posted October 20, 2015 06:02 PM            

I'm a Leo with a Sagittarius Moon, Cancer Venus in the 1st and Libra Juno. Although I often daydream about the perfect love life, I've never been in a relationship because I like my freedom to be independent and just roam. I'm 17 so people find it weird that I want to stay single until I'm like 21-22 lol. Anywaay, I feel like affection, honesty, compromise and cooperation should be the foundation of a relationship. Balance and fairness where it's an equal give and take kind of thing - 50/50, you meet me halfway, I'll meet you. I don't know if it's the Libra Juno in me speaking or if my 1st House Venus is adding Libra traits to the way I feel about love, but yeah .. LOL.

Also, I'm positive my Leo-Cancer mix would make me extremely loyal, romantic, affectionate and lovey-dovey-kissy-kissy-cuddly-fuddle in relationship hahaa. That being said, I'm quite freedom-loving, so I'm sure I wouldn't mind giving my boyfriend as much space/alone time as he needs to recharge and do him.
I’d prefer for him to look me in the eye or hold me to let me know how he feels, as opposed to verbally saying it. It’s nice to feel what the other person feels .. When you know you're both feeling it and there’s no need for words cause you have a deep unspoken connection.

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Leo Sun/Mercury
Sagittarius Moon
Cancer Venus/Mars/Rising

posted October 20, 2015 06:48 PM            

Whew! What a mix.

posted October 21, 2015 09:27 AM            

Juno is the partner that you "get" apparently...

Well, I haven't dated an Aries anything. But I did have someone who had their Venus conjunct my Juno and he was very mild(Moon in Virgo).

But since Juno aspects Pluto by opposition, it could be that I may end up being with someone more Scorpio/Plutonic?

posted October 21, 2015 12:03 PM            

My Juno is in Aries (8th house)

Juno in Aries
Your partner will be aggressive, short-tempered, and ambitious. Interested in sports, he/she can be highly energetic. He/she may also be dominant, stern, and tense. You need to be active yourself to be able to adapt to your partner’s fast way of living.

NOT AT ALL does my husband fit this description!! He is Venus conjunct Ascendant (cancer) all peace and love and friendliness.

My Moon is Aqua 5th
My Venus is Leo 11th

posted October 21, 2015 01:02 PM            

Inneresting thread idea...

I am Libra moon in the 8th, Venus in Pisces in 1H and Juno ALSO in Libra in 8H.

But I don't click with Libra guys.

Liiiiike, as in, I've never met one I was remotely attracted to sexually. The only Libra I'm close to is a friend of mine I've sung in opera companies with and love dearly... he is gay. We have no sexual/romantic relationship whatsoever. But I DOOOO love him muchly.

I also don't really get along with Libra women. O.O

posted October 21, 2015 03:20 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
... and Libra Juno. Although I often daydream about the perfect love life, I've never been in a relationship because I like my freedom to be independent and roam.

People find it weird that I want to stay single until I'm like 21 lol.

Anywaay, I feel like affection, honesty, compromise and cooperation should be the foundation of a relationship.
Balance and fairness where it's an equal give and take kind of thing - 50/50, you meet me halfway, I'll meet you.

I don't know if it's the Libra Juno in me speaking or if my 1st House Venus is adding Libra traits to the way I feel about love, but yeah .. LOL

Also, I'm sure I'd be extremely loyal, romantic, and lovey-dovey-kissy-kissy-cuddly-fuddle in relationship hahaa. ...

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YOU are just adorable and too-cute Miss Leo-Cancer98! You "fit" your sign placements, at least to me you do.

Recommending a really good book to you--
Demetra George & Douglas Bloch. (1986, 2003)
Asteroid Goddesses: The Mythology, Psychology and Astrology of the Re-emerging Feminine.
Ibis Press

page 171 "Juno in Libra"
quote: Juno in Libra individuals need to feel as an equal and require a fair give-and-take in their relationship. Consultation from their partner on decision-making, and respect and approval for their ideas, are required.
When equality needs are not being met, this individual can become uncooperative, excessively competitive, or can even engage in direct combat.
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Since sign Leo is sextile sign Libra (I don't know if you have Sun sextile Juno?), here's what the book has to say about that aspect. Maybe it fits...

page 176 quote: 'The relating-principle' (juno) combines with 'identity and purpose' (sun).
This combination indicates that learning to harmoniously interact with others becomes a major life theme.
Harmonious aspects-- depict a sensitivity to others, and a gift for developing harmony and intimacy in a partnership.
Because they see relationships as fundamental to a fulfilled life, these individuals will be committed to perfecting relationships, as well as supporting their partners' individuality.
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If your Venus squares Juno? Books advice is to... "learn to develop an inner appreciation of one's beauty and self-worth that is NOT dependent upon the opinions of others."

