posted August 15, 2015 10:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Soltze:
Mars-Venus people I know too and yup...everybody likes them. They keep being in stopped in the street by acquaintances and they're pretty straightforward in love matters.
Venus-Pluto is a another league entirely. The issue will they even let you come close enough for you to see the Venus side?

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posted August 15, 2015 10:23 AM            

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Originally posted by erickaf:
This is just my experience but Mars-Venus are very magnetic...no matter the sign...they just have allure, I can't explain it, they just draw people. They don't ever go unnoticed. I kind of wish I had this aspect LOL, I would like it in Sagittarius
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posted August 15, 2015 10:23 AM            

Sorry, gotta run, but will share my thoughts quickly. IMO...

Venus/Mars people have this easy-going aura around them, and seem to attract both genders. They are easy to make friends.

Venus/Pluto seem to attract mostly women (not just romantic way), but more in an obsessive way.

Mars/Pluto seem to attract mostly men (not just romantic way), but more in an obsessive way. I have this.

posted August 15, 2015 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Very good observation! I have Pluto-Venus and yes I draw ppl but it's very uncomfortable and I really wish they would leave me alone. For now ppl, if I don't come to you it's because I'm not feeling up to the stress of letting down my walls that day.

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I have both Pluto-Venus and Mars-Venus..

For me, it is kind of somewhat the opposite of what you've said. There are times I feel like I am possibly drawing people.. Yet, it seems they tend to keep their distance for some reason, and it kind of upsets me. Sometimes, I think it is kind of because of what you say. I feel like people sometimes think that I want to be left alone when I don't.. Or, that I am putting up my walls, when really I am trying so hard to do the opposite, and bring people towards me..

posted August 15, 2015 10:52 AM            

With Mars, Venus is magnetic in a raw, sexual way. They are typically just hot people who love sex! And they are aggressive, which for someone like me (Mars in 12H) is very attractive since I don't like to make the first move. When they like you, they make you feel so wanted and they are not shy about their feelings. They can't contain them! I personally would prefer a Venus/Mars guy to Venus/Pluto any day, but I think that's because I'm Venus/Pluto and I have a theory that Venus/Mars and Venus/Pluto are super attracted to each other.

With Venus/Pluto, Venus is magnetic in a more subtle way. You may not even know why, but you can't shake them. They will play games and withhold themselves (ie, play hard to get) to get into your head, and once they've got you, they've got you. It's hard to escape. Also because Pluto is extreme, you may feel hopelessly in love one moment and like you want to kill them the next. Their presentation may cause an extreme reaction in you in either direction, but the sheer fact that you have any kind of reaction other than "oh, that is a person" makes them magnetic.

posted August 15, 2015 12:57 PM            

Venus-mars: very straightforward in love. You never have to guess what they're thinking.

Venus-pluto: they are like pythons and will hold onto you; you can't escape unless they want to release you.

posted August 16, 2015 06:02 AM            

I've been asked about this aspect more than once over the years. To be honest I've never been able to figure out if it was this square, or just the general overabundance of Venusian energy (Sun, Jupiter, Saturn, and Pluto in Libra + Asc. and Chiron in Taurus) in my natal chart that caused my "magnetic" flare-ups.

posted August 16, 2015 06:50 AM            

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Originally posted by ReadingTheStars95:
I have both Pluto-Venus and Mars-Venus..

For me, it is kind of somewhat the opposite of what you've said. There are times I feel like I am possibly drawing people.. Yet, it seems they tend to keep their distance for some reason, and it kind of upsets me. Sometimes, I think it is kind of because of what you say. I feel like people sometimes think that I want to be left alone when I don't.. Or, that I am putting up my walls, when really I am trying so hard to do the opposite, and bring people towards me..

Then again, I have also been told a few times that I am somewhat intimidating.. For whatever reason.. Maybe that comes from my Mars square Pluto aspect.. Especially with my Mars/Pluto midpoint being on my ascendant.. Also have Mars square my Sun.. Sun opposite Pluto..

