posted May 29, 2015 11:44 AM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Are they like "its ok, I know I was wrong and didn't mean to hurt you, ill give you some time to think about the situation."

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Maybe I just need to eat something but I'm laughing at the thought.

Also because it's early for me to be on the net (and I have things I need to get to) I won't go into a long explanation, just a short description of a Libra Mars I know. She works hard to cooperate with others and is willing to compromise...unless it's a compromise that is grossly unfair to someone, including herself. She can't stand injustice, but I just can't imagine her say doing black bloc tactics or carrying signs. She'd be more likely to organize a group to help anyone who was treated unfairly instead rather than running a public show, and she'd want it to be dignified rather than loud, and in the case of civil rights violations and the like she'd prefer a courtroom to street demonstrations.

I've seen her come into conflict with others before, she tries reason, debate (both public and private), and when all that failed against a group she saw as being incredibly unfair who violated both the spirit and letter of their stated values, and after appealing to a higher authority that chose staunch neutrality, she simply left them refusing to participate any longer. However, I believe she does fear losing her popularity, but she won't totally sell out in the name of that (ultimately only she can truly know how much she sells out and how much she makes a fair compromise).

I can't say I've seen her in many personal conflicts (though I'm sure she has been) but what I've seen is that she'll calmly state (or acknowledge) what the bone of contention is and perhaps how they can work it out. If that doesn't work she tends to avoid them, but then she does have some close friends who follow her lead (she's subtle in how she uses that social clout, but she does use it, hopefully she does so with at least an attempt of fairness but nobody is completely fair--and sometimes that's impossible anyway, the proverbial "the mother and wolf will never agree on how much of the child a wolf can eat"--no matter how much they sincerely try).

posted May 29, 2015 11:59 AM            

Quick example: I was visiting and brought a dark & racially mixed (which was obvious) friend with me sporting prominent tribal tats and the two of us were at my favorite restaurant of the time (where my family was favorite and some of them took us both there) and some locals started glaring at my friend, probably thinking she just didn't belong with us as well as looking so strange to them. I wasn't aware of the scrutiny until my Cancer Mars cousin barked out a belligerent and rhetorical "WHAT!?"

That's when I saw them and my cousin glared at them fully willing to get into a fight over it, and other relatives joined him in the staring contest until the others looked away. He didn't do that for my friend, however, he did that for ME. I'm family and his Cancer Mars will make him rise to defend me and mine, in fact he'll usually take any trouble sent my way more personally than I will.

posted May 29, 2015 01:31 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
I'm a cancer mars so I get mad at myself when no ones looking. So how does a Libra mars get mad? Are they like "its ok, I know I was wrong and didn't mean to hurt you, ill give you some time to think about the situation."

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It wont be based on feelings. They will discuss both sides of an issue intellectually, not "i didnt mean to hurt you," more like "you see this is one side of the coin but on the other side, this happens."
they are really argumentative and self righteous.

in history you can see lots of libra mars fight for what they see as justice.

posted May 29, 2015 01:38 PM            

I've had to leave a work environment after 4 years because of how poorly the company was ran. The customers and staff were treated so badly I couldn't handle it.
After the first year of working there and observing I started to lose my temper at managers and headquarters.
I started a union eventually.

I hate confrontation so much but things were so unfair that eventually I couldn't help but try and fix things and let the people at the top know how angry I was.
The place was a childcare place and I just couldn't tolerate that a place that should have been happy was being ruined by money hungry people.

So yes I think Mars in Libra gets angry but it takes a lot and is usually for a good reason and for the good of a group.

posted May 29, 2015 01:41 PM            

I tend to fear physical violence myself- because I think that I fear what I can do. I don't want to go to prison

posted May 29, 2015 02:32 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Mars in Libra gets mad when they see a clear and unambiguous injustice.

I tend to fear physical violence myself- because I think that I fear what I can do. I don't want to go to prison

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posted May 29, 2015 09:49 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Are they like "its ok, I know I was wrong and didn't mean to hurt you, ill give you some time to think about the situation."

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I'm just sharing because I think it's fun.

There's an Angel episode called Sense & Sensitivity (which can be viewed on YT here though measures taken to keep watchdog programs from removing it make it small and the voices are higher pitched than normal) in which Angel (a vampire) seems to spontaneously develop his "Cancer Mars" (as described)...to prevent confusion I'll point out that these are the scenes of Angel under the "sensitivity curse" that are glued together so it's skipping around a bit:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vTg5R4ENwvQ

Some of the other scenes of that ep were hilarious as well...I think my favorite was a cop telling a woman to see things from a pursesnatcher's point of view as the perp is beside the cop looking the victim while the woman is WTF.

posted May 30, 2015 03:07 AM            

The only way that I ever knew she was angry is that she would slam the drawers and cabinets when she unloaded the dishwasher. Her Mars is conjunct my Moon/Pluto(in Libra), and my Mars is conjunct her Moon(in Sagittarius) I never go looking for trouble, but if I'm ****** I don't back down and I speak my mind.

My mom plays charades, so I get to guess why she's mad. No words. Luckily I'm good at charades, otherwise there'd be problems.

posted May 30, 2015 07:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Bluejay:
My mom is a Libra Mars, and she is one of the most passive aggressive people I've ever met. She also has a Leo Sun and Sagittarius Moon.

