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Topic: Your Venus aspects & the length of your relationships?
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Desiring Shadows
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posted October 09, 2015 02:33 PM
  
How do you connect the two?------------------
My charts:Western-tropicalSidereal-heliocentric
the moon is in the 7th house... & Jupiter aligns with Mars... Then peace will guide the planets. And love will steer the stars!" IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
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posted October 09, 2015 02:34 PM
THREE CHEERS FOR SIDEREAL HELIOCENTRIC!! 😎IP: Logged |
Desiring Shadows
Knowflake Posts: 2625
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posted October 09, 2015 02:40 PM
((I have Venus square Neptune in my tropical chart which I no longer believe in. I'm just idealistic because I'm very pisc an. Let me get to my point. In the system I do believe in, I have Venus Square Uranus and I have always prided myself on my uniqueness. Again I'm getting away from the point. Lmao))
Most of my love relationships ended abruptly. Or didn't last very long. Like the longest official relationship I have been in was two and a half months and that has nothing to do with my age. My younger sister who is three years younger than me has Venus square Saturn and she has been In a relationship for a year!! I envy that so much It's just hard because I do experience that too much
closeness versus too much distance dynamic which is common in Venus Uranus aspects. Like I'm very close friends with someone and if he doesn't message me I get all depressed and feel lonely lmao BUT when he messages me a lot consistently I'm all "omg he is so clingy please leave me alone"
Actually this is bogus because if I wanted to I could've been in a relationship longer than I have... I had someone who was perfect in this regard but that ended and it never flourished officiallyIP: Logged |
hannaramaa
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posted October 09, 2015 04:48 PM
I have Venus conj. Sun and Mercury, sextile my ASC and square Saturn and Neptune. I wish it aspected Pluto instead, seems to make everything more cut and dry than what I have.The longest so far has been two months, the longest emotional relationship I had with a guy was two years. As a side note Saturn and Uranus are in my 7th IP: Logged |
Soltze
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 09, 2015 06:52 PM
Tropical
Venus opp Saturn/Neptune (2º)
Venus trine Pluto (1º)Sideral Heliocentric
Venus opp Mercury (1º)- doesn't exist on tropical charts.
Venus sq Pluto (3º)
Venus quincunx Neptune (1º)
Venus quincunx Saturn(2º) Only thing I know is actual relationships never passed the 3 months test.
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DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 918
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Registered: Jun 2015
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posted October 09, 2015 07:11 PM
Are you still using the Vedic Heliocentric chart? The vedic chart just doesn't fit me at all in my opinion but the Heliocentric Vedic does. Either way.
Western: Square Neptune HC Vedic: Conjunct Asc, Conjunct Mars, Conjunct Pluto, sextile Mercury, Sextile Saturn, Sextile Neptune. Longest: 6 years +/-
Shortest: 2-3 weeks. (this was only a couple of years ago, not like grade school) For the most part they tend to end the same. Abruptly and unpleasantly. Typically something triggers in me and I end things, and end them big.
As to why. Eh, that's a big long story full of theories and whatnot. Astrologically, I just think it's my chart as a whole. Certainly much more than Venus.
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Desiring Shadows
Knowflake Posts: 2625
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posted October 09, 2015 09:29 PM
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 13453
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 10, 2015 11:06 AM
I've read that squares don't count as squares in heliocentric charts.  Need to research that more.I have Venus semisextile Uranus, exact to the minute. I got engaged to my husband after one date. I have Venus trine Saturn. That date was 17 years ago ~ we're still together. IP: Logged |
DopGang
Knowflake Posts: 918
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posted October 10, 2015 11:37 AM
I love that, Faith.
Simply because there are people who are stuck on the idea of there is a certain way, a time frame, an order, by which you go from dating, through the steps until marriage. Bull. Even if it looks crazy but feels right, follow your heart, I say. IP: Logged |
Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
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posted October 10, 2015 11:52 AM
Thank you.  Yeah everyone said I was totally nuts. I AM but...not for that reason.   IP: Logged |
Belage
Knowflake Posts: 1760
From: USA
Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 10, 2015 05:26 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
I've read that squares don't count as squares in heliocentric charts. Need to research that more.I have Venus semisextile Uranus, exact to the minute. I got engaged to my husband after one date. I have Venus trine Saturn. That date was 17 years ago ~ we're still together.
That Venus trine Saturn is such a nice aspect to have. Provides clearheadedness and ability to make wise personal decisions. IP: Logged |
Dancing Maenad
Moderator Posts: 3067
From: The Harvest
Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 11, 2015 12:40 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
That Venus trine Saturn is such a nice aspect to have. Provides clearheadedness and ability to make wise personal decisions.
My bf has it! I love it.
On topic: my Venus is unaspected. Lol. My relationships lasted between 1 day lol and 3 years. Was engaged twice, suddenly and both ended abruptly. 
No aspect to Uranus in the helio though. But I have a DC ruler trine Uranus in the tropical... IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted October 11, 2015 03:04 AM
Venus conj asc/saturn/uranus/neptune. Square moon. Sextile pluto. My feelings burned up and fizzled out quickly. So before my s.o, I sort of walked in a haze, had a bunch of connections... No clear definition. With my s.o, we got together quickly and madly, but it doesn't fizzle out. We've been together for about 6 years. IP: Logged |
12muddy
Knowflake Posts: 2422
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posted October 11, 2015 03:06 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Faith:
Yeah everyone said I was totally nuts.
Your story with your husband is totally sweet. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 13453
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 11, 2015 11:41 AM
^ Yours is similar, isn't it? IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 13453
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 11, 2015 11:47 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Belage:
That Venus trine Saturn is such a nice aspect to have. Provides clearheadedness and ability to make wise personal decisions.
I've made my fair share of mistakes in the romance department, but I have always been cautious with my heart, and I think that served me well. IP: Logged |
margym0o
Knowflake Posts: 545
From: Canada
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted October 13, 2015 09:07 AM
Venus trine Saturn and Venus square Pluto, both almost exact. I also have Venus quincunx Neptune and a couple other minor aspects.To say my relationships have been intense is an understatement, and I ONLY do long-term relationships. Frivolous dating, flings and superficial relationships are of no interest to me. They depress me more than anything else. My relationships have been 5, 3, 1 and now almost 2 years and counting (hopefully will marry this one). The 1 year relationship was probably a mistake and shouldn't have lasted as long as it did but in typical Venus trine Saturn fashion I wouldn't give up easily. I think these aspects get better with age, especially with the help of astrology to understand how Saturn and Pluto affect me in the love department. Saturn definitely sees commitment as a badge of honor you wear and makes you a very steadfast, loyal and sympathetic lover. Hard work is the name of the game and love must be earned. I think the trine makes this concept a little easier because it's just something you "do" rather than struggle with. I think the issues surrounding whether you are even "deserving" of such love are lessened with the trine. Pluto I am still struggling with because I do border on obsession with my love interest and need to learn to let go a little bit. The intense feelings of distrust that can arise even when nothing prompted them can be distressing both for me and the other person. I wish I could just be free and let myself be vulnerable but to me that is death. I always need to feel like I have the upper hand. It is definitely not an aspect for the faint of heart. I need someone who can understand and reciprocate my intensity. I would love to know how someone with the trine feels if the square can be so painful. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted October 13, 2015 10:07 AM
Venus conj Saturn, square Uranus, square Chiron. My longest so far have been 7 years. 4 of those years were good. IP: Logged |
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