I might exchange jokes with people on Facebook but the time frame is short and sweet. No I wouldn't be offended if someone wanted to leave a chat.

posted May 13, 2015 05:15 PM            

1. Do you consider yourself obsessive in love or clingy? If yes... what makes you feel this way? Is it a lack of trust in the other person or is it emotional neediness or something else entirely?

I'm not generally obsessive or clingy in love. Possessive, maybe. What's mine is mine, get your own--that's my motto lol. But when I do start being clingy, I usually have a reason to. It's either the person isn't doing a great job of making me feel secure or is being insincere with his words and actions. I can see through BS.

2. Is it possible for you to be close friends with a person of the opposite sex (or whichever sex you are attracted to) and not fall in love with them? Have you ever had a best friend of the opposite sex?

Yes, it's possible. I have a couple male best friends that I'm not attracted to.

3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?

No. Mine's more like family first, then platonic, then romantic.

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?

Yes I do lol and I'm not gonna lie, that makes me feel a lil delusional sometimes, but when I do say it, I mean it.

Of course, there are exceptions. I don't say stuff like "i love you forever" because who knows if that's even actually gonna happen.

5. If you had to pick between having a strong emotional connection with someone (but next to no real understanding on an intellectual level) - and - having a strong intellectual connection (but detachment on an emotional/sexual level) - which of these would be more meaningful to you?

As much as I value intellectual connections (being air dominant), I'd still go with emotional bonds because they feel a little more special and meaningful than intellectual bonds. Plus, most intellectual bonds usually turn out to be more platonic than romantic.

6. If a person was going to reject you romantically - what would be the best way for them to do this to make sure they don't hurt your feelings?

Tell me straight up without pointing out my flaws or the relationship's flaws. Just a simple "I don't like you anymore" will do.

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again?
If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on?

I do try to get close again the first couple of weeks, but then I eventually stop because I get caught up in my own life to even bother. That doesn't mean I've completely moved on though. It takes me a while to completely lose feelings for someone.

If I'm convinced and persistent, the only thing they can do to push me away is to criticize me.

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes?

Yes, but it will take not talking for a couple months to a year for me to be on a friendly mode with them again and comfortable. I'm friends with all my exes.

9. If a person was bluntly honest with you and told you they care about you, but they feel smothered and need some space (although they still really appreciate your friendship)... How would you take this?

I'd understand, but I'll probably most likely misinterpret it and be extremely aloof to them.

10. Do you chat to many people on social media - or just a bunch of close friends? When you do chat, are your conversations brief, or do they go for hours?
And finally, do you sometimes get offended if the other person is not comfortable chatting for such a long time and leaves the conversation before you do?

I generally loathe chatting on social media with random people. I talk mostly to my friends only and it goes on for hours if they're the intellectual types. If they're not, maybe just a couple minutes. And I don't always get offended unless they give out that vibe that they really don't wanna talk to me but are not telling me straight up.

11. This is kind of tied in with q.10... Do you believe that a "true" friend or S/O... would want to spend every second of every day with you? Do you correlate the amount of time they spend with you with how much they care about you?
E.g. If a person is busy and you don't see much of them, you assume they are not interested and rejecting you (as either a friend or lover).

No, no, and no. If I don't see much of a person, I'd assume they're busy. But if it persists to the point where I know they're free but seem to be avoiding me, then that's when I have a problem.

posted May 13, 2015 06:03 PM            

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3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?

No. Mine's more like family first, then platonic, then romantic.

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?

Yes I do lol and I'm not gonna lie, that makes me feel a lil delusional sometimes, but when I do say it, I mean it.

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I see inconsistency here.

posted May 13, 2015 06:13 PM            

But I can be possessive.

If it's a water sign, I can easily hitch-hike on their

obsessive nature, though.

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3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?

Ehh.. I think it requires more maintenance on a day

to day basis.

Essentially, it's a partnership and that person is

another aspect of yourself.. ideally, anyway.

So it makes sense that it would be not more *important*

so much as it would take precedence.. if that makes sense.

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?

Not since I was about 19 or 20.

But if I said it, I would mean it.. absolutely.

5. If you had to pick between having a strong emotional connection with someone (but next to no real understanding on an intellectual level) - and - having a strong intellectual connection (but detachment on an emotional/sexual level) - which of these would be more meaningful to you?

Ugh.

I need both. lol

But if I HAD to choose, I would say emo.

6. If a person was going to reject you romantically - what would be the best way for them to do this to make sure they don't hurt your feelings?

Feelings will likely be hurt, no matter what

But I think the important thing is to make sure there

is no question that it's NOT going to work.. don't be

vague.

And.. I may have a Pisces moon, but I'm also a Leo-

don't cite any shortcomings on my part; tell me something

I can get behind, while keeping some dignity.

