posted July 13, 2015 12:40 AM            

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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
I just have to say that this response was so awesome and spot on!!
All of this happens. I mean, don't me wrong I have my faults, nobody's perfect, but it's just ridiculous! I loved the advice section as well. I'm in school right now trying to decide between two things. I would love to be own boss, that's my dream!!!!!! I would do almost anything to obtain it, if I could!

I don't receive credit for my work, I actually left my last job because I remember never getting the recognition, so I jumped ship! I never forgot when the manager thought I was lying on how many can goods that I sold everyday. This woman actually made up in her mind that I was lying and keep in mind, the process of lying would have been impossible to do without catching me! Wtf, That had me heated.
I always will find a different method on how to do things and it always works in my favor! I always like to find different ways! I do sense a little jealousy. It's so funny that I will pick up on things, but think I'm to paranoid because i've been taught to leave things alone. (Scorpio on the third house cusp)

The thing about me is that I hold everything in until I explode and I hate passive aggressiveness. I should have put my foot down at first, but I always try to see the good side. Some ppl think i'm an airhead because my mind is always on what's important like school.

Retail is not my career choice anyway! I wish I could bounce the hell out of here and never come back.

Thank so much for your response, it was so spot on!! What's your placements btw?

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Your welcome! The placements that cause this problem? I have ruler of 10th (venus) in square to pluto. Pluto also opposes my MC.

Pluto can cause trouble if you're not owning your own power ex. being your own boss or a manager at work. With hard pluto aspects, people can treat you badly (because they fear you) or you can be in a position to treat them badly. What's important is to use your power and use it fairly.

It's good you left that job. I've had similar experiences. Even having my hard work considered as "laziness", which angered me! If you ever have a gut feeling about someone then see if their words and actions match. That will reveal if they're genuine or not.

posted July 13, 2015 07:16 PM            

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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
[b]Moon opposite Saturn could possibly be the culprit. Notice your moon sits on the 11th house, which is also your MC ruler. The MC rules your public persona and career, while the 11th house rules large groups, friends, organizations. Saturn rules authority, difficulties, and restrictions. Saturn opposing your moon/MC ruler could make people give you a more difficult time than you really deserve. This goes for both friends signified by the 11th house moon placement and bosses with Saturn being representative of authority figures. Saturn is a hater lol. Saturn can also be quite harsh, hence, the mean things people say to you. The t-square to Pluto in the 2nd house could mean that the harshness or difficulties brought upon by Saturn may have a huge effect on your self-esteem (2nd house rules things of value/self-worth), especially when they hurt your feelings very deeply.

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posted July 13, 2015 07:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Geminiyoungster:
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I don't get it? i'm a pretty nice person and I stick to myself. I also choose my words carefully because I dont want to offend anybody, but it's like some people are rude and ugly to me for no reason. They feel like they can bulldoze over me and no one cares!

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posted July 13, 2015 07:19 PM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:

Woah woah whoh lets not be quick to blame Saturn. I TOO also know EXACTLY what it is like to go through what you are going through Gem. My MC is also the ruler of my 11th house! Only difference is my Lilith (Both true and mean) are at an EXACT conjunction to it. So I have a lot of lilith energy in me and throughout my surroundings since childhood i've noticed when it comes to groups, I am either too "different" or too "straight-foward", even when I have the best intentions someone is always quick to judge me or is intimidated by me, its always that ONE person. From what I have read it is crucial to get into touch with your IC because whatever is going on in your IC will affect your MC. Your IC is obviously in the 5th house of self-awareness and productivity so maybe you should see whats going on there. I think saturn wants you to pay attention to your inner core.

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posted August 27, 2015 07:38 PM            

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Originally posted by StarlightSmileSupreme:
I agree with Doux, Aries descendant can indicate an abundance of energy from other people and a lot of times it's disruptive and aggressive. It could even be hostile. The flip side is the positive, assertive mentor/coach who prods you into taking the initiative, taking care of business, standing up for yourself attempting to bring out your best.
These people in your life, they will always have a lot of energy and it can be directed at you. You have Venus in detriment, seventh house, square Uranus and Neptune. What you should do is cultivate a gracefulness and practice disarming those around you by sincere complimenting and filling the room with your graceful, Venusian charm. Libra risers are good at this but it will take a lot of effort, and sometimes Libra can be a sign that is too go with the flow and passive. You might feel drained of energy at times, or easily discouraged, and choose to keep to yourself but this is not always helpful because you might seem like a brooder.
Saturn is exalted in Libra, so it might take a while but your patience will pay off and your reputation will become stellar, with time, if you practice this state of grace when others around you aren't so nice.
You job as Libra ascending is to bring charm, grace, tact to every situation and this can work in your favor.

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posted August 29, 2015 06:09 AM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
Do you have your moon in the sixth house? People I've worked with have done this to me too.

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posted August 29, 2015 09:00 AM            

people project their unconscious shadows unto others so they don't have to feel that pain in themselves.