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Topic: Capricorn females not into romantic gestures?
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charlie
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posted November 15, 2015 12:19 AM
  
I am a Cap Moon 5H. Cancer Venus conj Saturn 11H.
If you can't give me presents with a little thougt behind ie they come from the heart, I don't want them. I can't stand anything superficial! It doesn't have to be romantic though. It can be that drill and hammer I needed when trying to hang 10 pictures frames by hitting nail with a book..IP: Logged |
Aries23Degrees
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From: South Africa
Registered: Dec 2012
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posted November 15, 2015 01:12 AM
Hi there Frankie,I am no female Cap, but I just read what you said your boyfriend did. If I was in your shoes, I would have also thought the gestures positively cringe-worthy. The thing is from his end,he means well.So sometimes we respond in ways that the partner wants us to respond- as not to make them feel unappreciated. Your Sun sign in Cap is partly responsible for this tendency to be embarrassed towards all this "mushy" stuff. What I also wanted to know was whether or not your Moon/Mercury signs were on the cusp of Cap? Where is your North node? Lastly,Venus is in Scorpio and in the 1st( a sort of assertive position for Venus). As Venus(and the Moon) is not only about how we express love, but also what we consider "romantic" or how we define romance. Venus in Scorpio already makes this position more "masculine". These people tend to want to wear the pants in the relationship or at the very least, be given the on/off button. If not given willingly ,they "take" it. 
So I already get the objection you have to being expected to behave in a "female" way and just cry at the sight of puppies etc. Now with Venus in 1st conjunct Asc,this definitely puts all this "I want to be in charge" nature "out there" as part of the external personality(1st house). And any form of pacification or perhaps having you be in a more submissive position will not sit well. Cap/Aries/Scorpio/Aqua and Sag IME,are not comfortable in traditionally "feminine" roles. And are likely to challenge them. IP: Logged |
Odette
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posted November 15, 2015 02:28 AM
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am a Capricorn woman..my Scorpio bf told me he has something special planned for my birthday. I cringed on the inside at the thought of anything romantic
What are your bf's Moon, Venus and Mars signs? Maybe what he has planned is not what you would expect IP: Logged |
Cappi112
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From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted November 15, 2015 04:52 AM
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Originally posted by frankie2912:
I am a Capricorn woman..my Scorpio bf told me he has something special planned for my birthday. I cringed on the inside at the thought of anything romantic...like horse drawn carriage rides, flowers, candle lit dinners with rose petals all over the bed lol.That stuff makes me feel really uncomfortable. It feels embarrassing to me, like it makes me feel like I'm conforming to the stereotypical female role ..the girl who is supposed to wear dresses and light up at the sight of babies and roses. F*ck that! Although I will graciously accept and respect the gift/gesture if it is given..it just makes me feel so odd. Is this typical of a female Capricorn?
Definitely has to be a Venus sign thing. I am a cap female, and if a guy does that kind of thing I am ALL over him. I love it. One of the only tiny things that kinda bugs me about my current (Cap!) boyfriend is that he isn't into doing that kinda thing. Romance is more to do with just what we are together, consistency in communication, etc. etc. BUT... I am Pisces Venus and Mars, Libra Moon and Aqua Asc, so maybe something in there makes me a very romantic person (cough, PISCES, cough). IP: Logged |
etherealsaturn
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From: New York, USA
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted November 15, 2015 04:36 PM
I'm the same way. I feel like when things get all mushy and romantic, I get awkward. I can make romantic gestures, do small things, or have ways that show someone I care about them, but it's kind of hard for me to show I appreciate it when I receive it.At the same time I really just want to share an experience with someone. Do something fun, not typical or boring. I also like to be in control of the situation. IP: Logged |
Julz87
Knowflake Posts: 1234
From: Over the Rainbow
Registered: Nov 2011
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posted November 15, 2015 04:56 PM
Frankie, I have Capricorn Moon and I cringe as well haha. Though I have Venus in the 12th Libra conjunct ASC still though I feel highly uncomfortable when gifted something and they expect me to open it in front of them looking all *__*  > not that I don't like the gesture it just makes me feel odd that and I have Aquarius in the 5th house cusp Uranus in Sagg sextile VenusIP: Logged |
mamawolf
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From: the universe
Registered: Aug 2012
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posted November 17, 2015 12:06 AM
The only kinda horse ride Id be interested in would be on an exotic, deserted beach with my hair blowing in the wind.  It's true, the idea of typical romanticism makes me feel uncomfortable to an extent. You at least have to be creative about it but honestly, simple usually does it. I want to have fun and be able to add it to the list of things I've always wanted to try! Surprise me with a hot air balloon ride and I'll shmelt everywhere. Sun in Cap 9H, Venus in Sag 8H conjunct Uranus/Saturn in Cap 8H trine Mars in Aries 12H Moon and Merc in Aqua helps add to this!
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