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Topic: Which emotion do you lack?
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Desiring Shadows
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posted September 30, 2015 11:15 AM
  
I lack anger usually what would make someone else mad would just make me sad or confused lolIt's actually really hard to get me mad Edit: please say what in your chart makes you feel this way. Thanks! 
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Aunt Anomalia
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posted September 30, 2015 11:25 AM
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LeeLoo2014
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posted September 30, 2015 11:29 AM
Not good. By this, I mean something to work on. Considering your chart, it means you must have been exposed to a problematic pattern of solving aggression in early life (either some sort of violence/high aggression or lack of it, such as heavy passive aggressiveness), which lead to a repressed, internalized reaction. One of the perks of a water Mars trine to Saturn Rx: slower reaction to anger and the tendency to repress and build resentment. And no hard aspects to Mars probably contributed to that. An aspect of your chart you need to work on, because it may create health problems in the long run.Your have a potent Mars, by sign and house. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted September 30, 2015 12:25 PM
As for your question, I noticed I lack envy, it always takes me by surprise in other people and it feels alien to me, sometimes I don't even detect it until it's too late. I don't know where this comes from, in my chart, for being such an ingénue with envy. Venus sq Neptune? Leo?
So question: which one of you lacks envy and where do you think it comes from?
I am jealous though, in romance hehe
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Cappi112
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posted September 30, 2015 01:16 PM
Hmmm I am curious about this too from an astrological standpoint.How would you even really guess that from the natal chart? For me, I have a lot of free-flowing aspects. I am ambitious but... being the kind of cutthroat competitive I need to be for my field has always been hard for me. I prefer to feel good, always. I do get angry and can speak my mind in my close relationships, and I wouldn';t say that I lack ambition... but I'm lacking the competitive EDGE I know I need to support all my artistic drives in life. Just not sure what in particular points to this in my natal. Maybe Sun in the 12th? I have a hard time doing anything that 'shows off' my ego (thereby making my operatic career a wee bit challenging at times, because I do it for the music - neptune in the 11th in my sun sign - capricorn. But not so much to show off anything). Lately, I really wish I could be a bit more edgy when it comes to that. I can see where it would make all the difference in my professional life. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted September 30, 2015 01:35 PM
Offhand, I don't recall ever feeling envy, at least not to the point that I was upset or wishing bad things on someone else. Best I can figure, I realize that everyone has it hard, and even those who had it all handed to them on a silver platter rarely take joy in their accomplishments, because they're not their accomplishments. At least I presume so given how many of them have messed up lives (if in fine homes and nice cars) suggesting they're not happy or satisfied with life. People tend to hide their regrets, problems, and dirty laundry (note, I said "tend," some won't, and some won't talk about anything else). I realize what's apparent isn't the whole story...and sometimes isn't the case at all. It could be what I value. For example, if I were in a terrible prison and others got free over arbitrary reasons then maybe I'd be terribly envious, even irrationally so. But given that I don't seem to put the same priority or importance on many other values that are desired (wealth, all consuming love, etc), perhaps that's why I'm not envious. I do presume the potential is there...and I know from experience when I encountered other common aspects of humanity in myself for the first time (or at least consciously aware of it) that should I ever feel it I'll actually become excited and want to explore the feeling in depth.  Can't connect it to astrology offhand, however. IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted September 30, 2015 01:48 PM
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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
Hint: If you want your thread to stay here, at least pretend it's about astrology.
I didn't mention it but of course I want it to be about Astrology we are in an Astroloical forum IP: Logged |
wheresthemoon
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posted September 30, 2015 02:01 PM
If "need" could be considered an emotion, I don't feel it. Obviously I need things, physically...to stay alive. But I don't feel that I need much of anything, especially from a relationship perspective. The moment I start to feel that I need someone or something, I separate myself from it. Actually until a few years ago, I wouldn't even use the word "need." I hate being emotionally vulnerable and needing anything or anyone just does not jive with that. I'll sooner cut someone off than "need" them. I guess this would be Venus in 11H, Moon in Sagittarius, Aries sun in the tenth, square Uranus? Idk. Probably one of those lol. IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014
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posted September 30, 2015 02:08 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
Offhand, I don't recall ever feeling envy, at least not to the point that I was upset or wishing bad things on someone else. Best I can figure, I realize that everyone has it hard, and even those who had it all handed to them on a silver platter rarely take joy in their accomplishments, because they're not their accomplishments. At least I presume so given how many of them have messed up lives (if in fine homes and nice cars) suggesting they're not happy or satisfied with life. People tend to hide their regrets, problems, and dirty laundry (note, I said "tend," some won't, and some won't talk about anything else). I realize what's apparent isn't the whole story...and sometimes isn't the case at all. It could be what I value. For example, if I were in a terrible prison and others got free over arbitrary reasons then maybe I'd be terribly envious, even irrationally so. But given that I don't seem to put the same priority or importance on many other values that are desired (wealth, all consuming love, etc), perhaps that's why I'm not envious. I do presume the potential is there...and I know from experience when I encountered other common aspects of humanity in myself for the first time (or at least consciously aware of it) that should I ever feel it I'll actually become excited and want to explore the feeling in depth. Can't connect it to astrology offhand, however.
