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Topic: Scorpio? What the heck? This is my first one...
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happyaskings
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posted October 25, 2015 01:36 PM
  
I've been involved with a Scorpio man for about a month and Things are going pretty awesome! I don't think I've ever felt so at ease with another person, it's really something. There has obviously been quite a bit of sexual tension and while we did not go all the way last night, some of it did spill over. I was...very impressed. We ended up falling asleep together (which we HAVE done before) and this is where my question stems from. He woke up out of a dead sleep and said "hey beautiful" then he pulled me into him and whispered "I love you". I froze! I laughed and told him to go to sleep and he didn't seem upset. He's been speaking to me today even. But what the heck was this?! I've never been with a Scorpio do yall just fall in love after a few orgasms?! You don't know you love someone after a month. Was it a game? If heard Scorps play games. Or was it just sleep talk? Was it genuine? Is this a Scorpio thing? I was really enjoying the pace of things because it was moving slowly and felt safe. Now I'm kind of panicking. Thoughts/advice? I don't have TOB but HE is:
Sun/ Scorpio
Moon/ Pisces
Merc/ Scorp
Venus/ Libra
Mars/ Aries If it helps I am:
Sun/ Gemini
Moon/ Scorpio
Merc/ Taurus
Venus/ Cancer
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Desiring Shadows
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posted October 25, 2015 02:40 PM
try not to go too fast or he will treat you as a hook up and never talk to u againWhat u can do is Make Him Wait for other things IP: Logged |
LostSoulRebecca
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posted October 25, 2015 03:02 PM
He is Moon in Pisces & Mars in Aries.  He could easily talk in sleep since Moon in Pisces (and/or Scorpio) usually have quite vivid dreams so there is that. But being Scorpio Sun with Moon in Pisces I think that he didn't say this just like that. He probably really like you.
He is probably very emotional and gets attach to people that he cares for quite quickly. Tan if you add to this energy of his Mars in Aries (meaning he likes to take action) than I am not surprised that he told you this so quickly… But for sure – as said by Desiring Shadows – it won’t hurt if you make him wait a bit before you two jump between the sheets. 
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happyaskings
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posted October 25, 2015 07:46 PM
Yeah I agree. To be fair to him, he hasn't pushed for sex at all. Which is really refreshing and unexpected. I'm more shocked at the expression of feelings so fast and I have no idea what Scorpios are like. I knew they were intent but I didn't think they moved fast? I thought they were secretive about it.IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted October 25, 2015 07:59 PM
My ex is a scorp with moon in pisces and venus in libra and he never pushed for sex, he was very romantic...IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted October 25, 2015 08:36 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
My ex is a scorp with moon in pisces and venus in libra and he never pushed for sex, he was very romantic...
Would you mind telling me more about what he was like? Did he ever play games or cheat? Was he ever manipulative? Was he sincere in his romanticism? IP: Logged |
frankie2912
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posted October 27, 2015 02:00 AM
My Scorpio man told me he loved me after knowing each other for one WEEK. ONE. WEEK.i thought he was crazy. But he still loves me deeply and i love him deeply, too. Scorpios are intense. They feel intensely. He may be overwhelmed by his feelings for you but that doesnt mean the feelings are cheap. Just see where it goes..dont pry into what he said. Go with your feelings and see how his feelings play out over time. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted October 27, 2015 03:00 AM
Speaking as someone that has much experience with Pisces and Aries: Do not be easy!!! They get bored..
But on the other hand,
Scorpios do not like games, despite playing them themselves, so just be firm and stable. *sighs* Nevermind. Just be yourself Don't make a Pisces think that you are something you are not. The Dream will come crashing down hard on them and disappointment will ensue. IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 27, 2015 03:21 AM
She's a gem with a Scorpio moon. Things will be fine  IP: Logged |
ScorpAqua
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posted October 27, 2015 08:45 AM
As a Scorpio male, I can tell you that anyone who takes my affection for granted will find themselves single pretty fast. And I move on permanently. Power games only emerge from under developed Scorpios who feel insecure for some reason. Evolved ones will end toxic relationships and move on forever. IP: Logged |
happyaskings
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posted October 28, 2015 08:34 AM
Woah, I'm definitely not playing games. I never brought what he said up and he didn't either so maybe it was just sleeptalk and he didn't even know what he was saying. Also, we haven't gone any further than that night so I'm not really worried about being perceived as "easy". I don't think that's where his head is at. We are both taking things slow.One thing I would like to know if any of you can enlighten me is why sometimes I get this sweet, expressive guy who seemingly can't get enough of me and other times I get a stern, emotionally cut off who acts like I'm strange for being emotionally open. Scorpio thing? Does this fade with time? IP: Logged |
ScorpAqua
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posted October 28, 2015 11:13 PM
I hope this doesn't come across all wrong in written form but...Us Scorpios can be very controlling, but it is not always immediately obvious. They often, but not always, wear the pants in a relationship. The best type of evolved Scorpio will try to control THEMSELVES, not others, knowing full well that self control is more important than that held over others. We have emotions below the surface running at very deep and intense levels, and sometimes we just don't know what to do with it. So it can occasionally manifest in snappy or cold moods with other emotional people because it's as if our own emotional feelings will overflow and overwhelm us if it's piled on top. This can be true of any water sign but it is particularly sharp in Scorpios. If your Scorpio male doesn't have some compelling interests or hobbies where he can channel all that emotion, he should start one. If it is left to stagnate, it can be quite damaging in many different ways. IP: Logged |
angel4845
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posted October 28, 2015 11:41 PM
i know i scorpio man who just wants to hook up with me doesn't want to go slow with me he just wants to hook up no friendship, no getting to know each other slowly he wants me to just straight up tell him i' m crazy about him and that i' ll suck his dick and wants no strings attached.....i wish this scorpio guy was like yours.------------------
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ScorpAqua
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posted October 29, 2015 06:12 AM
^^^
Probably has his Venus in SagittariusIP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted October 29, 2015 07:42 AM
I'm thinking that he's being swept away with really liking you.
