posted October 16, 2015 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by TR2009:
My friend and I went to see a psychic, she said there was a man I was about to give up on but he has been torn up, used, and hurt before. I just need to be patient she said don't stop contacting him don't cut him out, just be there or him as a friend. He has very strong feelings for me, he has no problem telling me how he felt when he was unsure of my feelings so now that things are progressing hes scared of what has happened in the past will happen again. She said to be patient he is your soulmate and he was with you in another life. This is the first time I went to see psychic, she was right about a couple things that happened to me when I was growing up that shaped certain aspects of my personality today.
There is a chance she could be right but I don't want to be a pathetic woman hanging onto a man because a psychic said to.

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She may be right.

OTOH, she may just be telling you what you want to hear. That she got a couple of things right isn't hard to do. In this digital age, even cold reading and fishing isn't necessary to do so. Plenty don't go to psychics for the truth, they go to hear what they want to hear. If you went to ask about him then that would be a major red flag to me that she was just telling you what she thought you wanted to hear.

The story of Beauty and the Beast has done a severe disservice to women raised on that formula (which a great many romance media uses in one form or another), that by enduring the beast he will turn into a prince who will always be grateful and loving to her, as almost never happens.

posted October 16, 2015 10:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Odette:
I don't know what your chart looks like... but... what I want to say is, if Scorpio is annoying you with all his "sex blah" - please don't be afraid to speak up.

You already told him once and clearly that you don't want casual sex. However his actions and words seem like - he sees this as a challenge and wants to see whether or not he can push your buttons.
It's perfectly OK for you to tell him to "F Off". Please don't be too nice or "polite", because you don't need to - with Scorpio. He will steamroll all over you if you are too nice.
No matter what they may "say" out loud, the truth is... deep down, Scorpios don't have much respect for people they see as weak.

Call a spade a spade - and call him out on his behaviour if he upsets you!
Because if he truly cares - he will respect your honesty and take steps to "shape up". And if he doesn't truly care he will "ship out". And you will have your answer!

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posted October 17, 2015 09:26 AM            

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Originally posted by TR2009:
We work in the same place but different departments, after 2 months he told me he has had his eye on me, 3 weeks ago we exchanged numbers and he said he was going to call. A couple days pass he doesn't call, I txt him and it takes him hours to txt back and he asked to see me and I said yes but he never text me back. The day we were supposed to hang out he doesn't txt or call till 10 pm saying he was doing a favor for a neighbor and was tired which I understood. But within 10mins of talking on the phone he asked if I was a virgin and when was the last time I had sex. I told him I dont have sex without a relationship and he automatically said oh your my lady than and I said you havent taken me out or anything. A week ago when I was on break he came in and sat with me for 5mins and when he left he put his arm around my back, kissed me on the cheek and told me to call him, I called him 2 days later he didn't answer an never called me back. It s been a week and he never calls me or text me I always have to text him first and he never text back.
He came over to my department and we talked and he stares at me allot but when we were done talking he said he would txt me but nothing from him yet.

Before we exchanged numbers he seemed very interested in getting to know me, he would say he wanted to take me out and that he liked me. But it seems he doesn't think about me unless I'm standing in front of him or wanting to go out outside of work.
Am I just a work flirting friend?

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posted October 17, 2015 05:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Astra:
How old is he? He seems pretty immature. It doesn't matter though. He is playing with you. Even the young Scorpios are pretty clear when they really want a relationship with you. Move on. Don't waste your time with him. Speak to him politely when you have to interact with him, but otherwise focus on your work.

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posted October 18, 2015 03:26 AM            

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Originally posted by TR2009:

Hes actually 43 and I'm 24

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posted October 18, 2015 05:14 AM            

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Wow….by your description, I thought he was in his early 20s.

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Oh wow. Me too actually... I'm surprised he's in his early 40s :\
Out of sheer curiosity.. does he have a young Moon sign, like Aries or Gemini?

posted October 19, 2015 08:31 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Good for you!

Happy belated Birthday!

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Thank you!