posted November 01, 2015 06:01 PM            

Its so hard for me to feel appreciated, not many show me their affection and it leaves me in the dark. Not having this aspect would mean appreciation would be much easier from others, id be able to let them in. I wouldn't fear rejection and id be able to go after who I wanted and feel attractive. Love would be easier. Id feel attractive even if I wasn't, have healthier self esteem.

posted November 01, 2015 08:42 PM            

He's in the 11th, bye bye social life. I almost panick in the middle of big groups. More than 5 people, and I'm shaking LOL

I just like to be alone. What can I do?

I see where you're coming from. Whether I act like Saturn and I'm clam shut in expressing my feelings...or I act Venus and I find Saturn in the other who hurts and rejects me.

posted November 01, 2015 08:43 PM            

Sounds like no fun at all even though, "on paper," Venus-Saturn in the 4H looks cozy...like an asset. Perhaps eventually in life you will come to see it differently? Or meet someone who makes it come alive in a better way for you? I hope so.

I guess it would be nice to experience all kinds of charts....to modify my own every which way and see what effects I'd get Because it's hard to pick just one thing to change...move one thing and everything else goes out of whack. I have to shut my practical thinking off and just pretend I can move one planet and focus on the good that would bring...

And I'm mentally moving Saturn about 14 degrees further into Leo, so its semi-square with Mars becomes a sextile, and I become more consistently productive. This move also virtually cancels my Mercury-Saturn opposition and creates a Mars-Saturn-sun yod, with my sun at the apex.

And I would have a fire grand trine of Jupiter, Saturn, Neptune, omg.

Oh but...this nagging little voice is reminding me that Saturn would be in the 1H then...and hell...all my troubles would seem magnified wouldn't they? And obvious?

*Puts Saturn in reverse gear and backs it to the 12H again.*

posted November 01, 2015 11:10 PM            

I would get rid of my moon in pisces and trade it for moon in Taurus or Virgo, something more grounded and I would want my moon to have soft aspects only.

I would get rid of that neptune tsquare with neptune in the first at the apex!

posted November 01, 2015 11:15 PM            

Hey lets explode chiron too LOL.

posted November 01, 2015 11:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
Venus square Pluto and Mars opposite Saturn...

The Plutonic stuff scares the ballsacks out of me, while I really feel bad for my Mars because Saturn's always telling it what to do and what not to do.

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yeah I have experienced saturn transit aspect my mars and yes its a downer, I feel you but I suppose is great for getting stuff done and giving you that discipline you need on the positive note tbh.

posted November 01, 2015 11:33 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
yeah I have experienced saturn transit aspect my mars and yes its a downer, I feel you but I suppose is great for getting stuff done and giving you that discipline you need on the positive note tbh.

Why venus square pluto?

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Maybe cause Pluto is a stalker and Venus is like, you know, a virgin.

posted November 02, 2015 12:18 AM            

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Originally posted by UnderworldGlory:
Maybe cause Pluto is a stalker and Venus is like, you know, a virgin.

And the square is like rape.

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posted November 03, 2015 12:39 AM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
For me it would be Venus conjunct Saturn in the 4th house.

Its so hard for me to feel appreciated, not many show me their affection and it leaves me in the dark. Not having this aspect would mean appreciation would be much easier from others, id be able to let them in. I wouldn't fear rejection and id be able to go after who I wanted and feel attractive. Love would be easier. Id feel attractive even if I wasn't, have healthier self esteem.

What one aspect would you change, if you could?

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posted November 03, 2015 12:43 PM            

Or maybe it could be because I'm so airy according to my chart. Libra dominant*

I also like the Moon Square Saturn Aspect
Because it's made me strong emotionally. I can put up with A LOT
Although the Neptune aspects are making me weak

Um what else... Let's see...
I love my Midheaven in Aquarius, wouldn't trade that for the world. I guess il replace my 11th in Pisces and turn that into Aquarius also! Because that's totally allowed 😉
I'm jk btw 🙄

posted April 28, 2016 01:43 PM            

I can deal with my Scorpio Moon but this just adds insult to injury.

posted April 28, 2016 04:18 PM              

Now my Pluto wants to come out and destroy everything and have a custom-made, bullet-proof chart. We don't do things in half-measures, you see.

Okay okay, if I *had* to choose just one* (every Libran's nightmare) :

I'd say...
Please take away my Moon-Pluto square! Here's why. The *hungriest* moon of all -- yeah, it is (not to mention the soul-crushing intensity). I'm a bottomless pit of need. I'd even be willing to trade a Scorp moon for this.

posted April 28, 2016 08:27 PM            

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Originally posted by NeptunianSag:
For me it would be Venus conjunct Saturn in the 4th house.

Its so hard for me to feel appreciated, not many show me their affection and it leaves me in the dark. Not having this aspect would mean appreciation would be much easier from others, id be able to let them in. I wouldn't fear rejection and id be able to go after who I wanted and feel attractive. Love would be easier. Id feel attractive even if I wasn't, have healthier self esteem.

What one aspect would you change, if you could?

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I have this too, in my 9th house. I would also change it. It can be tough.