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Ami Anne
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posted March 17, 2021 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Nessus synastry is off the walls passion but ends badly. When someone contacts me INSANE over another person, it is always Nessus.

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posted November 11, 2021 06:57 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for problematique     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My top 5 would be (any aspects):

Mars/Moon - THIS IS A MUST, especially a square. super tense.

Venus/Mars - especially opposition is very powerful, unable to let go.

Venus/Pluto - all of them. something that can't be put into words.

Venus/Uranus - somewhat painful and exhausting. but hot. like being on drugs with the person.

Lilith multiple aspects. "worse" or "better" than pluto, depends how you view it. it will make you loose your mind.

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posted November 11, 2021 09:00 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MonteCristo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I’ve never been more primally, sexually, mentally drawn/attracted to anyone more than this guy:

His Mars conjunct my ASC
His Mars conjunct my Pluto
His Venus opposite my Venus
His moon and Saturn conjunct my Jupiter in 7th house
His north node conjunct my sun, merc, Venus, Mars

Oof... 🥵

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posted November 11, 2021 05:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by problematique:
My top 5 would be (any aspects):

Mars/Moon - THIS IS A MUST, especially a square. super tense.

Venus/Mars - especially opposition is very powerful, unable to let go.

Venus/Pluto - all of them. something that can't be put into words.

Venus/Uranus - somewhat painful and exhausting. but hot. like being on drugs with the person.

Lilith multiple aspects. "worse" or "better" than pluto, depends how you view it. it will make you loose your mind.


I had all of this (except Ven/Uranus) with someone and the chemistry was off the charts. We also had a sun Mars opposition and a Lilith Pluto conunction as well as other Lilith aspects. It was really insane.

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posted November 11, 2021 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moon same Sign or especially opposite Sign of Mars
Venus same Sign or especially opposite Sign of Mars
Mars same Sign or opposite Sign of Asc
Asc opposite Sign the other person's Asc
Venus in 8th House
Mars in 8th House
Mars in 5th House
Mars conjunct or opposed Asc ruler
Moon in 8th (Moon is a combo of low key, passive sexual and romantic/emotional at the same time).
Moon in 5th House.

Not so much sexual or romantic, but Moon opposed or opposite Sign of Saturn is a surprisingly a strong and peculiar magnetic interaction. Makes sense--they rule opposite Signs, one is quite Yin and one is quite Yang.

Watch out when there is a multi-combo of the above factors...muy caliente!

Actually, I've found that Sun conjunct or opposite Mars can be pretty strong too, but that's probably because Sun rules my Asc. I had a double Sun Mars conjunction with one lass, and yeah, I was definitely intensely in lust with her. Her Moon was conjunct my Venus in my 7th, and opposed my Asc as well and her Scoprio Venus Pluto conjunction was conjunct my IC. I don't know what her Asc Sign was, but guessing it was probably either Aquarius or Libra.

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posted November 12, 2021 06:13 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eternal Energy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anything Pluto touches. If you don't dare to confess to yourself "forever addicted", you can at least admit "forever changed". And even if you might say that "forever" is Saturn's territory, let me tell you that Pluto's touch lives as if it is now, whereas Saturn's touch lives in memory...

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posted November 12, 2021 06:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Eternal Energy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Take good care of trying to understand which Pluto's touch you are going to feel before entering his zone.

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posted November 12, 2021 10:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for MonteCristo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Eternal Energy:
Anything Pluto touches. If you don't dare to confess to yourself "forever addicted", you can at least admit "forever changed". And even if you might say that "forever" is Saturn's territory, let me tell you that Pluto's touch lives as if it is now, whereas Saturn's touch lives in memory...

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posted November 12, 2021 12:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My most intense relationship ever that just consumed me had.

WARNING - ADULT CONTENT BELOW!

1. A double whammy with Mars and Pluto within a 3 degree orb. Given the generational tendency of Pluto, I do not count it if it is more than that, especially over 5 degrees.

