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Topic: Scorpionic/Plutonic women, do you like possessive men?
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Gemini30
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posted September 07, 2015 03:33 PM
  
For you ladies who have Scorpio strong in your chart, or are plutonic, scorpio moon, etc...Do you find it attractive when a man is possessive of you? Do you also find it attractive when a man gets jealous? Do you find it attractive when a man is overly emotional?
I ask this cause as a Male with pluto and scorpio strong in my chart, i love when a woman gets jealous and possessive of me. I don't know why but i'm also the jealous and possessive type myself as i have venus opp pluto. However, i'm finally getting control of that aspect.
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GeminiKarat
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posted September 07, 2015 03:47 PM
I can only answer from the progressed version. I have 5 planets in scorpio. quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
Do you find it attractive when a man is possessive of you?
Nope. quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30 :
Do you also find it attractive when a man gets jealous?
Nope. He should be proud that I stay with him although there are other men around. quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
Do you find it attractive when a man is overly emotional?
^^^^There is still my Libra stellium answering with: It depends. 
quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
I ask this cause as a Male with pluto and scorpio strong in my chart, i love when a woman gets jealous and possessive of me. I don't know why but i'm also the jealous and possessive type myself as i have venus opp pluto. However, i'm finally getting control of that aspect.
^^^^Interesting. My children are scorpios. quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
PS: Happy Labor day everyone!
I will go to bed and you can celebrate. There has to be a difference!  IP: Logged |
goddessinworld
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posted September 07, 2015 03:57 PM
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4lifephrases
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posted September 07, 2015 04:46 PM
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Do you find it attractive when a man is possessive of you?
No. quote:
Do you also find it attractive when a man gets jealous?
Yes, only if he shows it and easily reassured i.e. like he trusts me. quote:
Do you find it attractive when a man is overly emotional?
No.
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Odette
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posted September 07, 2015 04:53 PM
I think they like ob-sessive men, rather than po-ssessive men. Taurus (the opposite of Scorpio) might go for possessive, as well as stable, reliable etc. My Venus is conjunct NN in Taurus, and my Pluto is conjunct SN in Scorpio - so I have personal experience with this axis  IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted September 07, 2015 04:58 PM
Gemini30 - Out of curiosity... does -being trusted- or -seen as reliable- mean much to you?
Would a partner's jealousy ever offend you because it implies a lack of trust? Or do you simply not care so much whether they trust you or not? I'm not sure whether this is my Venus/Pluto opposition or my Capricorn placements, but being distrusted actually offends me. So jealousy doesn't make me feel flattered. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted September 07, 2015 05:00 PM
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erickaf
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posted September 07, 2015 05:04 PM
I think Scorpio/Plutonic women don't like intensity and possessiveness. Intensity and such...is for me is the biggest turn off.
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Odette
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posted September 07, 2015 05:04 PM
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whoever I date should already have a knowledge of who I am, which is a boring, disciplined saturnian.
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florence
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posted September 07, 2015 05:08 PM
assuming scorpio asc qualifies as plutonic, pluto singleton too...Possessive .. Yes
Jealous .. Yes
Overly emotional ... Yes, sometimes but not always, not as default or at least some control Tbh if I'm attracted anyway, the above will strengthen that. If I'm not, it will turn me off further. And if I'm in between ... How I feel about those reactions show me whether I will or won't be attracted IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted September 07, 2015 05:09 PM
^ You have a Taurus DC  IP: Logged |
florence
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posted September 07, 2015 05:10 PM
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Originally posted by theunknown:
but the person should try to hide it lol
Exactament! That's what I was looking to put into words. Don't get it but that seems to make a difference IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted September 07, 2015 05:14 PM
Oh.. I didn't pick up on that part of your post lolPersonally, I want to know them inside and out. No hiding please. Tell it like it is. Being a jealous, distrusting type is bad enough. Trying to hide it only makes it worse - because then I can't lecture him to his face about how he should always trust me, and such...
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florence
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posted September 07, 2015 05:15 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
^ You have a Taurus DC
True. Can see the possessive is Taurean but I've absolutely hated that quality at times too. So I'm not sure about answering this q. Can say however that am automatically confused by people who are averse to any possessiveness / jealousy (even being Uranian) so that tells me it is more than not the way I am. IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted September 07, 2015 05:29 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
I think Scorpio/Plutonic women don't like intensity and possessiveness. Intensity and such...is for me is the biggest turn off.
Excuse me? Scorpionic women don't like intensity? Ha! That's like saying Pisces people don't like to dream! Or Virgo's not liking to be analytical! Maybe they don't like possessiveness but intensity i'm sure they love it. IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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posted September 07, 2015 05:32 PM
Healthy jealousy and possesiveness- yes. I get jealous and possessive, and definitely obsessive. I am very intense, and I like intensity in a man. Anything less is a turn off. It's too wishy washy for me otherwise. IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted September 07, 2015 05:33 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Odette:
Gemini30 - Out of curiosity... does -being trusted- or -seen as reliable- mean much to you?
