Calling all Venus/Pluto aspects , do you go for long periods with any intimacy?

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olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 703 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012	posted October 03, 2015 07:57 AM I have noticed this in Natal charts ( Mine included) that sometimes the individual can go for a long time without any physical intimacy. Even if they are in a relationship. Has anyone else with this aspect , experienced this?? I know Pluto buries anything it touches in order to transform it into something more authentic + stronger. No middle ground either totally obsessed or totally indifferent. Its a painful process it took me 35 years to understand this. Only when you let go and truly trust , then Love /relationship will continue. IP: Logged
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 1137 From: Registered: Mar 2015	posted October 03, 2015 08:05 AM ?!?! I have Venus trine Pluto and I absolutely NEED to have intimacy. Not having that in a relationship is unthinkable for me, and a sign that the other doesn't love me. The only thing that I identified myself was the hiding stuff. I'm very private about my love life since I don't tell friends or family. I don't like outsider interference. Maybe what you're describing applies to tense aspects? Still I doubt it, but let's see what other people say IP: Logged
olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 703 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012	posted October 03, 2015 08:26 AM quote: Originally posted by Soltze: ?!?! I have Venus trine Pluto and I absolutely NEED to have intimacy. Not having that in a relationship is unthinkable for me, and a sign that the other doesn't love me. The only thing that I identified myself was the hiding stuff. I'm very private about my love life since I don't tell friends or family. I don't like outsider interference. Maybe what you're describing applies to tense aspects? Still I doubt it, but let's see what other people say Thank you for sharing, yes I have noticed it more with difficult aspects but even the easy aspects make loving hard or difficult to come about or hidden ( secret affairs) ! IP: Logged
Sandra018 Knowflake Posts: 551 From: Brooklyn,NY Registered: Dec 2012	posted October 03, 2015 09:25 AM Agreed! i have Venus Opp Pluto and my love life has not been the greateast. it has been filled with being alone( which i handle well), but nonetheless when i look around at my surroundings its a reality check. There were many times where i was single and there was no contact at all... i ve learned to let it go, as u cant fight Pluto and win. IP: Logged
olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 703 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012	posted October 03, 2015 09:43 AM @Sandra018 thank you for sharing. Yes Pluto always has the last word . Pluto means riches though , so you might gain from this someday either emotionally/spiritually /financially. IP: Logged
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8603 From: Registered: Sep 2012	posted October 03, 2015 10:35 AM I have Venus/Pluto conjunct in libra.... If I'm in love I can be a bit of a nymph, when I'm not in love I can go without for a super long time. It's all based on love for me. Edit-Privacy is huge!! I don't share my life with other ppl typically. I don't like to talk about my pains or things that hurt me because it feels like it gets bigger when you do. IP: Logged
NYCdodger Knowflake Posts: 2047 From: Registered: Aug 2013	posted October 03, 2015 10:45 AM The answer is yeah. Venus trine Pluto IP: Logged
LostSoulRebecca Knowflake Posts: 1265 From: Europe Registered: Feb 2014	posted October 03, 2015 10:47 AM quote: Originally posted by Soltze: I have Venus trine Pluto and I absolutely NEED to have intimacy. Not having that in a relationship is unthinkable for me, and a sign that the other doesn't love me. The only thing that I identified myself was the hiding stuff. I'm very private about my love life since I don't tell friends or family. I don't like outsider interference. Soltze, that's really interesting. Because my mother has a Venus/Pluto trine and she goes without intimacy pretty fine. She hasn’t been in a relationship for years and she doesn’t complain about it. Once she even said to me that intimacy isn’t of importance for her at all. BUT as you have mentioned privacy – she is also very private about her personal life. She won’t even tell this to her kids; well, accept me, because we are really close. Where is your Mars (which House and which Sign)? And is it in any aspect with Venus? IP: Logged
Isa Knowflake Posts: 261 From: Registered: Feb 2011	posted October 03, 2015 10:55 AM quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I have Venus/Pluto conjunct in libra.... If I'm in love I can be a bit of a nymph, when I'm not in love I can go without for a super long time. It's all based on love for me. I also have Venus and Pluto conjunction, but in scorpio and it's the same for me. I can go a long time without it if I'm single. I avoid having sex with people I barely know, because I have the tendency to get attached. This just happened and he's ghosting me now. It sucks! IP: Logged
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8603 From: Registered: Sep 2012	posted October 03, 2015 10:58 AM quote: Originally posted by Isa: I also have Venus and Pluto conjunction, but in scorpio and it's the same for me. I can go a long time without it if I'm single. I avoid having sex with people I barely know, because I have the tendency to get attached. This just happened and he's ghosting me now. It sucks! Grrrrrr....I hate that I'm sorry he's behaving like that! 😁 Yes I get attached to once I get intimate, that is why it's easier to just go without. It's just to risky we are serious about this stuff and I don't think most ppl are like us in that way! I can't even imagine how hard it is for you with this aspect in scorpio! My Pluto is on the AC 3 degrees, Venus is 11-12 degrees off my AC. Venus is my chart ruler and 8th house ruler! IP: Logged
3l3n Knowflake Posts: 809 From: Registered: Nov 2014	posted October 03, 2015 11:32 AM I agree. Venus trine Pluto. Venus in the 8th. If it's not deep, and out of the blue(Venus sq. Uranus), there's no need. I have also realized this about me, after 35 years IP: Logged