He very well could love what you're doing together and all that. However, in that deep emotional world, that state of bliss can be confused for love.
So he probably meant it as he woke up, realized where he is and really was happy. Come morning, reality hit. Realizing his mistake, but since you didn't seem too concerned then he's not panicking.
He's just on reset and start over.
I just would be careful not to make him feel foolish for what he feels because it's sometimes confusing for him I would guess. That's just what I feel about it from what you've said and his Pisces moon. IP: Logged |
angel4845
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posted October 29, 2015 10:08 AM
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Originally posted by ScorpAqua:
^^^
Probably has his Venus in Sagittarius
Your close hes a venus in scorpio and his Mars is in GEMINI RETROGRADE opposing my venus exact! He gave up on pursuing me because I couldn't make it to his concert despite that I told him that I would try cause I already had plans. He's got sun CONJUNCT venus in scorpio opposing his moon in taurus. ------------------
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Gabby
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posted October 29, 2015 10:23 AM
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Originally posted by ScorpAqua:
As a Scorpio male, I can tell you that anyone who takes my affection for granted will find themselves single pretty fast. And I move on permanently. Power games only emerge from under developed Scorpios who feel insecure for some reason. Evolved ones will end toxic relationships and move on forever.
Very good point!
Im dating a very mature libra Sun, scorp Moon/Venus/AC, virgo Mars/Merc/Pluto I can tell if someone played games or acted crazy hed be out of there so quickly! He's so down to earth and straightforward! IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted October 29, 2015 10:53 AM
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Originally posted by angel4845:
Your close hes a venus in scorpio and his Mars is in GEMINI RETROGRADE opposing my venus exact! He gave up on pursuing me because I couldn't make it to his concert despite that I told him that I would try cause I already had plans. He's got sun CONJUNCT venus in scorpio opposing his moon in taurus.
Wow, i knew a scorp Sun, Mars, Merc saggy Venus...
His Venus exact opposed my gemini Mars rx......he seemed to like me but something about him made me not trust him, i did kind of want to be with him but no emotions allowed! I never acted on it or told him i just avoided him. IP: Logged |
4lifephrases
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posted October 29, 2015 10:57 AM
I would say ok. I said it first and I said it quick " I love you " but as it was love in first sight. I wasn't looking for a response so it didn't matter as I knew it was casual which I have fallen and I didn't care if it went either way - nowhere or somewhere. For me I have honoured my emotions and feelings and how it plays out didn't matter.Just to tell you I am married and now we are 7 years together. Now husband my the then someone I have just met didn't feel pressured but took his time and we were out in a sunny weather in park and asked me about what I had said and I had said it again so he had proper chance to respond back. I would say ball is in your court and Scorpio would be able to deal and respect your feelings. I generally feel Scopio can be just being honest and try not to read too much. It is what it is he has said what he feels. Do you wish to take it further then say that? Do you not want to then say that ? Just do not keep someone hanging as it is very frustrating for Scorpio. IP: Logged |
angel4845
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posted October 29, 2015 11:34 AM
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Wow, i knew a scorp Sun, Mars, Merc saggy Venus...
His Venus exact opposed my gemini Mars rx......he really liked me but something about him made me not trust him, i did kind of want to be with him but no emotions allowed! I never acted on it or told him i just avoided him.
omggggg!!!! that's crazy and funny how its the other way around how it was his venus on your mars, and in this case its his mars on my venus lol!. i actually am so attracted to him but i just want to be friends with him but he doesn't want that  ....this is the same guy that his dejanira square his sun and venus. also my his true lilith and oscillating lilith is conjunct my venus and my true lilith and lilith (i) is conjunct his North Node which could be the reason why there is such a power struggle game here and a lot of mystery ughhhh hard to get games i hate it!!! gabby why couldn't you trust him? i can't trust this guy because his nessus, aphrodite, my name asteroid, lust, pan, RIP is conjunct my anti-vertex in the 1st house. i already suspect that he is just going to take advantage of me, play games, be the casanova type with me, i think its mainly his nessus on my anti vertex that is bothering me a lot, i don't know i just feel like he will deceive me even if we were friends, i can't trust him. by the way i never liked him never cared to notice him too much in school until he stared flirting and pursuing me and that's when i started crushing on him a bit.
