posted October 14, 2015 11:54 PM            

I have Moon conjunct SN too, and Neptune is also there! Mine are in the 11th house, but conjunct the 12th house cusp. My Mother's Karma asteroid was conjunct all that. It was spooky when I noticed, but I would say it's definitely correct, she is the person who influenced me the most - and not all of it was good. We had a very difficult relationship too. It's even harder for me now that she is gone, I never got the chance to fix our relationship. I was starting to, but she died so unexpectedly. Now part of me regrets all of that, another part is terribly angry at her and another is confused. After her death I found out she lied to me in certain respects, which influenced me a great deal. It feels like I didn't really know her. You talked about Venus square Pluto in the natal - we had it in the synastry. Actually, my whole family has Pluto square my Venus because they are close in age. It's a tough aspect, especially when someone else takes your personal power away from you. That sums up to a high degree my relationship with my Mom. A part of me feels liberated (as insensitive as that sounds) now that she's gone. I feel I can finally be free to be me. I guess maybe I would deal with everything much better if I wasn't such a basket case emotionally. That's the most important thing for me to master in my life - my emotions. Do you feel the same about your Moon on SN?

The SR changed enough to be significant. Had I stayed where I am, I would've had a nice year, a welcomed break after the Grand Cross of 2014. But I guess it had to be this way. That decision, as well as the one I took when I visited my Mom right before she died, were almost automatic. I didn't know why I was doing that, but knew this is how it should be.

SR for where I currently am:

And the one I ended up with by travelling to Amsterdam.. Notice Moon in the 12th, on NN? Yeah. The MC/IC of this SR are conjunct my DC/Asc with a 6 minute orb.

posted October 16, 2015 12:27 AM            

You might be right, I'll let you know in a few months. I still work in multiple places, including my former workplace, and I may have access to a much better position than the one I had before. Nothing is certain though. Besides, perhaps it was a needed kick in my behind to realize I should never depend on a paycheck. I need to strike out on my own. I am starting the base procedures in the near future. My Uranus in the 10th can only take so much subordination, I need to be my own boss.
My Mom was 63 when she died, and I am about her age when she had me. The thing about forgiveness, though, is that you can't order your heart and mind to just forgive. It's a process. It took me years to forgive my father and I still haven't done it completely (he was the alcoholic in our family, not to mention abusive, including sexually, Mom was the workaholic.. both retreated in their own worlds and I was on my own). I just don't think it's that simple! I tried to talk things out with her corpse, it only worked so far. I guess part of my problem is that I don't really understand her. She was such a fearless woman in her career, but paralyzed by fear in everything else, and that's how she raised me. When I grew up I had to hide everything I was doing from her, including travelling abroad for the first time or having spinal surgery, because she would go crazy with fear that goodness knows what might happen. I am not giving up, but I also know I can't force myself to forgive her when I'm not yet ready. That's something I was skeptical about re: your notion of a co-creative relationship, because people have behavior patterns, they have unhealed wounds that they carry from one relationship to the next. Just talking about them and letting the other one know won't fix them - although, granted, it's better than NOT making them known to your partner. I'm in such a relationship right now, partly because we're both growth-oriented people and we've both been in therapy for years and know by now how to manage our own negative behavior, but it doesn't mean we don't get caught in it at times. I just don't want people to get the wrong idea and have unrealistic expectations - being honest about one's astrological and emotional baggage is just a small part in establishing a co-creative relationship, as you call it. It still takes WORK. Lots of it.

Phew. I am glad I got that off my chest. I liked the idea very much, but I think it's not enough to completely get rid of negative karmic behaviors. Each person must make an effort to heal and that's not easy. Hell, it's the hardest thing I've ever done in my life.

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posted October 16, 2015 03:18 PM            

Forgiveness is not easy for most people. I somehow figured out a way to forgive very quickly, but only after I forgave my Mom. That was the door that opened it for me, just that one person. I knew if I can forgive her I can forgive anyone. When my ex-wife cheated and gave birth to 2 children I quickly divorced and forgave! I would not have been able to if I didn't have that moment to forgive my Mom first. So you are right that some people have to forgive slowly, BUT forgiveness is ALWAYS what unlocks the door to more free life.

In the story of Jesus where he is being crucified and forgiving his murderers the message is showing us a very fast way to dissolve Karma. He knew if he did not forgive those murderers he would be trapped himself. It's never easy, but it is a metaphysical secret that is a sure winner to kick Karma's ass!

posted October 16, 2015 04:19 PM            

Also, are you taking into account transits to composite charts as well? Say two people hit it off splendidly but all of a sudden there's a tense aspect that makes things go awry quickly.