ikja unregistered	posted October 03, 2015 01:03 PM quote: Originally posted by Sandra018: Agreed! i have Venus Opp Pluto and my love life has not been the greateast. it has been filled with being alone( which i handle well), but nonetheless when i look around at my surroundings its a reality check. There were many times where i was single and there was no contact at all... i ve learned to let it go, as u cant fight Pluto and win. I have the same aspect and couldn't agree more! IP: Logged
ikja unregistered	posted October 03, 2015 01:04 PM quote: Originally posted by Isa: I also have Venus and Pluto conjunction, but in scorpio and it's the same for me. I can go a long time without it if I'm single. I avoid having sex with people I barely know, because I have the tendency to get attached. This just happened and he's ghosting me now. It sucks! I agree with this too! IP: Logged
olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 703 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012	posted October 03, 2015 01:19 PM quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I have Venus/Pluto conjunct in libra.... If I'm in love I can be a bit of a nymph, when I'm not in love I can go without for a super long time. It's all based on love for me. Edit-Privacy is huge!! I don't share my life with other ppl typically. I don't like to talk about my pains or things that hurt me because it feels like it gets bigger when you do. Thank you for your reply Gabby ! Privacy is a must in all matters that are heart related. IP: Logged
olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 703 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012	posted October 03, 2015 01:21 PM quote: Originally posted by Isa: I also have Venus and Pluto conjunction, but in scorpio and it's the same for me. I can go a long time without it if I'm single. I avoid having sex with people I barely know, because I have the tendency to get attached. This just happened and he's ghosting me now. It sucks! Thank you 4 your reply Isa, yes it sucks that it happened but dont forget Venus in Leo was sq. That conj. In Scorpio, things should shift when Venus moves to Virgo ! So expect something by 10/10. IP: Logged
olgatheo Knowflake Posts: 703 From: Pluto Registered: Nov 2012	posted October 03, 2015 01:23 PM ikja & 3l3n Thank you for your replies + input! IP: Logged
lisalisa Knowflake Posts: 1289 From: Registered: Jun 2013	posted October 03, 2015 04:42 PM quote: Originally posted by Gabby: I have Venus/Pluto conjunct in libra.... If I'm in love I can be a bit of a nymph, when I'm not in love I can go without for a super long time. It's all based on love for me. Edit-Privacy is huge!! I don't share my life with other ppl typically. I don't like to talk about my pains or things that hurt me because it feels like it gets bigger when you do. Exactly the same here! Except my pluto and venus are in scorpio, nymph when in love like I want you 3-times-a-day kind of love. I've been without sex for years before and when I wasn't in love also just not commited. I can't get aroused when I do not feel deep love for the man. IP: Logged
RoseLily Knowflake Posts: 327 From: Registered: Jul 2015	posted October 03, 2015 05:31 PM I have a Venus Trine Pluto, I can go for very long period of time without any relationships, but I do crave intimate contacts and my libido is... well... off the charts ahah. IP: Logged
ScandinavianCrab Knowflake Posts: 89 From: Scandinavia Registered: Aug 2013	posted October 03, 2015 05:45 PM Venus in Gemini trine Pluto in Libra. Nah. Not more than a few months. IP: Logged
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 1137 From: Registered: Mar 2015	posted October 03, 2015 06:58 PM quote: Originally posted by LostSoulRebecca: [b]Soltze, that's really interesting. Because my mother has a Venus/Pluto trine and she goes without intimacy pretty fine. She hasn�t been in a relationship for years and she doesn�t complain about it. Once she even said to me that intimacy isn�t of importance for her at all. BUT as you have mentioned privacy � she is also very private about her personal life. She won�t even tell this to her kids; well, accept me, because we are really close. Where is your Mars (which House and which Sign)? And is it in any aspect with Venus? [/B] I have Venus and Mars in Cancer in the 5th but they're not conjunct. The difference in libido is probably my Scorp Moon/Pluto conjunction in the 8th. Oh yeah about secrecy, I won't even tell I'm going to shop for milk much less about my love life ehh Sometimes, I'm afraid I won't be able to control myself and become a sex addict. Sounds amusing but I'm not even kidding :-D I have an uncanny talent to separate casual sex from relationship sex. So an intimate enconter doesn't cause feelings that weren't already there. Not meaning I'm a cheater. I'm proud to say I never did that :-)) Also I'm having transit Pluto opp natal Venus and made me act on my thoughts. I was very shy/repressed before. It's weird IP: Logged
Gabby Moderator Posts: 8603 From: Registered: Sep 2012	posted October 03, 2015 08:22 PM quote: Originally posted by lisalisa: Exactly the same here! Except my pluto and venus are in scorpio, nymph when in love like I want you 3-times-a-day kind of love. I've been without sex for years before and when I wasn't in love also just not commited. I can't get aroused when I do not feel deep love for the man. Wow....I'm exactly the same! Lol(even the 3 times a day! ) I've went year n half to 2 years without sex, I don't get turned on when I do not feel deeply in love either. My Eros/Valentine are exact conjunct on my IC and they square my Pluto on my AC...I've always blamed that for my inability to be turned on without deep love but maybe it's just the Pluto/Venus alone?! IP: Logged
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 7927 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010	posted October 03, 2015 08:54 PM x IP: Logged
PixieJane Moderator Posts: 7927 From: CA Registered: Oct 2010	posted October 03, 2015 08:54 PM x IP: Logged
PaulMcFly unregistered	posted October 03, 2015 08:55 PM I have Venus sextile Pluto and yes I've only had one relationship. But i don't long for love/partnerships I could care less as of now IP: Logged
teasel Knowflake Posts: 8302 From: Registered: Apr 2009	posted October 04, 2015 12:44 AM Yes. Moon/Venus trine Pluto. Moon/Venus in the 8th. IP: Logged

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