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Topic: How is the venus retro affecting you thus far?
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bluestskies88
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posted August 27, 2015 09:54 AM
  
what a month! what a retro! ... when venus went retro last month, the first week was smooth for me... then around the second week BOOM! the past relationships came knocking at my door and i couldn't stop them from coming in. my emotions has been super intense and they are just all coming up! i need a breather!!! 
its really not something i can say 'oh just ignore the feeling' or 'don't think about it'.... it's really in my face and its really asking me to face these old emotions and thoughts.... and i am...
just curious, how has this venus retro affecting you and your relationships, love life at your end? IP: Logged |
Soltze
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posted August 27, 2015 09:58 AM
I recovered an old frienship.
And my love life has actually began to be really active. Finally :-DIP: Logged |
erickaf
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posted August 27, 2015 10:17 AM
I hate Venus rx...I was fine with my long-term breakup...in fact I was looking forward to dating new men. All of a sudden I find myself feeling I miss my ex, love him, and I feel guilty about how it ended! It is terrible. I cry a lot and blame myself.
I can't wait until Venus goes direct. Venus in Leo is opposing my ex's Aquarius stellium so I am sure he is feeling it too.
I wonder once is goes direct I will feel better and be at peace about the breakup? I have to wait...
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Kiimberly
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posted August 27, 2015 11:54 AM
Venus in retro has been a ridiculously healing time for me so far. My oldest friend came to visit me and we've rekindled our friendship. I went to visit my family/ childhood home and realized the ways im letting people hurt me--and realized any love I had for the area is false and based mostly on nostalgia. Lots of very in-your-face dredged up old emotions, but working through them has actually felt less scary than ever before.IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted August 27, 2015 12:10 PM
Nothing unusual! IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted August 27, 2015 12:29 PM
yes it's been really healing at my end too. this letting go of old old emotions. just saying by facing these buried hurt has been super intense. most of the emotions i am aware of.. i just thought i let this go awhile ago... i guess not! lolback to the drawing board!  IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted August 27, 2015 12:33 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
I hate Venus rx...I was fine with my long-term breakup...in fact I was looking forward to dating new men. All of a sudden I find myself feeling I miss my ex, love him, and I feel guilty about how it ended! It is terrible. I cry a lot and blame myself.
I can't wait until Venus goes direct. Venus in Leo is opposing my ex's Aquarius stellium so I am sure he is feeling it too.
I wonder once is goes direct I will feel better and be at peace about the breakup? I have to wait...
i hear you girl!  IP: Logged |
polkadotstars
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posted August 27, 2015 03:50 PM
I ended a four year relationship last November, at the beginning of all my many Saturn transits. I absolutely know it was the right decision 110% but these past few weeks I have been thinking a lot about him. I see that some of his friends and cousins have deleted me as friends on Facebook. Some of them were really good friends of mine while we were dating, so that really upset me. I have been feeling really guilty and upset for causing him so much pain. I know it was the right decision for both of us, but ahhhh!!IP: Logged |
athenaia
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Registered: May 2015
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posted August 27, 2015 04:46 PM
All I keep thinking during this retro is "I wanna go home" or "I miss me" - even though I AM home and I AM still me but I feel so unlike myself and my world is so warped that I'm having trouble accepting my life for what it is right now!!!! I haven't felt such existential ennui in honestly YEARS IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted August 27, 2015 04:55 PM
I have Aquarius stellium. I evaluated my values and see all the reasons to not sell myself shortIP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted August 27, 2015 06:01 PM
Retro Venus is going back and forth opposing my Venus in Aquarius.. Very strong feelings for my ex have come up, but also evaluating my values and.. just like theunknown above describes itIP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted August 28, 2015 07:23 AM
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Originally posted by 3l3n:
Retro Venus is going back and forth opposing my Venus in Aquarius.. Very strong feelings for my ex have come up, but also evaluating my values and.. just like theunknown above describes it
what does aquarius have to do with this venus retro? curious because i am sun aqua IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted August 28, 2015 07:45 AM
An ex found me but I told him to eff off lol. I got so spooked because I was so sure that could never happen to me no matter what astrology says. Also I dont know WHO gave him my new contact info.... >.> there is a mole.There were no emotions stirred except for annoyance at who could have been stupid enough to betray me like that and sell my info to him. And annoyance at the audacity of this guy to even think he should contact me. IP: Logged |
CosmiqPhuz
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posted August 28, 2015 08:49 AM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
An ex found me but I told him to eff off lol. I got so spooked because I was so sure that could never happen to me no matter what astrology says. Also I dont know WHO gave him my new contact info.... >.> there is a mole.