Maybe it's Libra then...if I recall correctly, you have lots of Libra too; my 8th house stellium is in Libra. IP: Logged |
HadesFish
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posted September 30, 2015 10:56 PM
To associate with Astrology - personally, I lack pretty much any emotion associated with the 7th.------------------
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socialgraffiti
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posted October 01, 2015 01:08 AM
Shock. I very rarely feel genuinely surprised by anything, because I don't really have fixed expectations of anything. Sudden events never jar me. I remember one time a hole in the roof of building I worked at formed, and when it rained, rain seeped and there was this deep pocket of water that caused the ceiling to hang very low. Everyone was making a commotion, but I saw it, and within 5 minutes, just called administration and called an inspector over.It was not really a big deal to me. Attribute to Moon in 8th. IP: Logged |
aquaguy91
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posted October 01, 2015 01:17 AM
I don't really lack any emotions, I lack a filter and an ego. I just don't understand people and their ego about things. They always want to look good and say and do things that others agree with. I just speak my mind, even if what I have to say will be extremely controversial. I think this is because of all of my aquarius placements and mars and moon in the third. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted October 01, 2015 01:18 AM
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I lack anger usually what would make someone else mad would just make me sad or confused lolIt's actually really hard to get me mad Edit: please say what in your chart makes you feel this way. Thanks!
Wow I am the same way. I get sad rather than mad and if I get mad I cry and get sad. I have taurus mars in the 8th. I think it kind of dulls the red hot rage of mars. Even though it is in a house it belongs in, its still taurus and 8th house mars is a different expression than arian mars. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted October 01, 2015 01:21 AM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
As for your question, I noticed I lack envy, it always takes me by surprise in other people and it feels alien to me, sometimes I don't even detect it until it's too late. I don't know where this comes from, in my chart, for being such an ingénue with envy. Venus sq Neptune? Leo?
So question: which one of you lacks envy and where do you think it comes from?
I am jealous though, in romance hehe
Mars Pluto Mercury stellium and Sun/Venus in the 8th.
I lack envy too. I never feel like "I what what that person has Im no envious!!" I always thought it was because I am disconnected from society. (Aqua sun) I have venus conjunct neptune but nothing in leo. Im very jealous in romance too. But not in the way of "ugh she has something i want and im scared she will steal my man" Its... different. Hard to explain. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted October 01, 2015 01:24 AM
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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
Shock. I very rarely feel genuinely surprised by anything, because I don't really have fixed expectations of anything. Sudden events never jar me. I remember one time a hole in the roof of building I worked at formed, and when it rained, rain seeped and there was this deep pocket of water that caused the ceiling to hang very low. Everyone was making a commotion, but I saw it, and within 5 minutes, just called administration and called an inspector over.It was not really a big deal to me. Attribute to Moon in 8th.
At least with scorpio moons... Ive noticed they mentally prepare for the worst by expecting the worst so they don really get surprised. If things turn out good they are like "oh that went better than expected" but if things turn out bad theyre like "knew it." Also do you have any interesting uranus aspects? Ive noticed uranians have learned to deal with chaos and do pretty well when things suddenly change or are just crazy around them. IP: Logged |
Wild Horses
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posted October 01, 2015 04:49 AM
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Originally posted by socialgraffiti:
Shock. I very rarely feel genuinely surprised by anything, because I don't really have fixed expectations of anything. Sudden events never jar me. I remember one time a hole in the roof of building I worked at formed, and when it rained, rain seeped and there was this deep pocket of water that caused the ceiling to hang very low. Everyone was making a commotion, but I saw it, and within 5 minutes, just called administration and called an inspector over.It was not really a big deal to me. Attribute to Moon in 8th.
I completely relate to that. I have Uranus conj. my IC in my 4th house, and it rules my 8th. I always expect the unexpected and am very rarely shocked or surprised by anything.
