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Topic: Cancer mars jealousy/possesiveness?
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 1352
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 03, 2015 06:55 PM
  
Any other cancer mars' feel like crab clawing their other half? Especially when they talk to other members of the opposite sex it makes me retreat into myself and makes me so angry for no reason. IP: Logged |
Choc
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 03, 2015 07:18 PM
Yup, I'm pretty damn possessive, but I try [hard] to contain it because 1] my Libra asc doesn't like confrontation and 2]I don't want to disturb him cuz I realize I might be crazy.IP: Logged |
ash20
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Registered: Mar 2013
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posted August 03, 2015 07:45 PM
I get jealous over the smallest things but I'm good at hiding it lol and I'm crazy possessive and not just with bfs its like that with anybody I'm close to and love (family & friends). IP: Logged |
sunshinedragon
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 03, 2015 07:54 PM
I'm very possessive and jealous when I'm in a relationship that i feel strongly for. otherwise I couldn't care less.
Sometimes too possessive, I usually don't show it unless i'm angered or sent over the edge.IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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From: Los Angeles
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 03, 2015 10:52 PM
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Originally posted by Choc:
Yup, I'm pretty damn possessive, but I try [hard] to contain it because 1] my Libra asc doesn't like confrontation and 2]I don't want to disturb him cuz I realize I might be crazy.
Does your libra asc square your mars? And/Or does your mars fall in the 10th house? I ask cause lately ive been meeting alot of libra asc people with their mars in cancer. IP: Logged |
HoodBlaze
Knowflake Posts: 138
From: Las Vegas, Nevada, United States
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 03, 2015 10:55 PM
Yeah, just work on it though. I use eastern techniques, present moment awareness stuff to fight it. It is super hard, like it's a battle but I see it as a skill. Turn it into a challenge and develop your levels up to get ready for the emotional onslaught. Because it will happen...IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 589
From: TX
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 03, 2015 11:15 PM
Oh, yeah. I hate it but I am. I think it'd be stupid not be though because there is a real threat there. It's not your imagination. People always out to take something away from somebody else. You can't just go to Walmart and get another person, you know. IP: Logged |
Sven555
Knowflake Posts: 939
From: UK
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 04, 2015 04:25 AM
You guys do realise that this trait is a real turn off, right?
I think the best think to do would be to be open-hearted with your partner about everything, and make your own friends of the opposite sex etc. You know, if they go and talk to someone; you go do the same too!------------------
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NeptunianSag
Knowflake Posts: 1352
From: Your imagination
Registered: Aug 2013
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posted August 04, 2015 05:09 AM
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Originally posted by Sven555:
You guys do realise that this trait is a real turn off, right?
I think the best think to do would be to be open-hearted with your partner about everything, and make your own friends of the opposite sex etc. You know, if they go and talk to someone; you go do the same too!
Well, that isn't easy seeing as there's always some sneaky person with a hidden agenda, id rather be protective than be messed around with thanks.
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Sven555
Knowflake Posts: 939
From: UK
Registered: Jul 2012
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posted August 04, 2015 06:10 AM
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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
Well, that isn't easy seeing as there's always some sneaky person with a hidden agenda, id rather be protective than be messed around with thanks.
Ok, well how would you know someone is sneaky in the first place? You could mis-interpret them. ------------------
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Choc
Knowflake Posts: 532
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Registered: Apr 2009
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posted August 04, 2015 08:28 AM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Does your libra asc square your mars? And/Or does your mars fall in the 10th house?I ask cause lately ive been meeting alot of libra asc people with their mars in cancer.
Nope. My mars conjuncts my sun, in the 10th. Also, I have a pluto/mars square [wide orb].
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stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 589
From: TX
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 04, 2015 12:39 PM
You don't even have to look at the name. You can tell that's a guy. LOL.IP: Logged |
alyssa27
Knowflake Posts: 228
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Registered: Sep 2014
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posted August 04, 2015 01:12 PM
yep they're very very possesive and overprotective towards the people they love  IP: Logged |
Elysia
Knowflake Posts: 98
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Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 08, 2015 06:10 AM
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Originally posted by Sven555:
You guys do realise that this trait is a real turn off, right?
Oh I don't know. For some of us it's a turn-on.
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hearttreasure
Knowflake Posts: 163
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Registered: Jan 2015
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posted November 08, 2015 10:19 AM
I think the cancer mars woman and the cancer Mars man are different.I would like to know more about the cancer Mars man. One man I know is only protective to himself first. While the woman I know is indirectly protective to her children. IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
Knowflake Posts: 124
From: Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 08, 2015 03:47 PM
My significant other has Cancer mars 3 degrees in his 1st house. He likes to think that he doesn't get jealous or possessive, but it is very clear to me and others that when he snaps and gets jealous he gets very possessive and jealous. I actually really enjoy this part about him. My ex was sexually harassing me once and I told my SO and he sent him a very nice text telling him to back the "f" off. He also likes seeing my in his clothing and at night when we cuddle he wraps his arm around me and likes to say that I'm his. He likes knowing that I belong to him in a way, it gives him a sort of nurturing comfort. He especially likes seeing that when we are out and about and I hold his hand or give him a quick kiss. It gives him an emotional fulfillment of some-sort. Also, I normally really hate PDA and affection (I have an aqua venus, don't blame me) but he really brings it out of me with his nurturing abilities. However, when other people look at me with lust he never fails to kiss me or wrap his arm around me. ------------------
Cap Sun
Leo Moon
Aqua Merc
Aqua Venus
Cap Mars
Leo MC
Libra Rising
~~~Blessed Be~~~~ IP: Logged |
Mergoatsun
Knowflake Posts: 124
From: Grand Rapids, Michigan, USA
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 08, 2015 03:49 PM
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Originally posted by Sven555:
You guys do realise that this trait is a real turn off, right?
I think the best think to do would be to be open-hearted with your partner about everything, and make your own friends of the opposite sex etc. You know, if they go and talk to someone; you go do the same too!
It can be a turn on or turn off for me, depending how it's handled. However, nothing is more endearing to me than when someone wraps their arm around me and calls me theirs ------------------
Cap Sun
Leo Moon
Aqua Merc
Aqua Venus
Cap Mars
Leo MC
Libra Rising
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Sikanda
Knowflake Posts: 55
From: 28080
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted November 08, 2015 04:49 PM
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Originally posted by Mergoatsun:
It can be a turn on or turn off for me, depending how it's handled. However, nothing is more endearing to me than when someone wraps their arm around me and calls me theirs
Agreed. I wished so badly that my crush had done this to me. He had Mercury and Mars in Cancer, and I found these positions seductive and nurturing. IP: Logged |
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