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hearttreasure
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posted October 25, 2015 08:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
So, let’s say you’ve made some poor choices and really burned or betrayed someone.

Which sign will be more than happy to let bygones be bygones? Which sign will forgive but not forget? Which sign will make you work to earn back their trust? Which sign will take their grudge to the grave?

Aries: Kinda. It depends on your definition of “forgiveness.” If you wrong an Aries, they’ll get raging mad, then they’ll forget, then later when they’re reminded of it, they’ll get mad again…and the cycle continues.

Taurus: No way. Once you have truly wronged a Taurus, there’s not a chance in hell you’ll be forgiven. Out of all the signs, Taurus is most likely to take a grudge to their grave, and there’s nothing you can do about it.

Gemini: Yes, but there’s no way of knowing how, why, or when. Gemini is so changeable that they may forgive you immediately, or they might want to talk for hours about the situation, or you might simply have to make them laugh.

Cancer: Yes. Cancers are so empathetic that if you can appeal to the emotional side of the situation and connect with them on a deeper level, they’ll be more than willing to forgive you.

Leo: Maybe. It really depends on who you are. Leos are loving, positive, and deeply loyal, so if you’re close to them, you’re likely to be forgiven for pretty much anything (but not without a lot of work).

Virgo: Mostly. A Virgo will forgive you, but they won’t let you forget. Because their minds are so active and analytical, they can’t help but bring up the situation whenever the slightest thing reminds them of it.

Libra: Absolutely. A Libra genuinely wants to forgive everyone to keep the peace, so just give them a reason–any reason–and they’ll be happy to move on.

Scorpio: Good luck. In the best case scenario, you’ll be able to prove to them that you’ve done enough emotional work to deserve another chance; worst case scenario, they will use the betrayal against you and actively ruin your life.

Sagittarius: Possibly. If being a forgiving person is part of a Sagittarian’s ideal self-image, they will make it happen, but they can also easily get stuck in their stubborn, “know it all” ways, so it’s kind of a toss-up.

Capricorn: No. A Capricorn will never truly forgive you, but they might pretend to for awhile if they want or need something from you.

Aquarius: Eventually, because forgiveness is the right thing to do. It might take some time, but if you can present sound and logical reasoning to convince them why you should be forgiven, it will help expedite the process.

Pisces: Yes. Pisceans don’t like to hold on to unnecessary burdens, and grudges would weigh them down. They will forgive you, but give them time and space to process it and come to the decision on their own.

(source: http://tinyurl.com/qxdrset)

Do you think this is only to the sun sign? How about the moon? The mars? The venus? Or maybe there's an influence for the aspect?

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mystictinkerbell
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posted October 26, 2015 06:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for mystictinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree.
Sun represents who you are . Moon represents your emotions.Venus represents someone's love style.Mars is for drive.Therefore unless there are many planets in one particular house Sun would represent basic behavior.If all the above planets i.e. moon , mars etc fall under same sign then there would be an effect.

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charlie
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posted October 27, 2015 03:04 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My Cancer Sun (brain/ego) will forgive almost anything and still be jolly-molly but my Cap Moon (heart) will NEVER give you another chance even if you were the last person on earth to depend on!!

And to mention 2 other signs in all generality: my husbands Aries Sun/Taurus Moon will never forgive you either UNLESS you actually, and logically, explain your wrong-doing WITHOUT FEELINGS!! The part of no feelings is very important in his case. Tears, crying and vying for emotional forgivness will never work. What works is a simple recognition that you f-d up big time, an explanation of why you f-d up and a showing of determination that it will most likely never happen again. After that is done he will never speak of it again.

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visions
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posted October 27, 2015 03:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for visions     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
saturn conjunct ascendant = never

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hearttreasure
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posted October 27, 2015 04:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by visions:
saturn conjunct ascendant = never

lol. What sign is your Saturn/Asc?

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12muddy
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posted October 27, 2015 05:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 12muddy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree that there are other factors such as moon, venus, mars and aspect come into play.

I have cap sun/aries moon. Although I forget the anger rather quickly, I don't forget the offense, and don't give second chances.

Usually I can detach and look at different perspectives to understand why they did the things they did, so I'm not out for their blood (especially in cases where I think I'd probably do the same if I were in their shoes).

But trust isn't something that can be built back. Make the choice and deal with the consequences.

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Meatballzzzzzz
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posted October 27, 2015 10:59 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Meatballzzzzzz     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Capricorn: No. A Capricorn will never truly forgive you, but they might pretend to for awhile if they want or need something from you.

100% agree. If I do forgive someone I tend to choose the forgive and never let forget method lol.

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Faith
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posted October 27, 2015 11:06 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Desiring Shadows
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posted October 27, 2015 01:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm a very forgiving person but there's only so much I can take.

If u hurt me I will probably take a break from u for a while and eventually I can go back to talking with you again because I probably miss the hell out of you

That's only if I care though

Some people I'll take a break from and not really care too much about them so I'll just move on and never talk to them again
But that's rare

Because I care a lot 😭😝

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Desiring Shadows
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posted October 27, 2015 01:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Charts in siggy

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My charts:Western-tropicalSidereal-heliocentric
the moon is in the 7th house... & Jupiter aligns with Mars... Then peace will guide the planets. And love will steer the stars!"

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athenaia
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posted October 27, 2015 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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theunknown
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posted October 27, 2015 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for theunknown     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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athenaia
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posted October 27, 2015 02:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by hearttreasure:
Aquarius: Eventually, because forgiveness is the right thing to do. It might take some time, but if you can present sound and logical reasoning to convince them why you should be forgiven, it will help expedite the process.

This one definitely resonates with me. I am capable of forgiveness, and I prefer it. I hate carrying around the ugly heaviness of hatred or resentment. Sometimes it'll take me years to forgive, but I welcome the feeling when it arrives.

However, this person can't be apart of my every day life. They can never have access to my emotional domain, they will never be trusted with anything of importance in my life. We can chit chat every now and then and I'll send good energy their way, but that's about it. Of course, this always depends on the "offense" at hand, but even with my worst offenders.. I'm not a vengeful person. A sincere apology goes a long way with me.

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Gemini Blues
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posted October 27, 2015 02:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Heh! I see several of my planets here

Gemini Sun... Explain it to me logically. The gods of whimsy may shine...

Leo Moon... I can be magnanimous to those who are loyal...

Cancer Venus... I want to connect and nurture. Can we heal this?

Taurus Mars... You ****** me off? Welcome to the brick wall. Bonk! Who's next?

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Soltze
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posted October 27, 2015 05:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Me too!
My Gemini Sun will analyse what upset me to exhaustion, the Scorpio Moon will keep the grudge for future reference, Cancer Mars will brood. ~
If I am quiet run, you're not out of the danger zone.

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