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Gabby
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posted October 29, 2015 11:39 AM
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Originally posted by angel4845:
omggggg!!!! that's crazy glad you can relate to this. i actually am so attracted to him but i just want to be friends with him but he doesn't want that ....this is the same guy that his dejanira square his sun and venus. also my his true lilith and oscillating lilith is conjunct my venus and my true lilith and lilith (i) is conjunct his North Node which could be the reason why there is such a power struggle game here and a lot of mystery ughhhh hard to get games i hate it!!! gabby why couldn't you trust him? i can't trust this guy because his nessus, aphrodite, my name (angelica), lust, pan, RIP is conjunct my anti-vertex in the 1st house. i already suspect that he is just going to take advantage of me, play games, be the casanova type with me, i think its mainly his nessus on my anti vertex that is bothering me a lot, i don't know i just feel like he will deceive me even if we were friends, i can't trust him.
Im not sure why i didnt trust him? But i had the same feeling as you... like he was going to hurt me by deceiving me! That's interesting we both felt the same way. His Sun/Mars was on my NN so it surprised me i didnt want to get close to him. IP: Logged |
Wild Horses
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posted October 29, 2015 12:11 PM
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Originally posted by happyaskings:
I've been involved with a Scorpio man for about a month and Things are going pretty awesome! I don't think I've ever felt so at ease with another person, it's really something. There has obviously been quite a bit of sexual tension and while we did not go all the way last night, some of it did spill over. I was...very impressed. We ended up falling asleep together (which we HAVE done before) and this is where my question stems from. He woke up out of a dead sleep and said "hey beautiful" then he pulled me into him and whispered "I love you". I froze! I laughed and told him to go to sleep and he didn't seem upset. He's been speaking to me today even. But what the heck was this?! I've never been with a Scorpio do yall just fall in love after a few orgasms?! You don't know you love someone after a month. Was it a game? If heard Scorps play games. Or was it just sleep talk? Was it genuine? Is this a Scorpio thing? I was really enjoying the pace of things because it was moving slowly and felt safe. Now I'm kind of panicking. Thoughts/advice? I don't have TOB but HE is:
Sun/ Scorpio
Moon/ Pisces
Merc/ Scorp
Venus/ Libra
Mars/ Aries If it helps I am:
Sun/ Gemini
Moon/ Scorpio
Merc/ Taurus
Venus/ Cancer
Mars/ Leo
Well, keeping the obvious in mind, that every individual is an individual, I think there's a good chance he means it. My husband has a Scorpio Sun-Venus-Mars conjunction, a Leo Moon and a Libra Mercury. He always means what he says and says what he means. I learned a long time ago to take him at face value. Your guy probably does have a wide romantic streak with his Pisces Moon and Libra Venus, and his Aries Mars may lead him to be more open and direct in expressing it and pretty quick to express it. His Scorpio Sun will make it highly likely that he means it. My advice in dealing with a Scorpio is to just be yourself. Be genuine, real, and authentic. You have an advantage being a Gem Sun, because for some reason, Scorpio Suns and Gem Suns very often form an incredibly deep, binding, almost inexplicable attraction for one another. I have a Gemini Sun conj. Gem Venus 1° and my husband has his Scorpio Sun conj. Scorpio Venus 0°. Our relationship is like Super Glue. We've been together since we were teenagers, married for 23 years, and my mind can't really imagine us ever parting. Rule #1 with Scorpio men:
DO NOT PLAY GAMES! Rule #2 with Scorpio men:
DO NOT PLAY GAMES! Rule #3 with Scorpio men:
DO NOT PLAY GAMES!
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hypatia238
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posted October 29, 2015 12:27 PM
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Originally posted by angel4845:
i know i scorpio man who just wants to hook up with me doesn't want to go slow with me he just wants to hook up no friendship, no getting to know each other slowly he wants me to just straight up tell him i' m crazy about him and that i' ll suck his dick and wants no strings attached.....i wish this scorpio guy was like yours.
is the moon in pisces with venus libra.....I have slept with 4 scorpios and the only one I felt for and captured my heart was the one with moon in pisces and venus in libra. IP: Logged |
hypatia238
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posted October 29, 2015 12:50 PM
Scratch that; I slept with 5 scorpios. I can't belief I almost forgot the eccentric artist LOL, I actually liked him, he was my second favorite. I think he had venus in scorpio too..very intense.IP: Logged |
angel4845
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posted October 29, 2015 01:07 PM
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Scratch that; I slept with 5 scorpios. I can't belief I almost forgot the eccentric artist LOL, I actually liked him, he was my second my favorite. I think he had venus in scorpio too..very intense.
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