posted September 15, 2015 10:58 PM            

My top would be:

- Mars/Venus

Mars opposite Venus (when the guy, or more masculine partner is Mars)... Mars sextile Venus (when the woman, or more feminine partner is Mars)... and the double whammy if it's close (regardless of the aspects).

I don't like any other Mars/Venus possibilities! The conjunction for example, is God awful (unless it's part of a double-whammy)

- Moon/Pluto, trine or conjunction.
The sextile is too weak.. and the square and opposition are too much for the Moon person. I am thinking about healthy connections here... Passionate and healthy, not passionate and toxic:/

- Venus or Mars conjunct the South Node... Sometimes Venus conjunct North Node.
Definitely not Mars conjunct North Node though (because that's more aggravating, than attractive)

- Having the AC/DC axis of one person conjunct either the AC/DC or MC/IC or Vertex/Anti-Vertex or NN/SN - of the other person.
If this is close, it can be extra karmic and they will very spontaneously be attracted.

- Having Uranus pop up all over the place. One or two Uranus aspects won't definitely do it... But if you see personal planet/Uranus aspects in the synastry, the composite, the first meeting chart etc.. and they are fairly close - that's very attractive!

I'll throw in a 6th... because I just can't play by the rules lol Mars/Mars aspects can be passionate and attractive, but if there isn't much going on, on an emotional and intellectual level... these aspects can turn ugly.

posted September 16, 2015 12:53 AM            

planets in the 8th house and/or ruling the 8th house
planets in the 7 house and/or ruling the 7th house
planets in the 5th house and/or ruling the 5th house
(INCLUDING romantic/yin/yang midpoints such as sun/moon or venus/mars or eros/psyche etc.)
Key to climax if all you want is to climax and/or feel a strong instant arousal and be in lushful love fantasy with your partner in my opinion look for (H22 - PRIAPUS) in synastry.....only for the conjunct/opposition in my opinion. the more your priapus is activated in each other's synastry if its conjunct/opposes a love asteroid AND/OR love planet ESPECIALLY JUPITER trust me you will feel an increase in strong arousal and the desire to merge with your partner can be REALLY INTENSE! BELIEVE ME i believe priapus is synastry is stronger then you really think it is, assuming your natal priapus isn't afflicted in the birth chart or in the progressed chart or in transit or someone's saturn or chiron puts a damper on your priapus in synastry vice versa.
and of course last but not least ALL OF THE BML'S conjunct the sun,moon,mercury,venus,mars,jupiter,uranus,neptune and pluto. NOT SATURN and NOT asteroid Lilith 1181 (she's known as the asexual lilith, she represents the asexuality side of a woman).

conjunctions,oppositions,trines i prefer the most (the sextile is good at first but fades over time unless in transit/or progressed planet in synastry which will trigger it.)

and if your in a relationship don't forget about the composite that also counts as well especially if you compare it to the natals.

posted September 16, 2015 12:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Julz87:
Saturn represents consistency, stamina, longevity etc..To Sun and Venus while there may be a limiting feel to it, it is a connection of consistency and devotion to the Sun-Venus person I think that's passion the person keeps you grounded etc etc...And lets face it who doesn't want someone who is devoted and is with you for the long haul.

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what's its a square though (consisting fixed signs)? and saturn is in the 5th house....i've heard saturn square venus and the sun is just awful while the conjunction and opposition and trine is better to manage.

posted September 16, 2015 02:33 AM            

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Originally posted by Odette:

I don't like any other Mars/Venus possibilities! The conjunction for example, is God awful (unless it's part of a double-whammy)

PS. Don't forget to check Chinese astrology! We're both Tigers as you know... To be honest, regardless of Western synastry - there are some Chinese signs that give me an instant headache (e.g. male dragons born in '88... *eek* ... kill.me.now.)

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Hey lady!

So tell me...why is the Venus-Mars conjunction so awful?

As for Chinese, I'm into it. But not as much as I'm into Western Astrology. I read that the (Dog), (Horse) and (Monkey) were the best matches for us (Tigers).

Would you agree with that?

posted September 16, 2015 08:02 AM            

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Originally posted by Adimi:
When the ruler of someone's 8th house is strongly aspected by a significant point in another's chart... That's a biggy!

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This is good to hear!

My partner's 8th house ruler, Uranus, conjuncts my ASC, and this has always worried me a bit, however, it just seems to give an energising and creative drive to the relationship, I find him very inspiring. 4 years later, we are still full of excitement, and zappiness.

My 8th house ruler, Venus, conjuncts his DSC.

At first glance we do not have a classically pretty or stable synastry, so I have been studying it all this time to find what keeps us together, I think the 8th connections must be part of it.

