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Topic: Mars in Pisces -what is the weakness?
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Swanlake
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posted September 11, 2015 12:21 PM
 
I want to identify the weakness of having Mars in Pisces..
(SO PLEASE DO NOT OFFER "POLITICALLY CORRECT" /PEOPLE PLEASING favorable versions" etc.I wish to pin down the weak points, so as to be able to counter them..
Thank you.
Ok lets go... IP: Logged |
Abc333
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posted September 11, 2015 12:32 PM
Mars in Pisces can be too forgiving, making them a doormat for others sometimes. You have to learn to stand your ground with this placement.IP: Logged |
Swanlake
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posted September 11, 2015 12:46 PM
Thank you thank you ...Yes! This has been my problem...too forgiving
and yes like a doormat.
I cringe. And I'm tired of being like that IP: Logged |
DrewMann
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posted September 11, 2015 01:16 PM
They are sexually insatiable. Oh and the kinky type too. But hey that's NOT a weakness...that's a PLUS!!!!!
Oh sucks I spoilt your doom and gloom.IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 11, 2015 01:45 PM
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Originally posted by DrewMann:
They are sexually insatiable. Oh and the kinky type too. But hey that's NOT a weakness...that's a PLUS!!!!!
Oh sucks I spoilt your doom and gloom.
the mars in pisces men i was unlucky enough to sleep with were extremely lazy in bed, very passive, and very feminine and emotional. laziness is a hallmark of this sign and it definitely comes with them to the bedroom. maybe you're influenced by something different in your chart... IP: Logged |
DrewMann
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posted September 11, 2015 04:59 PM
Maybe you picked the wrong guy. Maybe he was influenced by something else in his chart.IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 11, 2015 05:20 PM
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Originally posted by DrewMann:
Maybe you picked the wrong guy. Maybe he was influenced by something else in his chart.
i said men.. not man. sadly, the pattern repeated itself with a few. but i rectified my errors and left that sign behind... the mars placement anyway IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted September 11, 2015 06:29 PM
Mars in Pisces is a major "passive aggressive" placement, which is rarely good. But there are times it aids in keeping a level head which can be good. (Though the imaginative side of Pisces can blow a conflict way out of proportion as well.) My BFF with this placement blames it (and Pisces moon) for why she seems attracted to men who are often whiny (she'd say "moody") but dreamy or artistic in some way, and who are typically passive aggressive losers (or at least people she needs to lose). This could be in part because she hates direct conflict (so passive aggressive feels safer to her) and because she has a dreamy side herself (though she's better off than they are, at least I'm very fond of her but hold the typical man she dates in contempt with very few notable exceptions). IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted September 11, 2015 08:33 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Swanlake:
I want to identify the weakness of having Mars in Pisces..
(SO PLEASE DO NOT OFFER "POLITICALLY CORRECT" /PEOPLE PLEASING favorable versions" etc.I wish to pin down the weak points, so as to be able to counter them..
Thank you.
Ok lets go...
Ummmmmm - Mars in Pisces can be very round-about in their approach to things. When they want something, they're not completely sure that's what they want. When they try to get that something, they manipulate others to help them or get it for them, rather than working independently.
When they are aggressive, they are passive-aggressive and avoidant. They wouldn't normally confront someone. They'd rather stop acknowledging the person and look away whenever that person is in the room. They have very high, fairytale expectations from sex.
They are either deeply spiritual or deeply religious. If it's the latter, they can sometimes throw the Bible at people they see as "sinners".
I guess this preachy streak comes from the Jupiter influence on Pisces. I'd say love and sexual attraction lead to many problems in their lives. There's always something sad and dramatic going on - so this is probably a weakness, simply because it's an area of their life that depresses them (nothing matches their dream version of the way things should be). IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted September 11, 2015 08:37 PM
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Mars in Pisces is a major "passive aggressive" placement, which is rarely good.
Yes! Exactly... I didn't see this before I posted. Passive-aggression is definitely a problem. I have Mars conjunct Neptune, and became stuck in something like a passive-aggressive war with a Gemini guy with Pisces Mars.
The only Gemini I've ever had issues with, in my life.
But he was a complete jerk, so we can't blame his Mars placement alone for that. He had many other chart-issues and personality issues... IP: Logged |
Kannon McAfee
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posted September 11, 2015 08:45 PM
Mars in Pisces does not naturally have the strength of decisive, immediate action at the ready. The tendency is not to assert self, but to engage in lines of action which 'go with the flow' of those around, or to engage in imagining first. This can weaken one's ability to bolster personal confidence, and a can-do attitude. One's imagination reaches broadly and in the scope, self seems small. Great difficulty in understanding the practical steps needed to reach a dream or goal. Needs such help to keep from drifting off into a false confidence induced by one's own mental activity or fantasy. Another way of seeing it, is that the Martial kinesthetic DO impulse is rendered far more visual and cerebral. Lines of direct action may not be felt/seen amongst the cerebral or emotional clutter. Of course, this is not a summary of the entire personality of a person with Mars in Pisces in their birth charts. It is only one factor. We can all have contradictory tendencies, as many charts show. ------------------
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DrewMann
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posted September 11, 2015 08:57 PM
"i said men.. not man. sadly, the pattern repeated itself with a few. but i rectified my errors and left that sign behind... the mars placement anyway"Hmmm now what kind of mars is this???
Sleeps around= fickle, repeats mistakes = gullible,week.