My blame on this aspect is on the control of it. I remember one day going somewhere and her constantly texting me saying where I was at, my phone was off. I came back and she boiled into rage, accused me of cheating when I told her I went for a hike. We got into a heated argument but then she went to the bathroom. Comes out wearing her lingerie with a whip in her hand, says to me "alright, punishment time, you gotta learn bad boy". I shook my head and she started whipping me. I grabbed her and wrestled her down to which she smiled, we did it on the floor even though the bed was less than 4 ft away.

The worst part was that when we did it, that was it, our day was not gonna be productive. We'd lay in bed just doing it that whole day, neither of us letting the other escape. She'd even get off the bed laughing and said to me "looks like I am going home!" while I grabbed her leg and yanked her back to the bed, she loved that. We loved the idea of trying to escape each other but then having the other draw us back in, it was like a game.

2. A double whammy between Mars and Venus, both in rough aspects.

Somehow I hated her but when we ****** , it was off the walls sex and the best I have ever had. This was within a 3 degree orb but I give it more leniency if it is inner planets. I loved how she smelled after not showering for days, she freaking stunk and somehow that aroused and made me more aggressive.

What got me about this is that she would trash talk me a lot to get under my skin and somehow it would turn me on. One time she shouted at me in private saying "sleazy piece of sh-t, always just playing with that thing, get a hobby motherfuck-er, what's so special about that thing? Huh!", then grabbed my cawk with an angry look on her face. Immediately started to stroke it out of frustration and blew me while she was ****** off.

I called her a dirty **** weeks later, she is usually sensitive about insults but when I did it, she played along sarcastically saying "yeah what else am I daddy?". I was genuinely ****** and called her a leech that needs to get out of my life, she replied with "oh gonna get me out your life now tough guy". She grabbed my schlong again and kept saying "come on tough guy, gonna hit me on the face with that? It would hurt so don't do it". We were in private so she stripped down to her bra and panties while angrily shoving against me, tells me "you're a p-ssy, ain't gonna do sh-t!". I told her she should work the corners because she is batting out of her league and then she had "well they gotta pay, I'll do it for free because you're too broke to even afford a happy meal". I gave in and we did it raw, even choked her but she had a sinister serpent-like smile on her face.

I'd never seen this side of her in public, ever.

3. My moon conjunct her Pluto, I was the moon and boy oh boy did she have some serious power there.

I'd tell myself if I see her again, I am not touching her and I am ignoring her. Even did it onetime at an apartment rooftop pool where the two of us were the only ones there. She came up to me, laid on me, and I told her to "get off" but she mocked me saying "meh meh meh get off" and slapped me on the face while laughing. We immediately started to make out and 69'd each other, thankfully no one was around and this was a more hidden part of the pool. I could not escape her and if she wanted me to be her slave, I'd do it.

Until this point, I had never eaten a woman's butt, it changed when we were together. I'd be napping and she'd sit on my face (she had a nice athletic a$$), as soon as I'd wake we were doing it. She'd even walk around nude and bend over in front of me, telling me it's time for me to get to business. Yeah.....

4. Her Mars conjunct my ascendant.

It was exact as well. I felt it the day we touched each other. I handed her something and was not readily releasing it, she snatched it out of my hand and a deep breath left her as she looked into my eyes intensely. The few times she saw me come back from the gym, she'd look at me and I'd stare at her. One time she hit her shin on something and I went to help her out. I know it hurts but she forgot about the pain when I touched her. We could not keep our hands off each other. Whenever I'd get lazy, she'd get aggressive towards me and trash talk with me only for us to end up having sex.

5. Her Mars trine my Sun.

We felt on the same page on a lot of things and often challenged each other. At times, we'd wrestle naked after a workout and laugh about it afterwards. I remember when she told me to eat her bum and she was laying nude on the bed taking to her friend on the phone as I did it. She sounded so casually laughing while her friend did not even know what was going on. I'd be playing video games and sometimes she'd blow me as I played.

We broke up because I had to move and she got into a relationship a year later.

Most intense one I had for sure.

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posted November 12, 2021 05:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for kani     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
My most intense relationship ever that just consumed me had.

WARNING - ADULT CONTENT BELOW!

1. A double whammy with Mars and Pluto within a 3 degree orb. Given the generational tendency of Pluto, I do not count it if it is more than that, especially over 5 degrees.