The only way that I ever knew she was angry is that she would slam the drawers and cabinets when she unloaded the dishwasher. Her Mars is conjunct my Moon/Pluto(in Libra), and my Mars is conjunct her Moon(in Sagittarius) I never go looking for trouble, but if I'm ****** I don't back down and I speak my mind.

My mom plays charades, so I get to guess why she's mad. No words. Luckily I'm good at charades, otherwise there'd be problems.

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posted May 30, 2015 08:33 PM            

Well, don't want to mislead.

but I AM very, very physical.

posted May 31, 2015 05:00 AM            

I don't know if it's because I need to be in bed (which I'm about to leave for) or having just watched Phineas & Ferb's Operation Crumb Cake (as linked to here) which got me to thinking about all the funny dating (and pseudo-dating) experiences I (and others) had as a kid that got really crazy but I thought I'd share this.

I was 15, and the boy was 14 though he was taller than me. He took me to a run down place that played loud thrash and punk (mostly garage bands, at least I can't recall ever recognizing a name of a band there before or since, and some names were themselves designed to be offensive). I found it too loud and he shouted he wanted to show me something so he took me to the moshpit, my first time to see one. This wasn't just an area for it, it was a literal pit (about a yard/meter down) which was a large area in front of the stage and packed with moshers (most of them older teenage boys much bigger than me, or the 14-year-old who took me to the edge to show it to me). And though I didn't know it this one was especially violent, it looked like a riot running around in a circle, and I watched with horrified awe.

And then the boy who brought me there as sort of a date shoved me in!

It was sheer luck that I didn't fall and get trampled and I bounced off more than one body before found my feet. I didn't mosh, I simply ran with it trying to find a way to escape and not get hit or knocked over. All around me elbows thrashed into each other and sometimes a body slammed into another body. Very quickly I was maxing out my adrenaline and operating in pure survival mode, like someone simply trying not to drown. I had to run around the pity 3x before I was able to get close enough to jump out.

And then I went through the crowd, adrenaline singing in my veins, with one thought: MUST KILL "BOYFRIEND"!

Lucky for him I didn't find him right away (as so many were so many people and also my first time there) as it would've been bad. Even so, as I finally found him (sitting and talking animatedly to other boys who had come with us, not that I could hear what they were saying and at the moment I didn't care) he saw me and went helpless with laughter (he told me later it was the expression on my face, had he been older with more sense I expect he'd have ****** himself).

Luckily my adrenaline was burning out and though I smacked him around good my muscles were getting weak & shaky as my normal state of consciousness begin to reassert itself. (It would've been much worse had I found him sooner.)

But as I calmed down I started to get giddy. I'd SURVIVED! (I expect it was my 5H Sag moon, Mars, Uranus, Neptune.) And then I forgave him as I went back and jumped back in myself! I used that pit more than he did and got hooked on the adrenaline high of it (my size actually helped as it made me a harder target, and I treated it as more of an obstacle course rather than trying to body slam into others the way many others did).

I expect you'd have handled your boyfriend shoving you into a pit of raging testosterone (and then laughing about it) a lot differently with your packed 7H and Pisces moon.

posted July 02, 2015 08:09 AM            

As a child till a teen, I was a fight first person. I would look for reasons to fight and as a child had a love for conflict. I was an angry child and as a teen I got in a lot of fights out of a desire to be respected, to myself

I believe in confronting a person and telling them what's on my mind. I don't feel I need to yell and start putting on a show and if an agreement can't be reached I walk away. But if someone was to keep going on it would probably get violent because my temper can be short to ppl who don't let things go

posted July 02, 2015 08:11 AM            

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Also, I'd be surprised if my Cancer Mars cousin gets mad at himself, though of course it's possible since I don't know his private thoughts. Rather, his manifests as love and loyalty to family that he will defend, violently if need be, and a type of strange patriotism to the South. That is it's more defensive than emotional support.

Quick example: I was visiting and brought a dark & racially mixed (which was obvious) friend with me sporting prominent tribal tats and the two of us were at my favorite restaurant of the time (where my family was favorite and some of them took us both there) and some locals started glaring at my friend, probably thinking she just didn't belong with us as well as looking so strange to them. I wasn't aware of the scrutiny until my Cancer Mars cousin barked out a belligerent and rhetorical "WHAT!?"

That's when I saw them and my cousin glared at them fully willing to get into a fight over it, and other relatives joined him in the staring contest until the others looked away. He didn't do that for my friend, however, he did that for ME. I'm family and his Cancer Mars will make him rise to defend me and mine, in fact he'll usually take any trouble sent my way more personally than I will.

However, the Cancer Mars is NOT touchy feely with me and can be blistering and crude in his pranks and teasing. Even as an adult and family man who has settled down somewhat he'll still try things. Like once got me to watching Jackass 3 just so he could laugh at the expressions on my face (and said anytime I covered my eyes or ears I had to take a shot of whiskey). He's protective, not nurturing, and that's how I think of Cancer Mars.

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posted July 04, 2015 02:57 PM            

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Originally posted by krltn94:
Does this also apply for Mars in the 7th house?

Because I have this placement in Leo and some of the stuff being described here for Mars in Libra is something I can relate with quite a bit.

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You probably have the Asc in Cap/Aquarius right?

Leo on the cusp of the 7th is the ego and is Sun-ruled.Very domineering

When Mars is in the 7th, it suggests that the people you are drawn to are likely to be aggressive/emotionally "no holds barred".

With Leo on the cusp of the 7th and Mars there, fights are likely.

Relationships are important to you.But you are not a push over in that area of life.