posted October 06, 2015 09:59 PM            

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Originally posted by LittleBlackCat:
I don't have any sort of crush on Tom Hardy

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What did you say?

posted October 06, 2015 10:10 PM            

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Originally posted by PaulMcFly:
Hey Faith, how do you feel about us Pisces men? Being as so many chicks agree with you lol and it's the opposite sign

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Ahh, they're lovely too.

But I don't think I could handle a relationship with one, if I were ever single. I have an 8H Pisces moon, and just being around Pisces men makes me shy and extra weird.

Not you of course.

posted October 06, 2015 10:15 PM            

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Originally posted by LittleBlackCat:
Has anyone been with a Gemini Mars romantically while also having a Gemini Mars? Please tell me what this was like.

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Yes.

I have a Pisces moon-Sag Neptune-Gemini Mars t-square, and so did he. He was so laid back I thought he wasn't even interested in me so I wandered off....and I have never been told off so thoroughly by a man in my entire life.

Gemini Mars!

posted October 06, 2015 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
So in between all the flirting and phone sex..

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Tsk tsk...those Gem Mars girls are something else! Scandalous.

Speaking of that...

posted October 06, 2015 10:25 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:

What did you say?

Is that English you're speaking? I don't understand what this means...sounded garbled, like "no crush on Tom Hardy"...but that's impossible, so...I'm just a bit lost.

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posted October 06, 2015 10:35 PM            

^^ Russell Brand

Meanwhile my husband is in the other room thinking I'm looking up cookie recipes on the internet or something....

Sorry but I guess everyone likes eye candy...

posted October 06, 2015 11:05 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Curiously...meaningfully?... the only thin man I can think of whose figure I really appreciate is a Gemini sun.

^^ Russell Brand

Meanwhile my husband is in the other room thinking I'm looking up cookie recipes on the internet or something....

Sorry but I guess everyone likes eye candy...

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Oh gosh whyyyy???? He's so...well you know what? I think his behavior is what distorts my view because in reality he is rather slender and has some nice dark features (nice dark hair, thick eyebrows, dark eyes, and has a rocker-ish bent to himself at times). Still can't stand him -_-

Ahahaha looking up cookie recipes lol should be a code name!

posted October 06, 2015 11:17 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Yes.
Fun, laughter, goofiness, spontaneity.
In and out of the bedroom.
With this particular one that I have in mind, we were both young. Multiple times a day. I thought she was trying to kill me.
(I'm Virgo mars)

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Yep sounds like us!
I actually saw a video stating that contrary to popular belief Gemini Mars is actually one of the most sexual positions to have next to Scorpio Mars (esp. in the 7th house). I wasn't sure how a mental sign could fit that description but then I realize a mental sign would think about intimacy waaaayyyy more than other signs. Thus one gets aroused easily and wants intimacy frequently, we're just good at reserving it. So yes, she probably would have ended up innocently killing you with her Mercurial curiosity going at lighting speed lol.

posted October 07, 2015 03:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Tsk tsk...those Gem Mars girls are something else! Scandalous.

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posted October 07, 2015 10:39 AM            

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Originally posted by LittleBlackCat:
Oh gosh whyyyy????

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Originally posted by LittleBlackCat:
...in reality he is rather slender and has some nice dark features (nice dark hair, thick eyebrows, dark eyes, and has a rocker-ish bent to himself at times).

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Ahahaha looking up cookie recipes lol should be a code name!

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LOL!

You know I'm not actually that boy crazy! It's not like I sit around watching movies starring Virgos all day long. (Not on a regular basis, I should say.)

LL just brings the animal out of me. Cuz here we are, working out the science of attraction, and my Sag Venus sextile Aqua Mercury wants to join the *research* efforts. It's for the love of science.

Speaking of that I forgot to mention that I am scientifically, 99% purely attracted to Luke Danes from the Gilmore Girls:

posted October 07, 2015 12:25 PM            

I love fellow libra mars people. Mars conj mars is so hot.

