posted November 20, 2018 10:25 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
It wasn't necessarily just her Venus in Pisces. I think they would love such women too because of their naturally feminine nature. Mars in Cancer men LOVE feminine women.

Mind you, his ex had Moon in Scorpio and an exact square from her Pluto to her Venus. She was controlling and manipulative, showing all the bad sides of Plutonian. He admitted to feeling
emasculated by her and she used to use sex to get what she wants from him. I think if she didn't have that, he might have appreciated her Venus more. Spoon feeding is seen as very romantic in our culture, so she might have thought that was a great idea since Venus in Pisces usually likes romance.

If the rest of your chart has nothing indicating such things, you have nothing to worry about, except if your chart matches up well with the guy's chart.

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posted November 20, 2018 11:10 AM            

They can also be big baby at times.. my guy with Mars in Cancer will ask me to be by his side while he eats, tells me he lost his things even though they were right in front of him, sleeps on my chest, whines to me when he isn't feeling well, etc...He just wants my attention.

posted November 21, 2018 08:51 AM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Mars in Cancer people can be the sweetest and they can form attachments to people for a loooooong time.

They can also be big baby at times.. my guy with Mars in Cancer will ask me to be by his side while he eats, tells me he lost his things even though they were right in front of him, sleeps on my chest, whines to me when he isn't feeling well, etc...He just wants my attention.

They often hold in their frustrations and then suddenly have an emotional outburst. Don't try to rationalise with them when they do that. I usually just let them rant and then comfort them.

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posted November 21, 2018 09:17 AM            

1: Leo Sun/Aries Moon 7yrs
2: Gemini Sun/Cancer Moon 2 yrs
3: Pisces Sun/Scorpio Moon (lotta water in that guy..) 5yrs

My dad is also a Cancer Mars.

I “kinda” like them since I’ve got Cancer Sun, Venus, Mercury but it’s something with that Mars that eventually bores me to death. I also find them seething and passive aggressive EXCEPT the Leo/Aries guy who couldn’t give less fukcs about anything!
I didn’t find them to be “extra loving/caring/loyal” compared to other Mars’.

posted November 21, 2018 12:06 PM            

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Originally posted by charlie:
I have “miraculously” managed to date 3 guys with Cancer Mars.

1: Leo Sun/Aries Moon 7yrs
2: Gemini Sun/Cancer Moon 2 yrs
3: Pisces Sun/Scorpio Moon (lotta water in that guy..) 5yrs

My dad is also a Cancer Mars.

I “kinda” like them since I’ve got Cancer Sun, Venus, Mercury but it’s something with that Mars that eventually bores me to death. I also find them seething and passive aggressive EXCEPT the Leo/Aries guy who couldn’t give less fukcs about anything!
I didn’t find them to be “extra loving/caring/loyal” compared to other Mars’.

I initiated dating with all 3 and I also ended it with all 3.

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posted November 21, 2018 04:00 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
Mars in Cancer people can be the sweetest and they can form attachments to people for a loooooong time.

They can also be big baby at times.. my guy with Mars in Cancer will ask me to be by his side while he eats, tells me he lost his things even though they were right in front of him, sleeps on my chest, whines to me when he isn't feeling well, etc...He just wants my attention.

They often hold in their frustrations and then suddenly have an emotional outburst. Don't try to rationalise with them when they do that. I usually just let them rant and then comfort them.

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this! thank you

posted November 22, 2018 03:45 AM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Boring? How so? what's your Mars sign? What Mars do you find to be caring? My mom has Mars in Cancer and when she cares it's extra. What is your Mars sign? Why are they so passive though?

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posted November 22, 2018 10:20 AM            

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Originally posted by capricorncheriscty:
Wouldn't say it's the worst placement but it's pretty bad. These people are truly just passive aggressive babies. Yes, it's true their positive side is that they can be very caring but planets are at fall for a reason and that means that their negative traits often come out more. The more positive traits of fallen planets just get ground to the dust, the person has to constantly push to have them come out and once they do get them out they have to fight to get it to last. It's like trying to work against gravity for them.

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And it seems that they like to play games. Like they really won't be honest about how they feel. Instead of telling you they aren't interested or into you. They will just beat around the bush. I honestly don't think it's a good placement for men at all. My mother has this placement and she's nothing like this. I think it's better for women.

posted November 29, 2018 09:55 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
And it seems that they like to play games. Like they really won't be honest about how they feel. Instead of telling you they aren't interested or into you. They will just beat around the bush. I honestly don't think it's a good placement for men at all. My mother has this placement and she's nothing like this. I think it's better for women.