MY Placement?
Juno-rx Scorpio 4+ H11 trine to Mars Cancer 2+ H7.

Definitely passionate, looking for true sense of intimacy (physical yes, but right now emotionally would bring greatest fulfillment, I think). Definitely also very protective and defensive of my partner-- I don't know how much of a 'fault' this is?, but I'm very territorial about the people I feel close too.

page 175 Juno in the Eleventh House
quote: ...individuals need 'friendship' and 'acceptance' from the partner.
One's "relationship unit" needs to be able to extend into friends and group associations, (e.g., extended family forms, social and political activism, and group-marriage).
There is a visionary dimension represented by Juno in the eleventh house that revolutionizes old relationship forms.
The most important relationship interactions will occur with friends and social associates.
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^ This fits my Libra MC and Gemini on H7 Cusp. MercuryGemini conjunct MarsCancer in H7. I need my mates (marriage/business) to be my Best Friends... And of highest ethics. Affectionate, spiritual, deeply caring, who can deal with someone who can get chatty at times, and understands ~weird when it comes to a sense of Humor.

posted October 21, 2015 03:44 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
...I've sung in opera companies with...

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I'm laughing!!! Have a great day, Cappi112!!

posted October 22, 2015 05:40 AM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
I'm laughing!!! Have a great day, Cappi112!!

(music) Ah Sweet Mystery Of Life (Jeanette MacDonald, Nelson Eddy, Naughty Marietta) [5:18] http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1xpKeabZlEs

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posted October 22, 2015 02:01 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Haha!! I actually have sung in opera companies with him I am an opera singer... sadly, most of the guys I sing with in opera companies are gay, but it does make it easier to keep my love life and work separate....

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You mean Nelson Eddy?? Oh~~wow!! I just love it!

I used to hang around close-others for a handful of years who eventually decided to form their own opera company. What a rich experience within a uniquely creative lot!

I participated as a 'woodland nymphe' (a chorus part). There was a soprano (my brother had been dating) whose voice absolutely thrilled me to the core of my soul. She could sing the Queen of The Night aria with a chill BETTER than ANYBODY I'd ever heard before.

I was blessed with helping her with a stage cue. She could never "sense" or feel the timing for her entrance in this one opera production. At a certain moment, I would literally shove her out of the wings and onto the stage where she'd wail out her big note upon appearance! ....

Life is filled with little moments of memories like that! Makes it all juicy and worthwhile to ponder.

And about the "gay" guy???
For me personally, I am USUALLY celebrated in their midst as *their Favorite Straight-person* to be around. -- Coz I'm fun, playful and creative, and can be affectionate and warm with them without it evoking feelings of threat or jealousy in partners. It's 'all' innocent and very Loving.

I Adore them!! Some of the MOST HANDSOME dudes I've ever met and been attracted to turned out to be gay. ~~ I feel really grounded safe and secure around them.

Sooo much FUN as colleagues, too.

Great memories~~~ In the late 1970s, driving across the Golden Gate Bridge to meet his friends, in a red shining convertible, breezes blowing and wearing a stuffed-animal snake around the shoulders, while we were blaring Classical Music on the radio!!!
~~That coworker was studying to be a classical pianist. ...
I've dated two of those! Loved studying my textbooks underneath the piano while they practiced-away doing scales! Loved studying in the music building lounge hearing the vocalists practice in the background. Actually helped me to concentrate, ~amazing isn't it?

posted October 25, 2015 02:27 AM            

I am a sapiosexual. I love independent, brilliant women who can intellectually stimulate me, however, I like them to be domestic/nurturing as well.

As strange as it sounds, my ideal mate would have many character traits my mom has, that is, holding me accountable, being extremely caring in a tough love sort of way, and always encouraging me to do my best (even though I'm already a very self-motivated person).

posted October 25, 2015 04:59 AM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
herro.

Inneresting thread idea...

I am Libra moon in the 8th, Venus in Pisces in 1H and Juno ALSO in Libra in 8H.

But I don't click with Libra guys.

Liiiiike, as in, I've never met one I was remotely attracted to sexually. The only Libra I'm close to is a friend of mine I've sung in opera companies with and love dearly... he is gay. We have no sexual/romantic relationship whatsoever. But I DOOOO love him muchly.

I also don't really get along with Libra women. O.O

So idk. This all very confusing for me.

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Hold the phone...you sang in an opera company?? DO tell more..