'Sweetie, you're the best... but I'm just not ready for the

kind of relationship you're looking for. I don't want to be

that serious with anyone, right now."

See?

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again?
If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on?

I cease all contact, immediately.

It isn't easy when someone is texting or calling and making

you feel like garbage, but it's necessary, imo.

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes?

No reason to, really.

I've remained friends with only one ex, and he lives on the

other side of the country.. which helps.

But we talk at least once a month.

If he was still local, I wouldn't, because he would hound me

endlessly.

10. Do you chat to many people on social media - or just a bunch of close friends? When you do chat, are your conversations brief, or do they go for hours?
And finally, do you sometimes get offended if the other person is not comfortable chatting for such a long time and leaves the conversation before you do?

No, not a social media chatter.

I had one that kind of was, and I would talk forever

with them, but .. (see no. 1 explanation).

11. This is kind of tied in with q.10... Do you believe that a "true" friend or S/O... would want to spend every second of every day with you? Do you correlate the amount of time they spend with you with how much they care about you?
E.g. If a person is busy and you don't see much of them, you assume they are not interested and rejecting you (as either a friend or lover).

No, to 'every second of every day' ... God, no.

How can I miss you if you won't go away?

As for time spent-- whatever is reasonable is what

I expect.

It seems like a water moon may be manipulating you

or trying to guilt you into bending to their will...?

If I was over the moon for someone (as it were), I would

want to be around them as much as possible... most people

are like that, initially.

But I would not try to guilt someone via 'if you really

loved me, you would ________.'

I don't want guilt-induced anything. :/

I want authenticity.

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posted May 15, 2015 12:31 AM            

Does anyone know what happened?

I didn't dream the whole thing did I? lol

Thank you all for your replies

posted May 15, 2015 12:44 AM            

Yesterday Eirlys also said that she was having trouble posting to this thread (and wondered if there was a word limit) and would keep trying. I'd guess that either she was experiencing the glitch or trying to post so much repeatedly overloaded the server (I've seen threads lose posts before because so many were posting at once so that it looked more like a chat room than message board so that seems plausible that if it has to do a lot of work to post that other posts sent at about the same time could vanish).

posted May 15, 2015 12:51 AM            

The time on that is 6.39 PM...
But in this version of the thread Eirlys post is showing up at 6.13 PM ... and her second post about how she can't post has disappeared :\

We're on a haunted thread!

posted May 15, 2015 12:53 AM            

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Originally posted by PixieJane:
No, you didn't imagine it. Some are gone.

Yesterday Eirlys also said that she was having trouble posting to this thread (and wondered if there was a word limit) and would keep trying. I'd guess that either she was experiencing the glitch or trying to post so much repeatedly overloaded the server (I've seen threads lose posts before because so many were posting at once so that it looked more like a chat room than message board so that seems plausible that if it has to do a lot of work to post that other posts sent at about the same time could vanish).

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posted May 15, 2015 11:21 AM            

I guess if some one has only non-aflicted water moon but the other personal planets are not in water , these quality that you describe could be lighter.

2. Is it possible for you to be close friends with a person of the opposite sex (or whichever sex you are attracted to) and not fall in love with them? Have you ever had a best friend of the opposite sex?

- YES , when I 's in university , men trust me
A lot of them consult me about women
My boundary is quite clearly between friends-zone .

3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?
- YES , I could tell because I'm not aquareus and with my natal chart , my love planets are all in a relationship signs.

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?

Yes - I mean it , for the romance too .
The sweet talker , I think it'd better looking for libra mercury or mercury-neptune , they are a sweet talker ..although they 're not mean it.

5. If you had to pick between having a strong emotional connection with someone (but next to no real understanding on an intellectual level) - and - having a strong intellectual connection (but detachment on an emotional/sexual level) - which of these would be more meaningful to you?

-If in love and relationship , I choose strong emotional because I can have a strong intellectual cennection with many others without any emotional attachement .

6. If a person was going to reject you romantically - what would be the best way for them to do this to make sure they don't hurt your feelings?
- politely said it . Do not manipulate me .. Just simply way

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again?

- if I love someone dearly , which only happen 2 times ..in my 35 years old , I will try to understand it first , and if I got chance again to make it happen again , I would not hesitate . It doesn't always happen to every relationship but only few of them are really worth to try again.

If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on?
- I experienced this once , and I waited for 10++ years , he didn't reject me but we have to move away because we can't be together . The times will help , it depends how much the water moon care for you .

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes?
- yes , all of them can be friends . If they don't hurt me badly ie. physical assault , it's just fine .

9. If a person was bluntly honest with you and told you they care about you, but they feel smothered and need some space (although they still really appreciate your friendship)... How would you take this?
- I give them space , but I might consider that we are not at the same pace , and what else that we can do ? If the other things is also different , I really need to re-consider this relationship.