It's a lovely idea to compare two charts together for romantic, or even platonic, compatibility but you must remember to take each individual's chart into consideration as well as what transits are personally affecting each individual.

I'd love to give it a go just for some sort of platonic friendship, I'm currently in a relationship and not looking for anyone but all of this talk of this astrology based dating site has me quite intrigued.

I must agree with another member here who stated that it could cause delusion in some. Also, I'm more of a fan of the plain old "meet a person randomly while out and about somewhere (NOT A BAR)" kind of thing. I like things to feel natural.

But hey, making some astrology friends in my city would be refreshing!

posted October 17, 2015 11:40 AM            

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Forgive me Abc333 I'm an Aquarius who likes Chaos! However I love Virgos for the traits I do not have. I have 3 planets in Virgo but they are not personal so my Aquarius trumps my Virgo a lot. I agree with you that we should look at transits and composites and anything else we can study. Astrology Dating is really not a new idea at all, heck, romantic horoscopes are all about this etc. I just wanted to target my love and passion, Astrology in a dating site that's all. I am in talks with programmers now to help me install cool features like search for someone who has a planet in sign or a specific aspect etc. I am all for people looking are their transits etc. In fact I am willing to assist in that arena!

Thank you Abc333 for your input. Seems all the Virgos are the ones jumping in to suggest!! I am grateful for Virgos and all the other signs of the Zodiac. After all we are all 12 signs! Have a great night!

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That's the first thing that I would have suggested! Real astrology enthusiasts will love features like that. Some of the other big name dating sites already allow people to search by sun sign. Which to people such as LL members is too vague.
Searching by aspect, etc would be totally awesome!

posted October 17, 2015 02:31 PM            

Mr Aquarius, you are ahead of your time, but don't worry, things are changing. I'm sure you will be very successful with a community here willing to help iron out your programming bugs. There are other Astro dating sites but yours sounds like there will be more detailed matches based on individual preferences and intentions in relating. Not just attractions but long lasting results.

One way to test the site would be for members here who are in a long term successful relationships to enter both partners' data and see if they actually do match. That is if most people are looking for long time partner.

People have different intentions in relating. Some are looking for love, not necessarily availability. Some looking for a traveling partner, or partner in business or collaboration.

For instance, I've had 6 Aries step into my life in the past few months. Unconsciously I'm looking for motivation and an example of self starters to spark me into action. Also, square to my sun, a final wake up call to kneel to a higher power. The most recent is Valentine conjunct Valentine. How sweet is that?

posted October 20, 2015 01:55 PM            

If people are just wanting to see the reports to make a better decision if they want to move ahead with creating their profile please email me your intentions.

posted October 20, 2015 04:57 PM            

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I've been informed that it's working now.

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as of this moment page has not timed out,, been 78 seconds, not loading.
I am really curious what they have going.
The person who comes up with the right formula and markets it correctly WILL BANK.

posted October 20, 2015 05:11 PM            

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I've been informed that it's working now.

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as of this moment page has not timed out,, been 78 seconds, not loading.
I am really curious what they have going.
The person who comes up with the right formula and markets it correctly WILL BANK.

Finally loaded.
Chart sectors are referred to by a computer generated program based on sunrise chart.
per this>
n the same way that in a week from today Ceres will leave a fun, playful, romantic and creatively charged part of your chart and return to your work sector, the Moon makes that same leap today, giving you what is in effect a chance for a practice run. While the Moon's return to your work sector during the Sun's final days in your work sector is giving you an intuitive read on work matters at a critical point of the year for income matters, it's also a test to see how well you can maintain a balance between work and play.”
Moon and Ceres currently 27-28 cap, a sunrise chart for me place cap on 5th.
Next on the webpage
shows Astrology datings weekend romance forcast for July 3-5. THEY ARE NOT ACTIVE with the website,lol.
Then you can search for a member based on
a sunsign within so many miles.
If I select scorpio, age 0-99 in 150 mile
range there is 1 result.
very sad website
doomed to fail

posted October 20, 2015 05:41 PM            

I would just like to add that if you need or want any technical advice on websites or in particular astrology websites, I can help you.

I have already developed an independent astrology forum along with the ability for users to search other users by sun sign, moon sign etc (both are 2 separate entities)

Let me know what you think