My SUN also falls in his 8th, conjunct his SUN and MERCURY.

posted September 21, 2015 10:19 AM            

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Originally posted by LilithEarthAngel:
Pluto & Mars

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posted September 21, 2015 10:59 AM            

Venus square Mars
His 5th and 8th house ruler are conjunct my sun and moon
Our 7th house rulers are conjunct each other's ascendant (ascendant/descendent conjunction)
Our 5th and 8th house rulers make strong connections to each other
His 5th and 8th house ruler to my Pluto

posted September 21, 2015 01:55 PM              

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
When it comes to being passionately attracted to another individual....

What do you find are the Top 5 aspects? Either in synastry or in an individual chart?

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Sun and Venus DW and mars sextile mars

posted September 21, 2015 04:42 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:

1. Mars-Pluto (conjunct, square): The best ___ ever
2. Venus-Pluto (esp square) : love-hate-love-rage-I-want-you-NOW!
3. Moon-Mars (conjunct, sq): Intense in a different way, can be incredibly tender too.

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I *need* this in my lyfffe!
I'm officially over the wait.

That kind of passion?? Is why I could never settle.

posted September 23, 2015 01:48 PM              

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Originally posted by LovelyAries86:
I *need* this in my lyfffe!
I'm officially over the wait.

That kind of passion?? Is why I could never settle.

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Good for you!

posted September 23, 2015 07:31 PM            

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Originally posted by Elysia:

Oh, and, I forgot about Lilith conjunct Sun/Venus : longing, longing, longing. The 'forbidden' kind of attraction.

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Longing on the part of both partners?

posted September 23, 2015 08:25 PM            

Mars/Venus

posted September 23, 2015 11:21 PM            

Moon square mars
Venus square Mars
Mars Square pluto DW
and Venus quincunx pluto all in the same relationship.

posted September 23, 2015 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini30:
I've had:

Moon square mars
Venus square Mars
Mars Square pluto DW
and Venus quincunx pluto all in the same relationship.

I don't know how i'm still alive lol.

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Jeesh!

I don't know how you made it out either. Ride of a lifetime?

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posted January 23, 2021 08:49 PM            

We couldn't keep our hands off eachother.

posted January 23, 2021 09:44 PM            

• Pluto conjunct Moon
• Neptune conjunct Mars
• Venus in 7th H
• Venus conjunct North Node
(although it's kind of doomed).
• Venus/Mars opposite ASC or Sun.
• Sun or Moon conjunct or opposite Sun/Moon midpoint.

I don't like Uranus hard aspects to personal planets especially to Moon/Mercury, I'm ok with Mars and Venus but the WoW factor is too short for my liking. It doesn't feel good if there aren't other good aspects supporting it.

In a man's natal chart my top ones are:

• Venus conjunct Saturn in Capricorn
(never fell in love with someone who doesn't have this, it falls in my 7th Hclose to my Neptune and North Node)
• Mars conjunct Neptune in Capricorn (daamn)
• Scorpio Moon if not afflicted by Mars/Uranus
• Mercury in Aqua, Capricorn, Scorpio if not afflicted by Mars/Uranus/Neptune.

posted January 26, 2021 01:04 AM            

We have many aspects that I think contribute to the reason we find one another to be irresistible, but I will name my top 5.

My 11° Venus 9° pluto conjunction in Scorpio 5th house Sextile His 11° Sun 9°Pluto conjunction in Virgo (11th I believe) Can't beat Venus & Pluto.

His 1st house Moon & Neptune @ 11° Scorpio Cunjunct my Venus/Pluto conjunction again. Moon/Venus is just such a loving aspect it is like neither one of us is capable of hurting one another in the slightest. We are always concerned about the others wellbeing whenever we see each other. I can see this aspect the most when we hold eye contact, talking with our eyes, which makes me happy it shows through stronger than the ones tied into sex.

Pluto conjunct Moon there is that raw emotional bond

His Scorpio Moon trine my Pisces Mars. Similar to Pluto/Venus but it is a little less intense sexually and operates on emotions and is more of a binding aspect where as pluto venus alone can fizzle out without other aspects holding it together.

Lastly our Pluto/Mars double whammy (kind of)

My Mars/Jupiter in pisces conjunction opposes his sun/Pluto conjunction in Virgo.

His Mars in Cancer (conjunct my asc) trines my Pluto and Venus conjunction in Scorpio.

Mars & Pluto aspects are purely carnal on their own, which can make for great sex, but need binding aspects in the charts to hold the relationship together.

posted March 17, 2021 10:13 AM            

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Originally posted by tgem:
A Mars/pluto DW.. It's insane!!!

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