10. Do you chat to many people on social media - or just a bunch of close friends? When you do chat, are your conversations brief, or do they go for hours?
- if with strainger ,I chat in forum like lindaland here . The lenght of message depend on my mood and how interesting of the topics.
- I chat with college every hours , for works and personal consultant

And finally, do you sometimes get offended if the other person is not comfortable chatting for such a long time and leaves the conversation before you do?

- this is a tricky question . if I have a spouse who hate to chat , and the other things he make me happy , that would be ok , no problem .
I think for woman , it is not about how long of the text we communicate but it's about how she feel important in a relationship .

11. This is kind of tied in with q.10... Do you believe that a "true" friend or S/O... would want to spend every second of every day with you?
- not really , when you are living together for a while ...water moon also need space to be alone.

posted May 15, 2015 06:18 PM            

I have a Scorpio sun,mercury,mars, and pluto. Obsessive is my middle name. I become fixated on a person leading me to think about them daily however I am not clingy. Moon in Pisces with Venus Conjunct Uranus in Capricorn (at 1 degree), I need my space and independence. I HATE clingy.

2. Is it possible for you to be close friends with a person of the opposite sex (or whichever sex you are attracted to) and not fall in love with them? Have you ever had a best friend of the opposite sex?

Happens all the time. I have friends of the opposite sex that I haven't fallen in love with them.

3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?

No. I treat everyone the same regardless of their status (family, partner, friend, work colleagues), it actually annoys people. My partner is my friend with the addition of a sexual and romantic relationship. I have to be friends with someone first before I can be in a relationship.

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?

No, I don't put my partner on a pedestal. Venus in Cap.

5. If you had to pick between having a strong emotional connection with someone (but next to no real understanding on an intellectual level) - and - having a strong intellectual connection (but detachment on an emotional/sexual level) - which of these would be more meaningful to you?

All of the above. But, if I had to choose emotional.

6. If a person was going to reject you romantically - what would be the best way for them to do this to make sure they don't hurt your feelings?

I don't know.

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again?
If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on?

Once rejected, I move on.

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes?

The past must remain in the past. Once we're done, we're done.

9. If a person was bluntly honest with you and told you they care about you, but they feel smothered and need some space (although they still really appreciate your friendship)... How would you take this?

If I am to be honest, this would never be something someone says to me, because it's way I say to others. I need A LOT of space and freedom myself, therefore if someone felt the same, it would make me feel really comfortable.

10. Do you chat to many people on social media - or just a bunch of close friends? When you do chat, are your conversations brief, or do they go for hours?
And finally, do you sometimes get offended if the other person is not comfortable chatting for such a long time and leaves the conversation before you do?

No chatting on social media. I hate being accessible.

11. This is kind of tied in with q.10... Do you believe that a "true" friend or S/O... would want to spend every second of every day with you? Do you correlate the amount of time they spend with you with how much they care about you?
E.g. If a person is busy and you don't see much of them, you assume they are not interested and rejecting you (as either a friend or lover).

What's described in this question would make me feel very uncomfortable - spending every second of every day. I would feel like a flower withering away to die if someone wanted to spend every second of the day with me.

posted May 15, 2015 09:27 PM            

I guess if some one has only non-aflicted water moon but the other personal planets are not in water , these quality that you describe could be lighter.

2. Is it possible for you to be close friends with a person of the opposite sex (or whichever sex you are attracted to) and not fall in love with them? Have you ever had a best friend of the opposite sex?

- YES , when I 's in university , men trust me
A lot of them consult me about women
My boundary is quite clearly between friends-zone .

3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?
- YES , I could tell because I'm not aquareus and with my natal chart , my love planets are all in a relationship signs.

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?

Yes - I mean it , for the romance too .
The sweet talker , I think it'd better looking for libra mercury or mercury-neptune , they are a sweet talker ..although they 're not mean it.

5. If you had to pick between having a strong emotional connection with someone (but next to no real understanding on an intellectual level) - and - having a strong intellectual connection (but detachment on an emotional/sexual level) - which of these would be more meaningful to you?

-If in love and relationship , I choose strong emotional because I can have a strong intellectual cennection with many others without any emotional attachement .

6. If a person was going to reject you romantically - what would be the best way for them to do this to make sure they don't hurt your feelings?
- politely said it . Do not manipulate me .. Just simply way

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again?

- if I love someone dearly , which only happen 2 times ..in my 35 years old , I will try to understand it first , and if I got chance again to make it happen again , I would not hesitate . It doesn't always happen to every relationship but only few of them are really worth to try again.

If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on?
- I experienced this once , and I waited for 10++ years , he didn't reject me but we have to move away because we can't be together . The times will help , it depends how much the water moon care for you .

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes?
- yes , all of them can be friends . If they don't hurt me badly ie. physical assault , it's just fine .