My blame on this aspect is on the control of it. I remember one day going somewhere and her constantly texting me saying where I was at, my phone was off. I came back and she boiled into rage, accused me of cheating when I told her I went for a hike. We got into a heated argument but then she went to the bathroom. Comes out wearing her lingerie with a whip in her hand, says to me "alright, punishment time, you gotta learn bad boy". I shook my head and she started whipping me. I grabbed her and wrestled her down to which she smiled, we did it on the floor even though the bed was less than 4 ft away.

The worst part was that when we did it, that was it, our day was not gonna be productive. We'd lay in bed just doing it that whole day, neither of us letting the other escape. She'd even get off the bed laughing and said to me "looks like I am going home!" while I grabbed her leg and yanked her back to the bed, she loved that. We loved the idea of trying to escape each other but then having the other draw us back in, it was like a game.

2. A double whammy between Mars and Venus, both in rough aspects.

Somehow I hated her but when we ****** , it was off the walls sex and the best I have ever had. This was within a 3 degree orb but I give it more leniency if it is inner planets. I loved how she smelled after not showering for days, she freaking stunk and somehow that aroused and made me more aggressive.

What got me about this is that she would trash talk me a lot to get under my skin and somehow it would turn me on. One time she shouted at me in private saying "sleazy piece of sh-t, always just playing with that thing, get a hobby motherfuck-er, what's so special about that thing? Huh!", then grabbed my cawk with an angry look on her face. Immediately started to stroke it out of frustration and blew me while she was ****** off.

I called her a dirty **** weeks later, she is usually sensitive about insults but when I did it, she played along sarcastically saying "yeah what else am I daddy?". I was genuinely ****** and called her a leech that needs to get out of my life, she replied with "oh gonna get me out your life now tough guy". She grabbed my schlong again and kept saying "come on tough guy, gonna hit me on the face with that? It would hurt so don't do it". We were in private so she stripped down to her bra and panties while angrily shoving against me, tells me "you're a p-ssy, ain't gonna do sh-t!". I told her she should work the corners because she is batting out of her league and then she had "well they gotta pay, I'll do it for free because you're too broke to even afford a happy meal". I gave in and we did it raw, even choked her but she had a sinister serpent-like smile on her face.

I'd never seen this side of her in public, ever.

3. My moon conjunct her Pluto, I was the moon and boy oh boy did she have some serious power there.

I'd tell myself if I see her again, I am not touching her and I am ignoring her. Even did it onetime at an apartment rooftop pool where the two of us were the only ones there. She came up to me, laid on me, and I told her to "get off" but she mocked me saying "meh meh meh get off" and slapped me on the face while laughing. We immediately started to make out and 69'd each other, thankfully no one was around and this was a more hidden part of the pool. I could not escape her and if she wanted me to be her slave, I'd do it.

Until this point, I had never eaten a woman's butt, it changed when we were together. I'd be napping and she'd sit on my face (she had a nice athletic a$$), as soon as I'd wake we were doing it. She'd even walk around nude and bend over in front of me, telling me it's time for me to get to business. Yeah.....

4. Her Mars conjunct my ascendant.

It was exact as well. I felt it the day we touched each other. I handed her something and was not readily releasing it, she snatched it out of my hand and a deep breath left her as she looked into my eyes intensely. The few times she saw me come back from the gym, she'd look at me and I'd stare at her. One time she hit her shin on something and I went to help her out. I know it hurts but she forgot about the pain when I touched her. We could not keep our hands off each other. Whenever I'd get lazy, she'd get aggressive towards me and trash talk with me only for us to end up having sex.

5. Her Mars trine my Sun.

We felt on the same page on a lot of things and often challenged each other. At times, we'd wrestle naked after a workout and laugh about it afterwards. I remember when she told me to eat her bum and she was laying nude on the bed taking to her friend on the phone as I did it. She sounded so casually laughing while her friend did not even know what was going on. I'd be playing video games and sometimes she'd blow me as I played.

We broke up because I had to move and she got into a relationship a year later.

Most intense one I had for sure.