Would a partner's jealousy ever offend you because it implies a lack of trust? Or do you simply not care so much whether they trust you or not? I'm not sure whether this is my Venus/Pluto opposition or my Capricorn placements, but being distrusted actually offends me. So jealousy doesn't make me feel flattered.
It depends. Like a previous poster said, a healthy does of jealousy and possessiveness is good. However, if my girlfriend is calling me every 5 minutes while i'm with my friends, than that i will not tolerate. THAT is a sign of mistrust. A good example of healthy jealousy would be if i'm out with my girl and i'm looking at other women. She catches me and gets upset, that i like! And yes, i need to be seen as reliable. I hate letting people down and i expect people not to let me down. When i get let down, like a broken promise, i let the other person know immediately that you did me wrong. My only capricorn planet is neptune but it is a singleton for me, as it is my only earth planet. Not sure, but i think Venus/Pluto is the culprit here in both of our cases. IP: Logged |
florence
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posted September 07, 2015 05:38 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Excuse me? Scorpionic women don't like intensity? Ha! That's like saying Pisces people don't like to dream! Or Virgo's not liking to be analytical! Maybe they don't like possessiveness but intensity i'm sure they love it.
I agree but I can see truth in what erickaf says too as .. Sometimes others being less intense draws the intensity out in me. Would probably need some signs of it in the first place though to get that very unfortunate dynamic rolling though IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted September 07, 2015 06:19 PM
Wow i think this explains my attraction to men that have jealousy issues and are possessive, i like emotional men too. Every man i have been attracted to have had jealousy issues and are also very possessive even if they can`t really "claim" you, lol. I have noticed scorpio/pluto influenced folks esp those with pluto/venus or mars/pluto don`t like detached types and can easily be put off by it. I have seen plenty of times women with hard mars/pluto aspects get themselves involved with men that have major jealousy issues and are also controlling and possessive. And its this one wrestler i checked the chart of after i watched a reality show she`s on and she has her mars in scorpio and boy does her husband have major jealousy issues and it seems like she finds it cute and isn`t put off by it. IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted September 07, 2015 06:29 PM
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Originally posted by Dreaminess:
Wow i think this explains my attraction to men that have jealousy issues and are possessive, i like emotional men too. Every man i have been attracted to have had jealousy issues and are also very possessive even if they can`t really "claim" you. I have noticed scorpio/pluto influenced folks esp those with pluto/venus or mars/pluto don`t like detached types and can easily be put off by it. I have seen plenty of times women with hard mars/pluto aspects get themselves involved with men that have major jealousy issues and are also controlling and possessive. And its this one wrestler i checked the chart of after i watched a reality show she`s on and she has her mars in scorpio and boy does her husband have major jealousy issues and it seems like she finds it cute and isn`t put off by it.
Do you have a venus/pluto or mars/pluto aspect? I have venus opp pluto and mars in the 8th. I also suspect that water mars women could be into men that are overbearing like that, especially mars in cancer.
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erickaf
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posted September 07, 2015 06:29 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Gemini30:
Excuse me? Scorpionic women don't like intensity? Ha! That's like saying Pisces people don't like to dream! Or Virgo's not liking to be analytical! Maybe they don't like possessiveness but intensity i'm sure they love it.
Well maybe its just me :-). IP: Logged |
Isa
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posted September 07, 2015 06:31 PM
Yes. But there is a difference between possessive and abusive.IP: Logged |
Gemini30
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posted September 07, 2015 06:34 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
Well maybe its just me :-).
Do you have any uranian aspects/qualities? Aquarius signs? What is your mars sign? If you dont mind me asking. IP: Logged |
RogueReader
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posted September 07, 2015 06:38 PM
Do you find it attractive when a man is possessive of you?- In small doses yes, much to the shame of my Air placements. Don't judge meeeeee LOL Do you also find it attractive when a man gets jealous? - Immensely and secretly, but only every now and then. Plus, it has to be relatively easy to reassure the jealous partner. If the jealousy issue pops up often and amounts to marathon fighting, not into it. Do you find it attractive when a man is overly emotional? - Hmmmm...if by "overly emotional," you mean exhibiting passion or intensity in their expression, then hell yes! But I prefer magnitude over frequency when it comes to emotionality. That just registers as "alive" for my Pluto parts. 8th House Mars, Sun square Pluto, Moon sextile Pluto, Venus trine Pluto, and Pluto trine Midheaven speaking. IP: Logged |
Dreaminess
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posted September 07, 2015 06:39 PM
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Originally posted by Gemini30:
Do you have a venus/pluto or mars/pluto aspect? I have venus opp pluto and mars in the 8th. I also suspect that water mars women could be into men that are overbearing like that, especially mars in cancer.
I have pluto square venus and mars semisextile pluto. IP: Logged |
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