9. If a person was bluntly honest with you and told you they care about you, but they feel smothered and need some space (although they still really appreciate your friendship)... How would you take this?
- I give them space , but I might consider that we are not at the same pace , and what else that we can do ? If the other things is also different , I really need to re-consider this relationship.

10. Do you chat to many people on social media - or just a bunch of close friends? When you do chat, are your conversations brief, or do they go for hours?
- if with strainger ,I chat in forum like lindaland here . The lenght of message depend on my mood and how interesting of the topics.
- I chat with college every hours , for works and personal consultant

And finally, do you sometimes get offended if the other person is not comfortable chatting for such a long time and leaves the conversation before you do?

- this is a tricky question . if I have a spouse who hate to chat , and the other things he make me happy , that would be ok , no problem .
I think for woman , it is not about how long of the text we communicate but it's about how she feel important in a relationship .

11. This is kind of tied in with q.10... Do you believe that a "true" friend or S/O... would want to spend every second of every day with you?
- not really , when you are living together for a while ...water moon also need space to be alone.

posted May 16, 2015 01:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I liked your post a lot Bella!
In my reply (the one I lost) I was saying... If I met a male version of you, I'd marry him! haha
I would like to meet a Pisces Moon person who is more laid back, like you described yourself

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Aww, thanks! You are Pisces Merc and Aries Sun correct? There are definitely more laid back Pisces Moons out there, just keep searching.

posted May 16, 2015 01:50 AM            

1. Do you consider yourself obsessive in love or clingy? If yes... what makes you feel this way? Is it a lack of trust in the other person or is it emotional neediness or something else entirely?

I'm never openly clingy but I do obsess, extremely so.

2. Is it possible for you to be close friends with a person of the opposite sex (or whichever sex you are attracted to) and not fall in love with them?
Have you ever had a best friend of the opposite sex? [/b]

Yes.

3. Do you see romantic love as more important or in some way "above" other types of love - like the platonic love you may feel for friends and family?

Unconditional love> all other forms of love

4. Do you normally (or have you ever) put your partner on a pedestal and openly played favourites by telling him or her, things like: "you are the most important person in the world for me" or "you're the only person I truly care about" or "I never have and never will love someone as much as I love you".
If yes - Do you do this in the spirit of romance, just to be sweet... or do you actually mean it?
I mean it. They're my religion.

5. If you had to pick between having a strong emotional connection with someone (but next to no real understanding on an intellectual level) - and - having a strong intellectual connection (but detachment on an emotional/sexual level) - which of these would be more meaningful to you?
Emotional.

6. If a person was going to reject you romantically - what would be the best way for them to do this to make sure they don't hurt your feelings?
Die. And I don't even mean that in a 'wishing this upon someone' way. There's no way to let me down nicely. I'll be your mortal enemy until I have reason to pity you instead.

7. Once rejected in love or following a break-up, are you able to move on - or do you keep trying to get close again?
If you are very persistent and are sure someone is your soulmate, even though they rejected you - would there be anything the person in question could do to convince you to let go and move on?
If rejected, I try to avoid them forever and if there was a break up that I in initiated then I no longer care.
However if I were dumped, I'd never let it go.

8. Is there any way to continue a friendship with you after a break-up? Have you ever remained friends with any of your exes?
No.

9. If a person was bluntly honest with you and told you they care about you, but they feel smothered and need some space (although they still really appreciate your friendship)... How would you take this?
Give them their space because I understand and respect the need.

11. This is kind of tied in with q.10... Do you believe that a "true" friend or S/O... would want to spend every second of every day with you? Do you correlate the amount of time they spend with you with how much they care about you?
E.g. If a person is busy and you don't see much of them, you assume they are not interested and rejecting you (as either a friend or lover).

posted May 16, 2015 10:40 AM            

2.Yes I have had a bestfriend of the opposite sex and I have never felt anything for them. But this friend isn't my type and I am not attracted. I would find it difficult to be close friends with someone I am attracted too especially if they had a personality I found attractive as well.

3.HECK NO. Both are great but platonic love does mean a little more to me sometimes. I would like to have both with a partner if possible.

4.I have never done that... uhh.

5.How does one exist without the other? Maybe a more emotional connection...

6.Tell me upfront and hurt my feelings. I will get over it faster.

7. I'm going to move on. If the relationship wasn't good and you didn't want it well then I don't see the point either.

8.Uhhm.. No probably not. I wouldn't see the point of being friends with an ex?

9. I usually say this to other people... and I give a lot of space and I sometimes distance myself when I feel as though things are too smothering. If someone did say that to me I would give them space of course and be understanding.

10. On social media I mostly want to chat with close friends. I can talk to my close friends for a long time yesss... but if they want to be brief it doesn't offend me and I don't necessarily need to chat for a long time either because I will also get bored or forget to message back.