Are you talking about the same woman or are these different women?

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posted November 13, 2021 02:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
To be honest, there seems to be a fine line between passion and right out toxic. The relationship that plutonianmenace describes really makes me want to scream: run Forrest, run! This woman did not respect his boundaries and was even abusive towards him. Be careful with Pluto aspects. No amount of hot s*x can make up for the damage that a toxic relationship can do to you. You’re worth more than that.

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posted November 13, 2021 03:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree P.W.H.

Also, when we have sex with people, we tend to more powerfully blend/merge our energies with them than we would normally would.

If the other person is slow vibratory and/or imbalanced, this is not necessarily a good idea. It can negatively affect/rub off on your own energy.

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posted November 18, 2021 11:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by PlutoWasHere:
To be honest, there seems to be a fine line between passion and right out toxic. The relationship that plutonianmenace describes really makes me want to scream: run Forrest, run! This woman did not respect his boundaries and was even abusive towards him. Be careful with Pluto aspects. No amount of hot s*x can make up for the damage that a toxic relationship can do to you. You’re worth more than that.

oh it was toxic, toxic but addicting

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posted November 19, 2021 11:54 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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oh it was toxic, toxic but addicting

And did you learn anything from it? These type of relationships usually happen because there is a lesson.

You already know that you have some harsh natal Pluto aspects and your Saturn return is becoming a theme. I have seen you lash out a couple of times on this forum and I think a heads up is in place here. As I have advised before, you really should start working on your Plutonic issues or it could explode in your face. Your progressed Moon (in Scorpio!) is quickly approaching your natal Pluto. Somewhere in May 2022 they will conjunct and if you haven’t worked on those issues, Pluto will probably become your personal planetary dr. pimple popper. All that nasty infected mess will come out one way or another. And if you work with that in the right way, you will transform into a better person as a result.

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posted November 19, 2021 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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And did you learn anything from it? These type of relationships usually happen because there is a lesson.

You already know that you have some harsh natal Pluto aspects and your Saturn return is becoming a theme. I have seen you lash out a couple of times on this forum and I think a heads up is in place here. As I have advised before, you really should start working on your Plutonic issues or it could explode in your face. Your progressed Moon (in Scorpio!) is quickly approaching your natal Pluto. Somewhere in May 2022 they will conjunct and if you haven’t worked on those issues, Pluto will probably become your personal planetary dr. pimple popper. All that nasty infected mess will come out one way or another. And if you work with that in the right way, you will transform into a better person as a result.


A new breed of sociopath has descended on our society recently, well maybe they were always there but they have become far more prominent now than at any other point in history perhaps. I call this the ones who pose as friends and caring individuals when in reality, they just want to ruin others yet lack the spine for head on confrontations. Along with Mirage, I have to say, you are amongst the most insincere people on this forum and that's no easy feat.

The tragedy isn't even your lack of sincerity but rather how poor you are at hiding it. What's the matter with you?

You come on this thread and try to pose as someone meaning to help me and then being the two-faced individual you are, somehow make it seem like I am the one with issues here?

Anyone with any bit of common sense and no dog in any fight would see that I spoke my mind and when others tried to fling false accusations at me, I defended myself like anyone should. At least with those people, I can somehow to some degree respect their straightforwardness. With you and Mirage, I cannot see for the life of me how someone will respect such filthy snakes.

Don't ever try to do this sort of disgusting insincere garbage of trying to come off as someone who wants to help, you're not even good at hiding your insincerity. Before you tell me or anyone to work on their "issues", I say you do a bit of soul searching and fix your own house first. People like you in society make my skin crawl because I don't even know how you live with yourselves being this insincere and scummy.

Stop worrying about me or my life or anything, you worry about yourself. If you do this sort of insincere nonsense to other people you see as being in trouble where you pose as their friend when you are just trying to ruin them, then I hope that Saturn and Pluto fling the worst they have at you and give you a lesson for the ages you won't forget.

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posted November 19, 2021 08:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GalacticCoreExplosionV2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have fairly developed spidy senses, and I feel/intuit/think that PlutoWasHere is more positive than not--probably more than the average person. And she has spoken wisdom to you, but you just don't want to hear it so you project your shadow onto her.

