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Sagical
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From: Glenbow, Canada
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posted August 29, 2015 06:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Sagical     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Venus in Pisces square Neptune and Jupiter in Sag.

Will a person with this aspect EVER experience a real, true relationship or is one forever doomed to get into abusive and fake relationships?

Honestly, my relationships record for getting into the wrong one is at an all time high.

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athenaia
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posted August 29, 2015 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
The tightest orb in my chart is Venus in Aries square Neptune in Capricorn.

To paraphrase a philosopher, "cut away ruthlessly everything that is imaginary in your feelings." Every time you find yourself giddy about someone, be suspicious of yourself. Analyze your feelings underneath a sterile microscope. NEVER completely cast aside any concerns your friends/family will have about a person. Stop yourself whenever you find yourself defending the actions of your s/o in your head constantly.

It is possible to have healthy relationships with this aspect. I've been in one for three years, and if it ends, its only because we both have different goals for the rest of our lives. It has been a wonderful three years filled with honesty, unconditional love, trust, and respect.

You just always, ALWAYS have to talk to yourself as if you are a concerned and neutral counselor. Never allow yourself to get swept up in the thrill of love or this aspect will cast you out to sea. It's happened to me many times. Meditation helps. The mind wanders less when you can master a control over it.

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Kannon McAfee
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posted August 30, 2015 06:42 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Kannon McAfee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sagical, I also have Venus in aspect to Jupiter and Neptune in my birth chart. It took me until a few years ago to end the pattern of disappointment in love (unrequited, etc).

I understand that you are not happy with how your relationships have gone, and I totally support you in creating a relationship with someone who respects you. Determine this within yourself first. With that change completely in place you simply will not attract or find yourself attracted to those who want to or will allow themselves to abuse or disrespect you. It can take time. There was about a 3-year time interval from when I made those necessary changes within myself and in what I was putting out to others before I met my wife.

Birth chart factors describe potentials and challenges for integrating energies, but do not determine specific outcomes. I understand the tendency for a person with Venus/Pisces square Jup-Neptune/Sag to be overly generous and idealistic with others. This can be changed in a way in which you retain the great capacity for sensitivity and romance with a partner, but in which you also allow truth and honesty to play its proper role.

Imagine a person as partner about which you want to know the real truth about them, because there is nothing there to turn against you. Also, just because you can see the best in someone does not mean you should get personally involved with such a person.

This is one of those configurations, that like Libra-heavy charts or Moon/Sag factors, can have trouble sensing/assessing actual compatibility in a domestic partnership. So more effort must be made to be aware of the real basis for compatibility before proceeding.

The sensitivity and romanticism you have is a gift, but it needs to be protected by a healthy respect for yourself and with healthy boundaries. That is another thing that is so great about such configurations, they help us open up and knock down arbitrary or unnecessary boundaries, and tend to spiritualize unions. You have a right to be pickier.

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