Big fan of scorpio mars and leo mars bc they reek of sex appeal.

My son, sag mars.. they are wonderfully warm souls who have love for everyone.

posted October 07, 2015 02:32 PM            

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Tsk tsk...those Gem Mars girls are something else! Scandalous.

Speaking of that...

Where is my girl venus2tinkerbell? She said she'd be back to give phone sex lessons to all the Gem Mars pupils assembled here. My Pisces Mars was going to tiptoe out at that point, but I do hope the class enjoys itself.

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I'm here. I'm here. I got in a heated argument with my 95 year old Libra bff on her birthday and I'm all worn out. Her Pluto is conjunct my Cancer Sun, sextile my Taurus Moon, and she really knows how to eff with me...and true to Pluto synastry, I'm totally obsessed. LOL

ok, so lessons. Like I tell my homeschoolers; theory is nothing without practice, but here goes:

There is a make out session with phone sex. Just like when you're kissing and touching to find out what works, those first conversations serve the purpose of digging out the fantasy. you can moan and groan, and touch yourself, and tell your partner about it all you want, but without the fantasy there's no penetration with this kind of sex (Can I say that word?), so just know that even more so than with "in person sex", you need some time to really have a good time. No fantasy, no sex.

and Faith, you with your, um, Pisces Mars should have an easy time with this. I don't know much about Pisces Mars, but My SN and Eros in my Pisces 8th house just says "willing" to me. I think you might be willing to learn...?

That's it! Now go out there and get your verbal freak on!

posted October 07, 2015 03:30 PM            

I can't believe you just did that.

posted October 09, 2015 02:50 AM            

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Whoa!! I'm shocked to see a few say Cancer Mars..it's so underrated!! I'm a proud owner of a crabby Mars, though in the 12th so you won't see that crazy a$$ side of me unless I 100% fully trust you, ha! I can really be a handful sometimes, thank goodness for my virgo...he really knows how to pull me back to solid ground! Cancer Mars is like a fine wine, it gets better with age In my younger years and young adult days my temper waxed and waned like the moon. It wasn't until the beginning of my Saturn return that I REALLY was able to honestly evaluate my temper and see how irrational I could be sometimes. BUT alas, I am post Saturn return and I have grown to really love my mars...in his fall and sometimes a pitiful mess. I can say though there is no better person to be friends and family with in a hostile situation than with a Cancer Mars. We are fierce when it comes to our family...and there is no friends/family line with our bunch! If we love you in any way..you ARE family to us! We are a force to reckon with if we feel our family is threatened. My grandfather told me many of times "fools rush in where angels fear to tread"...and I believe this describes me perfectly when such circumstances have arrived. We do not fear anything at that point...We become a warrior, ready to fiercely defend the ones we love. We are also protectors of the underdogs...Very few things chap our a$$ more than seeing someone with an obvious advantage bully an underdog. We are the Mama bears and Papa bears of mars placements. As for being a woman with a Cancer Mars, as well as knowing a few too...Somehow this placement has the tendancy to give it's female owners extra physical strength. It's both a curse and a blessing! I was that tomboy that played football and could hold my own with the guys. Some men see me as a challenge, it's amusing sometimes really...especially when it starts out as lighthearted and turns serious super fast, like they have to prove something to me. I have been told my whole life by most people I know, that I am an intimidating person...and I have a hard time being friends with most women, I can't explain in words...like I'm not dainty enough or soft enough for them. I guess I come across as a hard a$$, but really I am super friendly....unless you cross a line. Oh, and the whole damsel in distress stuff kills me...I have no patience for women like that. Besides my own Mars placement, I completely melt for a fiery mars! Leo, Saggy, and Aries...in that order Probably something to do with my Leo Asc or my own Mars being Cazimi I would assume. Really though, any Mars placement has the potential to be awesome or really crummy...it's what you do with what you have that makes the difference I think.

