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posted September 18, 2018 08:08 AM            

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I know only one person with this. She has:

Cancer Venus
Aries Mars
Cap Pluto

Even for someone this young, and supposedly “innocent”, she makes me extremely uncomfortable!
There’s this violent, demeaning, passive aggressive and highly sexual undertone to her that I can’t stand.
It’s as if she can’t handle being little and thus knowing less about life than grownups so she always tries to ”overtake” them. She has lost a lot of friends in school lately and why that is, I don’t know, seeing as her facade is very sweet and helpless, but I can guess.

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posted September 18, 2018 01:15 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I know only one person with this. She has:

Cancer Venus
Aries Mars
Cap Pluto

Even for someone this young, and supposedly “innocent”, she makes me extremely uncomfortable!
There’s this violent, demeaning, passive aggressive and highly sexual undertone to her that I can’t stand.
It’s as if she can’t handle being little and thus knowing less about life than grownups so she always tries to ”overtake” them. She has lost a lot of friends in school lately and why that is, I don’t know, seeing as her facade is very sweet and helpless, but I can guess.

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May I ask how does a child have a sexual undertone to them?

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posted September 18, 2018 01:41 PM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
May I ask how does a child have a sexual undertone to them?

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I assume the same way one can detect sexual undertones in a grownup. Some children are sexual without knowing it and some are sexual, knowing it and trying to hide it.

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posted September 20, 2018 01:44 AM            

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Many children are innocently sexual and some children are extremely precocious & self aware about it. I was. I have also experienced precocious and knowing children. I have a lot of Pluto in my chart and just kinda *knew* things. Nobody really had to tell me. I definitely freaked out my parents with that stuff at a young age. I actually freaked out myself as well a bit - haha - because just b/c you invite or are "playing at" something, doesn't mean you're prepared to handle it.

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posted September 20, 2018 02:23 AM            

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[QUOTE]Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
[B]EDIT: actually let me rephrase that. Venus square Pluto is not "worse", that's drastic of me to say. What I meant is that Venus square Pluto is probably more of what you were asking about when you expressed your concern. As Venus square Pluto has more to do with our attitude and moral state acting up than Mars squaring Pluto.

In my example above, I think Venus square Pluto combined with the Mars square was making things much, much worse then just one single Pluto square alone. He was charming and incredibly OVER solicitous at first (also a bit suspect) but within hours was becoming very nasty with comments. They were slipping out everywhere. He's a regular at the restaurant and was sniping re: the bartender when I complimented her service. Then he was getting agitated at how loud the birthday party behind us was when they came in. He was also at times correcting & questioning me (also trying to pin me down and get more info) but I am actually MORE established in what I do so...he couldn't really say much. (not that I care.) When things got cut short, he just started to go crazy by the next day alternating between trying to charm me back and then zing me to try and stress me and make me lose my composure so he could transfer all his agitation and anxiety onto me so he could get calm. My mother is a double Scorpio Sun/moon and I am VERY well versed in this MO so I won't take it, I just call them out, the sweetly slip, slide away. Key was limiting contact, especially in-person contact and he would still try to find excuses to violate my space and try to touch me. I had other workers show up in the middle and he was really ****** that he couldn't isolate me & dominate my attention. I got an emergency phone call and had to leave so he ultimately was forced very quickly to finish up and get paid off & scooted out out the door in front of everyone which messed up all his machinations he was planning. The other guys were shaking their heads outside the windows talking about what a total *pendejo* he was. Thank god they were there and thank god he has plans to leave the country shortly! I was beginning to think I'd have to fake my own death to get rid of him! Ugh.

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