posted October 27, 2015 01:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
I have a Sagittarius Moon and apparently I'm supposed to be quite detached, analytical and like, cold. But I'm noooot! I can come off as a cold person if I want to, but I have a huuuge caring heart most of the time. I'm pretty emotional as well due to my Cancer Venus/Rising

As for my needs .. freedom & independence for sure. I depend on me.

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I get you.

Some people need to be hugged and comforted over and over again. A Sag moon doesn't, and though that doesn't make Sag cold and heartless, it would come off as such to those who have emotional needs that a Sag moon would find very difficult to understand.

As for me, I don't know if it's my Sag moon and stellium, or if it comes from my upbringing (Texan--and I totally understand why the Norwegians use "Texas" as slang for crazy --and among those like runaways), but to give some people the attention and comforting they need not only feels unnatural (because I don't need it) but also condescending as hell, like tying their shoes for them and giving them a lollipop with a pat on the head, that's what I'd feel like I was doing if I gave them the constant reassurance they expect (of course as they tend to be so insecure, they feel insecure next to me and assume I'm making them feel that way on purpose, that is I come off as being condescending to them by not being condescending in my book, and they believe that if I wasn't then I'd realize their feelings and reassure them).

Many, if not most, people I was raised with would've felt awkward, even insulted or mocked, to be treated so. And when such people try to be as comforting to me as they want me to be to them, it often makes me feel awkward or bemused rather than comforted, generally speaking, and that also comes off as cold to them.

Despite this, many find me warm and affectionate, yet I've also been called everything from heartless to robotic by some who can't understand me (and I have a hard time understanding them), who mistake their personal needs for universal ones. One thing I like about astrology is that it helped me realize this, but many into astrology still haven't learned just how different our subjective worlds are.

posted October 27, 2015 04:30 AM            

Only emotional when I get angry. I can cry from anger but never because I am sad.

posted October 27, 2015 05:17 AM            

How emotional am I: very, but I only give weight to the good emotions and I fight the negative ones to the enth. I feel like the negative emotions always hold me way back.

posted October 28, 2015 08:09 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
I have a Sagittarius Moon and apparently I'm supposed to be quite detached, analytical and like, cold. But I'm noooot! I can come off as a cold person if I want to, but I have a huuuge caring heart most of the time. I'm pretty emotional as well due to my Cancer Venus/Rising

As for my needs .. freedom & independence for sure. I depend on me.

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I want to get a tattoo across my back that has words like "Freedom" , "Independence", "self-direction" etc.

I am Sag Sun,Nept,Jupiter,Uranus,South Node.

posted October 28, 2015 11:44 AM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I want to get a tattoo across my back that has words like "Freedom" , "Independence", "self-direction" etc.

I am Sag Sun,Nept,Jupiter,Uranus,South Node.

Which house does your Moon fall?

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posted October 28, 2015 12:55 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Cancer moon !

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posted October 28, 2015 01:00 PM            

How emotional are you?

Hmmm... I think I am averagely emotional. It depends of the subject. I think I have a good balance with this Capricorn moon (conj Saturn) and my Pisces sun in the 9th house.

What are your needs?

posted October 28, 2015 02:06 PM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
My Moon is in the 6th House of Virgo. I'm very organized, detail-oriented and health-conscious. I love planning by making lists and fitness is one of my top 3 passions in life.

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Understandably. Cancer Ascendant is naturally a very sensitive Asc.

The Moon in the 6th is into being health conscious(mostly).

Since the ruler of the 1st is in the 6th, this does make this house very important in your self expression.

Your health/body image and habits influence your self-perception(1st). I get that.

What convinced me further of your sensitivity was that Venus in 1st.

Usually Venus in 1st is much like Venus in Aries; forthright in expressing affections. And not likely to be thought of as "sensitive".

These are "lay your heart on the line" types when it comes to pursuing their passions; relationships, leisure and interests.

But if Libra is on the 4th house cusp, then that would explain it.

For then it would mean that the ruler of the 4th(the house affiliated most with home, Cancer and the Moon) is in the 1st house; adding a great deal more of sensitivity to the aforementioned position.

Your soul(4th house ruler) is out there for all to see(1st);

Astrofix puts it best when they say(of the ruler of the 4th in 1st);

"You bring your private inner life to the forefront of your personality."

posted October 28, 2015 02:24 PM            

How emotional are you?
Quite.

posted October 28, 2015 04:11 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
Understandably. Cancer Ascendant is naturally a very sensitive Asc.

Since the ruler of the 1st is in the 6th, this does make this house very important in your self expression.

Your health/body image and habits influence your self-perception(1st). I get that.

What convinced me further of your sensitivity was that Venus in 1st.

Usually Venus in 1st is much like Venus in Aries; forthright in expressing affections. And not likely to be thought of as "sensitive".

These are "lay your heart on the line" types when it comes to pursuing their passions; relationships, leisure and interests.

But if Libra is on the 4th house cusp, then that would explain it.
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Yeah, I guess that makes sense. I don't have many Sagittarius Moon traits, but many "Virgo Moon" ones.
I thought Venus in the 1st was like Venus in Libra. I can relate to Libra Venus relationship needs (compromise, cooperation, equality, fairness, peace, harmony, etc.)

posted October 28, 2015 05:27 PM            

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Originally posted by Faith:
What are your needs?

Therapist

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Best. Reply. Ever.
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Moon:
Virgo, house 5

How emo I am:
Either not much or quite a lot. But it's mostly internal.

posted October 28, 2015 06:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
Cancer moon !

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posted October 28, 2015 06:54 PM            

How emotional I am:
Average.

posted October 28, 2015 07:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Lerena:
[b]Moon Sign:
Gemini.

How emotional I am:
Average.

Emotional needs:
Depends, because my emotional needs change depending on what day it is. I wish I was joking, but I'm not joking at all.[/B]

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posted October 28, 2015 10:08 PM            

How emotional are you?
Average I think out my feelings rather then feel them. I am aloof, reserved and private. I have mercury in Cancer though so sometimes I can be really emotional.

posted October 30, 2015 03:26 PM            

How emotional I am:
It varies between stable, and extremely emotional. I'm very people influenced when it comes to my moods, people can either make me a proud lion or a very misanthropic and sad cat. I'm a very typical Leo moon, I won't show my emotions in public or where I will be criticized. I want to feel loved and appreciated, if I feel that I am not I can be a jerk because I have a bit of short fuse. I can go from 0 to 100 real quick, and I'm extremely passionate but I am very loving as well.

Emotional needs:
My emotional needs tend to vary, but the thing I ALWAYS need is love, respect and appreciation. Sometimes I may be a bit more needy with love if I am feeling down or insecure.

posted October 31, 2015 05:49 AM            

I'm not really sure how emotional I am. I think I've become a lot more emotional lately but maybe it's only because I'm making an actual effort to understand that "feeling" does not make you weak.
Overall I'd say that I'm emotional for particular things: animal suffering...and I'm sure something else that I can't remember. But a lot of things that make most people emotional don't affect me.

What I need is to not feel "smothered". I'm currently (temporarily) staying in a foreign country at some cousins' and I'm feeling completely overwhelmed by their attention. I just *need* to do my own thing without being bothered otherwise I get very cranky It's the same when I'm in relationships. Also, someone funny! I love love love funny people and love a good "omg i just peed myself laughing" moment. (not literally)