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socialgraffiti
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posted October 01, 2015 06:38 PM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
At least with scorpio moons... Ive noticed they mentally prepare for the worst by expecting the worst so they don really get surprised.
I'm guilty of this. quote:
Also do you have any interesting uranus aspects? Ive noticed uranians have learned to deal with chaos and do pretty well when things suddenly change or are just crazy around them.
I have a conjunction between my moon and Uranus by less than one degree, Uranus is also in the 8th. It also loosely squares by Sun (9 degrees). IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted October 01, 2015 06:48 PM
I don't really lack any.
But I tend to be low on emotional empathy and guilt most of all.
I think it's some kind of a block though, not that I don't know how to feel emotional empathy or guilt. I certainly do, but somehow it's typically absent from my conscious. When I do feel them, they feel overwhelming! I think it's my Venus (chart ruler) in the 12th. That and what I would say is very low water IP: Logged |
RoseLily
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posted October 17, 2015 08:39 PM
I know I'm necroing a post from quite far, but I always had my eye on this one until I could answer properly, and I had my click today.
I lack regret.
Yes I came to regret bad things I did, because of the consequences that followed, but, overall, I don't remember thinking once "I wish I could have done this differently" or "I regret so much this, or that"
I always knew that what happened in my life was what needed to happen to make me evolve, no matter what.
It wasn't easy. My life hasn't been easy, even if it was far from those who've had an hellish one.
But not once have I wished to do things differently. To have them happen in a whole other way. They happened the way they did because they needed to be like that for me to learn and become a better person.
Regretting something like that would be regretting the person I am today. IP: Logged |
Mars/Pluto Emperor
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posted October 17, 2015 09:49 PM
An emotion i am lacking would probably be compassion/empathy.ironically,i have a Mars in Pisces 7th
Moon in Cancer 11th. these signs tend to be compassionate if i remember correctly. The reason i lack compassion is because it was something i needed to push away,it was a weakness to me,so i just built this anger in me that keeps me "Surviving." I dont know whether theres something my chart off-throwing this. i have in aspects
Mars square Pluto 0 orb
Mars sextile Saturn 2 orb
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lalalinda
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posted October 17, 2015 10:31 PM
I lack curiosity. Not that I'm not interested, I just sense when others are not ready to go further into detail. I have no problem waiting without pressing the issue. I am like this because disclosure is tricky. It seems people will shut down altogether and refuse to communicate when conversations become too personal or uncomfortable. I usually just let it come to me.Mercury/Aries/3rd in mutual reception with Mars/Gemini/7th house Mercury inconjunct Pluto
" " conjunct Nadir
" " trine Jupiter
" " square Mars
" " square Saturn Edited: I don't think curiosity can be described as an emotion 
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DopGang
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posted October 17, 2015 11:45 PM
Edit: decided that I'm not sure how to answer. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted November 24, 2015 03:52 PM
I would say I lack anger. When I'm angry I simply become aloof as if to ward off the person or the problem, and it's like it never gets to unnerve me. You need to be VERY persistent and mean to really make me angry, but when I am, I explode and I can be really mean as well. Sometimes I feel like I lack empathy to put in someone else's shoes (not always, though). I have Moon sextile Saturn (Moon in 6H, Saturn in 7H).
I'm learning how to deal with my emotions. Sometimes society wants you to properly show your anger (I feel like it's a role I must fulfill) and certainly doing so can earn you due respect in certain situations.
I won't say I lack envy because that wouldn't be true unfortunately (I wish it was). However in love I'm not envious unless I have proof that the other person does not respect me.
If 'direction in life, motivation' was an emotion, sometimes I'd say that I lack it as well. I can be doing nothing and thinking for a whole evening as if I had just been paralysed. And I hate it because I feel that I lose my time.IP: Logged |
curiouspisces89
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posted November 24, 2015 05:19 PM
None, I have way too many emotions lol. Pisces sun, cancer ascendant and moon in Capricorn! IP: Logged |
FruityLlama
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posted November 25, 2015 09:06 AM
Hmm I dont know because things like envy and anger tend to turn into other things quite quickly. Envy is one I do struggle to experience, though I do remember one time as a child when I felt envious, but it didn't make me feel bad towards the person at all, I just thought "oh I wish mum would let me sponsor a tiger too" ahaha I dont know if I understand the term correctly or not so I will say envy is one I lack generally. I feel everything else daily ahaha
Probs due to taurus and cancer maybe?IP: Logged |
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