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Topic: Calling all Venus/Pluto aspects , do you go for long periods with any intimacy?
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bansheequeen
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posted October 04, 2015 12:55 AM
 
Yep. I am either all in or all out.Im not into quickies before lunch or having sex just to get that energy out and get through the day. Noooo way. If its not gonna be complete and consuming im not interested and I can do without, even if its gonna be a while. IP: Logged |
mercuranian
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posted October 04, 2015 05:10 AM
venus square pluto - yes. i am like a sex camel  IP: Logged |
olgatheo
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posted October 04, 2015 06:00 AM
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Originally posted by mercuranian:
venus square pluto - yes. i am like a sex camel
Lol , was one too But in 2012 Pluto opp. my Venus and rest is history.
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Cappi112
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posted October 04, 2015 06:02 AM
LOLLLLL NOOOOO. I am Pluto trine Venus, and I get insane if I go too long without intimacy. I have a friend who told me she went two years without ever being intimate with her husband and I could not fathom this. I would go crazy. For me, relationship has to include sex. I will be that senile 90-something year old woman hitting on the male nurses in the nursing home I wind up in one day I am sure. (jkjkjkjk) IP: Logged |
olgatheo
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posted October 04, 2015 06:08 AM
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Originally posted by Cappi112:
LOLLLLL NOOOOO. I am Pluto trine Venus, and I get insane if I go too long without intimacy. I have a friend who told me she went two years without ever being intimate with her husband and I could not fathom this. I would go crazy. For me, relationship has to include sex. I will be that senile 90-something year old woman hitting on the male nurses in the nursing home I wind up in one day I am sure. (jkjkjkjk)
That made me laugh...maybe you have a Mars/Venus aspect too?? IP: Logged |
Cappi112
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posted October 04, 2015 06:32 AM
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Originally posted by olgatheo:
That made me laugh...maybe you have a Mars/Venus aspect too??
Ohh right, that.
Venus/Mars conjunction  haha. So good call!! IP: Logged |
olgatheo
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posted October 04, 2015 07:06 AM
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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Ohh right, that.
Venus/Mars conjunction haha. So good call!!
Cheers! 
I know understand..my prog. Mars + Jupiter is conj. my Natal Venus now...so Sex is important for the next few years ! After the aspect fades probably go back to being celibate!
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lisalisa
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posted October 04, 2015 11:46 AM
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lisalisa
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posted October 04, 2015 11:51 AM
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Originally posted by lisalisa:
Exactly the same here!
Except my pluto and venus are in scorpio, nymph when in love like I want you 3-times-a-day kind of love.
I've been without sex for years before and when I wasn't in love also just not commited. I can't get aroused when I do not feel deep love for the man.
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Wow....I'm exactly the same! Lol(even the 3 times a day! )
I've went year n half to 2 years without sex, I don't get turned on when I do not feel deeply in love either.
My Eros/Valentine are exact conjunct on my IC and they square my Pluto on my AC...I've always blamed that for my inability to be turned on without deep love but maybe it's just the Pluto/Venus alone?!
I think it's the Pluto/Venus aspect esp the challenging ones and conjunction.
I've read that the conjunction even can indicate staying celibate till they find the love of their lives or marriage .. IP: Logged |
PixieJane
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posted October 04, 2015 06:18 PM
To those who have to be REALLY in love to be turned on...do you SEEK to be really in love and turned on? Do you love books and movies of "true love and passion" when you're not, and/or read articles on how to become so, or otherwise fantasize about it a lot, even feel depressed if you're not this deeply in love?Or do you just "not care" until the situation arises? If this is the case, what does your Pluto focus on instead? IP: Logged |
olgatheo
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posted October 05, 2015 04:39 AM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
To those who have to be REALLY in love to be turned on...do you SEEK to be really in love and turned on? Do you love books and movies of "true love and passion" when you're not, and/or read articles on how to become so, or otherwise fantasize about it a lot, even feel depressed if you're not this deeply in love?Or do you just "not care" until the situation arises? If this is the case, what does your Pluto focus on instead?
Sounds like Neptune to me...not Pluto . Pluto energy is darker ...the romantic side of love is lacking...its a obsessive quality , it's not naive fairy tale kind of love, its what happen's after the honeymoon. It rarely remain's innocent , after the relationship has become intimate. That's when the manipulation/mind games/passion/jealousy/insecurities etc...become the real issue/problems for the couple to face. its not easy...take it from someone who knows.
Venus Cancer sq. Pluto Libra !
