posted October 01, 2015 09:20 AM            

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Originally posted by Wild Horses:
Whoa. You hit the nail on the head. That exact thing has caused me problems. I have my Pluto-Moon conjunction tightly square my Sun-Venus conjunction, and my husband has lectured me over and over about some "vibe" I give off that I honestly just cannot see or understand.

There have been so many times when we were around male friends of his and he gets so upset with me. Afterward, I'll try to figure out what he's mad about, and he'll blow me away with things like, "Dammit, why did you keep looking at him that way?! You were completely undressing him with your eyes the whole time." He'll say, "Grief, do have to give guys bedroom eyes all the time?!" Stuff like that.

I honestly just get perplexed, because it is NEVER intentional. I don't even find ANY of his friends attractive. I mean, they're attractive guys in general, but they don't look as good to me as my husband does, and they don't ring my bell in any way. I sure as heck am not making bedroom eyes at them or undressing them with my eyes. He swears I do it, though. So, I just chalk it up to my Pluto placements giving off some "vibe" or "aura" I don't intentionally try to give off.

Of course, my husband has a Scorpio Sun-Venus-Mars conjunction, so maybe he just sees things that aren't there and gets jealous for no reason. I'm not sure.

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posted October 01, 2015 09:22 AM            

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Originally posted by Selenite:
With Pluto square Mars, I think people are sometimes a little iffy about my tendency to seriously suggest doing dangerous things. I feel like newer people think 'low key this girl has issues' with violence or sociopathic tendencies. But some people like it.

It's not that I want to cause harm, I just like seeing how far I can go. See how creepy I sound already? >.>

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posted October 01, 2015 09:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Awwww...maybe they do!

You cannot destroy our Leo ASC hopes, just like that!

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posted October 01, 2015 09:42 AM            

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Originally posted by HadesFish:
The first sentence is quite deep.

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Really? Is it? Humor and sarcasm are completely lost on me sometimes...I have an incredibly witty friend who tells me jokes and then "stands by" for about 10 seconds while he waits for me to get it...

I'm going to assume you're serious.

im a creeper and I'm proud

I've tried to change, but I can't, and I'm not about spending my life beating myself up for how I am.

It helped when I met someone, and we started stalking and making death threats to each other (totally civil and composed in public and round the fam, mind you- strong Leo, and earth in the both of us). But meeting this other nutter showed me that if I threaten to kill the right guy, he just might like it...

posted October 01, 2015 10:24 AM            

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Originally posted by Sylven:
Oh YES they dó look at us! All of them!

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
Yeah you're right!!!! What the heck was I thinking? The Universe revolves around ME and IT ALWAYS WILL!

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AND DON'T YOU FORGET IT!

posted October 01, 2015 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by sis:
I agree. I have Pluto square ascendant, sun, mercury, venus, saturn & Pluto sextile Mars / trine Moon...

Yeah a lot of Pluto squares to personal planets make you mysterious & intimidating to most people. I am not sure if creepy is the right word... It's just they can not decode you, they can't get the full picture of you and what remains unknown to them causes distrust - pluto square ascendant

I can spot a lie so easily and you'll see it in my eyes and in my broken smile...
I can catch passing thoughts that don't carry a weight but still they can hurt me or confuse me. Cause me to loose trust - mercury square pluto

And yes I am a perfectionist. If it's not going to be perfect, I don't bother doing it.
This attitude has caused doing very little and lacking fulfillment... sun square pluto

Obsessive in love but never a stalker. If you don't call, I'll never call. When I was younger I was also a bit exhibitionalist.. But not anymore.. still people are attracted to me sexualy. venus square pluto

on the other hand, you can turn all these traits into positive.

also, people always think you're a force to be reckoned with even when you're feeling very insecure and vulnerable inside. but a big bur sometimes you just need people to feel your vulnerability and act accordingly...

and yeah I have a very strong character, emotionaly very very strong.

My Jupiter sextiles modifies my Pluto squares. And eases the pain of my Saturn oppositions ( asc, venus, mercury )..Thank God for my Jupiter aspects. Otherwise I think I would not be able to survive the dark teatimes of my soul

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posted October 03, 2015 09:52 AM            

i also noticed that we attract creepers too..we are like a magnet to them..but can recognize them right away and protect ourselves. i dont think i m a creeper myself.

We give off a strong vibe, and people around us get intimidated..oh well lol get out of the kitchen if u cant stand the heat

posted October 03, 2015 01:28 PM            

Some people are intimidated by me right away and sometimes people I've never even talked to before will be confrontational the very first time we Interact when I've done nothing but be nice to them! I've worked a retail job for the last couple of years and I can see this happen even more clearly at work. Random people will be sh!tty to me one second then nice as can be to my coworker a second later. Customers will also give me the weirdest looks as I walk by when I'm just minding my own business. Even if I smile some people will stare in my eyes like they're looking into my soul or something. It's pretty freaky! I guess my energy is just off-putting to some people.

It usually takes people awhile to feel comfortable around me but once they do they realize I'm not so bad. I do have the problem of resting ***** -face though so I'm wondering if I just don't smile enough? But being happy all the time just feels too fake and exhausting to me so if I'm in a bad mood I'm not gonna just shove my mood down and act happy and I guess people don't like that. It doesn't help that my moon is trine my ascendant which means most of the time my mood is shown loud and clear in my facial expressions whether or not I try to hide it.

I tend to be kinda quiet in new situations as well so I guess all of these things together intimidate some people. But others seem to be drawn to me right away and sort of latch onto me and feel like they can tell me their deepest secrets without much prompting from me.

I've also had quite a few creepers/stalkers attracted to me.

I feel most comfortable with other Scorpios/plutonians because they can handle my intensity pretty easily and it's much easier to get along with people who also have alot of Pluto in their chart. For example my best friend/roommate has most of her personal planets conjunct each other in Scorpio and she's the one I can talk to the easiest, even about stuff like death, abuse, trauma, ect. And neither of us get overwhelmed talking to each other about those topics.