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posted October 09, 2015 09:27 AM            

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A lot of this is true considering that my sister has a cancer Mars. Will pretty much fight anyone in the name of defending those she loves. However, it is mostly just annoying to me because she is crabby, rude, confrontational, and irritable as hell towards me yet wants to fight for me if she feels others are rude/crabby to me. Excuse me? So I guess Cancer Mars is the only one allowed to scream and yell at people. This makes me feel that either all of it is really about herself and wanting a reason to be emotional (Cancer Mars loves to be emotional)or she is somewhat innocently skitzo. I feel this Mars is more of the latter. If you are going to be negative towards me I do not need your input if someone else does the same because I pretty much despise you now just as much as the person who is not my blood. Ironically my cancer moon brother is the same exact way as her. Just plain irritating and I think they are crazy. They cry or become angry for literally anything(crabby as hell). My Gemini Moon / Mars really doesn't care for the drama. At all.

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I can appreciate your perception of a Cancer Mars! It IS a difficult placement for many to handle, an it's owner is no exception...especially if it takes center stage in the birth chart or if it is extremely stressed by other aspects! I think the challenge for those of us with this Mars, is to learn how to really honestly OWN our force and our motivation in harmony with emotion. This may be easier for some than others. Cancer wants emotion to integrate into whatever it touches...Mars has no time for emotion, it's foreign to his being...it's squishy and uncomfortable...and VULNERABLE! Kind of like that movie with Vin Diesel "The Pacifier" or depending on your age, maybe "Mr. Mom". He's not domesticated, kids and cooking, the softness of a mother; None of this appeals to him...he's a warrior! Emotion doesn't belong in battle...or he'd rather it that way anyways. So naturally, he acts like they're not there...or gets frustrated when he senses, but doesn't acknowledge them. THEN after sometime like the waxing and wanning of the moon ...the build up and then release...He explodes with rage! An uncomfortable rage that makes him feel weak. If the emotions are on a lower, unhealthy vibration....this Mars will be operating on a less evolved octave. That's why IMO, this is a Mars that most have to grow into, to learn how to balace two very different energies into oneness. Now, a higher octave Cancer Mars has learned how to temper the emotions in a way that flows WITH their action, released in balance together....harmoniously like a river. What you describe with your sibling relationships, sounds like they could benefit from finding a positive outlet for their emotions. Short bouts of intense physical activity is great for a Cancer Mars! When emotions are suppressed or ignored...the outlet becomes emotional rage, which can really feel frightening on the inside for the person. Slamming doors, breaking things, crying in confrontation, sharp tongues...some even shy completely away from confrontaion for fear of their emotions becoming too much, this is how a Cancer Mars can negatively express their placement. I'm not defending her actions, but simply giving you a window to observe. I can see how you both can get on each others nerves with the polarity of your mars to hers with the light and airy Vs her heavy Mars...and you are siblings...need I say more? Lol. Once a Cancer Mars realizes that our emotions need to be acknowledged and released AND must match our motivation and intentions positively to be able to manifest the higher expression of this placement things start becoming much less complicated. Now of course the rest of the chart also colors this placement, as with all placements, which impacts it's expression here as well. But yeah, I remember when my sister and I were young we had serious crazy fights....and I'd still defend her, lol. Mostly it was due to me feeling like she was insensitive and she thought I was too sensitive. I didn't cry or whine as a kid...unless I felt short-sticked. Even then, I didn't cry...I would get even! then start either crying while fighting or right after, but the release of anger brought a wave of emotion with it most of the time. I used to tell her "I don't like you, but I still love you!" BUT she and I both have quite a bit of fire/water in our charts...so it came with the territory I guess.

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Originally posted by StubbornVirgo:
I totally appreciate Cancer Mars, seeing as how my Gemini Mars is hanging out in the 4th house with my Gemini Moon. So much of what you said was spot-on for me as well.

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I can totally jive with Gem mars and moon...I adore you! I have Venus in Gem 13 and Merc on my Leo asc exact, Gems really stimulate me mentally...which I crave, lol. My DNA asteroid falls on my Venus as well...I dig 'em! The appreciation is absolutely returned