My issues were exes/family/money/career's/and self-image- every partner transformed my appearance. I don't look the same as I did 4 yrs ago. IP: Logged |
3l3n
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posted October 05, 2015 04:51 AM
@PixieJaneWell, the other has to be somewhat of a mystery for me to be turned on. When this starts to fade, it seems like I suddenly lose my passion with the intimate part. I don't really have to be inlove, just the feeling that I might for a split second though is a turn on. When I am not in a intimate passionate situation,I do get depressed watching or reading love stories, also listening to music which at some point I had strong feelings with.
I get nostalgic, so I try to avoid it so that I can easily move on.
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theunknown
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posted October 05, 2015 05:48 AM
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Originally posted by Soltze:
?!?!
I have Venus trine Pluto and I absolutely NEED to have intimacy. Not having that in a relationship is unthinkable for me, and a sign that the other doesn't love me.The only thing that I identified myself was the hiding stuff. I'm very private about my love life since I don't tell friends or family. I don't like outsider interference. Maybe what you're describing applies to tense aspects? Still I doubt it, but let's see what other people say
Don't you have a scorp moon too?
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theunknown
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posted October 05, 2015 05:52 AM
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Originally posted by Soltze:
?!?!
I have Venus trine Pluto and I absolutely NEED to have intimacy. Not having that in a relationship is unthinkable for me, and a sign that the other doesn't love me.The only thing that I identified myself was the hiding stuff. I'm very private about my love life since I don't tell friends or family. I don't like outsider interference. Maybe what you're describing applies to tense aspects? Still I doubt it, but let's see what other people say
Don't you have a scorp moon too?
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Soltze
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posted October 05, 2015 02:47 PM
Yeah :-D
The only long period I had without intimacy was involuntary. During my teens. When I finally started to get together with others I didn't stop. LOL
I was going crazy with lack of physical contact. It sucked :-(IP: Logged |
Belage
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posted October 05, 2015 03:27 PM
Does Venus exactly semi sextile Pluto count as a Venus/Pluto aspect or is it too negligible an aspect?IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted October 05, 2015 10:18 PM
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Originally posted by mercuranian:
venus square pluto - yes. i am like a sex camel
OMG sex camel!! this is great IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted October 05, 2015 10:21 PM
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Originally posted by PixieJane:
To those who have to be REALLY in love to be turned on...do you SEEK to be really in love and turned on? Do you love books and movies of "true love and passion" when you're not, and/or read articles on how to become so, or otherwise fantasize about it a lot, even feel depressed if you're not this deeply in love?Or do you just "not care" until the situation arises? If this is the case, what does your Pluto focus on instead?
Yes. Even if my relationship doest provide it I seek it in movies (so pathetic) and just laying down and dreaming about it lol. Also its different for me when i am turned on only phyically and turned on in all ways. When you are sexually turned on through your emotions you can really feel it all over your body and mind and everything. Its something else. But someone else said its probably neptune.. I also have neptune conj venus so.... yeah. IP: Logged |
bansheequeen
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posted October 05, 2015 10:22 PM
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Originally posted by olgatheo:
Sounds like Neptune to me...not Pluto . Pluto energy is darker ...the romantic side of love is lacking...its a obsessive quality , it's not naive fairy tale kind of love, its what happen's after the honeymoon. It rarely remain's innocent , after the relationship has become intimate. That's when the manipulation/mind games/passion/jealousy/insecurities etc...become the real issue/problems for the couple to face. its not easy...take it from someone who knows.
Venus Cancer sq. Pluto Libra !
My issues were exes/family/money/career's/and self-image- every partner transformed my appearance. I don't look the same as I did 4 yrs ago.
I think plutonians are the types that will drastically change their appearance after a break up. Working out a lot. Cutting hair. Dying hair. Adopting a new wardrobe. Getting piercings or tattoos. Etc. IP: Logged |
olgatheo
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posted October 06, 2015 03:38 AM
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Originally posted by bansheequeen:
I think plutonians are the types that will drastically change their appearance after a break up. Working out a lot. Cutting hair. Dying hair. Adopting a new wardrobe. Getting piercings or tattoos. Etc.
Yes to all the above, even during a relationship
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olgatheo
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posted October 06, 2015 03:42 AM
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Originally posted by Belage:
Does Venus exactly semi sextile Pluto count as a Venus/Pluto aspect or is it too negligible an aspect?
@ Belage, I would say Yes any aspect to Pluto is intense , even the Minor ones.
Do you have intense/complicated/obsessive relationships that leave you drained , exhausted and transformed???
Since it's a good aspect , you might handle the changes + trials in relationships well.
It took me ages to learn + understand.
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