posted August 23, 2015 12:40 PM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I think it's great what you do, because you observe the person to know them better, it shows you take things seriously and that you want to know someone as they are, not just looks, and also to make sure, as it is possible, they are suitable for you.

I do the same, I observe people a lot in the initial stage, especially since I have a Venus sq Neptune and I need to guard myself from the tendency to see people more beautiful than they actually are.

Nothing to do with stalking, really, I don't know where that came from, but with making sure the person as a whole is what you like and want, it's typical for Virgos to be very observant and to want to see beyond the surface of things.

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Well said.

And DopGang, I understand your regret about saying what you did, and I agree that the 12H can't really be put into words correctly anyway. In describing what's honestly elusive, one is bound to misrepresent it...like Zen...all it can do is point towards the truth.

posted August 23, 2015 12:42 PM            

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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I think there needs to be more aspects because I had almost that exact convo with a pisces and she just let it slip away and her mind moved onto something else lol and now she doesnt even think of that guy anymore.

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Not sure what you mean. You and she were talking about stalking?

I've noticed that Pisces can move on very fast sometimes, especially with Venus in Aries.

posted August 23, 2015 12:44 PM            

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Originally posted by 12muddy:

Unlike what some descriptions of 12th house venus suggest, I don't hold back or hide my feelings. My affection is out there for all to see, I don't do subtlety.

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posted August 23, 2015 01:35 PM            

My saturn-asc conjunction is tighter, and with saturn-venus, often affection is sort of filtered through a saturnine sieve - helps to limit the chances of getting into inappropriate situations. This did not come naturally to me (absurd I know, what with all the cap placements). It's something I learned to develop (and I learned the hard way). It also provides some sort of balance, since I'm naturally a "All is fair in love and war" type of person.

posted August 23, 2015 01:48 PM            

i fall in love instantly and fall out of love instantly as well. and i love the chase (i usually chase after people unless i meet someone who is also fiery like me, we both will chase each other at the same time which is HOT!) and i love foreigners or people who can teach me about life and discover parts about myself that i need to work on, i see every relationship as a learning experience for myself and my partner if i don't learn anything from my partner i simply fall out of love. being with a teacher who can teach me about life and love is romantic and stimulating me and I'm not really the clingy type. but maybe that simply because my moon in aries in the 7th is square my uranus 5R.

posted August 23, 2015 02:02 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Not sure what you mean. You and she were talking about stalking?

I've noticed that Pisces can move on very fast sometimes, especially with Venus in Aries.

But not always.

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posted August 23, 2015 02:25 PM            

Therefore, I create action with which my Venus observes. LOL Mercury is in there between Venus and mars, closer to mars.
I mean there's obviously so much more to all if this. We know that, but it's fun to think about.

posted August 23, 2015 05:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

I've noticed that Pisces can move on very fast sometimes, especially with Venus in Aries.

But not always.

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Pisces with Venus in Aries here:
I'm not sure I move on fast with someone I really care about. When it ends, I'm pretty upset. I do a lot of journaling and I wallow for a week or two. But after that, I'm pretty good to move on. Once I have moved on, I'm done with that person forever. I have never been the type to go back to exes.

posted August 23, 2015 09:04 PM            

I have mixed feelings about it, honestly. Sometimes I love it, I love the intuition, the artistic talent, the charms that makes me likeable by about just anyone, but also the intensity.
However, it's one tricky thing to juggle with.
In love, it makes me fall with unavailable people (venus Uranus), or makes me too afraid to actually get into a relationships.
I have an insane intuition, that I know more and more how it manifests and all, but in love it's like all of the signals I've managed to listen go silent.
Neptune/Venus probably plays a role, but it's like a veil falling in front of my eyes and I just see what I want to see. I nitpick every single detail and blow them out of proportion to give them a meaning they don't have. Result: I become annoying, or I end up crushed because I couldn't see the signs that, once the truth catch up to me, were oh so obvious. And then I fall into a sort of pathetic pity party.
I'm also a bit of a drama queen, I crave attention, and can get quite nasty if I don't get what I feel like is my "time in the spotlight."
Beside that, I have this weird "Don't force me to do anything I don't want to do/take decision for me pretty please so that I don't have to bear the responsibility of my actions" pull at times.

posted August 24, 2015 11:49 AM            

It's in Cancer in the 5th
Opposite my Sat/Nep conjunction in Capricorn.

It trines my Moon/Pluto conjunction.

posted August 24, 2015 02:39 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
Pisces with Venus in Aries here:
I'm not sure I move on fast with someone I really care about. When it ends, I'm pretty upset. I do a lot of journaling and I wallow for a week or two. But after that, I'm pretty good to move on. Once I have moved on, I'm done with that person forever. I have never been the type to go back to exes.

I have been known to date about a month after breakups. I'm not sure if that qualifies for moving on fast?

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I think you are similar to my Pisces sun best friend though nothing beats getting the opinion straight from her.

But she and I have explicitly gone over the list many times...

There are only two men that it took her a while to recover from.

And actually, she still is not fully recovered from either of them.

The first ex, she would probably never go back to.

The second ex, she won't go back to except under better terms...

It took her about a full year to recover enough from that breakup to want to resume dating. Maybe longer...it seemed like forever.