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I’m a Cancer Rising, Venus & Mars and I would have no problem going straight to someone’s face just to tell them that I have negative zero feelings for them and to move on with their lives. Some people say insensitive, I say honesty is the best policy.

posted November 30, 2018 03:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
I’m a Cancer Rising, Venus & Mars and I would have no problem going straight to someone’s face just to tell them that I have negative zero feelings for them and to move on with their lives. Some people say insensitive, I say honesty is the best policy.

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So when a Cancer Mars is wishy-washy about breaking up with someone, does it mean he/she actually loves that person or just being needy?

posted August 23, 2019 07:13 PM            

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Originally posted by Hikaru29:
So when a Cancer Mars is wishy-washy about breaking up with someone, does it mean he/she actually loves that person or just being needy?

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That person is being passive aggressive; 9 times out of 10, for no rational reason.

posted August 23, 2019 08:15 PM            

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Originally posted by Aries23Degrees:
I had a beautiful sexual experience with a Mars in Cancer. I have Moon in Cancer conjunct his Mars. But he was testy as he was gorgeous. I never knew what to do when he got mad.

As a Mars in Libra, I wanted to discuss things and clear the air. But I quickly learned that trying to respond with words further antagonized him and so I would just shower him with affection.

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The guy I was talking about in the transits and mood log thread, has Mars in Cancer, conjunct Saturn (sextile his Sun/Moon). We haven't spoken in a week. If he's ****** that I don't believe in the bible, then he's going to have to stay ****** . I sent a little note on Friday morning, but that's it. I can't keep being the one to try to soften things up, when someone else is angry.

It could also be that it's tied to something so personal for him now. Maybe he thinks I see him in a bad light, because he believes in it. I don't know. In the past, he would pop up after a few weeks, if we'd argued.

I actually had a crush on another guy with Mars in Cancer. an Aries, who makes furniture, and other things. He was also a musician, in a band. Maybe it's the Aries, but he doesn't seem like the passive-aggressive type. He has so many friends, and loves his kid. He talks politics without insulting people.

posted August 23, 2019 10:41 PM            

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posted August 24, 2019 09:05 PM            

I don't express anger very often, that's for sure. I also have Moon in Virgo in the 12th, tightly sextile Mars, so I'm overall rather reserved when it comes to emotions. I don't feel like I repress my anger though, it's more like I don't see a reason to get angry about the little things. At least when it comes to people. I tend to imagine that everyone has the best intentions and thus interpret their actions in the best possible light. I guess that's my Neptune rose-colored glasses (opposite Mars, trine Moon). I also have Mars conjunct Mercury, which I think really helps because I do communicate my Mars. If something bothers me I will say so. Usually not in an aggressive manner, but still, my feelings get expressed. My Mars-Pluto trine might also help. I think that's an aspect of inner power but also self-control. It gives me the strenght to stand up for myself and things I believe in, even if I'm very calm and controlled while doing so.

Once in a blue moon I'll get really angry, and then it's like a volcano erupting out of nowhere. When I do erupt I'm not very likely to do any real damage though, since it's not usually directed at another person. I'm not the sort to collect grievances and then erupt when they get to be too many. I tend to get angry at things or the stupidity of systems rather than at other people... And I don't take it out on other people either. I'm not even verbal when I'm angry. The only thing likely to happen is a few slammed doors, ripped up papers or the like, before the anger runs out just as quick as it came. Maybe that's the Pluto again. In my anger I need to destroy something, make some destructive noise... but a ripped up paper will do.

posted August 25, 2019 12:47 AM            

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Originally posted by Leo-Cancer98:
That person is being passive aggressive; 9 times out of 10, for no rational reason.

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posted August 25, 2019 06:21 AM            

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Originally posted by Solar_Leo_Queen:
If their Moon sucks, they can actually tend to the other side and disrespect women more than other Mars signs do. I have met a rapey one who just wants to "spread his seeds" and doesn't care at all for the women he slept with or the children he has made. One guy actually accused him of forcing himself on women. He had a highly afflicted Moon in Scorpio. Another one was with Moon in Cap, so desperate to look for his mom's love and attention that he ended up hurting multiple women but kept trying to please his sh*tty mom.

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He's not pinoy is he??

I think your right about the moon part, I'm Aries moon so I have these moments of going from completely insecure to completely direct and secure...

..but that's only once I've put myself in an overkill scenario were the outcome is clearly stacked in my favor or I've over prepared for the situation.

Kinda like how no one was afraid to fight Muhammad Ali once he had aged and was starting to have health problems.

or

Bringing a gun to a knife fight.

There's always that level of insecurity with Cancer Mars I think the moon may show how it comes out or what may lead too...

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