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posted November 20, 2021 03:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
A new breed of sociopath has descended on our society recently, well maybe they were always there but they have become far more prominent now than at any other point in history perhaps...

You do understand that your reaction only proves my point, don't you? You have some serious boundary issues going on and you either let people step all over you or your reaction is way out of proportion. There is no in between with you. Also, you seem to have trouble seeing your own part in everything that is happening to you. You see yourself as a victim and refuse to understand how your own actions are making this happen. You flaunt your issues on a forum that is about astrology in name, but is about personal growth in essence. And you expect people to silently watch a car crash about to happen?

And just so you know, I really have no need for your approval when it comes to posting on this forum. So either deal with the "tough love" you're getting here like an adult or move on.

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posted November 20, 2021 03:49 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@GCE, thank you for your support. You have a kind heart.

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posted November 20, 2021 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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You do understand that your reaction only proves my point, don't you? You have some serious boundary issues going on and you either let people step all over you or your reaction is way out of proportion. There is no in between with you. Also, you seem to have trouble seeing your own part in everything that is happening to you. You see yourself as a victim and refuse to understand how your own actions are making this happen. You flaunt your issues on a forum that is about astrology in name, but is about personal growth in essence. And you expect people to silently watch a car crash about to happen?

And just so you know, I really have no need for your approval when it comes to posting on this forum. So either deal with the "tough love" you're getting here like an adult or move on.


You know what the irony about "tough love" is? The people giving it need it more than anyone else.

Answer my question you filthy two-faced rat, how do you live with yourself?

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posted November 20, 2021 04:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for plutonianmenace     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by GalacticCoreExplosionV2:
I have fairly developed spidy senses, and I feel/intuit/think that PlutoWasHere is more positive than not--probably more than the average person. And she has spoken wisdom to you, but you just don't want to hear it so you project your shadow onto her.

Take sides if you like, I actually do like you but hey, only to a certain point. I trust my intuition.

It's so messed up when they say I "lash out" when people create accounts just to go at me. Yeah, like I cannot even defend myself here, go screw yourselves.

God Bless Kyle Rittenhouse.

Let's Go Brandon!!

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posted November 20, 2021 05:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for PlutoWasHere     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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... Answer my question you filthy two-faced rat, how do you live with yourself?

Do you really feel that this is the proper way to adress someone? I think we can add Mars conjunct Mercury as another passion aspect in synastry. Not in a good way though

I have no trouble living with myself at all. My conscious is clear. My posts were actually the opposite of being two-faced, it was all about being honest with you. Maybe a bit too brutal for your liking, but you not liking the message doesn't make it less true.

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God Bless Kyle Rittenhouse.

off topic but this little s hit should have been locked up for a long time. Taking justice into his own hands.

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Men born in 1965 have Neptune Scorpio 18 degrees.

My moon is 18 degrees. The connection is there, but you don't think about it too much because you are so caught up in your own life.

But then all of a sudden I catch my self getting obsessed with them.

Especially if husband is not paying enough attention to me. And I'm just going through a rough crappy time in general. These Neptune men become my escape fantasy. I get guilt and shame for being so into them. I try to deny it, until I can't take it anymore and think about them in my "alone time." Because dang it I need to relieve stress, and they are really doing it for me. Once I never see them again I can still fantasize about them two years later...and a bit on occasion after that.

We have amazing conversations, that make me want them more. I don't know how to control myself. I feel like a damn fool around them when it gets to that point sometimes. Sometimes I'll get too self conscious around them and try to tone it down. Then they break the ice and put me at ease...and I get hella turned on later thinking about our interactions.

I feel like in both occurrences it's a Stockholm syndrome crush too. Scorpio is my 6th house. One was my college professor. Because of this class and working I really had no life. I'm also going through some kind of tragedy that can make super venerable. 6th house themes can make me feel like I work so much that I am denied a social life, hobbies, outlets, etc. Besides husband and family they are really the only guys I socialize with and have meaningful conversations with.

