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HadesFish
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posted November 03, 2015 09:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HadesFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
... Please; do tell!

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Wild Horses
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posted November 03, 2015 09:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Horses     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In what way? Not sure exactly what you mean.

Do you mean someone who is both the same Venus sign and same Mars sign?

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Wild Horses
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posted November 03, 2015 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Wild Horses     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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venus2tinkerbell
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posted November 03, 2015 09:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Or the Venus/Mars we adore?

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HadesFish
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posted November 03, 2015 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HadesFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus/Mars; Venus is female in this case... I've never met my Mars! Seriously, which one holds true in your case...
Personally I've only met one off either way, (if makes sense) or aspecting my sun/moon.
I'd like to know this! Ugh! As messed up as it sounds!
It's never been really important to me before because of the moon connects I've made, but I'll admit; they have been harsh like no other! Regardless of planets or houses!
Basically I've experienced all types of Moon. I'd like to be a Venus to a Mars, and vice versa!

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Gemini Blues
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posted November 03, 2015 10:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been Venus with her Mars conjunct. Bit of a letdown. I've yet to find my Mars conjunct her Venus. I've had the square though. Nothing wrong with that... at least as far as that domain is concerned...

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venus2tinkerbell
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posted November 03, 2015 10:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No not my Mars to Venus, but his Mars to my Venus yes.

The sex was "right". Everything else was wrong. Venus/Mars conjunct in Cancer.

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posted November 03, 2015 10:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for venus2tinkerbell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gemini Blues:
I've been Venus with her Mars conjunct. Bit of a letdown. I've yet to find my Mars conjunct her Venus. I've had the square though. Nothing wrong with that... at least as far as that domain is concerned...

I really like the square. I like to fight too, so...

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Desiring Shadows
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posted November 03, 2015 11:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
There was one guy, once upon a time, who I had Venus conjunct mars with in synastry

And there was potential
But I don't think I was well enough for it to go anywhere

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HadesFish
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posted November 03, 2015 11:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HadesFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Desiring Shadows:
There was one guy, once upon a time, who I had Venus conjunct mars with in synastry

And there was potential
But I don't think I was well enough for it to go anywhere


Thank you for answers thus far, all! Please keep 'em coming! I've come to accept? that it's a placement that's more evolved than credit for potentially?
This is as foreign as can be...


Desiring Shadows; if you don't mind, I'd like to know why?!

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LexusVirgo
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posted November 04, 2015 12:22 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
3 ppl

First one , his venus my mars, the nooky was good as was the arguments. We weren't together just fwb, we had a big fight then he came back a year later and I asked why did you come back and he said cus no one could pls him like me? I was the epitome of what he wanted sexually.

Second, was my friends brother, it wS hs venus my mars, I first met him in the martial arts class his dad taught. I got to go cause I was friends with his sister and. Wanted to lose weight. So the first time he saw me he paced back and forth in front of me with the only thing I can describe likes cat. His Nostrils flared and I do t know I just knew he was attracted to me. I was confirmed when he added me on myspace(this was back In 06) then started to comment on my pics and kept trying to talk to me when I was on MySpace messenger. He was really trying to talk to me all the time he did all the leg work contacted me first and everything.which I always heard mars is the aggressor. We do it, then I moved and we lost contact.

The last one OMG we have venus mars both ways. And omg I have never been so attracted to one person in my life. I never understood how in the song super ass nicki goes" all he's got to,do is give me that look and when he give me that look the panties coming off" until I met him , he's just the most beautiful thing to me don't know if it's my mars or venus activated but he is gorgeous to me. Unfortunately I don't think he feels the same . Or I got his bday wrong . I just know wow. If it is the mars to my venus of the first time then omg the venus person must feel crazy for mars.

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VirgoAquaSag
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posted November 04, 2015 12:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for VirgoAquaSag     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, my boyfriend's Venus is conjunct my Mars. His moon also conjunct my Sun.

I usually don't like guys who have Mars conjunct my Venus for some reason. They all seem too cocky. I kind of have a girl crushes on girls who have Mars conjunct my Venus though. I definitely love guys who have their Venus conjunct my Mars.

In my experience, it has been both good and bad. We match emotionally, physically, and everything. But then I feel like since I'm the Sun & Mars, I do a lot of work (chasing, initiating) to have this relationship. I think it's because our roles are kind of reversed. If the guy is Sun or Mars and girl is Moon or Venus this might work easier!

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posted November 04, 2015 12:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aries23Degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
One I lived with. It was rather cordial. At times his Moon in Aries would react with my Moon/Mercury/Mars configuration. And things would get tense

Another I didn't like. I found him to be slimy and just insincere.

The latest I am dating . But he has Saturn on his Venus-which makes him more taciturn and less sweet-mouthed than the average Venus in Libra.

I don't like the Mars in Scorpio conjunct my Venus though . I just am never attracted and feel this discomfort that makes me avoid them altogether.

I really don't get the hype about Mars in Scorpio.

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charlie
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posted November 04, 2015 03:08 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for charlie     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I think so...

