posted October 26, 2015 01:09 PM            

but i cant stand when im at party or im at work just having a good time and someone comes in a tells me to shut up or to lower my fun down or comes in a stops the fun me and my friends are having OMG this absolutely makes me so angry do you feel the same? i' m very loud when im having a good time with my friends especially at work just having a great time and some of my co workers are just absolutely paranoid and feel me and my co worker are being disruptive because we are having a good time? jeez my co workers get to have a good time and trust me there just as loud as me and i cant tell them to be quiet???? ughhhhh so annoyed now.

posted October 26, 2015 01:17 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
I would be upset too. For them to say that to u is rude as hell

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thanks desiring shadows ! i' m glad you understand and yes it is a bit rude especially when they say BE QUIET! lol

posted October 26, 2015 01:56 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Hey...

Shut up.

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oh nooooo you didnt! BOOM!

LOL

posted October 26, 2015 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Hey...

Shut up.

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posted October 26, 2015 02:15 PM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
I would have if you didn't. LOL

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LOL

posted October 27, 2015 12:36 AM            

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Originally posted by Gabby:
Lol....me and my libra Venus would feel bad for being noisy and disruptive.

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posted October 27, 2015 11:03 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
wtf.....i noticed this is TRULY a venus in saggi thing possibly maybe another placement as well....

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posted October 27, 2015 11:12 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
With all due respect, it's not as definitive as you are making it sound. I have this placement and nobody's ever told me to shut up. I don't have any memories of being told that, ever.

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"Unlike the other Venus in fire signs who can be notoriously bitchy at any given moment, the bitchy side of Venus in Sagittarius only comes out when somebody interrupts their good time. If you shut down their party they will definitely go berserk. So just let go and have fun with them if you don’t want your head to get bitten off. They have a huge sense of humor. Try not to take them too seriously. Always stay laughing with them and things will be fine."

Well maybe it's cause venus in sag is my chart ruler and its trine my moon in aries.

You probably have a dominant sun in capicorn or a water sign that makes you a bit on the calmer side, but at the same time I wouldn't be surprised if someone told you off youd probably make them swallow there words up. I don't know but I agree with pretty much everything above and below me.

posted October 27, 2015 11:33 AM            

1) To shut down one's party, and
2) To use those words, "shut up."

I'm just talking about the second matter, which I thought was your main point: being told to shut up. That never happened to me, not that I recall.

ETA: I guess I'm just focused on the rudeness and disrespect displayed, when someone uses that term, shut up.

People have dropped hints when I got too loud, or asked me to turn the music down when I was in college, but they did it *respectfully, and I understood their point and complied.

posted October 27, 2015 11:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
We're talking about two different things:

1) To shut down one's party, and
2) To use those words, "shut up."

I'm just talking about the second matter, which I thought was your main point: being told to shut up. That never happened to me, not that I recall.

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Oh im sorry! I was not clear, I've had both happen to me.
More often people shutting down my party thus by telling me to shut up, or telling me "SHHHHHH", or telling me "please keep the noise down" or INTERUPT me omg that is something I can't stand and my family does hat constantly or people cancelling on me especially my birthday omg I feel so low when people do that and when people are flakes and are not honest. Anyways i just don't like when people tell me to lower down my volume when im laughing with friends and having a good time or even just talking and catching up people will interupt my conversation with them.

posted October 27, 2015 11:47 AM            

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Originally posted by angel4845:
Well maybe it's cause venus in sag is my chart ruler and its trine my moon in aries.

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Right, sounds like you are a bit rowdier than me.

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Originally posted by angel4845:
You probably have a dominant sun in capicorn or a water sign that makes you a bit on the calmer side, but at the same time I wouldn't be surprised if someone told you off youd probably make them swallow there words up.

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Cap sun, Pisces moon. The main thing is, I'm a Rabbit, and we tend to strive to be socially appropriate.

With my Leo ASC trine Venus, and Aries Jupiter, I can be very bouncy, but...I don't know...I am always mindful of boundaries and don't want to have my fun at anyone else's expense.

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Originally posted by angel4845:
I don't know but I agree with pretty much everything above and below me.

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A lot of it suits me, too.

But I don't go berserk if someone shuts down my good times....

posted October 27, 2015 11:55 AM            

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Anyways i just don't like when people tell me to lower down my volume when im laughing with friends and having a good time or even just talking and catching up people will interupt my conversation with them.

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Well the funny thing is, I consider myself the final judge.

You can ask me to be quieter if I'm really being too loud. I do get too loud. And if you're nice about it, we're all good. I'll tone it down, it's copacetic.

Even if you're not exactly nice, if I agree with your assessment, we have no problem, I'll hush and hold nothing against you.

BUT

If I'm being quiet enough...

And someone says I'm not, and they seem annoyed by it, unfairly annoyed...??

Then, historically, what has happened once or twice or maybe a dozen times is, I will turn into a supreme b*tch, immediately. I won't lash out or say anything, or be obvious whatsoever, but I'm feeling bitchy inside and will probably exact some kind of revenge. Like maybe they won't even realize I'm mad, until they try and talk to me again, over and over, and get no response.

More when I was younger.

posted October 27, 2015 11:56 AM            

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Originally posted by DopGang:
Are you still talking?

Ok I'm done.

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posted October 27, 2015 03:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
A lot of it suits me, too.

But I don't go berserk if someone shuts down my good times....

Mmmmm, my Venus is conjunct Neptune and I usually try to seduce them into joining the fun...

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HAHAHHAHA! Yes I completely understand with all of what you said about your moon in pisces and sun in cap

posted October 27, 2015 03:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
Well the funny thing is, I consider myself the final judge.

You can ask me to be quieter if I'm really being too loud. I do get too loud. And if you're nice about it, we're all good. I'll tone it down, it's copacetic.

Even if you're not exactly nice, if I agree with your assessment, we have no problem, I'll hush and hold nothing against you.

BUT

If I'm being quiet enough...

And someone says I'm not, and they seem annoyed by it, unfairly annoyed...??

Then, historically, what has happened once or twice or maybe a dozen times is, I will turn into a [b]supreme b*tch, immediately. I won't lash out or say anything, or be obvious whatsoever, but I'm feeling bitchy inside and will probably exact some kind of revenge. Like maybe they won't even realize I'm mad, until they try and talk to me again, over and over, and get no response.

More when I was younger.

So I guess that answers your question, now that I understand your question. [/B]

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Hahahha! Supreme ***** man I understand that moment my god and trust me omg I'll be much quieter and they will Stil rain down my parade grrrrr! Yes im 23 so im still on the young side here lol