Get my drift yet?? Haha. Keep believing what makes you feel better. I'm outta here!!
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Odette
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posted September 11, 2015 09:16 PM
DrewMann - Swan is asking about the weaknesses of this placement. If you want to see a more optimistic thread on the positive side of Pisces Mars - you can always create one  I have good things to say about it as well... and I'm sure we all do!
I simply answered the OP in my post... IP: Logged |
starmoon
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posted September 11, 2015 11:24 PM
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Originally posted by DrewMann:
"i said men.. not man. sadly, the pattern repeated itself with a few. but i rectified my errors and left that sign behind... the mars placement anyway"Hmmm now what kind of mars is this???
Sleeps around= fickle, repeats mistakes = gullible,week.
Get my drift yet?? Haha. Keep believing what makes you feel better. I'm outta here!!
i think you're very confused about the posts and the threads? and i am not a mars in pisces.
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teasel
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posted September 11, 2015 11:57 PM
Mars in Pisces here... I confront. It's bugged me when something is obviously wrong, and someone tries to pretend that everything's fine. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted September 12, 2015 12:03 AM
I procrastinate, and my feelings can overwhelm me at times, leading me to put things off until I feel better. I need a distraction, otherwise I will screw up, anyway.Sometimes, I will also put something off when I feel good, if I think it will be stressful. It's impossible if I'm angry, or suspect somebody else is, though. IP: Logged |
RoseLily
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posted September 12, 2015 12:12 AM
I find them lazy and a bit too mild to my taste. I'll push them as far as I can just to see where is their breaking point. It's not kind, but I can't stand it. It's like slapping someone who went into shock to try and get it out of it. They are just so forgiving that it looks almost irrational to me. I don't understand it. I also feel like they play games a lot to get what they want, but they never know what is it that they want, it gets tiring and makes me want to just level the play and show them who's the real master of the game.
*shrugs* Nothing personal really, I just can't stand them really. IP: Logged |
teasel
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posted September 12, 2015 12:51 AM
I don't see a point in playing games. If you can't get something honestly, there's no point in having it. How many Mars in Pisces do you know?IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted September 12, 2015 02:45 AM
Don't go all egomaniac on Pisces... because - you won't get anywhere with that. quote:
show them who's the real master of the game
Ummmm.... Pisces Mars is not competitive...
Why would they care about you being the master of the game?
They don't even realise they're playing a game...
Forget that! They don't even realise they're on this planet... IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted September 12, 2015 02:47 AM
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Mars in Pisces here... I confront. It's bugged me when something is obviously wrong, and someone tries to pretend that everything's fine.
That's likely because you're an Aries!
It's always hard to single out one placement and interpret it. Aries is the most confrontational sign... so the Pisces Mars balances that.
Your approach is probably "just right" - assertive, but not aggressive IP: Logged |
Sylven
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posted September 12, 2015 04:45 AM
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CapriciousCapricorn
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posted September 12, 2015 01:11 PM
I have Mars is Pisces and I always wished I had a better-placed Mars, in a stronger sign. Pisces Mars makes me lazy. It's just not as energetic as other signs I suppose. Also, when it comes to people I am more sensitive because of it and very often give in when I shouldn't (low emotional resistance) purely because of feeling sorry for someone.But a lot depends on Mars strength in the chart. If it's well aspected and in house other than in any of the water houses (4th, 8th, 12th) then it's not so bad anymore. You will feel stronger IP: Logged |
athenaia
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posted September 12, 2015 01:21 PM
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teasel
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posted September 12, 2015 01:47 PM
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Originally posted by Odette:
That's likely because you're an Aries!
It's always hard to single out one placement and interpret it. Aries is the most confrontational sign... so the Pisces Mars balances that.[/B]
Your approach is probably "just right" - assertive, but not aggressive
Well, you know Aries is just loving the bold part.  I have been aggressive, but rarely. It's easier to get me there now, and I have been caught in back-and-forth about what I need/what I'm actually asking for in a forthright manner, only to think to myself, "I shouldn't even have to ask for this. If I really mattered/if it really mattered to them, they would just do it." I'm not that competitive - you are right there, for me as a Mars in a water house, too. I can be occasionally, but most things aren't worth it. If someone needs to win that badly, let them. Which, as I mentioned in another thread, has apparently been maddening to people who really wanted to upset me. When my sister's husband (then-boyfriend) announced via email, that he was in love with me (ugh), my sister saw it, and apparently promised mum that she wouldn't punish *me* for that. She lied. She was stiff around me, and a few nights later, in the kitchen, she was angry and making it obvious. I dealt with her calmly, thinking, "She's obviously in pain, so just relax, and let her get it out." The calmer I was, the more anger she displayed. It finally hit me that she was trying to upset me; since I was really starting to get the ump myself, I let it be known, and with just one rattled sentence, she stormed off. Later on, she was a bit nicer to me. IP: Logged |
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posted September 12, 2015 03:44 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Mars in Pisces is a major "passive aggressive" placement, which is rarely good. Though the imaginative side of Pisces can blow a conflict way out of proportion as well.
Could NOT agree with you more. One Pisces Mars I encountered was actually downright delusional and a very scary person. They did exactly what you mentioned, blowing conflicts out of proportion and literally believing that their lies (their skewed perception of what was happening) was actually reality. This crazy person believed they were a victim of everyone and no one cared about them enough, and would go on emotional tirades when really that was how they were to everyone else (they were a selfish person). ------------------
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