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I get a lot of what your saying! I can tell ppl are drawn to me for good or bad they can pick me out of a crowd. And I've been told I'm intimidating to, once person said it's like I'm a shark scanning a room for my next victim. One friend who reads energy told me I have an extra bright energy all around me, like I glow and have some kind of excitement going on around me energetically, So I guess how someone perceives that energy is based on their chart, and also my mood.
The time I was told I looked like a shark I was upset and wanting to leave where I was but couldn't because my ride was nowhere to be found...

posted August 16, 2015 08:13 AM            

Well.. I also happen to have Chaos conjunct my Sun.. But I was thinking you have probably already seen me mention that before.

posted August 16, 2015 10:18 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
What do you mean? For romance?

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posted August 16, 2015 10:31 AM            

These people are usually very magnetic for people who still have underlying love issues to deal with. Or those who are yearning for that intense,gut-wrenching,soul-explosive love experience.

For a quick shag and "laugh it off" over dinner experience. The Venus-Mars people are attractive.

These people may not "change" your world. But they are fun(depending on the energy of the conjunction and whether or not you like it).

Most times this may be more sexual and its purpose to be instant sexual gratification than anything else. But they are more "light weight" than Pluto.

posted August 16, 2015 10:25 PM            

I think to the broader public, Venus/Mars is very attractive because they seem to be at ease with themselves. At Astrodienst, they called this aspect, "It"- meaning charisma. Passionate and romantic, but ultimately less serious than Venus/Pluto.

I know a Scorpio sun, Libra moon with Venus/Mars conjunction in Sagittarius. Very flirtatious, very popular. Even though physically he was not that handsome, he easily got into relationships and was generally considered attractive. I also have this aspect (though Venus is in Capricorn), and I'm really glad because even though I can be shy, my experience from this aspect is that people actively try to get to know me anyways. I have also had little trouble finding a relationship. No dry spells 😅.

On the other hand, a Capricorn sun, Cancer moon, who has the Venus/Pluto conjunction. He did seem a bit more intimidating- got into fewer relationships, but they were all very long-lasting. Most people commented that it seemed quite "intense" (without having any knowledge of astrology!)

posted August 16, 2015 10:43 PM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
I've noticed many popular celebrities, musicians, actors, etc have this aspect. Just to name a few:
Bruce Lee (Scorpio), Sandra Bullock (Gemini), Kanye West (Taurus), J. Cole (Pisces), Debbie Harry (Taurus), Uma Thurman (Gemini.)

I think to the broader public, Venus/Mars is very attractive because they seem to be at ease with themselves. At Astrodienst, they called this aspect, "It"- meaning charisma. Passionate and romantic, but ultimately less serious than Venus/Pluto.

I know a Scorpio sun, Libra moon with Venus/Mars conjunction in Sagittarius. Very flirtatious, very popular. Even though physically he was not that handsome, he easily got into relationships and was generally considered attractive. I also have this aspect (though Venus is in Capricorn), and I'm really glad because even though I can be shy, my experience from this aspect is that people actively try to get to know me anyways. I have also had little trouble finding a relationship. No dry spells 😅.

On the other hand, a Capricorn sun, Cancer moon, who has the Venus/Pluto conjunction. He did seem a bit more intimidating- got into fewer relationships, but they were all very long-lasting. Most people commented that it seemed quite "intense" (without having any knowledge of astrology!)

I remember reading a post of a woman who had Venus/Pluto, and she commented that with all of the men she had dated, they always called her back, months, years, even decades later, to let her know what a deep impact she made on them. That really epitomizes Venus/Pluto to me- transformative, but on a one-to-one level. Venus/Mars, on the other hand, is attractive to a broader audience because they present a good time for all.

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posted August 16, 2015 11:12 PM            

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Originally posted by wheresthemoon:
This is a good explanation, I think.

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posted August 16, 2015 11:38 PM            

i got:

venus conjunct pluto
venus square mars

posted August 17, 2015 12:09 AM            

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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
Thank you, I think

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