I have Virgo Asc, Mars and my husbands has Pisces Asc, Venus.

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DopGang
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posted November 04, 2015 06:46 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well, I have one case of her mars conjunct my Venus.
Keep in mind though that there were a ton of squares to my mercury, Venus, mars, and moon. At the same time, a grand trine and other friendly stuff.
It reflected in the relationship with frequent arguments. The "nooky" (LOL such a funny word). I don't know. It was freaky and "try anything once".
But that didn't make it "best". What I feel with the person is equally important and I never did feel anything that deep. She was just too aggressive (outside the bedroom) for me to enjoy the "nooky" that much.

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posted November 04, 2015 07:21 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Koniucha     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I recently met and have been seeing a new guy.

We have Mars conjunct Venus. I am Mars, he is Venus. We are also both Scorpios

We shall see how it goes. I do like him so far

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posted November 04, 2015 08:05 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My ex-soulmate's Libra Venus-Mars conjunction was trine my Gemini Mars and widely sextile my Sag Venus. Notice I don't call him my ex-boyfriend...

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posted November 04, 2015 08:41 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Orange     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
We have the conjunction and the opposition. ( dw)
It resulted in a square in the Composite.
Sexual attraction is magnetic and strong

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HadesFish
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posted November 04, 2015 10:14 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for HadesFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sweet for those who've had positives of this! And good luck for those just entering.
Sucks if it sucked, obviously too..

About the Mars in Scorpio - that and Virgo( Venus and Mars) is all I seem to meet in the last while!. I'm also myself not into the hype, but then again I have Venus in Aries. I've actually always felt kind of dominant around the scorp and or Virgo Mars and Thats too much for me...Hence why I'd like to meet a Leo or Aries mars( Aries one I've never met that I know of! Do they exist, lol?!) I love Scorpio Venus in a man though! The presence makes me feel feminine. All the women I've met with this placement also have the femme fatale thing, and I can see would make for a lot of hate from other females cuz of it! Jealous a little!

Nooky is a weird word, true! Haha.

I've also had an ex-soulmate, but he never did end up becoming my boyfriend good way of putting it - id call him that too if he did.

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posted November 04, 2015 10:29 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for unforgiven_soul     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
No never. I only met someone that has Aquarius Mars with different degree. It was nice to chat and nothing more. I'm mostly attracted to square and opposition. All my partners though had other important planets aspecting my Venus and Mars. Moon, Sun, the love planets. I think it gets more inetresting this way.

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Desiring Shadows
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posted November 04, 2015 12:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Desiring Shadows     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by HadesFish:
Thank you for answers thus far, all! Please keep 'em coming! I've come to accept? that it's a placement that's more evolved than credit for potentially?
This is as foreign as can be...


Desiring Shadows; if you don't mind, I'd like to know why?!



WELL I used to have issues 🤒 Super bad ones and I dont feel like talking about it


But yeah Venus -conjunct Mars is hot though! 😍 One day I want to DO IT with someone like this.. 🤓
Haha yummy 😍

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posted November 04, 2015 04:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for EmGem     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not since I've been into astrology. Before that who knows but I doubt.

Maybe my Mars is on LL 😜

Any males with cancer Mars at 25 degrees or thereabouts ?

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Doux Rêve
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posted November 04, 2015 06:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Doux Rêve     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Their Mars, my Venus:

In one instance there was no attraction whatsoever, interestingly from both sides (I'd even say there was repulsion).

In another instance, there was sexual attraction and we were very in sync in terms of how we both expressed our sensual side. But we were not "right" for each other.

Their Venus, my Mars:

Can't remember having that with a male. Actually there is one, but it's an out of sign conjunction. Definitely some attraction, but very weird, and not actually sexual.

There was a (gay) girl I only saw once, who has her Venus conjunct my Mars, and I was attracted to her in a weird way (again, not really sexual, but I just felt a sort of pull).

(I had a similar experience with a female's Venus square my Mars, but to a lesser extent. Kinda makes you wonder what that's all about.)

IME Venus/Mars aspects can make it hard for two people to focus on emotional or mental aspects of their relationship/attraction; there's an emphasis on physical attraction and it is often actually detrimental (being into someone who's "wrong" for you, but you can't help but want to be close to them; or only focusing on the physical and neglecting other areas, etc).

But it is true that they add a spark that's often lacking if such aspects aren't present.

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posted November 04, 2015 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for frankie2912     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am the female Venus square my boyfriends Mars.

It is difficult, yet awesome. Explosive chemistry.

I had an intense connection with a man whose Mars conjuncts my Venus, but distance kept us from ever pursuing anything.

I am happy with my current connection. He is so hot to me.

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posted November 04, 2015 07:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for HadesFish     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Desiring Shadows - fair enough. Agree with the last, also.
EmGem - I could track down the Mars in cancer I knew, if you help finding a Mars Aries. Or possible the astrology dating site would work for this?! Lol.
Doux - great description. I've been the Mars and it was also out of place for me.
Frankie - sounds nice!

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