The professor had a Capricorn stellulum. That is my 8th house. Though his Sun was in my 9th house which totally makes sense. His Mercury was in my 8th house. Even if he picked a part my papers or applauded me....it was so hot!
Totally got big daddy dom authority over me vibes. The last day of class I had showy cleavage really pushed up my boobs, and slapped on strong perfume.

Okay now this guy at work...snuck up on me. I always liked him and cared about him. I find him very endearing while others think he's a weirdo. When he started working at my job we didn't socialize enough. I probably never realized I was flirting with him on a conscience level. Plus I was still very consumed by my professor at the time. And husband was around and did not get his travel job yet.

When my husband(boyfriend at the time) started working out of state, coincidentally we were able to have some very long meaningful talks. We were alone with each other in the building at a weird time. He also kind of has that Kristen Stewart personality, so I love it when I can get him to smile or laugh. My super intuitive co-worker saw me eye-ball **** !ng him. And was like "so how is your boyfriend doing? You should talk to him everyday, yadda yadda." I didn't even feel that strongly about him yet. Or at least on a conscious level.

Well last school year was very good for me. I was my best self. I would really converse with him in the morning. I started to wonder if he liked me or whatever. I could also confide with him in the morning when I was going though apartment drama. I've shared secrets with him.

When we talk the boss tells him to get back to work sometimes. While I was happy with my life....oh my God when our eyes lock! I would do it in front of co-workers. I think my boss is picking up on the vibes, after sometime she comes in to interrupt and cut off our chats. We haven't been able to chat as much as we did last year. When boss comes in my classroom, it kind of feels like we are getting caught.

I think the 24/25 age gap is super hot too. I tried to be cool and not try hard last week. He broke ice with me and came closer and closer and closer to me as I was glued to my chair getting progress reports done. Sometimes his voice gets really low, and I feel so weak/shocked.

One day in the summer this year. I fantasized about dominating him. Afterwards I told myself no more, I'm going to make things get weird at work.

This year he vacuumed under my chair while I was sitting on it. My face must of been so red.

But here I am now. My life has little joy, I have no outlets really most of the time. HARDLY any privacy. My husband does not know how to get me hot and bothered when we are long distance. We have been working on our intimacy's for years. Things have improved. I've told my husband there are things we can do to keep the passion going, it falls on deaf ears. Husband and I have been intimate for almost 7 years. You know what they say about the 7th year. My coworker went though this with her husband and she said he use to not be good in bed. THEY PUT in the WORK, and now he is good. These 18 degree Neptune men always seem to give me the wake up call to work on my committed relationship.

But now that I have no life, feel like I can barely do anything for my self, frustrated with my husband's lack of passion. I work too much....the feelings for the custodian have really taken off. I don't even give a eff anymore. I had the most obnoxious organism thinking about him last week while still able to stay quiet. IDGAF if I see him the next day either.

I think Venus in my 8th right now is really intensifying this along with Scorpio season really makes for a Stockholm crush. I think I'll control my self easier once Sagittarius season begins.

Also this coworker and I have Pluto conjunct Mars: I read that this makes feeling gets stronger and stronger over time. "Good thing" I am quitting next year. I really don't feel in control anymore.

We also have Mars square Mars. I read we seem to get in each others way...but it's so hot when we get in each other's way. It's kind of freaky and surreal how we run into each other sometimes.

My Lilith also conjuncts his Neptune and Mars

I've never been too close with a Venus in Scorpio guy. (ladies hell yes) It opposes my Mercury Taurus. I swear he gets jealous when I talk about my husband.

okay that's enough....I am slowly going to get my life back. It just doesn't feel like it yet.

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Originally posted by plutonianmenace:
Take sides if you like, I actually do like you but hey, only to a certain point. I trust my intuition.

It's so messed up when they say I "lash out" when people create accounts just to go at me. Yeah, like I cannot even defend myself here, go screw yourselves.

God Bless Kyle Rittenhouse.

Let's Go Brandon!!


Seriously?

I actually agree that tough love doesn't work for some. It doesn't work for me.

But people here haven't created accounts to lash out at you. You can defend yourself, and so can they.

Screw Kyle Rittenhouse, and rumpy.

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