I gotta come clean, bansheequeen..... It was me. He offered to buy me lunch!
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bluestskies88
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posted August 28, 2015 11:08 AM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
An ex found me but I told him to eff off lol. I got so spooked because I was so sure that could never happen to me no matter what astrology says. Also I dont know WHO gave him my new contact info.... >.> there is a mole.There were no emotions stirred except for annoyance at who could have been stupid enough to betray me like that and sell my info to him. And annoyance at the audacity of this guy to even think he should contact me.
or you can just ask him who gave ur number away? IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted August 28, 2015 11:16 AM
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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
I gotta come clean, bansheequeen..... It was me. He offered to buy me lunch!
LOLOLOL. Bwahahahaha. IP: Logged |
Soltze
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posted August 28, 2015 11:45 AM
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
what does aquarius have to do with this venus retro? curious because i am sun aqua
Leo is the sign opposite Aquarius.
If you have aqua planets they're being opposed by the Venus Rx in Leo. IP: Logged |
MineAgain
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posted August 28, 2015 11:48 AM
I've suddenly been obsessed with my ex who happens to have his Venus in Aquarius. I suddenly hear or see his name everywhere. I haven't experienced any encounter with anyone from the past thought. IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted August 28, 2015 11:59 AM
Oh my GOD you guys just made me realize Venus RX is directly opposing my Moon/NN throughout all of this, no wonder I've felt like such a complete f***ing lunatic the past two months! IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted August 28, 2015 12:00 PM
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Originally posted by MineAgain:
I've suddenly been [b] obsessed with my ex who happens to have his Venus in Aquarius. I suddenly hear or see his name everywhere. I haven't experienced any encounter with anyone from the past thought. [/B]
Likewise. Completely and utterly obsessive thoughts. Also a Venus in Aquarius guy. So crazy how universal all of this can be sometimes. Comforting as hell actually! IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted August 28, 2015 12:57 PM
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Originally posted by Soltze:
Leo is the sign opposite Aquarius.
If you have aqua planets they're being opposed by the Venus Rx in Leo.
so how does this affect the Aquas? IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted August 28, 2015 01:23 PM
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
so how does this affect the Aquas?
Venus retrograde is just a time for you to evaluate Venus-related issues including exes, relationship, your values and what's not. Leo is Aqua's partner sign so such themes will be more prominent. For others it'd depend on where Venus is in your natal and solar chart. For example, I'm an Aqua so I think about past relationships. But Leo rules my 4th do I also moved gone and thinking about moving out and other 4th house issues. IP: Logged |
bluestskies88
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posted August 28, 2015 01:44 PM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
Venus retrograde is just a time for you to evaluate Venus-related issues including exes, relationship, your values and what's not. Leo is Aqua's partner sign so such themes will be more prominent. For others it'd depend on where Venus is in your natal and solar chart. For example, I'm an Aqua so I think about past relationships. But Leo rules my 4th do I also moved gone and thinking about moving out and other 4th house issues.
i see. thank you.... so my venus in capricorn falls in the 7th house, so this retrograde is pushing me to think about / heal my partnership issues? Sounds accurate what i'm going through right now IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted August 28, 2015 04:24 PM
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Originally posted by bluestskies88:
i see. thank you.... so my venus in capricorn falls in the 7th house, so this retrograde is pushing me to think about / heal my partnership issues?Sounds accurate what i'm going through right now
No, Leo rules your 2nd house. So transit Venus in Leo is retrograding in that house. You are evaluating your sense of self-worth and financial security. There are other transits happening including T.Pluto in your 7th. You have been or will (depend on the degrees) have intense relationship that forces you to see others in a new light
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bluestskies88
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posted August 28, 2015 07:38 PM
thank you unknown and everyone who shared on this post. sending much love and healing to all. IP: Logged |
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