posted October 21, 2015 08:55 PM            

Myself I can relate this to my Scorpio Pluto(in 4th)- square Leo rising plus my Aries with Mercury(R, non water House), so I have the first impression warm fire traits and people tend to spill. But my Pisces Sun moon conjunction in 8th Is so inward that It makes things awkward out worldly for people after a while of this because; for me it takes years to get on that level(mostly) and its hard to return superficially...it's funny, but it can be small things - I won't tell, one way or another, it's locked...

posted October 21, 2015 09:17 PM            

Didn't socially~understand at the time that I was actually SUPPOSED to share their secrets? .... *go figure*

sheesh?!

Scorpio 11th and 12 Houses
Stellium Cancer 8th
Capricorn 2nd House cusp
Saturn Scorpio 11th
Pluto e.o. 8th
Mars Cancer in the 7th
Moon Virgo (9)th
Saturn trines 8th house cusp? Just guessing-- I don't know if that would have anything to do with it?, but I list it here.

posted October 21, 2015 11:47 PM            

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Originally posted by Aatifah21:
I'd like to think I can keep a secret. I believe in the golden rule so if someone tells me something in confidence I'm not one to blabber it to anyone. Placements in signature.

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Same.

My own secrets?...Hmm...I've had some experiences I can't describe and haven't ever wanted to describe. By default these are the unsaid things that shaped me. They remain unsaid not because I consider them precious secrets or "only for deserving people" but simply hard to say. And what's not hard to say, I try to be candid about.

Sometimes I'm candid about things others consider taboo...and they might think I'm spilling secrets...whereas to me, they are just ordinary kinds of facts.

I think it's important to say some of these risky things, that's a very important part of the communication fabric that holds people together on a deeper level. The whole ugly truth is part of that. You can't have depth without some gore, and seeing the whole full array of others' experiences...that encourages and inspires me. So the golden rule applies here, too: I generally try to say the same kinds of things I would find it interesting or helpful to hear from others.

posted October 22, 2015 12:03 AM            

Now I'm just a chatterbox and pretty much everyone who knows me thinks if it goes in one ear it will come out my mouth

But that's not the truth
If someone tells me seriously to keep a secret I will
I'm not a bad person like that

posted October 22, 2015 12:14 AM            

When someone tells me a secret or tells me something about someone,I tend to hold it to myself,so whenever those people cross me,I can use it against them.its a bad habit,but it's still useful because I don't have to lay a finger on anyone,they can just go against each other.i barely use this tactic though.

posted October 22, 2015 12:08 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Sometimes I'm candid about things others consider taboo...and they might think I'm spilling secrets...whereas to me, they are just ordinary kinds of facts.

I think it's important to say some of these risky things, that's a very important part of the communication fabric that holds people together on a deeper level.

The whole ugly truth is part of that. You can't have depth without some gore, and seeing the whole full array of others' experiences...that encourages and inspires me.

So the golden rule applies here, too: I generally try to say the same kinds of things I would find it interesting or helpful to hear from others.

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Excellent, Faith!! That's the way I feel about it, too!

I tend to be more protective of others than I take care for myself and my own reputation. But I know that I follow that same track, those standards, that I believe you have stated here.

You Be your own person, stand in integrity, try to do no harm, and sometimes you get lucky enough to find that you're not alone.

Don't be afraid to let your Light shine. One of the best kept Secrets is that you have Greatness in you (amidst your faults and failings). When you allow yourself to BE that best self, it frees up other people to BE who they really are inside...

Human Beings... So full of tragedy in a broken, hurting and fallen world. Yet, What Potential lies inside each one, just waiting to be unleashed amidst life's circumstances.

posted October 22, 2015 01:55 PM            

Right, same here...if you need confidentiality, best to make me promise, because I will honor a promise.

posted October 22, 2015 01:58 PM            

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Originally posted by mirage29:
Excellent, Faith!! That's the way I feel about it, too!

I tend to be more protective of others than I take care for myself and my own reputation. But I know that I follow that same track, those standards, that I believe you have stated here.

You Be your own person, stand in integrity, try to do no harm, and sometimes you get lucky enough to find that you're not alone.

Don't be afraid to let your Light shine. One of the best kept Secrets is that you have Greatness in you (amidst your faults and failings). When you allow yourself to BE that best self, it frees up other people to BE who they really are inside...

Human Beings... So full of tragedy in a broken, hurting and fallen world. Yet, What Potential lies inside each one, just waiting to be unleashed amidst life's circumstances.

We've gotta awaken the Love in One-Another, Dudes! {{ }} BE Awesomeness!

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posted October 22, 2015 02:09 PM            

Of course if you turn on me and force me to retaliate, then will i tell what i know.
I will wait until the perfect time to use it, probably after you think your safe and believe im not going to make an issue for you. I will be quietly gathering the evidence to back up my word so its not just my word against yours...
After things seem calm...i will continue to pay attention to who your allies are and then choose who to tell. I will chose ppl who will know how to use that information well, to hurt you the very most. Or i will use it to show your true character to your new allies and destroy the new foundations you have built.